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We’ve all heard people say, ‘boys will be boys’. That can make us think that all boys are the same. The truth is that most boys are a lot like you. Their bodies are changing and so are their minds. They are growing up too.
Here are some things you probably think you know about boys.
Boys don’t have feelings
"I get hurt and feel like crying sometimes just to show my hurt. Sometimes when I show my emotions people tell me to act masculine or like a man but I always say I am a human being with feelings too". Daniel, 16
Boys don’t want attention
“I like people to notice me sometimes. I like to be given attention. Sometimes I go out of my way to get this attention. I want to be pampered too. Not only girls need caring we men too need caring and attention". Ahmed, 17
Boys are troublesome
“Once I noticed that a girl was stained and so I quickly gave her my jacket to tie around her waist to cover the stain. A man is meant to take care of people around him. So when we make trouble it is to protect the people we love. We are not troublesome at all". Tayo, 15
Boys too like to learn
“I love to learn new things. This is why I learnt how to cook. I always get excited when I try new recipes. Even my sisters and mum say I am a better cook than them. I sometimes tell them not only women can learn to do some stuff". Francis, 15
Boys can’t be true friends with girls
“I don’t know why people say boys and girls cannot be friends, I like being friends with girls, they give good advice and they are so nice. It is not every time I want to play around with boys". Yemi, 16
Boys can make good friends. You can learn a lot from them. You can also teach them a lot.
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Great Article, Boys are great friends most times better than our girlfriends. my view is teenage and younger boys have moral values and respect for girls. i can't say the same for older boys/men. (not all though)
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Hey Secretfairy! Thanks for the comment. Yes, sometimes boys make good friends when they do not have bad intentions. It is also the same with older boys/men. SOME of them can be really good friends. But one has to be careful so that you don't fall into the trap of bad boys pretending to be good boys.
Boys can be so unbelieveable most times. They just wanna prove to their friends that with a trick, they could get the full attention of all girls
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EEH SEE UR MOUTH LIKE ATTENTION, ALL BOYS ARE NOT D SAME MY DEAR
Sometimes boys are better friends than girls and one special things about them is that you can always trust them with your secrets
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I totally agree with you.But only a few exist
Now no love again Pls or give but dat is ture
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All boys aren't the same.,some of them,their intensions are good but they get misunderstood..because the word "all boys are the same" is now the order of the day
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Hey Rhapido32! Thanks for the comment. You are correct. Not all boys have bad intentions and not all boys are the same. However, girls still need to be careful because when you get too comfortable with boys, you may fall into the hands of the bad boys.
Most of all dis boy are not good in girls corner becos dey are full of bad habit
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never a lie
BUT PRETENDERS DO D WORST RIGHT ?
Boys are very simple to friend with,but in some condition....truthfulness and kindness..
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U ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT MY DEAR
There is no gentle guy on earth except their interest is not arouse
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REALLY
I dnt agee
johnson is like u are one of them
HMMMM, SEE UR MOUTH !
Johnson why don't u agree
All boys are not the same,they are good boys in this world but the bad ones are covering. And boys are very good at keeping secret.
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U r rite
good ones are few
Hey Frank! Thanks for the comment. You are correct. Not all boys have bad intentions and not all boys are the same. However, girls still need to be careful because when you get too comfortable with boys, you may fall into the hands of the bad boys.
i agree with you Grace.The bad boys are making it seem like all boys are bad.Boys!!!!!caution your fellow boys and save your names,except you are a bad guy.{i luv bad roughed guys though;the ones that have swag,but i dont have one though}
Love more and worry less
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that is not happening
well,all of dem are not d same
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That is true there are not the same
that's a nice one, not only boys we can be friends with, but with girls also
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But not girl can keep secrets,they also get jealous when have a good guy as a bf and try their very best to take him away from you.
I think boys are very good friends with girls
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i don't think so because not all boys can resist a girl
U ARE RIGHT GIRL
Some boys are good friends of girls though,just a few of them.They may have feelings for you,but will be ready to wait till the time is right.But such guys are rare
i have a question can some one have a gf/bf without kissing he/she ?
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YES
Hey Twikle! Thanks for the comment. It is very possible to have a bf/gf without kissing him/her. It is all about self control and also principles. Both parties need to define their relationship and what they want out of it. We hope this helps.
I KNOW IF I SAY I WAS RAPED BY A FEMALE IT WILL B VERY DIFFICULT 4 PEOPLE TO BELIEVE RIGHT, WEN I WAS RAPED IT TOOK ME 2 MONTH TO RECOVER FROM IT, SO WAT AM TRYING TO SAY IS THAT EVERY BODY IS NOT SAFE
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Hey Joseph! So sorry about your experience. We can't even imagine how bad you must have felt. Your point is very valid… everyone needs to be safe at all times and sometimes, the boys are also the victims. Please, if you have not seen a doctor, we advise that you do so and also talk to a trusted adult about your experience. Remember to always stay safe.
SORRY ABOUT THAT BUT PLEASE DONT BE ANGRY HOW DID IT HAPPEN
SORRY ABOUT THAT BUT PLEASE DONT BE ANGRY HOW DID IT HAPPEN
HMMMMM, ARE U A MALE OR FEMALE I CAN'T OPEN UP ON DIS PLATFORM ARE U IN ANY SOCIAL MEDIA ?
kissing a girl to prove u love her. is it wright?
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Hey Twikle! Thanks for the comment. Kissing does not necessarily mean love. Sometimes, people kiss girls (or boys as the case may be) out of their lustful desire for them and this is nothing close to love. There is a popular saying that if you want to know whether you are truly in love, you need to take away every form of romance. We hope this helps.
WHY DID YOU SAY SO
because most of the guys may ask u if u love them u should have sex with them
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Hey Twikle! Thanks for the comment. Sex is not a proof that you love someone. Also, no one should compel you to do what you do not want to do or are not ready for in the name of love. Love is not forceful. We hope this helps.
do we know that its not all guys that can tell his feelings to someone he loves?
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Yea u are right. But same things happen to girls too, we are all human being we all have feelings and we all feel like share our problems with other but sometimes we keep quite for reasons.
Hey Noasky! Yes, it is true. However, when you love someone, no matter how shy or reserved you are, there will be a particular way they treat you that will be different from the way they treat you or act around you. This could be the way they talk to you. You just cannot treat the one you love the way you treat other people.
YOU ARE CORRECT AM ONE OF THOSE THAT CAN SAY MY FEELINGS TO GIRLS
It is true I am also one of those girls that don't tell boys how I feel
confessing ur feeling to a boy or girl is not bad,but watch from that day onward they will start acting weird,either they try avoiding u if they dont love u or u both wont have those free friendship.So it will just be better to keep it to urself for things to go fine,until d right time.
hey guys,i ,do have alot of male friends,i feel free with them,but others people think it absurd,not right at all
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HIS TRUE BUT DONT BE OVER COMFORTABLE WITH THEM
lol i do keep my guard
NICE ONE GIRL
ALL THIS THINGS ARE ALL CORRECT BUT ONLY ONE IS VERY WRONG ABOUT BOY WHICH IS BOYS DONT HAVE FEELING BOY HAVE FEELINGS
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but can feelings attract romance?
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it depends if both spouses have feeling for each other it may attract romance
Tru talk.
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Thatz true 4 ril
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definately itz true talk
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U are right
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exactly
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That is true.some boys are really nice and caring.
Very right. Some of my friends are boys cause they stick up for me
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i lov been around boys because they are like my best frends .dey are d ones dat can keep secret .lik am a girl i have esperience betrayers frm girl
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THAT'S TRUE
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i advise u too be careful.u can keep secret with them but not ur personal one
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My bf always ask me of kissing and he luv me much,should I accept to kiss him
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Hey Cutely! Thanks for the comment. Kissing does not necessarily mean love. Sometimes, people kiss girls (or boys as the case may be) out of their lustful desire for them and this is nothing close to love. There is a popular saying that if you want to know whether you are truly in love, you need to take away every form of romance. We hope this helps.
There's dis girl i used to hav feelings for bk in sch.. After we left sch,i told her abt it bt she turned me down.in less than a year,she asked me if i stil had feelings 4 ha nd i sed yes then she told me she had a thing 4 mi too.i'm already angri dat she rejected me d 1st time,what shud i do now..i think she's tryna use me or sumfin.
