Dealing with Puberty
Puberty is the time when our bodies become sexually matured. For girls, that means we are biologically able to have children, not that we are ready to have sex.
For most girls, it happens between 8 – 13 years old. Don’t worry if some of your friends’ bodies change before or after yours. Puberty is different for every girl.
Here are some signs you are going through puberty:
Your Breasts Grows
Are your breasts starting to grow ?
Fuller, rounder breasts are one of the first signs of puberty.
At the beginning one breast may grow faster than the other. You may also feel some tenderness and slight discomfort. This is nothing to worry about.
Pubic and Armpit Hair Growth
Do you have hair growing under your armpits?
Have you noticed pubic hair, which is hair that grows around your vagina?
Your armpit hair might grow after your pubic hair. This is perfectly normal.
You Have Vaginal Discharge
Have you noticed a milky or yellow coloured stain on your pants?
This is called a vaginal discharge.
Your body makes these fluids to keep your vagina clean.
We all get it, it’s nothing to be embarrassed about.
Tell a trusted adult if the discharge has a strong or fishy smell. Or if it is brown, green or red.
You Get Your Period
Have you started bleeding from your vagina around once a month?
If so, you have started your period or menstruation.
Most girls start their period between ages 12 and 13.
Some girls start as early at 8 years old or late at 16 years old.
If after 16 you have not seen your period, talk to a trusted adult about it or visit a health center in your community.
Mood Swings
Are you more easily annoyed of late? Do you sometimes suddenly feel sad for no reason? Does your mood change quickly?
This is a part of puberty.
The hormones changing your body can also affect your emotions.
Don’t worry, there is nothing wrong with you.
Puberty can be a confusing time. Our bodies are changing. Our moods are up and down. It can help to talk with a trusted adult, like your mother or a close aunt. They’ve been through it, they know exactly how you feel.
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Ma breast is not growing again pls wah can I do big sis plz
Nov. 27, 2022, 3:14 p.m.
Meenat
My period is 2 days, is it normal
June 4, 2022, 12:34 p.m.
HOW do i count my ovelation cricle
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Pls how do i count my ovulation cycle?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Dessy! In calculating your ovulation day, day one is the first day of the menstrual period and the last day is the day before the next period begins. Ovulation happens about two weeks before the next expected period. So if your average menstrual cycle is 28 days, you ovulate around day 14. We hope this helps.
Is it advisable to shave the hair around the vagina
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 5432! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Shaving, whether it's your legs, armpits, or pubic area, is a personal choice. Shaving does not make you clean neither does having pubic hair make you dirty. Some people are cleanly shaved but are still dirty so it is all about individuals. There is no rule that says everyone must shave. We hope this helps.
True Been going through this Hey big sis
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
WHAT curses wet dreams
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Kuda! A wet dream is when you ejaculate while you're asleep. Ejaculate means to release semen. Usually, a wet dream happens while you're having a dream about sex. You may not even remember the dream.
y did some people get their period late?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Kemi! We suggest you try eating healthy (more fruits and vegetables). Cut down the sweets, biscuits, sift drinks and other types of junk. Sometimes, what you eat affects things like your menstrual cycle. Also, please talk to a trusted adult around you and if possible, see a doctor. We hope this helps
I am new
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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HOW FAR.
Y some see their period twice a month
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Hansome! Thanks for opening up to ask this question. You don't have to be sorry, your questions are always welcome. Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps.
I ALSO NOTICE A MILKY STAIN ON MY PUBLIC
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Is there anyway i can stop or reduce viginal discharge
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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i dnt think so
Hey Miracle! Vaginal discharge is normal for every female once she hits puberty. It cannot be stopped nor reduced but you can manage it well by making use of panty liners if you don't like the stains on your panties. We hope this helps.
Dis great
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
When menstruating,are u going 2 be urinating normally?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ejiro! Yes, you will urinate normally when menstruating. It will not in anyway affect the way you urinate. We hope this helps.
When mensurating ar ur abdomen paining u
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Sandra! First of all, period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
I dont know wat to do big sis sometimes i wil be angry for no reason
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, mood swings. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and make a conscious effort not to be angry because you are in charge of your emotions. We hope this helps.
