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Beauty

Last year i let a male classmate touch me on my labs.thats something i always reprimand myself for even up till now.i want to let it go and stop thinking about it.how do i do that?

1 year, 1 month ago
Sms

I actually once hated my parents for their past which they affected with my future.. but I had to let go of it cause it's their past ND can never be corrected... I lived 19 yrs without them.. Tho it was like hell to me.. After I met my mum ND found out why she left me for so many yrs,I growed hatred towards her that I stopped seeing her and hardly call her on phone but my bestie changed my thinking on that.. She made me believe that there is a reason for every action our parents take on us,she would share different stories with me just to make me take my mum as d best mum for given birth to me in the first place... I grew interest in her views ND started missing my mum ND eventually got addicted to hearing her voice ND visiting her always.. I later fell in love with my bestie but couldn't tell her cause I don't want her to feel disappointed..

1 year, 5 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Sms! Thanks for the comment. Your bestie is a friend indeed and we are happy that you had a friend to put you back on track when you needed that. Thanks for sharing this with us. We hope this helps

1 year, 5 months ago
istifanus

I went to be a nice person to people

1 year, 7 months ago
Floxy_bae

Not esay at alll.these memories keep haunting 👽👽me

1 year, 9 months ago
resha

thanks big sis it helps alot

1 year, 10 months ago
Rodi

It hard for me forget my bf that break up with.

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

nobody wants to be my friend in this platform why because the only reason I joined this platform is to have friends and share ideas but it seems to me nobody wants to be my friend here.my reason for joining this platform is because I don't have any friends or even a friend at home that's is my aim of joining this platform please comment guys I need friends please.

2 years ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey jbaby005! We are all your friends here. Maybe others are not just responding but trust me, we see all your messages. Do not feel bad. We hope this helps

2 years ago
Presh2244

Yes ,,,,is so hard for me yo let go of the boy who broke my virginity,,,,I reli to luv him but e don't luv me any more don't know,,,, plx I need your advice

2 years, 3 months ago

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Misty

I am so sorry precious like what the article says let go of everything that is hindering u frm making your life better and if u are pregnant u can still cope out there in the world even with the pressure i pray God help u.

2 years, 3 months ago
Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Presh2244! Thanks for the comment. We totally understand what you are going through right now but the truth is that letting go is a personal decision. It takes discipline to get over someone. That thing they say about it being hard to get over the person that disvirgined you is a myth. Once you make up your mind to forget the person, it shouldn't be hard for you to do so. The fact that you know that he doesn't even love you should be enough motivation for you to get over him. Presh, you deserve better than a guy that does not even care about you. You need to chin up and move on. We hope this helps

2 years, 2 months ago
Don

Boys are really cunning they want us for lust not love then after that they abandon us shall thank God we are overcoming them,before they destroy our futures

2 years, 3 months ago

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Misty

Hey Don nt all boys are like dat.

2 years, 3 months ago
Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Don! Thanks for the comment. Not all boys are the same and not all boys are out to destroy anyone's life so please, do not generalize. You need to know that there are some girls that are also out to destroy the life of not just boys but their fellow girls too. Springster is not a negative space, please do not classify all boys as cunning. It is not fair because there are so many genuine good guys out there. We hope this helps

2 years, 2 months ago
Joy

True talk

2 years, 3 months ago
Urmi

Of course it is ture

2 years, 3 months ago
shek

i have a story like this

2 years, 3 months ago

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Minister

Thank

2 years, 3 months ago
Teddy

Pls I need help I am about 31yrs old now and I don't hav a girlfriend What should I do pls??

2 years, 3 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Teddy! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Not having a girlfriend can be caused by many things. However, you need to ask yourself if you are sure you are ready to have a girlfriend. Another important thing is that you need to know what you want for yourself and also in a girlfriend. This will be a guide for you to know and also choose a girl. We believe everyone should know this so that you do not randomly enter into just any relationship. We hope this helps

2 years, 3 months ago
Yes

Nice answer big sis somebody need to know what he/she can do before start doing it.