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Bro i really do know how u feel right now but i want u to know dat not all gals are d "use & dump type" it might happen dat as at d tym u asked her out,she was in a relationship or she didn't feel anytin 4 u den but nonetheless,i'll advise u 2 not push her away but watch her closely 4 some period of time,den u evaluate her if truly she as any feelings @ 4 u
Hey McGrey! Thanks for the comment. Try and talk to her and ask her why she turned you down the first time. Then also, ask her why she has suddenly developed feelings for you. Maybe this will give you the answers you need. We hope this helps.
my girlfriend always ignore my cal,..wat should I do
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Try to find out y and ask her d reason if u feel she isn't telling d trut den u can do some private investigation
Hey Lawizi! Thanks for opening up with this comment. Try to see her and ask her why she is ignoring your calls. Maybe a face to face conversation with her will give you the answers you need. Best of luck. We hope this helps
Bt should I accept gifts from a male friend, I mean z it right to accept gift. From them
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If he's ur close and trustworthy friend y nt
Hey Cutely! You cab accept gifts from a guy as long as you are sure that he is not giving the gifts know exchange for something. If you must collect a gift, talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
Whenever he asks me of kiss and I say no ,he will tell me that am nt yet matured, Snd it hurts me,,so ma wat will I tell him if he asks for kiss
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If u r in a relationship with someone he or she supposed to respect ur decision if he really loves you not hurting you. Don't be tempted by his words if ur heart doesn't go for something then don't do it. Simply say I am matured and if u love me u will respect my decision
Hey Cutely! Just like Benedicta_110 said A guy that loves you will respect your decision and will NEVER insult you or use hurtful words just to get something for you. So the next time he tells you that, tell him you are matured and he should appreciate your maturity and not disrespect you. We hope this helps. Benedicta_110 thanks for the comment and sharing this with your fellow GEM girl. We will appreciate you.
If my bf ask me of kiss and I say no he will say am nt matured, and it hurts me do ma wat do I do
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if ur boyfriend is annoyd dat u av oda boys as friend nd u dnt want to loose any of dem,wat can u do
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Hey Laura! Thanks for opening up with this comment. You should make him understand that those other boys are just your friends and nothing more. If he truly loves you, he will trust you to have platonic relationships (friendship) with other people. We hope this helps.
Ma,pls should I gv u his. Number so u cn call him and explain to him,bcos he thought that kissing and romance makes the relationship more strong
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Hey Cutely! You are in the best position to tell him what you want. Stay true to your principles, talk to him and tell him what you want. We hope this helps.
Wow I don't know but the only boys I want to befriend are my brothers from experience. I have never meant a boy who just want to be a friend nothing more.
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Do u want 2 talk to someone about it?
boys and girls can be friends no big deal
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if i may ask what is romance
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is a act/torching dat lead to sex.
IT IS BAD FOR A BOY AND A GIRL TO FRIENDS BE CARE FUL OF THE TYPE OF BOYS
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1142,for girls nd boys who have self regard,dignity,respect and high esteem,there is nothing wrong with been friends with the opposite sex.So,i disagree,with you.But i agree where you said they have to be careful
I like being friends with boys. I get to learn a lot about them and know i can count on them when my female friends fuck up
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Yes Lee,that's the spirit.But,just be watchful nd take care of yourself sweetie
i dont like 2be frind with boy
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Why Lotus?U are a boy or girl?
IAM A GIRL
IAM A GIRL
Why do you then say you hate been friends with a boy?Are you scared or have you been hurt?
BOYS!
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Boys are wonderful creatures
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Well I lyk having boys as my frds ,de re kul ad nice to be with.Ad u cn also learn a lot of tins from dem .
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I lyk havng boyz as frnds bt sometyms people misunderstand me
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u're right same as me
ANONYMOUS CAN WE BE FRNDS
BOYS ARE SOMETIMES CRAZY
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I kinda agree with you,Domin
I like be around boys especially elderly one,but some boys their mentality are so low that they will take that as an advantage to be talking about nonsense
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boy are cool to be with
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Boys ar rily amazing to be with. My best friend z actually a boy and if I must say..........he z one of d best things dat eva appened to me.
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Thr z diz girl in my scool dat i luv,but she ws betrayd in her past relatnshp,so hw cn i get her to luv again,to luv me
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Eazi,if you are truly Eazi like your name and you truly love this girl,getting her wont be a prob.When u get this message,just write me back and i ll help you
Hey Eazi! She needs time and you will have to be patient with her. Be real and let her know how you feel. It may take time for her to trust you again but be patient. We hope this helps.
Rashidiana plz i need some help
Tnks big sis,but how cn i knw wen she luv me cuz she z a pretndr
Eazi,first,be sure that what you hv for this girl is love nd not lust.One day,approach her calmly.Dont do this when either of you is with friends.Meet her when she is alone
when you get to meet her,dont just blurt it out that you love her.Start with a preamble.Be bold and straight forward when talking to her
Tell her how decent you are,and how you love her too much to break her heart.Tell her to give you a chance
Keep the conversation short.Dont look desperate.Once you are done with talking,get her to look at you,or stand up and gently cup her face in your hand nd look her straight in the eye,nd tell her;I love you too much to break your heart.I am going to wait for you but pls give me a chance,pls.Once you tell her this,gently move away.But Eazi,be easy on her nd give her time.If you truly love her,you will give her time.One thing you must nt do is to pester her,else,she will think you are a player.Try my tips and report back to me.Waiting for your reply
I only have two friends and they are girls but there's this boy in my school I wanted to make my friend but he got the wrong impression and every body in my class are saying I have feelings for him but am pretending, pls what do I do?
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Hey Grace! First of all, make him understand that you want nothing more than friendship from him. Maybe that way he understands the situation better. Also, make it known to your classmates that you have no feelings for him. They may find it hard to accept in the beginning but when they see reasons with you eventually, they will understand. We hope this helps.
Tnx Grace.We are friends already
Gone are the days we hid our feelings from people. I prefer open dating to secret admiring. So girl, people won't live your life for you. Go for what you love and stop the pretence.
Hi Rashidiana,sorry but am not Omoye and Anita's classmate.
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So sorry Grace for any inconvinience caused.I am new.Joined three days ago.I thought you were my friend Grace.But i do hope we can be good friends on this platform
Hi Rashidina,No problem and yes we can be good friends.
Boys are cool and loving creatures if you get to know and understand them
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i agree with you but just a few number of them exist.I kind of have a male friend who is loving and he never tells me any rubbish.I love and respect him for that.He is just a friend
Just Know That We Aren't Creatures, We're All Humans Like You, So Don't Go Around Calling Us Creatures, We're Humans Not Creature, @Six
Hi kevin d tin z dat guyz has brought a bad reputation to their namez
Hi Rashidiana,pls sorry to ask but are you still in secondary or tertiary institution? pls tell me!
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Am gonna b sincere bt also answer mine.Am in secondary,y do u ask n what abt u?
Good day Rashidiana,the reason why I asked if you're still in secondary school or university is because am still in secondary school,thank u for teaching me how to write words in their short form,I enjoy talking to u u are nice.
Hi Gracie.Hope you dont mind me calling you that.U are also very nice.Are you on fb?i mean facebook.If yes,tell me your username.Dont be vexed.I wanna ask,which country nd state are you living in?
Hi Darling Rashidiana,of course not I love the pet name.Am not in fb,my mom said I will start face booking when I have finished secondary school so am not allowed to Facebook.I am not vexing I am from Nigeria and I live in Lagos state,n what abt u?
Tnx for loving your pet name.Same here.My mother said not to start facebooking now,till the time is right.I am from Agyra in India
We could be friends forever.can you make sweets(Indian sweets)I am used to seeing it in indian films,they also give visitors or eat them.
Gracie darling,you are so sweet n you must be innocent too.I was just kidding.You really believed i was from Agyra.That shows that you are a good friend who trust her friend.Saath Nibaana,Saathy ya,mon cherrie.Thats a combination of India nd french.Find d meaning.I am a Nigerian.I live in Edo State but am from Enugu state.Hope you will still be my friend.Sorry if my joke seemed like a lie.Dont hate me pls
Truly sorry Gracie if i broke your hope of Indian sweets.You can give me any punishment but pls remain my friend.Dont hate me,pls.Am really sorry if i disappointed you.Sorry.Dont worry.I promise,no matter what,i will make Indian sweets for you when we get to meet.I swear it.Sorry.Love you
Talking about Indian sweets,i know how to make Jalebi n Khaaja
Hi Rashidiana,you're so intelligent and smart so you tricked me about been an Indian girl you're playing with me, I forgive you, we are still good friends and I would like to learn from you,pls tell me the meaning of what you wrote about the combination of India and french,you're a genius.
We can be friends forever, I can't punish you at you and again you did not disappoint me,love you!
We can be friends forever, I can't punish you at all and again you did not disappoint me,wow so you can make Indian sweets,I understand why you did that so let's forego it and move on,love you!
