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Ritkama

AM ALWAYS LIVING IN FEAR PLEASE HELP ME

1 year, 5 months ago

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cutie

Hi riktima being fearful cannot solve ur problem

1 year, 5 months ago
Ritkama

BIG SIS I HAV A BIG PROBLEM BUT FIND HARD TO START TALKIN 2 BOTH MY PARENTS ABOUT IT AM SCARED

1 year, 5 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Ritkama! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about this. If you cannot talk to your parents about this. Have you tried talking to another trusted adult like an aunt, uncle, cousin, teacher, neighbor or religious leader? You have to have someone around you that you can talk to about these things. We hope this helps

1 year, 5 months ago
Treasure2235

Hey big sis, I planned of getting married on October but when my fiance met with my mum she said she won't collect less than #400,000 as bride and he's discouraged of carrying on the plan, on my side I've decided not to visit home again because I'm really not happy about it, please tell me, am I taking the right decision?

1 year, 10 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Treasure2235! This is a personal decision and it is very tough. However, one thing we know is that leaving your family is never a good option. You need to talk to your parents about this. You can talk to another trusted family member to help you talk to them. You should know that anger and walking away will not solve this issue. We hope this helps

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Big sis! Is it right for a girl to ask a boy out

1 year, 10 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with asking a boy out. If you are bold enough to do it and you are really sure that you like the boy, then go for it. We hope this helps

1 year, 10 months ago
efe

Big sist the period that i was pregnant my parent dont want to see me and they rejected me but after i give birth the want to take the child from my partner mother who take care of me before i give. And my partner is upset about it what should i tell him now

2 years ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey efe! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We can only imagine what you are going through about this. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.

2 years ago
efe

Okay thanks, big sist i have a big dream but i dont know how to start small

2 years ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey efe! Every big dream or big business you see today started from somewhere. No matter how big your dream is, you have to start. If you keep waiting for that big break, you will never start. Start with the little you have and grow into that big thing you want to be. Rome wasn't built in a day, always remember this. We hope this helps

2 years ago
Better

ok i understand

2 years ago
SKYEBOY

ok

2 years, 1 month ago
peter

As Aurora said if it cos enimity for u am telling today that no matter how u are or no matter what u say ur mother will alway love u but u need to be strong and tell her what u want to say at far as is notting stuiped

2 years, 2 months ago
Aurora

Wat if u speak up n none blieves even ur mom n it only cos enmity 4 u

2 years, 2 months ago

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Sharnia

Nooooooooooooooooooo Your mom will always believe you....that's de fact here....every other person may not.....but mommy will.....so give it a try

2 years, 2 months ago
blessing102

Nice advice

2 years, 4 months ago
Hedun

Wow,vry interesting

2 years, 4 months ago
Adaeze

WHAT IF AFTER THEY REFUSE AND SHOUT ON YOU THE MORE

2 years, 4 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Adaeze! You should know your parents and when to talk to them. In addtion to all the tips in the article, remember the tone you talk to them with also matters. If you talk to them with a rude or loud tone, you will definitely get shouted on and probably also smacked. So think about it well before you speak. We hope this helps.

2 years, 4 months ago
JEREX2

WOW THIS TIP ARE ALL NICE,AND IT WILL HELP TO BUILD OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH PARENTS. THANKS \#TGIF #JEREX2ART #MMFTRENDS.

2 years, 5 months ago
abis

good ideas

2 years, 5 months ago
0806

Thank u a lot for your advice.

2 years, 5 months ago
melody

a very gd nd interesting 1

2 years, 5 months ago
Micheal

An interesting morale

2 years, 5 months ago
Cute

Yeah ,thats good.

2 years, 5 months ago
smart

parent are they best of all, though i lost my mother my her soul rest in peace.

2 years, 5 months ago

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Big Sister - Moderator

Hey Smart! Thanks for opening up through this comment. So sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in peace. *hugs*

2 years, 5 months ago
Everwhite

Sorry losing ur mom , Smart likewise me.

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Sorry what a big lost may her soul rest in peace.

1 year, 10 months ago