Big sis,how far,i hv a question.?
hmm i want to ask a question i feel am free to.... wat is d solution to breast odour like wen u are about to shower in the night and u off ur bra ur nipple will bring out a smell that is bad i dont know wat to do plss i need your advise
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Bhahibhy! Thanks for opening up with this question. The breast is a sensitive place for a woman. We suggest you wash your bras often, bath and dry your breast properly before putting on your bra. Please talk to a trusted adult about this and see a doctor too. We hope this helps.
You jst said it all big sis
I start menses but no breast why.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Marie! The size of your breast is hormonal and may increase as you grow. Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). We hope this helps.
My breast seem to be small.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Pls am a new comer here pls can i ask a guestion?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Sorry i want to no the reason why woman nipples is inside,and what can we do to make it come outside.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Adex! If your nipples are inside, it could be a case of inverted nipples. Flat or inverted nipples are actually pretty common. About 10-20 percent of all women are born with them. Inverted nipples from birth are not medically harmful so do not be worried. Some nipples come out when it is cold. However, we advice that you talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Big sis help my breast seem to be big to the extent dat my frnds in scul laugh at me nd adress me wit names now am nt comfortable wit my self,sumtyms i used to cry about it cos i even hate going to scul now as the result of the bullying.pls is there any thing i ll do to reduce my breast largeness??? I really need ur help
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Nabzy! We believe every girl is beautiful regardless of her shape and size. This is what makes us all unique and special. We advise that you love your body and see the beauty in it. The size of your breast may be hormonal if that is how the women in your family are so there is not much you can do. Tell your parents/guardian that you need a good bra that is firm and will hold your breast properly. Also, just ignore your school mates and love yourself the way you are. The truth is that you can't please anyone but yourself. We hope this helps.
BIG MUMMY
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Am Guy I Always Feel Sex Hotly. Nd Always Masturbate. Since I Had No Girl Friend. Plz Wor Any Advice For Me?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
I have a dark underarm n am really ashamed of myself pls help me.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! You can get rid of dark underarm by mixing honey, brown sugar, olive oil and vitamin E oil together for your armpit. You can also use either cucumber or potato slices under your arm. They are natural lightening agents and will brighten your armpits. We hope this helps.
some one told that I should use lime to rub under my arm leave it over night and then wash it off in the morning. I have not done this cus am scared that it might cause me harm. but do you think it will work I mean should I try using it?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! Please adhere to the advice we already gave you. Thanks.
am 14 yet i have not seen it.But i have seen whitish thing
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ula! What you see on your pant is called vaginal discharge and there are different types of discharge. Not everyone starts starts their period early. You still have a sometime as you are still young. Don't worry yourself, you have a long time to experience these things so before it comes, enjoy yourself. Stop worrying yourself okay? We still advice that you talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
big sister,i have been seenin it every time i go 2 toilet
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
i used my hand to make my breast grow
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
pls big sister answer me
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
u are not answerin me big sister
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ula! You are sending in comments and not a question. Big sister answers questions so if you want an answer, please ask a question. Thanks
i see it when am in toilet
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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It's safe to tlk to ur mum abt it Dan any one else
am sorry.I see every time i want to defeat
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
my breast are growing hair in my armpit and private part and milkish colour in my pants why do i want to start
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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answer me big sister
Hey Khim! You have reached puberty. This can be seen in all the signs you experience. But as you would have noticed, you did not see all these signs one day. They all came gradually and this is how it is with periods. Like we have said before, your period will come and soon too. What you need to do is to prepare (read and ask questions about periods). Late periods, as it is called, is normal. We are sure you are not the only one. Just relax and wait for it to come. We hope this helps.
Big sis,sometimes my vaginal discharge is white and sometimes brown.what does it means?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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It z normal,d only tym ur discharge cn b brown z at d end of ur period,wic d little blood wil b mix up wit d discharge n it wil change 2 brown.evry other tym it wil b white or milky colour
Big sis,answer me pls
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Hi big sis am new here,is it gud 2 hv sex?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Zanzy! There is no yes or no answer for this question. If you are below the age of 18, you are a minor and shouldn't be having sex (this doesn't mean that once you are above 18, you should be having sex freely either). If you want to have sex, just be ready for the responsibilities if they come up. These include unwanted pregnancy, STD's, heart breaks, infections etc. Also, if you must have sex, please make sure you use a condom. We hope this helps.