Tnx Gracie for accptn me back as your friend.You are really nice.What i wrote means "stand by me always my beloved darling".Simply.Mon cherrie in french means my darling.Do they teach you french at school?pls tell me your class,pls.I would also tell mine.When we get to meet,i promise to make one of those indian sweets,either Jalebi or Khaaja.I can make both.Tnx once again.You are such a darling
Yes,i can make two of their sweets,if i have the ingredients but they are so hard to get in Nigeria,but,i ll go to any length to get and make them for you,just for you.You deserve it
Hi lovely Rashidiana,you're so sweet and don't worry I will always stand by you because you're my friend,Mon cherrie,they do teach me french in school but they don't teach French in Senior classes so they teach from Jss1-3 so I don't know French that much but am willing to learn. I am in SS2,I pray we will meet someday and don't forget you promised to make me Indian sweets,you're so sweet, love you!
That makes you my senior.Am in JSS2.Just kidding.Am in SS1.Yes,i wont forget.I promise to make Indian sweets for you if we get to meet.There is one called Coconut sweet.I would also make that for you.Bonsoir,mon cherrie.Aurevoir. bientôt.
I am suppose to be in SS1 but I got promotion to Jss1when I was in Basic 5 so that's why I am in SS2 but I feel like going back to SS1 because all my mate are in SS1!
waoh!!!!!congrats babes.That means you are very intel.Same here.Supposed to be in JSS3 but entered JSS1 after primary four.i am very happy over that,nd you should be too.Dont ever wish such again.You should be happy that you are ahead of your peers
Hi Darling Rashidiana,thanks for the encouragement,love you!
I wish I am facebooking,pls do not be angry but can you pls give me a range of your age,I will also tell you mine mon cherrie,Mon Amie,pls don't be annoyed with me.
No probs.How did you know mon ami?It means my friend.If you start facebooking,pls send a request to Queen Rashidiana.Let there be Grace in your name so i would know itx you.The account is for a friend,but i can chat with you there .I will soon be 14.What about you?
Hi Rashidiana,I know french a little,don't worry if I start face booking I will tell you right away,I am 14 and I will clock 15 soon.
pls,tell me the month you were born
Babes,i was born in the month of June,if you're good at guessing then......guess the day,is it 1,2,or 3 tell me your answer!.and what about you?
I am not good at guessing issues like this.Maybe you are 2 or 1,or even 3.Anyone.My month is August.Guess if itx 14 or 15
Hi Rashi baby,the answer is 2,now it's my turn to guess and I think its.......on 14th.
Gracie sweetie,that means i guessed right.2 was my first answer,so that makes me right.Sorry to say Sweetie,am 15.But nice try though
Hi cutie pie Rashi,I guessed it wrong,I won't forget your birthday, in my area when ever are person is celebrating his or her birthday, we always pour them water,do you do such in yours?do you love Korea or India films, pls tell me love u!
No,you weren't wrong at all Gracie Bae.My pix says my BD is 14 but i do claim 15.So,you are right in some point
Babe,in my school,dont even open your mouth to tell people your BD,or better still,dont come to school that day.They will bath and give you baptism by water that day.
Talking about Korean movies,i love them so so much,especially the ones from South Korea.I love Empress Ki,The Scholar Who Walks The Night,Moon Lovers;Scarlet Heart Ryeo nd the one am presently watching now,Six Flying Dragons.Have you watched City Hunter?That guy is bursting my brains.I love all his movies
Hi Rashi baby,am so sorry I didn't text u back early,so u do such things in your area,yesterday a girl in our class was celebrating her BD,they bathed her that afternoon but she was prepared (she brought cloth)if not she would have gone home like that.I never knew you luv Korea films like me(I luv Korea films so much)and u hardIy see me watching other films except from Korea films.
Rashi baby, am so worried about you and chizzy was asking big sis about you and big sis said she haven't been hearing from you,is it because of school?have you resumed?am missing you Mon cherrie,love you!
Just as i earlier wrote to Chizzy,i just can't find the right words to appreciate you guys.Tnx so much.Yes,we have resumed,thats why i haven't been around.Well,am back now nd everything is okay
Babe,am not sure you love Korean movies even half as much as i do
But i love the South Korea ones;the ones about the palace.Tell me some of the ones you ve watched
And the guy i wrote you about that acted City Hunter,do u know him?He also acted Empress Ki,Moon Lovers-Scarlet Heart Ryeo
Hi sweet heart Rashi, am so so so sorry for not texting back early but I have resumed and its hard for me to have a free time pls forgive,how is school? I love Korea films more than other films, I have watched many of them,I watched Empress Ki,Boys Before Flower,My Girlfriend Is a Nine Tailed Fox,Dream High,My Love From Another Star,High School Love On,The Heirs,Playful Kiss,Let's Fight Ghost, To the Beautiful you,Heart Strings,You Are Beautiful,the kings two heart,with others and they're so interesting, love you Mon cherrie.
Missing You Gracie.
Good day Rashidiana,pls can you teach me how to write words in their short form.
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It's easy. Just abbreviate them. But I like typing my words completely
of course.Lets start a few words.You can write :you-u good-gud day-dy friend-frnd like-lk love-lv,luv have-hv will-ll about-abt why-y and-n any-n are-re okay-ok,kkkkkk So my dear frnd n student,if there are n more words u want me to teach u,just write me,kkk?
u can also write: but-bt be-b down-dwn
Gracie,a girl is meant to keep her virginity till marriage
Thank you so much for the advice Darling Rashidiana,love you!
Do reply me Gracie.Missing you like crazy
but the thing is that it isn't possible to be friends with a boy and not have feelings for him Or either ways he having feelings for you
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Kk,itz possible if u hv self discipline n set ur principles right
Yea.. It's true. Then you have to tell him
You may not need to tell him.Your behaviour in you guys friendship will tell him that you are "a no go area" n not ready for such rubbish.
is not that they are all that bad but nw we can trust them nw.
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Whether itz before or now,the good boys always remain the good boys,the bad boys remain the bad boys.Thats why we are to be careful while dealing with them.That doesn't mean we should hate them,no.Rather,we should get them to change for the better
Tnks Rashidiana 4 d tips but i hv did dat nd lso tld her dat i ll gv hr tim if nid b nd she sed dat tim wnt b engh 4 hr
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it doesn't matter.She may be testing you.If you love her,you wont give up so easily.Keep trying.Go for what you want boy.Be brave n dont relent.Be the boy you are nd go for what you love.You didnt think she would just say yes like that
it doesn't matter.She may be testing you.If you love her,you wont give up so easily.Keep trying.Go for what you want boy.Be brave n dont relent.Be the boy you are nd go for what you love.You didnt think she would just say yes like that
I lso askd hr if she culd b my gf nd she sed she cnt ans.Dat it sound somhw 2 hr ears
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of course it would sound somehow cos she will take you for a player nd you have to prove her wrong.Pls,dont be angry.If i may ask,are you in secondary or tertiary,nd give me a range of your age,pls,if you dont mind,pls
I love my boyfriend and he loves me too.My anty is against the relationship,what do I do?I don't want to lose him.Pls help me.
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Hey Chizzy! Thanks for opening up with this comment. Your aunty probably feels you are not ready or you are too young to be in a relationship. Maybe she feels are relationship will distract you. We advise that you try talking to your aunty (in a very calm way so she doesn't feel like you are insulting her or being rude). Or better still, you can have someone that you trust who is also to close to your aunty talk to her on your behalf. We hope this helps.
Chizzy,just three questions to ask you.Are you of age to start dating?Are you through with high or secondary school?What prove do you have that your guy truly love you,just one prove?Pls Chiz,write me back and i will then say what i have to say
Hey Rasdiana,I am of age and also through with my secondary school.He told me,loves me.Despite all de things dat I do to hurt his feelings still he will still say,'I love you'.
It always natural
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What is natural?The myths about boys or what?
It's bad for a guy to stay up to two year without saying hi to a girl
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How do you mean?pls,explain better.Dont understand
Hey Future! Do you mean talking to girls in general? If yes, why make such a decision? Saying hi to a girl is not bad neither is it harmful. There is nothing wrong in being friendly with girls. If you are talking about being in a relationship with girls, then if that is what you want for yourself, there is nothing bad as long as you are happy that way. We hope this helps.
I THINK BOYS ARE OK. THUS NOT ALL OF THEM
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Hey,Rashidiana I am of age and I am done with my secondary school recently.i know he loves me because he always want me to be happy even if it may cost him his life.
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Chiz,just check more and be extra sure of what you are saying
Thanks Rash 4 ur concern.
My boyfriend asked me,how much I love him.i don,'t know what to tell.pls help me out?!
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Tell him you love him as much as he wants you to.I am not totally in support of this but Chiz,be sure of the fact that your guy truly love you as you say.Pls make sure nd stay safe,Chiz
Hey Chizzy! You are in the best position to answer this as only you knows how much you love a particular person. However, if you are confused on how to answer him then you should really ask yourself if you indeed love him because you shouldn't ask for help when asked questions like this. We hope this helps.
I asked a girl out and she was referring me back to secondary school days dat am not caring and dats not true...what do i do???