2 years, 3 months ago
shek

it depend if u don't ask her out u don't except a girl to toast u

2 years, 3 months ago
GRACE

I have a lady i love so much but she is short and i a tall lady as a wife because am not tall, what should i do cause i need my kids to be tall, what should i do, reply needed

2 years, 3 months ago
OLOYE

I'M Too shy, I Cant even toast

1 year ago
Mozy

Dere was a girl, she came to me and borrow 7000 naira, she said, she need it for food. then i said when' ll you return my money to me? she ans me in oneweek time, then i gave her de money and she go away. after oneweek 2days i didn't see her, and i went to her house, asking her why she didn't return my money? she said, she is verry sorry for that, and i ask her what do you mean by that! she said i should give her de grace of 4days again, i said; dont faill to pay my money again. after 4days, 3day again 2day she keep on turnning me around ontill i let it go, and it pass away.

2 years, 3 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Mozy! Thanks for the comment. We understand that it can be really painful when things like these happen. You need to talk to her and make her understand that you do appreciate what she is doing. Another we will advise is for you to involve a trusted adult in this. This way, it will be easy to resolve it and get your money back. Once again, we are so sorry. We hope this helps

2 years, 3 months ago
labzzy

Wat is d difference between to crush and to love?

2 years, 3 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey labzzy! Thanks for the comment. We have already addressed this question in a story titled "Crush vs Love; know the difference". Kindly search for this article, read it and you will find the answer you are looking for. We hope this helps

2 years, 3 months ago
jayniz

hi guz sometin iz really bothering me,dere was diz guy about 5 yrs now he was cuming so close to me up to d extend if he dont c or talk to me he wont b at peace i noticed his closeness to me buh i was affraid to give him a chance i thought we were jxt frnds so i broke up d frndship and since den wen eva he see's me he pretend as if he has neva known me but i regrated everitin, sometyms i wish to pick up d courage nd talk to him but i do b shy nd afraid nd now am in love wit his younger brother nd am afraid he might not accept me as his sister in-law to be in yrs to cum so pls some one should tell me wat to do am lost.

2 years, 3 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey jayniz! Thanks for the comment. First of all, his younger brother has to be aware of what happened between you both so that it doesn't come as a shock to him when he finds out. He started ignoring you out of anger and heartbreak and that is normal. You can randomly say hi to him when you see him so that it doesn't look like you are rude but the most important thing right now is to let his brother know. When you get to that point in the nearest future, you both will cross it. We hope this helps

2 years, 3 months ago
mojeed

they are shoulder cheerful happily and those girlfriends together is good proudly

2 years, 3 months ago
Enyeribe

Sister I'M In Love A Girl,But I Did't have the coreg too tel her

2 years, 3 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Enyeribe! You need to be sure that you are really in love with this guy and that it is not just a crush. Sometimes, you cannot be in love with someone you do not know. Start by being friends with her and then get to know her better before you start talking about love. We hope this helps

2 years, 3 months ago
Ganiman

Big sis I am in love with my friend who is a guy I don't no if I could tell him this kind is called one side love.

2 years, 4 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Ganiman! Thanks for the comment. You need to be sure of your feelings towards him. Is it a crush or is it love? Once you finally think it through, you need to think of the consequences. If you tell him, will it make him hate you? Will it affect your friendship? Think about it well because it is a 50-50 chance. You can either lose his friendship totally or gain love. We hope this helps

2 years, 3 months ago
enyola

big sister, i never like d man i luv nd i never luv d man i like. wat should i do?

2 years, 4 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey enyola! We do not understand your question. Please explain better. Thanks

2 years, 4 months ago
enyola

d man i luv is just out of pity(nt dat i truly luv him), nd d man i like(attitude, care,)we were just friend.

2 years, 4 months ago
GabY

Enyola You don't love someone out of pity is either you love him or you don't and moreove you are on hurting him more pretending to love him no body like to be deceive or played My advice is for you to break up with him and probably try to fine out if the other guy loves you or just think about you as a friend

2 years, 4 months ago
Lilprety

Gaby the guy am dating i dont realy love him but i love someone else that i dnt knw if he love me what do i do?

2 years, 4 months ago
GabY

Lilprety Try finding out if this guy you are in love with love you back without him knowing you have feelings for him in other for him not to take advantage of what he knows u feel for him And probably try to break up with the guy you are with now in a more peaceful way

2 years, 4 months ago