Big Sis is it good to lye on your breast?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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It's not bad if u lye on your breast or wat's big sister reply
Ur question z nt cleared,lye on breast how?
hi am new can i ask a question Big sis can u cut your pubic when it hurts
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Princess! Welcome Springster. Your question is not clear. We will appreciate if you can explain better. Your pubic region is the located below the abdomen and it is where the sex organ can be found in both male and female so cutting your pubic region is not an option. The only thing you are allowed to cut around your pubic area is the hair there. We hope this helps.
Sister i always found milky fluid beneath my skin tie and my penis go up as i saw girl pls how can i be describe
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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sister how can i do about it
Hey Wizard! The milky fluid beneath your skin (penis) is natural among boys. It is meant to be washed properly while bathing. Also, it should be dried properly. When your penis goes up when you see a woman, this is called an erection and it is also normal among boys. Erections can be embarrassing sometimes. It happens when you see a girl you find attractive. It is how you handle it that matters. We hope this helps.
How can i do with the erection
wat's the meaning of big p
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Wizard! The big p means Period. This is the monthly menstrual circle for girls. We hope this helps.
Puberty is the time when our bodies become sexually matured.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
yes
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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yes favour..
Pls if their is solid thing inside d breast what can it cause it
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey FUNKE! They are called lumps. Please go to the hospital to get tested. Only a doctor can actually tell if is safe or not. It is good that you detected it early though. Also, talk to a trusted adult about this and see the doctor as soon as possible. We hope this helps.
I started growing breast before my sister who is older than me with just a year but she saw her period before me am i alright?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Taby! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Sometimes, it is not about who started growing before the other. The fact that you are sisters and that you senior her does not mean that you will start before her. Humans are different (yes, you are sisters but you are different). What you need to do is to calm down and wait for yours to come. And yes, you are very okay. Do not panic and do not be afraid. Yours will come. We hope this helps.
When u hav brown or green stain what does it mean?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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bad period
U cn only c brown discharge afta ur menstration bt if u c green discharge z a sign of infection,xo please talk 2 a trusted adult or u c a doctor tanks
i started growing breast as the age of 17
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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It's how your body works
My dick is not growing the way it suppose to, what should I do?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Kez! You need to be patient. Growth takes times, some people may grow in 2-3 years while it will take some others about 5-6 years to grow. So you need to calm down and allow nature to take it's course. However, if you feel your growth is abnormal, please talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Hi I just started recently and after my shower. , I didn't see it am I abnormal
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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No, get a doctor if is more Dan a month
Thx but I saw it recently again have you started and I changed accounts thx
Hey Tiana! When you just start your period, there are chances of it not being regular so it is very normal. It will take sometime before your period will become regular. Do not panic, just talk to a trusted adult about this for guidance. We hope this helps.
I'm finally a woman I just started my menses recently
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Eden! Yaaaaayy!!! Congratulations girl. We are so proud of you. You are now a woman and your personal hygiene is very important. Please carry a trusted adult along in this journey and also have a enough sanitary pads for your period. Once again, congrats.
Thanks big sis :) :) :)
My menses is 7 days
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Eden! Periods last from 2 days - 7 days depending on the individual. The flow also depends on the individual. Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). So it is not a problem. We hope this helps.
Big sis I'm very scared of my menses and pls after ones menses will u still see blood or discharge thanks
Big sis I'm very scared of my menses and after ones menses will they still see blood or discharge thanks
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Eden! You shouldn't be scared of your menses, it is very normal and not something you should be scared of. Your discharge is not painful and so should not be something you should be worried about. Every female at some point in her life sees her period so just have it at the back of your mind that you are not the only one. We hope this helps.