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Hey Cabolee! You probably did something that made her think you are not caring when you were in secondary school. You can't blame her for referring to that situation. What you have to do right now is to prove to her that you have changed (that is if you have really changed). It is not by telling her that you have changed, it is by showing her. We hope this helps.
datz true
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WELL DIS IS IT. GALS ARE MENT TO B WELL TAKEN CARE OF.
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Tnks Rashi,wel am in secndri nd 17yrs.y did u sk, nd u?
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I asked cos i wanted to be sure you are mature for a relationship.Eazi,dont let this girl get in your way.I know it may be hard,but trust me,it will help you
if this girl is destined to be yours,she will be yours.Look,if you focus more on your studies,and by God's grace,you become great,rich nd successful,your girl will be the one to look for you
Eazi,if you truly want this girl to be yours,take her "no" as a challenge.Study more,focus more nd make it big so as to show her you ve gat some potentials
Am not trying to tell you hw to run ur life.Sorry if it seems lk it n pokenosing.Am only trying to give you my little orientation so dat u do what's right.Pls think about these,Eazi,pls.I trust you re mature enough to understand.If you ever need help on n issue,Rashidiana at ur service
Tnks Rash 4 ur concern
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Tnks Rash 4 ur concern
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No problem Chizzy.Just dont want you to get hurt.Always around if you need my help
Rash,u are such a caring fellow.
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You are the most caring,Chizzy.For understanding my points,TNX
Rashi,I pray 4 ur academic success.Keep doing good and good things will never depart ur way.
Rashi,pls don't be offended what tribe are U..
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I swear i will tell you Chizzy.But,first tell me yours nd why you asked.I will answer you after that.And which tribe do you think i may be?Be sincere
Rashi,may academic success be ur portion.Keep doing good and good things will never depart ur way.
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Thank you so so so much nd i wish the same nd more for you.But,why did you pray for me?pls tell me
I pray 4u bcos U are so much concern about de wellfare of others.i asked to know ur language bcos I want to know my friend's language.Well to be sincere,I'm igbo by tribe.
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I am also Ibo.Which state are you from?
sure Rashi,tnx 4 ur concrn, u r such a 9c gir.but u hvnt answd mind,r u stl n secndry nd possibly ur age.i wanna knw.
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Am i secondary.I am btw 13,14,15 years old.Tnx Eazi for understanding nd considering my points.I appreciate you a lot nd i luv you for that.TNX
Rashi,pls i wuld lik 2 knw u more dan i hv,mayb chat privately if u dnt mind,pls
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Are you on facebook?if yes,what's your username?
I dont mind at all.We can chat privately.But,why do you say you want to know me better?
rashidiana, i really lyk dis group it was jx recently when i came across it in mah phone, dearest rashi u ar a darling.... hope am free 2 ask questions i also want to knw u better! pls reply as soon as possible
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Yes Cleo.You are free to ask big sister or any body questions.Welcome
Hey Cleo dear
Hey,Rashidear, I'm 4rm Anambra.
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I want2 break up with my bf bcos I think he is a distracion.What do I do?
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Hey girl! All you need to do is to tell him you are not interested in a relationship anymore and do not be rude about it. Say it like you mean it and you really have to mean it. We hope this helps.
Follow whichever option u think is best
Yes! that is true
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Hi friends
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Hi
Hi girls
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Hey big sis,it's been long I heard from Rashidiana.I just want to know if she is alright.
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Hey Chizzy! We also have not heard from her too. We also hope she is fine.
Chizzy,i feel like crying.Tnx so much for asking about me.It means you care.I just cant find the right words to use,but all the same,tnx for caring this much
Tnx also big sister.I am fine,just not having space since school resumed.Tnx alot------
Am Matthew by name,I really love this platform. Am also new here
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Hi Mathew am Blessing by name am also new here
Hi guys am new here i hope am gonna get some friends
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Sure
I HAVE NO IDEA OF HOW TO GIVE MY APPRECIATION.BIG SISTER,GRACIE,CHIZZY BAE AND AS MANY WHO FELT CONCERNED ABOUT ME,THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH.MERCI BIEN.LOVE YOU ALL.TNX SO MUCH FOR YOUR CONCERN
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Hi Rashi how are you doing today
Fine.How are you Belove?
Hi baby Rash I,I don't know what is happening and am really really worried about you you haven't being text me back and I am feeling really is it because of school? I wish I am face booking,I would have text you there.Am really missing you pls text me back, love you Mon amie.
Hi Baby Rashi,I don't know what is happening and am really really worried about you you haven't text me back for long and I am feeling really sad,is it because of school? I wish I am face booking,I would have text you there.Am really missing you Mon amie!
Am cool how's things going
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Smooth
Hello Belove.Itz been ages.Where have you been.?Reply me
Its true...I have learnt a lot from my friends that are guyz
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Please i need advice i had a crush on my classmate for a long time and when i finally opened up he started keeping malice with me and i think he also likes me but he can't open up and tell me
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Hey Belove! He probably was not expecting it. If you are sure he likes you, try talking to him and ask him why he is keeping malice with you. We hope this helps.
I'm glad U are fine.Rashid,I wish U academic success.
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Tnx alot Chibae for your prayers.Also wish you same nd more
Thanks alot 4 the advice but h
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Thanks for the advice but he would not let me say anything to him i don't like it at all i no longer enjoy the class like before and he treats me like i don't exist am just tired of how he treats me
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Hey Belove! It is time for you to let him go then. Whoever or whatever will not make you concentrate in school, let it go. You are in school because you want to study. It will hurt but it is the best decision you can make. We hope this helps.
Thanks a lot big sister i think i should really let go
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That is the gospel truth guys
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Hey i'm new here and i'm getting more enlightened.thanks to you all for being the reason of my happiness.
Hey i'm new here and i'm getting more enlightened.thanks to you all for being the reason of my happiness.
My boyfriend gives me this kinda i dont care attitude nowadays i dont know wat to do about it and its hurting me
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Hey Ray-La-Cute! Have you tried talking to him to know what's wrong? He may just be angry about something you probably don't know about. So please ask him what's wrong and don't be rude while asking. We hope this helps.
My best friend his a boy
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most guys are generally emotional than girls.....girls are not always the emotional ones
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Doh my boyfriend is so loving
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Boys are good they don't get angry in a relationship but after their emotional feeling they just wants to be left alone.
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Yeah. I also have a bestie who is a boy, and the truth is, boys are really good friends than girls 'cos they understand the girls' feelings and would never want to hurt them...
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Marie u r rgt..
aawwnnn* i feel touched
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boys are realy gud frends dey can really keep secrets
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It true they are better at keepin secrets
Hi guys am new here and i will like ro make new friends
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Hey me too
I prefer boys to girls
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I prefer guys to girls
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Guys am jjc i ned frens to interact
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Being friends with boys is AWESOME! I so much enjoy their friendship, I learn alot from them,they can care, love, protect etc in fact I feel more safe with the real guys! They rocks!
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Hey Nellyfancy! Thank you for sharing this and for making other GEM girls know that not all boys are after sexual relationships. Indeed, some boys just want to be friends with you and they make good friends too.
My mom doesn't want to ever see me around boy's or make friends with them.
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Hey Soffi! Your mum are only trying to protect you. She loves you so much that she doesn't want to see you hurt. She probably feels you are not safe hanging out with the opposite sex. This is normal among parents, especially mums. Try to make her understand that you can be just friends with boys too. Also, you need to make her trust you and this means that you have to act right at home and at all times. We hope this helps.
I have lots of friends that are boys,l find them easy to talk to
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Keeping boys as friends is fun.
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Hi Mister smiling,yes is really fun to be friends with boys(I love been friends with boys )because they're caring,lovely and are very good at keeping secrets than the girls!
I love guy friends because they are secretive and more accommodating
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HI EVERYONE.HI GRACIE.MISSING Y'ALL.
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Hi Rashi baby!I really really really really miss you!oh my,pls tell me what stopped u from coming? I felt really bad when I saw you're no longer here!welcome!!!
Hey girl! We removed this message because you added some information
Sorry Gracie for not writing to you since.I was just upset that my last message had been removed.And you didnt message me either.Still waiting your reply.Message me back.Take kisses muahh------------ Missing you
Grace,where are you?Missing you
I like bios
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Bios?or boys?
Ma mum hates me talking 2 boys talkless of ha seeing deir numba on ma fone,ma fwends r mostly boys even ma snr sis kip boys as ha clz fwend we(ma snr sis nd i)stay away 4rm galz 2 us dey r evil buh am trying 2 remove d thought cos am a gal nd am proud 2 b 1💋👍
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Yeah..U should understand her reason before u emback on your decisions! its your Life
Girls! life without boys is useless same as girls that y God create male/female I love to share idea with both...Sometimes boys can be more caring than girl Girl is always lovely to be with..GEM Are mine right??
