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AB2004

my mum sells food outside my sch and each tym my sch mate see me they always mock me and i feel bad I need advice pls big sis..

1 year, 5 months ago
Anonymous

Hi big sister,there is guy dat i love but i don't no if he loves,plr help am so confuse

1 year, 5 months ago
joy

l do have a crush on a boy and i don't know if he likes me .what do i do?

1 year, 7 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey joy! Thanks for the comment. The fact that you have a crush on a guy does not mean he is meant to love you back. A crush is not love and should not be mistaken for love. The feelings you have for him will fade after a short time because this is how crushes are. If he does not love you back, it is very fine. There is no law that says a guy must crush on you back or even give you attention. We hope this helps

1 year, 7 months ago
PATB

pls hw can i find a mentor

1 year, 7 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey PATB! Thanks for the comment. You need to know what you need the mentor for? Look for someone that is successful in the field you need mentoring and ask the person if he/she can be your mentor. Please note that you have to be careful while you choose so that you do not end up with someone that may want to take advantage of you. We hope this helps

1 year, 7 months ago
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carefree

I need a female friend

1 year, 7 months ago
nikita

hello big sis i got into adate with a guy i luv him so much nd he luvs me too but my fear is ahm now in abuja and his in cross river and i promised him that ahm going to wait for him and he promissed me same he is in de university nd ahm still in sec. sch. ahm scared of de distance help me out

1 year, 7 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey nikita! Thanks for the comment. Being in a long distance relationship requires a lot of work. You both have to be willing to put in all the work that is needed. You also need to be sure that you are ready to put in all of the work because if you are not willing, you will not be able to work it out. Trust is also an important thing and finally, you should always communicate often. We hope this helps

1 year, 7 months ago
Tekno

I'm really happy 2 hear this and I really like this page.

1 year, 7 months ago
Wiz-bliss

I have a girlfriend I love her so much but she does not like me they way I like her she have another guy but when I ask her she denied it what will I do and day by day she is loosing interested in me when I try to forget her I can't am just stoke

1 year, 7 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Wiz-bliss! Thanks for the comment. You need to first of all confirm and be sure that she really has another guy and that you are not just assuming things. Next thing you need to do is to talk to her about how you feel. The final decision is up to you to make but if you want to get over someone, the best thing to do is to cut off all forms of communication with her. We hope this helps

1 year, 7 months ago
DeBliss

Hi! Please Big Sister, Am kinda Confuse, Still An UnderGraduate Am surrounded With Girls Each Of The Girls Show Me Love And Companion But Am Not Ready For Relationship And The Most funny Thing Is That When Ever I Missed Any Of Their Call.. They Will Start Complaining Or Found Me Around Any Other Girl, Still Complaining. And I Don't Like Any Of Them.. But The Girl I Like Most Is Just Toying Around.. What Should Do..? Thanks.

1 year, 8 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey DeBliss! Thanks for the comment. You need to let them know that you are not interested in them. This will help you and also help to keep the girls in check. The reason why they are all complaining is because they feel like you are committed to them. Since you are not interested in a relationship, you need to let them know. We hope this helps

1 year, 7 months ago
Gwina

Big sister,There is this guy who claimed he loves me dearly...But my doubt is uncleared about him.Mean while,i told him i have a boyfriend already nd i hate to double date..he‘s still coming after me pls what can i do to knw if he really loves me?

1 year, 8 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Gwina! Thanks for the comment. If you have a boyfriend already, you have no business knowing if he loves you or not. You shouldn't even pay him the attention you are giving him right now. What you are doing is that you are giving him a chance to get into your life and if you are in a relationship, this is already a form of cheating. You need to know what it is that you want from a relationship. You have to choose who you are focusing your attention on. We hope this helps

1 year, 8 months ago
Gwina

Yes Big sis thank u nd You‘re the best

1 year, 8 months ago
Wayer

Hi guyz am lonely

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Big sister, my boyfriend and I had issues and he said he needed space (he wants to be alone for a while) and it's been a month now he hasn't call... (for the past 3yrs such as Neva apun) Do you think I should call him or just focus on my life for now to avoid future complications. What do u think?

1 year, 8 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. We advise you still give him the space he asked for. We understand your worry but calling him can make it seem like you are desperate. We hope this helps

1 year, 8 months ago
Lazzy

Hi big sister. there's a girl am in love with, although we are friends but I have feelings for her but am frightened to tell her because I don't know how I will express my feelings to her either

1 year, 8 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Lazzy! Thanks for the comment. Since you are sure of your feelings towards her, we advise that you tell her about it. You can either tell her to her face, call her on the phone, send a text, chat with her or even write a letter. We hope this helps

1 year, 8 months ago
macel

what if you r shy to approach a girl what should you do?

1 year, 8 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey macel! We always advise that you start by being friends with a girl first. It is easier and better. You do not have to put yourself under a lot of pressure and you get to know her better too. We recommend you do this. We hope this helps

1 year, 8 months ago
Sammy0631

Pls big sister, I don't like to move closer to girls. I don't date, not even a female bestie, I even used to fair them, I even have it at mind that I will not get married. Though, I naturally admires there beauty. But am afraid to cross there path. Maybe it as something to do with my destiny in life. Pls advice.

1 year, 8 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Sammy0631! Thanks for the comment. There is no reason for you to be afraid of girls. Girls are humans like you . There is no need for you to avoid them at all. Finally, it is a personal decision for you to make. Just ask a trusted adult for guidance. We hope this helps

1 year, 8 months ago
malomo

if god say it be so no 1 can sy no

1 year, 8 months ago
Amicable4real

just follow de friends your spirit match

1 year, 8 months ago
TernaAkange

Hi big sis®! Most of my friends are ladies and it is affecting me seriously. What can i do?

1 year, 9 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey TernaAkange! We cannot tell you what to do. This is a personal decision that you need to think about properly and make. You can ask a trusted adult for guidance. We hope this helps

1 year, 9 months ago
Scion

Take another step............. If female's friends deos not favour you........ Go ahead and choose the once that will favour you..... Okey?

1 year, 9 months ago
christain

make them uncomfortable in ur present so they quit ur friendship one day

1 year, 8 months ago
pp

hello i am new greetlng to every one

1 year, 9 months ago

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TernaAkange

You're welcome!

1 year, 9 months ago