Big sister will I see blood or discharge at the end of my menses and it's too light
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Eden! Thanks for opening up to answer this question. That is how it is meant to be. Towards the end of your period, your flow is meant to be lighter and also, you will begin to see a discharge that is brownish in color. So do not worry, it is normal. We hope this helps.
big sis, pls when can you start counting the period
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Ladykey! You should start counting from the first day of every period. In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your menstrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. The duration/flow depends on the individual. The last day of your cycle is the day before your next period starts. For example, if your period started on the 1st of April and your next period starts on the 3rd of May, your cycle will be 2nd of May. This means that your cycle lasts for 31 days. Your new cycle starts again from the 1st day of your next period. Please note that your period can be delayed at sometimes and can also come earlier than normal. We hope this helps.
hw wud u no dat ur periods are comin big sis
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Kali! The best way to know when your period is coming is to calculate using a calendar. However, periods come early or late sometimes so we advise that you prepare at least a week ahead by having sanitary pads or panty liners around. Other ways to predict your period are the various signs and symptoms you feel when your period is coming. These signs are unique to individuals so you need to pay attention to your body to know the signs you get before your period comes. We hope this helps.
I talk she like sex like me
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Please What Ix That, That Ix So Special That Makes U Like SEX??? If U Dnt Mind Can U Tel Me Please,,,
Can my bf suck on my breast
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Big sister, am I okay if my period comes twice in a month
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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It not normal dear. Try and see a doctor
Hey Periods last from 2 days - 7 days depending on the individual. The flow also depends on the individual. Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). So it is not a problem. We hope this helps.
Thank u
Hey Sophia! Teebrown24 has said it all. Thanks Teebrown24 for helping a fellow Springster out.
These r all interesting facts
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
i am 12 and i have not yet started my period snd pls what are the sign to know when you about to stsrt period
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Deets! The best way to know when your period is coming is to calculate using a calendar. However, periods come early or late sometimes so we advise that you prepare at least a week ahead by having sanitary pads or panty liners around. But since you have not started your period yet, another way to predict your period are the various signs and symptoms you feel when your period is coming. These signs are unique to individuals so you need to pay attention to your body to know the signs you get before your period comes. We hope this helps.
hi big sis,the fluid that comes out from my virgina have a strong smell,what should i do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Sharonbright! Your discharge is not meant to smell although the vagina has a natural smell. If the smell is bad (like egg or fish), please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
is it right to discharge always and long scraching is it normal
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Springster! We do not really understand your question. We will appreciate if you explain better so that we can answer you. Thanks.
Hey Bigsister..I just started my period yesterday;and it's coming too much..is it normal??Wat should i do??
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Joyce! Yaaay! Congratulations. It is perfectly normal to have a heavy flow so do not be worried. Just be sure to change your pad regularly and also place it properly so you don't get stained. We hope this helps.
Lol..thanks BigSister!!
hi.is it nornal to see a signs before period
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Big sis sometimes my breast grows big and come down back what does that mean
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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This happens to some girls when they get their period and it is perfectly normal. You should only panic when it has nothing to do with your period. If so, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Pls can any one ans my question
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Big sis...pls can someone get pregnant through kissing when u are on period
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Splendora! No, you cannot get pregnant through kissing (whether you are on your period or not). We hope this helps.
Is there a specific age to having a boyfriend?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Purification! There is no particular age for one to start dating. Dating has to do with maturity and not age. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurizing you to do it. We hope this helps.
Pleasd big sis i have already reach the age of 18 but have nt start developing breast yet . What should i do pls
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Habeebah! The size of your breast is hormonal and may increase as you grow. Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). We hope this helps.
Big sis pls is it true dat if u wear bra early,,, it makes ur breast nt to grow
Big sis pls read my question
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Tano! Your questions have been replied. Kindly check. Thanks
some times i feel.like having.sex
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey lucifer300001! It is normal to crave sex sometimes. There is nothing wrong with it. That is why you are hormonal. It is what you do with the urge that matters. We hope this helps.
Big sis am new here,pls is it okay to have pains in your vagina while menstruating
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Ngozy! Thanks for opening up through this comment. There are a lot of things that cause vaginal pain when menstruating but we advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor as soon as you can. We hope this helps.