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Hey Grachi! Very true. We all need each other to have a functional society. Thanks for sharing this.
thanks for sharing this Grachi!
To me boys are more understanding than girls,in term of emotional feeling,in other words they quickly notice when ever a girl is hurt about something.
Yeah u r right :-* springster Danielle!
I know boys make good friends,my best friend is a boy actually and he's lovely
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Boys Are Good Companions.Most Of My Friends Are Boys.But My Family (mum Especially) Hates Seeing Me Around Boys.They Say Boys Of Nowadays Are Bad.But I've Not Seen Anything Wrong With The Boys I Move With.
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Hey Natty! Yes, it is love. Your mum is only trying to protect you. She loves you so much that she does not want to see you hurt. This is normal among mums. We hope this helps.
Sam wit me
HI FRIENDS AM NEW HERE,I WILL BE HAPPY IF YOU GUYS WELCOME ME
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Wow So Sweet Of Them
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Type your comment here..Hello guys i am new here,and i hope i am highly welcome.
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Welcome...:-* Danielle
Hy daniella,gud 2 hv u here
At my age must of my friends are boy bcause boy are careing than ladis
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Hi everyone am new here,hope am welcome.
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Hey me too
Boys tends to understand you most times than a fellow girl.
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Hmmmmm. I tink dahs wrong. Gals are more understandable dan bois
yes u are right mhizkira girls are understandable dan boys
Gud afternoon... Am new here!!....
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they maybe but i know that is not all men
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Gud morning am new here
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hello....i'm new here,
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Howdy am new here
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IS IT NOT STUPIDITY 4 A BOY 2 B BUSY LOOKING FOR ATTEN ION AND PAMPERING WEN HE IS EXPECTEDED 2 GO AND HUSTLE 2 TAKE CARE OF OTHERS?
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Hey Springster! That is rather a strong word to use and such words are not allowed here. Pampering and seeking attention is not bad as long as it is not affecting others. You may not like it but another may like it and it does not always affect how the boy works. Do not forget that hustling and working is not for boys alone. Girls should also work hard and hustle. We hope this helps.
U guys have all forgotten about me,no problem .how are U all,hope U are cool.
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Chizzy,itz not like that.God bears me witness that i was about to ask after you,Mr Eazi and Sexychick.
Welcome back Chizzy.Where have u been and how are u doing?Please write me back.
Hey Chizzy.Itz been ages.Where are you?
girls dont like to stay long with boys because its dangerous?
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boys are good nw
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I dont know wat am feeling if itz a crush or love or infactuation dat am feeling for 3 different boys? Wat do i do
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Hey Serena! We may not be able to tell you exactly how you feel about the 3 boys but we can tell you that you need to define what it is that attracted you to them. Search within and you will have the answers. We hope this helps.
I FELL IN LOVE SINCE I MET A GUY & IF HE SEES ME HE DO LICK IS LIPS ANS NOW
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If u are not careful he will rape u licking his lips doesn't meanse loves u he might just be trying to play u did type of thing happened to my very close friend
and i think its really tellin someone how u feel about them,and i mean the females folks,is not only the guys that do this,as a girl u can walk up to a guy if u think u need to do so,but most times some guys take that for granted
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Hey Lovett12345! You are very right Springster. Sometimes, it is the behaviour of boys that discourage girls from opening up to them. Thanks for sharing this.
please Big Sister,i need help.I can't get access to all the comments.I can only read a few Gracie,pls don't be angry that i have not written back to you.There is a problem accessing the comments Plzzzx,help big sister
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Hey Rashidiana! Try and refresh your page. All the comments are showing here. It may be network problem. We hope this helps.
Thanks alot Big Sister
pls help me with advice am 17 but afraid to date how can I get through
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Hey Winny! There is nothing to be afraid of girl. Fear can be distracting and can make you scared of dating. Sometimes, this fear goes when you see someone that you really like. So we advise that you calm down, see dating as a fun thing and do not be in a hurry or be under pressure to date. We hope this helps.
Winny,the fact that you are 17 doesn't give you an automatic ticket to start dating.Sometimes,one has to make a difference and not go along with the moving trend or train
Itz always best to do the right thing at the right time.Sweetie,you've gatta take things easy
Don't do things simply because itz somewhat in practice.If you are not ready to date,you don't have to date sweetie simply because other girls do so
Sweetie,do what you know is right.Just be patient,and i bet yal,at the right time,your destiny's gatta be right in front of you
Please to all the girls out there not all boys are the same it's just that you didn't meet the right guy for your type. And to the guys learn to be honest with the girl you are with.
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Hey Iam_esheno! Thank you so much for this. You are indeed very correct! Not all boys are out there to break hearts and take advantage of girls. We really appreciate this comment. Thanks for sharing.
We guys always wnt sumthin quality,nt fake.This is d right value we ought to possess.
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well not all guys are the same but because majority are bad thats why we girls think all guys are the same
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Am Crushng On A Guy I Dnt Knw If He Lyks Me Bt He Is Interested In Wat I Do And Lyk Doing
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Hey Fame! Crushes have a strong tendency of dying at some point (most times, when you get to know the person more). You can choose to let the crush die a natural death, get friendly with him (without telling him about the crush) or distract yourself by focusing on other things in school/extra curricular activities. It is all up to you. We hope this helps.
Type your comment here..u right making friends with boy is good because the two of u will learn from each other
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Boys are funny and caring too thats if u go close and understand them but sometimes they are troublesome
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You Are Right Boy Only Need Understanding If You Understand Them You Will Find Out There Are Cute
Some Boys
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They are not trustworthy
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no dear,u might be wrong, put yourself in their shoe's, am sure u will understand
Some of them r
Boys boys boys,that word looks so small but great.Boys are caring,loving infact there are alot of good things about boys,just try to get close to them,understand them,think with them,u will know that they are not bad.Although there are times u gonna have misunderstanding think that the guy uve known for a long time has turn out to be a stranger but No they are not cos boys likes to bottle up their feelings but deep down they are amazing
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Correct Nikkie
Nikkie,you're right and at the same time wrong bcoz not all guys are trustworthy
True and a lovely writeup I have 4 best friends and they are all boys
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I love playing with girls. reason being is that,girls are the only people who can tell you some true facts about life and also about them self. So most time i love playing around with girls.
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And most the time you spend with girls your fellow guy may be thinking that you are gay
You are gay ni no excuse
Boys are like their mothers,they are always there to help you out even if they don't know what to do they will always look for a solution just like our mothers do
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wow!!! I love dis group its good
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Not all boys ni
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Not all boys possess those features
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not al gils too
i believe boys make better friends than girls...most girls are gossips and betrayers
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tnk god u say most gils but nw our days boys do josip too
pls my dad dnt lk me mking frndz wit boy n i dnt knw wat to do
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Hey Lambert11! Some parents can be protective of their children like your dad and it is normal. What you need to do is to talk to your dad and make him understand that these boys are just your friends and nothing more. Also, before your dad will take you serious, you have some work to do which is to behave in a way that will make him trust you. You need to gain your dad's trust before he can freely allow you to be friends with boys. We hope this helps.
lambert why??
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ITS TRUE
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Exactly. even me i ikes been friends with girls it is a good thing
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Hiya big sis, I tld a frnd of mine dat I had neva crushed on a boy, nd she was like I didn't ve hormones...pls is dat possible? Cos I already feel weird
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Hey Toria! No dear, you are not weird. There is nothing wrong with not having a crush on anyone. It could just mean that you have not found your kind of guy yet. So do not be scared, you have hormones it's just that you have not found the kind of guy to crush on yet okay. Do not feel weird and do not force yourself to like anyone just to prove a point. Wait till you find the guy you will genuinely crush on. We hope this helps.
Lol...ur friend's idea is funny though.Actually,its a normal thing not 2 crush on a guy..u could b referred to as a lesbian but every one's gotta mind his /her bussiness.
Helpful
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Nice write up
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Indeed true..😊
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That's true
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Boys are weird
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Some of them aren't
boys can be really cool and silly too.....
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they are so sweet but some i dnt know what to say
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Kipin a male friend as a best friend is vry gud. Boys are gud, not all boys have same mentality. I luv my best friend(boy) bcus he's kul nd tells me tins d@ i nid 2 kno abut boys.
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Nice one dear,am Gloria, u?
That true yemi, I love playing with boys I learn alot from them .I prefer sharing my secret with a boy than a girl becos not all girls keep secret
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even my best fend is a guy,he advise me a lot
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Big sister please i need ur help.. M having a crush on a younger bro to my elder sister best male friend.He told me himself that he is having a crush on me but he can't date me bcoz he will soon be leaving for d university..I was really heart broken when he told me. Hav tried everything to put myself together nd get over my feelings for him bt its nt working. Pls hw do i get over him? Am really confused.
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Try things like talking with ur frends, playing ur favourite sport and other things that will help u take or mind of him.
Hey Gabrella! So sorry about this. Finding it hard to get over a break up can be hard but you have to be determined to let it go because it all has to do with your mind. You need a strong and worthy distraction like a productive hobby, your studies, a reading group or something that will keep you occupied. We hope this helps.
Gabrella,the feeling here is a crush,not love.If the guy is yours,he would have definitely gone for you.So Gabrella,let your man come for you.If he is your man,he will definitely come back baby
all boys ar nt d sme bt may av d sme behaviour As 4 me i dnt giv trouble nd i also lov playin wit girls especially wen it has 2 do wit d special ones
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Big sis im confused Early this year a guy asked me out. I didn't like him as a boyfriend so i refused. Just last month he asked my best friend out and she asked for advice not knowing he had asked me out. So i told her to say yes. I just didn't realise i had started having feelings for him. And now instead of being happy for them I'm jealous of them Please help me i don't want to ruin their relationship
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Hey Cutie! Thanks for opening up with this. You should take your eyes and mind out of their relationship so that you can focus. You said no to him and now that has passed so just allow them to have enjoy their relationship. Yes, it may be painful but it is one of those things you have to let go. We hope this helps.
big sis,a guy is already dating one of my friends but my classmates thinks he is dating me. what can i do? what if my friend gets 2 hear d rumour?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Anastasia! You need to tell them that it is not true. Also, they may be spreading this rumour because of how you interact with the guy. If you are too close or you flirt with him, you may need to stop or reduce for a while so that your friend doesn't think it is true. We hope this helps.
BIG SIS,CAN BOYS KEEP SECRECTS?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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yes some boys keep secret even more then girls
Hey OYIN4REAL! This is dependent on the boy you meet as people are very different. So you have to trust the person well before you share your secrets with him. Some boys may be good at keeping secrets while others may not be. We advise that you be careful with who you share your secrets with. We hope this helps.
attimes when i have boys as friends , big people see it in a negative way they will see you as the worst spoilt girl. i wonder if its a sin to keep male friends
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Ambella,it isn't a sin to keep boys as friends.But,if elders take it the wrong way,then its a duty to prove them wrong.How?By not behaving suspicious.Live your life and do the right thing
A boy I like kissed me although I gave him signs to do that and he's always looking at me. Does it mean he likes me?
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Hey Goody! We cannot say for sure if he likes you or not. Also, starring is not enough proof that he likes you. If you are bold enough, you can ask him but be careful because sometimes, words do not always count when feelings are involved. We hope this helps.
i have live all my lyf hating boys.i can't understand why dey treat girls lyk we are nt special also nd dey dnt care if we are hurt or not.or is it a mistake to fall in love?
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Hey Jodha! You do not have to hate anyone because they did not treat you special. Not all boys are the same. Remember, before anyone treats you special, you have to treat yourself special first. Love is not a mistake. The mistake most of us girls make is to look for someone to love us when we have to learn to love ourselves first. Girl, do not hate boys, rather, just learn to love yourself first okay. Don't worry, you are not alone in this. A lot of us girls are in this situation. All we need is to get the right mindset. We hope this helps.
I am 18 and I have a boyfriend... He doesn't pretend or make me uneasy ..am the one making things difficult for him by hating him unnecessarylily and always making him to beg and cry all the time... Do you think he really loves me?
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Maybe he does love u
Hey Annie! The question here should be, do you love him at all? If you really do then why stress and frustrate his efforts? We need to learn early enough not to frustrate the efforts of the boys in our lives. You already answered the question in the first sentence so what you need to work on is YOU. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
I like playing around with girls and I do buy their advice more than boy's
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but some guyz act stupid i love hanging around boyz but one guy is troubling me i dont want to date him i turned him down but he is proving stubborn big sis what should i do
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Hey Sweetie! The use of such language is not allowed here. Next time, use a non-insulting word to make your point. Now to your question, there are so many ways to turn a boy down and insults or aggression are not part of them. You can be very polite while making your point known to him. If he still doesn't listen, then cut all forms of communication with him. Maybe he'll take you seriously then. We hope this helps.
Guys are not the same that's true but I don't like guys the like nagging.... Some times annoying.. Oh my world!!! "that's terrible.. But the is this guy he's OK and I like him because he's cool understanding advice able..... And funny
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big sis.please they is this guy whom I love very much,but he don't seems to have any feeling for me,though he said he love me but I don't think he is saying the truth,I have tried to let go of what I feel for him,but the more I try the more I find myself loving him the more,what should I do?
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Hey Sharonbright! So sorry about this. Finding it hard to get over a break up can be difficult sometimes but you have to be determined to let it go because it all has to do with your mind. First of all, you need a strong and worthy distraction like a productive hobby, your studies, a reading group or something that will keep you occupied. Also, we are sure your parents are already very proud of you right now. Just keep being the bright and wonderful Grachi. We are also proud of you here. We hope this helps.
One of my best friends is a boy so....
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most gals bliv all boys ar d same,,,dae ar cheaters,heart breakers buh I disagree with dem,,cos am sure a guy wu really loves a gal and wu do anitin 4 ha isn't lyk daht.
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Even, boys are nice friends but in some cases. But what ever happens, love and trust is the store that can keep good friends.
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Why is it that it is disgusting forus boys to see girls mensturation
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Hey Alexco! There is nothing disgusting about periods (disgusting is not even the right word used to describe a normal phenomenon). It is part of a girl's life and growth. The blood that comes out of the body is the same blood that comes out when a girl menstruates. So this means that if you find menstruation blood disgusting, you should also find blood from an injury disgusting too. Besides, not all boys see anything wrong with a girl menstruating because they understand that it is a totally natural thing for all females. So we advise that you change that mindset so that it doesn't affect your relationships with females. We hope this helps.
The first day i met this boy he went to the toilet to check his face then came back and askedme some questions ofmy life. I like him but we live far from each other what do i do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Jp! We do not understand your question. Kindly explain better so that we know how to help you. We hope this helps.
I mean he likes me i like him i don't have his number but he has not told me how he feels about me niether have i, but i want us to get closer in a relationship but he lives afar from me what do i do to win him
hy I like two guys but I don't know wat to do d a I liked him first but I felt he didn't like me and d b he likes me and I do too but he feels I don't but he doesn't know I am pretending now d a is claiming he likes me but I don't know and dat he didn't know I liked him d b is a very jealous type he is not happy and I am not coz I truly like dey are best of friends and act like brothers but now dey don't talk to each other I feel its bcos of me wat do I do they think I am heartless
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Hey Favour! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You need to know what you want for yourself because you can never love 2 people equally. Also, it is really not advisable to divide two friends and cause enemity. We advise that you just let them go so that they can have their friendship back because if you end up with anyone of them, the other will never forgive you and they will never be friends again. You need to think well about this. We hope this helps.
Hi big sis. I was kissing with my guy. with blood coming out from my toothgum he did not notice and we both suck d blood. Does it mean if he has any disease dat i will contract it? Am so confuse since then.
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Hey Shine! It is never advisable for one to kiss with a sore in the mouth because there are chances of getting infections. But do not be scared. You may need to watch yourself for a while and if you feel sick or feel somehow (genuinely, do not let your mind play games with you) talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. Please and please, try not to kiss someone when you have a sore in your mouth or if they have a sore in their mouth too. We hope this helps.
Hello big sis, am 17, can i have a boyfriend at dis age?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Mimigold! There is no particular age for one to start dating. Dating has to do with maturity and not age. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurising you to do it. We hope this helps.
Hi sis is it gud for me to date some1 in my class nd is gud for me to be jealous when he and my clasmates play tnd n kis
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Hey Pammy! This is a personal decision. If you feel you cannot handle him talking to and playing with other girls then you should not date someone in your class because you will always be angry. However, you should note that dating someone does not mean that he shouldn't have other female friends. There is no need for you to be jealous if your boyfriend has female friends that you are sure that they are really just friends. We hope this helps
Hi sis at what age do someone have a boyfriend as a teenager
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I have the same question too
Hey Royalty and Aquila! There is no particular age for one to start dating. Dating has to do with maturity and not age. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurizing you to do it. We hope this helps.
when can I have a boyfriend?
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.hi big sis, I like two brothers, and they both liked me but 'one' decided not to show it but 'the other' shows it and when I and 'the other' are talking, 'one' gets jealous but I really like 'one'.
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Hey Indomie! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You need to know what you want for yourself because you can never love 2 people equally. Also, it is really not advisable to divide two brothers and cause enmity. We advise that you just let them go so that they can have their friendship/brotherhood back because if you end up with anyone of them, the other will never forgive you and they may never be close again. You need to think well about this. We hope this helps.
every human has feelings and they should be given full attention
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
hey big sis twin brother's do like me what should I do
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Hey Jozel! What you shouldn't do is to date 2 brothers. It is not the right thing to do. You can tell the brothers that you cannot date them because you do not want to cause enmity or jealousy between the two of them. Remember to be very polite when saying this. We hope this helps.