Big sis, I noticed of recent dat I gt angry at d slightest provocation.Pls wt was I do?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Christy! All you need to do is to make a conscious effort to be nicer and also to let things that hurt you go. Put a smile on your face at all times and you will see that not only for family members but other people will begin to appreciate you and see you as special. We hope this helps
THERE ARE TIME'S THAT GET ANGRY SO EASILY AND THE ARE ALSO TIME DAT I LOOK SO HAPPY
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Hi please my flow has been irregular for about three years now...it also has a brownish colour, av tried treating but it's still the same... what do I do
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Drey! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor for proper diagnosis and treatment. We hope this helps.
but why is it that girls must have pain whenever they have pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Sojlight! Pregnancy is not meant to be painful. What happens most of the time is discomfort. If you feel pains, please talk to a doctor immediately. We hope this helps.
pls i dont understand meaning of vaginal discharge
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Sojlight! It has been defined and explained in the article. Kindly read it to know more. Thanks
I don't know what is big p
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Homealone101! According to the article, the big P is called Puberty. Please read the article for more. Thanks.
Big Sister, pls y is it DAT I can't control myself wen somtin touches my clitoris either man or myself, I feel lyk masturbating to reduce d huge
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Bleez! This is because the clitoris is the human female's most sensitive erotic zone and tge primary place of pleasure for a female. This is probably why you feel you cannot control yourself when it is touched.
@ Big Sister, tnx as u ve answer to all ? I respect u. I wanna ask, how many tyms a lady shld c discharge daily? & somtym I get wet wen I sleep & wake early tinking of sex. Now I feel lyk doing it. I don't lyk hiding my feelin
What if my breast is getting big when my period is about to start
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Sweetness! It is normal. It happens to some ladies and it is a sign that your period is about to come. Do not panic or worry because it is perfectly normal. We hope this helps.
dat all true but wat if u hv nt started ur menses at d age of 16 hope the person does nt hv problem
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey barbie! Thanks for opening up through this comment. It is normal to be worried about your period not coming yet especially when you are 16 years old. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult about this and see a doctor too. We hope this helps.
I fee pain in my stomuch but is not my period
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Emily! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor too. We hope this helps
l am new here big sister I enjoy reading all ur articles may God bless u. I am 13 nd haven't seen my period but all my juniors have seen theirs am I okay
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Mimi! Welcome to Springster. We are glad you like the articles. Remember they are all for you. Nothing is wrong with you dear. Not everyone starts puberty as early as 12. You still have some time as you are still young. Don't worry yourself, you have a long time to experience these things so before it comes, enjoy yourself. Stop worrying yourself okay? Puberty will come soon. We hope this helps.
yes my mood has been changing I either get sad or happy but am confused cause I get angry at every little thing I see .
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Fiti! Welcome to puberty! Lol! It's normal girl. This is the time for you to start controlling your temperaments and mood. It may be difficult at first but once you are determined to do so, it will be very easy. We hope this helps.
Big sis I know that when a girl reachs puberty,the under of her butt develop boils.but the is a large painful boil in between my private part and my anus and there,s a big lump on my two leg close to my private part please is it normal
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Springster! The butt does not develop boils when you reach puberty. Please see a doctor and talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
Please big sis answer my question
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Wtz ur question
Pls big sis can u help me wif something
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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big sis pls r going to help cause i badly need ur help
We r ready 2 hlp u wit anytin
Type your comment here..if u wear bra early will it stop ur breast to grow
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey ula! No, it won't. Bra's help support the breast. The growth of your breast is hormonal and has nothing to do with a bra. We hope this helps
I am 18 years old but i dnt look my age. My breast are very small and i look like a 12 year old girl even my 13 years old sister looks more matured than me. Is something wrong with me or is there something i can do to change this
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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your not alone we have similar case but everyone is not the same
Hey Llie and Jane! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with you. Some people are naturally late bloomers (their organs develop late) and it is fine. The size of your breast is hormonal and may increase as you grow. Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). We hope this helps.
yeah, d ril definition of "PUBERTY"
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
hello i am new are i am welcome
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Springster! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends
Is it normal for one of my breast to be bigger than the other?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Not all ladies have equal breasts naturally. In fact, more than 70% percent of females do not have equal breasts. Noticing the difference in your breast is actually a good thing because it can make you stay healthy and also make you notice any unusual change in your breast. So Abies, do not be worried. We hope this helps.