Thanks big sis u r so nice luv ya
I'm new here.
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Can't I comment anonymously here?
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Hey Toby! Yes, you can. There is an option to comment anonymously when you type your comment. Click on that option and your comment will appear as anonymous. We hope this helps.
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
I have a guy DAT I've had a crush on for a very long time. Can you call that love?
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Crush and love r 2 different things. A crush will die out after some period of time. So u can't really call that love
Hello bigsis i am new here hw do i make new frnds
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Am in love with a guy that he say he love me but am not sure that he loves me coz he always make me cry does not call or text me up to a month big sis does he love me
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No,i think dat kind of guy is shy of u
Hey Jaja! Thanks for opening up. Someone that loves you will always check up on you, call you or text you. He will also do everything possible not to make you cry. Please darling, do not allow anyone hurt you. Happiness is a choice and you are in charge of your happiness. We hope this helps.
Sis am datin sme1 in my clas he tries to be sweet nd romantic wit me bt am nt feelin any close conectn wit him wat to do
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MAY BE HE HAVE A CRUSH ON U AND YOU ARE NOT INTRESTED SO I THINK U SHOULD TELL HIM U ARE NOT INTRESTED BUT IS YOUR DISSION TO MAKE ANY ONE U CHOOSE TO PAYSON
All fingers re not d same - some boys can actually b trusted
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Your 100% correct
Boys are cool
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My best friend is a boy
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Boys are great. They understand people well. They make great deal of friend. I relate with boys well than guys with no strings attached.
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Hw do I no I guy loves u and is it good to have sex in relationship
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Hey Hannah! We cannot tell you how to know if a guy loves you, rather, you need to listen and pay attention to the way he treats you. For sex in a relationship, you have to be sure that you are ready for sex and the consequences (HIV, STDs, STIs, pregnancy etc). However, if you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps.
I am inlove wit my best friend nd he is a guy .he also told me he loves me but I don't wanna date im nau cus my friend has a crush on im....wah shud I do??
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Hey Tgurl! This is a personal decision. Since you said you are not ready to date, then be very sure of what decision you make now. Remember that your friendship with this guy is on the line so if you make a bad decision, you may loose your best friend too. We hope this helps.
Most of my friends are boys n they are fun to be with
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I had a male friend that's always there for me! But we had a misunderstanding and instead of him to call me aside,he turned it to an altercation...what can i do big sis?
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Hey Phunmex! If your friend is hot tempered, you should know how to talk to him calmly (afterall, he's your friend and you both have been communicating peacefully before this time). All you need to do is to talk to your friend calmly and let him know how his actions hurt you. We are sure he will understand. We hope this helps.
yeap bee you're ryt,bcuz not all of us (boyz)are hot tempered
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AM A GIRL & I ALSO THINK SO JOSSY IS NOT ALL THE BOY U ARE RIGHT
I alwys lyk 2 ply wit boi in my class but she of my classmate thinks i lyk them what should i do big sis??????
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Hey Kichikau! You need to tell them that it is not true. Also, they may be spreading this rumour because of how you interact with the guy. If you are too close or you flirt with him, you may need to stop or reduce for a while so that your friend doesn't think it is true. We hope this helps.
Big Sister is it good for me to be masturbating?
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Hey Benedicta200! Masturbation (especially among teenagers and girls your age) is normal because you are at a stage where you are trying to figure out your body and also explore. So many people your age do this so it is normal. Masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. We hope this helps
I don't want to fornicate but i still indulge in masturbating what can i do?
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Hey Alayo! Thanks for opening up with this comment. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps
Hey Big sis,I'm in love with my best friend how can I tell him?I need help
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Hey Tutu! Thanks for opening up with this comment. He is your best friend so should talk to him the way you normally would. Calmly… We wish you all the best.
What if someone u Hate that you can love never loves you with all his heart what do u do to let him down easy so his feelings are not hurt but u cant love him
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Hey Sam1! Thanks for the comment. You just need to be very polite when you tell him. He will be hurt, no doubt but it is better for you to tell him than for you to decieve him. We hope this helps.
Hi big sis, can i like a boy when i am just 14 yrs old
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A boy senior me with a class me wether we can be dating but i was shy, what should i do big sis
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Hey Roor! Dating has to do with maturity and not age or class. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurizing you to do it. We hope this helps.
Can admire turn to love
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Hey Roor! Sometimes, it can. We hope this helps.
Hi big sis.....what is the best way to keep expressing your love to your partner.. without sex
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Boys are not irritating As we are all aware we are not perfect neither are we complete as a being everything we do is to ensure we are at a safe arm we have feelings and we love but we were trained in an hard way yet we are the best friend ladies need for adequate security..
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hello, am a boy of 16, nd some times I feel like I need a girlfriend in my life..even if I try I dont know how to tell a girl how I feel.... I had a crush but I neva told her cuz I dont know how...wat should I do...
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Hey Zender! You need to know what you need a girlfriend for first of all. You should not go into a relationship because everyone is having a girlfriend. You need to be ready for the changes involved in being in a relationship and the likes. We hope this helps.
talking about men :-men are good to be with they help people around them, they are lovely, peace full to be with every thing about men is good
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Men are not all desame am a guy.i'll surely becôme a man nd i trust my feelings
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My boyfriend is not around and I miss him,so I keep imagining kissing him,is this right?
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yes its normal lover girl
I miss my bf tooo I really want to be close to him
A man want me to be his fri
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I think boys can make great friends too.My BESTIE is actually a guy and he has helped me a lot based on advice.I think guys are better friends than girls.
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Really!
My bestie happens to be a boy
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NICE ONE BENEY
Big sis a guy asked me out and i accepted him becos i luv him but i later find out dat he z datin wit other gals pls wat shud i do becos i stil love him
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Hey Pandora! Your decision is a personal choice but we advise that you should never settle to be the second option to a guy when you can be another guy's world. Do not allow the illusion of "love" stop you because the truth is that it is very hard to love someone that is hurting you. Let him go okay? You are too young to deal with this type of drama plus it is really not worth it. You will be fine dear. We hope this helps.
If is true u love him when or anything. u heard outside u will look like u don't known anything ,and u we continue shown ur love room u know when you're doing all this he consider you but don't force ur self him because the some boys that mow adays ate not at all u know
Maybe some boys are mean
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there is this guy I had a crush on him and I found out he also do have a crush on me ,I started seeing him I always find myself thinking of him so I hide it from my mom and everyone but I started feeling guilty so I pushed him away but now I feel like I did a bad thing because I hurt him what do I do
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Hey p.p! There is no harm in you talking to him again. Tell him you pushed him away out of fear and if he doesn't want to be friends with you again, take it in good faith (maybe he was just meant to be a crush and nothing more). Holding it in will only hurt you more. If you are close to your mum, tell her about it. We hope this helps
Hey big sis,what about a boy who pretend to be good,but want for other stuffs
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Hey Mai! That type of boy should be avoided immediately. If he is only trying to use you then you shouldn't be around him. Stay safe and be careful. We hope this helps.
I had a crush for over two years but when he found out dat I had crush on him,he totally ignored me and we never had a disagreement before
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Hey Haryormeyteydey! He probably did not feel the same way about you. So sorry dear. We hope this helps
Same with me it was so annoying but the good part is that we are still good friends
Yeah thanks
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Boy friends are d best
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Boyfriends are super cooooool!!!!!
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boy friends are wonderful
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I think so
Thanks for that Ella.
In terms of jovial and liveliness boys carry the highest percentage.
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ok,how about boys cheating and lying in relationships always?
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Hey sharmine! These category of boys should be kept at a distance. However, you need to be sure that you are not assuming that the boys lie and cheat. You have to be very sure. Remember that not all boys lie and cheat too. We hope this helps.
Cn u be frnd i wil nt cheat u
Boys ar better friends.My bestie is a guy and i do tell him what i cant tell my parents,he always advise me on what 2 do
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That cool.
Big sis! Can we friends? As in me having your cell phone number.
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Hey Gau! We are already friends but we can't share any phone number here. Thanks
Ofcourse boys are alot like girls. They've got that soft spot too. It's just a pity some boys send the wrong message.
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Guys are the best to stay n share experiences togeda...I love being wid dem
MY BEST FRIENDS IN THE WORLD ARE GIRLS
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Boys are nice and fun to be with they can make you laugh even when you are angry
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All true
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My bestie is a guy and most of my friends think it's absurd
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Hey 2002! There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a guy as your bestie
I think there is nufn bad in that
Must of the boys are good in terms of relation but they are difficult in terms of handling their wifes
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i always feel very free stayin an charttin wit a guy
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Hey spingster,am new here....what you said just give me a remembrance of my erstwhile girlfriend which at the inception of our love,she made me cry and also when she left,huhn that took buckets of tears from me....and I also think ever since she left me it hasn't removed an iota from her and I also have to summon moi courage and Moooooovvvvvve oooooooonnnnn...........