I am new I am welcome
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
I am new are my welcome
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
PLS BIG SISTER HW CAN I MAKE MY BREAST STANT,AM JUST 17 AND MY BREAST ARE FALLING.PLS I NEED U ANS
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey HAPPYNESS! Thanks for the comment. Some people actually have naturally saggy breasts. It is not a crime or a sin. It is just natural. You can try any of the following to make your breasts firmer; try the ice massage - massage the breast in a circular motion for one minute (please do not do this for more than one minute to avoid numbness). Olive oil massage - masssage your breast in an upward circular motion for about 15 minutes. Do this 4 -5 times a week. You also need to wear a perfect fitting bra. We hope this helps.
Please is lime good for pimples?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Fanta! Yes, you can use lime for pimples but please note that it dries the face so you should not use it daily. Always remember to wash it off and moisturise your face. We hope this helps
Ok Big sis thanks.
Will it clear pimpled face? I mean lime.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
I am getting anxious about my period which i am yet to start.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Love! Do not get anxious! There is nothing to worry about. Periods are normal for all girls and ladies. What you need to do is to always have a fancy purse with sanitary pads for emergency situations and pain killers (prescribed by a certified pharmacist) in case you get cramps. You will be fine dear. You should also read all the stories about periods on Springster. We hope this helps
WHAT SHOULD A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL DO ,WHO STILL BEDWET
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey HAPPYNESS! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You should reduce your water in take (drinking water) once it is 6 pm and urinate before going to bed. Also, talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
pls i wnt to hav a nice shape what wil i do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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I think u should exercise and be unique
Hey ABABY! DivynFævour is very correct. You should exercise and also eat right, drink lots of water, fruits etc. We hope this helps
pls am 18 but have no breast what should i do am ashame
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, do not use breast enhancing creams because they always have side effects. Secondly, the size of your breast is hormonal and may increase as you grow. Look at your family members (both paternal and maternal) and notice their breast sizes. Ask questions about how their breasts were when they were younger. Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). We hope this helps.
Big Sister...I started my period at the age of 12 after 2months i did not see it again(2 months now) wat should i do??
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Is it normal to see ur self wet with sperm when you wake up
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
I've not started my period but all the girls in my class have and whenever they ask I always say no but I feel I should have started
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Some people are naturally late bloomers (they tend to see their periods late and their organs also develop late). However, we advise your friend to see a doctor and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps
I kept seeing sperm everyday is it bad
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Mary! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Are you sure what you see is sperm or vaginal discharge? If you are sure it is sperm, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps
Pls hlp,big sist. I can't love any girl I don't even know exactly hw I feel. Even when I talk to a girl and we started relationship we easyly break up bcouse am not serious. And my friend usually make fun of me nt having a girl,it makes me mad. Hlp pls.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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I also has the same issue and it's embarrassing .hopes big sister can help us out
Hey Besty! The reason why you cannot sustain any of these relationships is because you do not genuinely love any of the girls. The number one rule of dating is to date someone you love when you are ready! You can't love yet because you haven't found the one you can love and feel good about. It is not a problem. Do not allow your friends to make you feel bad about this, you are the owner of yourself and your decisions. Peer pressure will come but if you are not ready for a relationship, there is nothing they will say or do that will make you ready. Take your time, this is not a race okay? We hope this helps
Thanks, big sist
PLS I HAVE NOT SEEN MY PERIOD SINCE 3 MONTHS AM NOT PREGENANT COS I HAVE NEVER HAD SEX WITH A MAN
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey ANNIE! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
Please Am New Here Ooh, Am I Welcomed Friendx? Big Sister I Hav A Question, How Can U Stop Masturbating? And Ix It's Gud To Masturbate??
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Deborah807! Thanks for opening through this comment. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. However, masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. Also, getting addicted to masturbation can affect you sexually later on in life. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps
Thank's U So Much Big Sister,,,,,
plz big sister ,when a person is having period will the breast grow at the age of 12 years.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Derinsola! Your breast starts to grow when you start puberty (not necesarily age 12). It doesn't just grow in a year. It is actually a gradual process and does not finish growing in a year or 2 (depending on the individual). The size of your breast is hormonal. We hope this helps
i am 13 years of age but av not started my menses but my classmate of 12 has started.why?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Qme! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Puberty is unique to everyone. Not everyone is meant to start at a particular age. Our growth process as individuals are different. The fact that your classmates have started at 12 does not mean that you will are late. It only means that your body is not ready. Do you know that some people actually start as late as 17? Most times, there is nothing wrong with them. 13 is still a good enough. Don't be in a hurry. While you wait, you should read on periods and get prepared. Don't feel bad, just know that your body is preparing itself for a long time of seeing periods every month. We hope this helps
I want to start wearing bra but my classmate laugh at anybody dat start wearing big sis help
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Umu! If you are ready to wear a bra, a group of people laughing should not stop you. Wearing a bra will give support to your breasts and so if your breasts really need support, you really won't be bother about what other people think. We hope this helps
How many years does a girl's breast grow
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Hearty! There is no particular time frame for the breast to grow. We all grow differently and at different paces so one person might grow in 2 years while another may take 5 - 8 years to grow. It is hormonal. We hope this helps
Hi,big sis l am 13 years l did'nt see my period,my friend breast is big but my is not big like their own help me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Sumy-Cool! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Comparing yourself to others will do more harm than good. We are all different and we grow at different paces so you shouldn't be comparing growth rate to your friend. As for your period, not everyone starts as early as 13. You still have a lot of time. You will grow okay? Don't let it worry you. We hope this helps
i ve seen mine
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
I have seen my at the age of 14years
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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ok dear
Hi everyone gud morning am new here I my welcum
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Yea pls I want to ask question those milky n yellow stain I thought maybe the person is no more a virgin.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Angel! What you see is called vaginal discharge. It has nothing to do with virginity at all. Discharge makes you know when you are ovulating and other important changes within your cycle. We hope this helps
Yeah thank big sister am greatful it really helped me thank again,I what like scared when I saw it but is't every time it will cum out or once in while.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Angel! You're welcome. We are glad we could be of help to you. Feel free to invite your friends here.
I have noticed some discharge from my vagina(brownish in colour) what could be the problem and the Remedy??
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Superior! Thanks for the question. If you just finished your period or your are towards the end of your period, it could be the spotting that mixed with your discharge. If that isn't the case, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
My experience is dat i start having crush on any guy and sometimes i feel sad nd sometimes happy
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Big sis am having urge for sex each time am with a girl,is it normal
i ave big breast but non of my relative or even my mum has big breast.big sis pls what could be the cause? and i am just about to be 15 i am afraid dat it might be even bigger and i know i wont like it.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey princessbetty! The size of your breast is hormonal. Yours may seem bigger than other family members you know but it could be a recessive gene too (from a great-grandmother or an older family member you do not know). Try not to let the size affect you right now. Once your breast grows to the point it knows our body can carry, it will stop growing. What you need right now is a bra with a good fit and support. We hope this helps
What the discharge smells unregularly
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Springster! We do not understand your question. Please explain better so that we can help you. Thanks
I see my period every month, but wit a differente date changes every month.hope am fine.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey XRIS101! When we say monthly cycle, what we mean is either 28 days or 30 days (depending on your cycle). It does not have to start on the 1st of the month and end on the last day. It can start at the end of the month but as long as it lasts up to 28 or 30 days as the case may be with your menstrual cycle, that is all that matters. What you need to do is to track your period using a calendar to know how long your cycle is. Please note that menstrual cycles last from 21 -35 days depending on the individual. We hope this helps.
There's always a month that i don't see my period, please big sister is this normal.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Rocxy! When we say monthly cycle, what we mean is either 28 days or 30 days (depending on your cycle). It does not have to start on the 1st of the month and end on the last day. It can start at the end of the month but as long as it lasts up to 28 or 30 days as the case may be with your menstrual cycle, that is all that matters. What you need to do is to track your period using a calendar to know how long your cycle is. Please note that menstrual cycles last from 21 -35 days depending on the individual. We hope this helps.
my period works normal but d only thing is that my breast is very big is more than my age hope am ok
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey alesh! Thanks for the comment. You are perfectly fine. There is no particular size of breast for any age. We are all different and our breast size is hormonal and cannot be determined by your age but rather your body hormones. We hope this helps
Hi BIG Sister is it -possible for a girl to never see her period
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Kylie! Periods are part of a girl's life and it is what enables her to get pregnant and give birth to a child. A menstrual cycle completes a woman. If a woman does not see her period, she should see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps
hi big sis am bothered wit somtin,after my period i do c a white tin cuming out of my vaginal so i want to knw what it is.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey jayniz! Yes, you are okay. What you see is called vaginal discharge and it is normal among girls. These are the types of discharge that are normal for girls; White - this is common at the beginning & end of your cycle. Clear & stretchy - this is also called "fertile" discharge and it indicates that you are ovulating. Clear & watery - this does not come at a particular time. It can show up at any time in your cycle. These discharge occur at different times in a girl's menstrual cycle and they do not show at the same time. We hope this helps.
WHAT IF YOU HAVE NOT STARTED YOUR PEROID AND YOU SEE BROWNISH THINGS ON YOUR PANT IS IT NORMAL
Hey big sis,i love all your articles,most of them motivate me, i have a question though.Is it normal when i am on my period and i am standing my vagina will pain me?
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey PrettyJuanita! Thanks for the comment. We are glad you love the articles, we wrote them all for you. When you have menstrual cramps, your lower tummy and back pain you and not your vagina. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
my name is pre111_it is fun learning about dis article i_hv fun
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Seriously sis, dah mood swing is jus too weird. One moment of happiness nd wham ur mood changes. I felt that last week, I was jus looking for someone to look for my trouble cos I'm ready to beat anybody up. Although it later changed when my friends noticed hw sad I was.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Pearl! Yes, mood swings can be very annoying. Even big sister goes through this so it is perfectly normal. You are not alone.
What if a girl has not seen her period before but she has vaginal discharge what does it mean? is she ovulating ?
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey mixander! It is possible to start seeing vaginal discharge before your period starts. You can start seeing it 6 - 12 months before your period starts. This means that your body has started adjusting to this new change. It starts when you enter puberty and it is perfectly normal. We hope this helps
WHAT IF YOU VE NOT STARTED YOUR PERIOD AND YOU ARE SEEING SOMETHING BROWNISH IS IT NORMAL
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. What you see happens to some girls before they get their period. However, we advise you to talk to a trusted adult about it. We hope this helps
Mmmm......but if a girl having sex on her period day can she get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey lhord! Thanks for the comment. Having unprotected sex exposes you to the risk of getting pregnant and also high chances of STDs/STIs and even HIV. Please, if you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
What is ovulation
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
big Susi, I have a smell and red vagina discharge , I don't know what to do, pls I need ur help.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Succy! Thanks for the comment. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps
Can I Get A Girlfriend Here
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
Hey Cruz! This is a group that inspires and encourages girls in Nigeria and not a place to look for a girlfriend. Grooming and things like these are not allowed on this platform and so we have to take down this comment. Thanks for understanding
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
Hy Big sis wen i saw my period i was so happy because it has been my worries but now am in trouble it always painful even if i take drugs still it wont stop and i purge alot right now i need ur help pls big sis
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
Pls i don't want to miss my boy frnd he is 18 yrs an je normally like to romove his sperm almost every day even wen he is not having sex with me, he has his own artificial way of removing his sperm jst for de flavour only. nw my qustion is will it have any effect on him wen he grow up in de area making me to be pregnant.Or wil he be able to pregnate me. Pls help me out
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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That has no bad effect tothe boy, the sperm in the testicles is just like water in the well, the more you fetch the more it come even if you did not re move it, he may get rid of it through wet dream
Thanks somuch 4 d enlightment
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
Big sis my boyfriend is going of love 4 me but dont want him again. I dont now what wil aponn next to him,if i tell him dat am no More interested in d relationship
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
thanks for the enlightened
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
thanks
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Am 21 I wish to break my virginity but I don't know how painful it is
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.