Boys Are Good In Growing A Very Good And Admirable And Health Relationship Wit People Surrounding Them Especially Wit Girls
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Not all guys are like dat. Most boys are just flirts , all they need is to tap and leave.at first they act all nice and loving then when they have gotten wat they wanted they start to withdraw and later start using u as a topic of discussion amongst their friends
Hey Favour! That is not true. There are so many nice, genuine and trustworthy guys out there. So it is not "MOST" guys that are bad. Having this type of mindset towards guys will affect communication and your relationship (even friendship) with them. Princesse is correct. We hope this helps
boys only reflect whatever light u throw at them. show them care, and it will be reflected. show them distrust, it will also be reflected
I totally agree with you Favour,but,I'd also say that not all boys.And Koko,some boys possess that attitude,not all
As for me, i'm simple and easy going. Most of my friends are girls, i loved company with girls.
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thats nice of you
I'm amiable young man I love everybody that comes my way I live a simple life
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really
NICE ONE HANDSOME I THINK U A GENTLE TYPE
as for me,i love been around boys because i learn alot from them in terms of good relationship
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NICE ONE BUEATY
as for me,i love been around boys because i learn alot from them in terms of good relationship,i think they dont have any trouble.it depends on the kind of person u met as a friend
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YES I THINK SO BEAUTY
yh i luv dat
hi big sis please wat cn i giv my bf as a birthday gift
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Hey Springster! This is a personal decision. We cannot tell you what to buy for your boyfriend. Just work within your budget and buy what you think he will like. We hope this helps.
Big sis is it a bad tin 2 av boy frnd
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Hey kali! This is a personal decision. We hope this helps
I'd say it depends on your age,maturity and level,and also about your intentions for going for one
Big sis bt not all boys ar lyk dat lyk me am very 9ice and gentel
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Hey Yama! We never say that boys are the same and we know that you guys also have feelings which is why we wrote this article to make girls understand this. Yes, Yama you are very different.
Thanks 4 d advice big sis,luv u
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You're welcome dear. Big sis loves you too.
They Are cheater's and bad to me. Thanks 4 d advice sis
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Hey Springster! Not all men cheat. The fact that some of the men you have met did not keep to their promises does not mean that all men do that. Remember you have met only less than 1% of the men in this country. Another thing is that when you put too much expectations in men too to avoid getting disappointed. We hope this helps
they are liar
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Isla please not all are
Boys are great!
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yes that's correct boys are great
BOYare cute ,nice and lovely only if you get to know them more but remember not all.
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its a lie
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Men have hearth too but for some experience has made them bury it not that it's not there.
Hello Kimdiva! Why do you think this is a lie, share your reasons with us so we can respond. Thanks.
Sincerely I am a close example to all this told a female friends once that I still cry on matters her kid sister was like 'what' I simply said am also human. Slot of girls think they know all guys simply because of the few once they have meet and are disappointed
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What can we do to knw d true one,in girls and boys?
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Hey Ayankojo! Before you can know the true one, you have to be the true one first. Remember the law of attraction that says like attracts like? We are always so bothered about getting the right person and we tend to forget to be the right person for the person we want to be with. So we advise that you work on yourself first and then the true person will come along
boys re much more caring than girls
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HELLO EMZY NOT ALL
I think guys re funny nd nyc if we knw dem beta
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scared of talkin 2 my mom about love nid help
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Hello dear...i'll suggest you start by telling her you have a burden and believe me mum are always so caring and ever ready to listen to their children tell them their problems and by paying attention to you,you just have to gather momentum and tell her your problems...no offence pls.....I hope this helps.
Hey khuty! Thanks for the comment.All you need to do is to talk to her. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. From this, you can now easily chip in boys and love into the conversation. Please note that all of these cannot happen in a day. You are building a relationship so it may take some time We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
Khuty,i know of someone who is in the same dilemma as you,tryin to get her mom to trust her but it's just not working.If your mom is not the harsh type,you can go ahead with Dopeman and Big Sister's advice.But when you try and she still aint ready to take you speaking about love
Then wait to come of age when she's ready to give you freedom over yourself.It aint easy you know,tryin' to tell your mamma about your private life and she aint ready to understand,i understand all that.But,while you keep trying,take care not to be too fast.Everything's gonna take its turn babe
i was passing by one day on the highway so it was raining so i bumped into a girl she was sheivering and feeling cold and she was confuse so i gave her my jacket so that she should cover.not all boys can stay withoit caring for somebody and thats why i do love for someone to care for me the same i can care for someone
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Hi Xilverprince! Thanks for sharing. We certainly hope everyone gets someone who cares about them, both boys and girls. Also, we believe it is great that you care about people around you and acted this way to the girl you met in your story. Treating everyone like you would like to be treated is part of what makes people great :)
boys cheat on girls
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Why do u say so?
I guess you've been hurt Clarnita.It's understandable if thats the case.But,no matter what,when the time comes,you still need to give them a chance Nita,okay??If you need someone to talk to,Rashidiana's available
Please Ooh Clarnita,,,, Where Are U Exactly Talking Frm Dear? And What Are Ur Reasons 4 Sayin That.
men are nice and carin as well as women bt the problem is dat women only care 4 thereself they dont care 2 knw hw the boy feel or do
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True Talk, Not All Guys Are The Same. I Am A Female However My Best Friend Happens To Be A Guy And He Is The Most Amazing Person I Have Ever Met
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yes is true nt all guys are d same but it is hard 2 find good one
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Not all guys are the same I have a child hood friend who is a boy and he has never disappointed me
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Nt all guys er d same anyway... Am different das y my bae prefrr me dan you...
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Boyz can be amazing
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Yes my bestie is a boy
guyz what's going on here???
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Meaning???
i just want to know because am new here
Okay.Welcome here first of all.Secondly,here,you read a story,comment or raise suggestions.Its very educative here.Welcome
yer i agree boys can be made ones best friend likewise me cause i learn alot from them
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nice one....wish to hav a good one
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#Reply May God grant you your wish. #XXX
Help!! Is it okey to date someone out of pity or will it be fair to break it and be called a heartbreaker? I really need your help
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#Reply Dont!...what's your motive if u do that, girl... *Don't* date out of pity...it might even *HURT* you. #XXX
Hey Onica! It's better to be called a 'heart breaker' than to be in a sad relationship because you want to please someone. Never be in a relationship if you are not interested in being there. We hope this helps
Yes Onica.Anonymous and Big Sister are both right.But when refusing the proposal,be careful to do so in such a way as not to hurt the person or yourself.Kkkk,sweetie??
'Yup! *thumbs up* #FaCt Great job!
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Hey friends and Big Sister.It's been ages,am sure am forgotten. Pls friends and Big Sister,there is this guy who virtually all my classmates say loves.He told me also and i told him i can't love him back coz i don't want a boyfriend now.He almost burst into tears but i told him we're cool as friends.I have never kissed a guy before.Big Sister and friends,will it be right for me to give my first kiss to my friend like him who isn't my boyfriend???????Pls,help
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Hey Rashidiana! OMG! We really missed you here. Welcome back, we hope you are here to stay now. This is a personal decision for you to make. Some girls choose their best friends over boyfriends, some don't but it is totally up to you and how comfortable you feel. Just make sure it is someone you really trust. We hope this helps. Once again, welcome back girl!
Tnx a billion Big sister,first for your advice,then for welcoming me.Am sorry for thinking i was forgotten.Please,forgive me
Please Big Sister,do say hi to Grace,Chizzy and Sexy Chick for me on any other story you see them.Pls,tell them,especially Grace,that i'm active on this story and i miss them like crazy.Tnx for your advise.Love you Sis
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Hey Rashidiana! You're welcome. No problem girl, we were never angry with you. Never have been, never will be. Love, Big Sister
Tnx a million Big Sister for your help
Hello,,,,, Friendx Am Here Ooh Please Am I Welcomed.
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Sure.Welcome
YOU ARE WELCOME DEB
Big sis tanx 4 replying my question.tank u so much.i luv dis grp.
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Hey Vicpet! You're welcome
Yup,guys are totally simple and awesome
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Hey!big-sister,there was a person,he was lyk a master to me nd we are a chorinstar nd out ten of us he lyk chooseing four pple out of us nd i was lyk practise make perfect,if he started choosing us too we can be gud lyk other but he continue doin d same thing nd due to dat, i was rude to im resently nd i told my mum nd ask me to beg im nd i do so but doen'nt came frm my mind but nw ave makeup my mind to write a letter of withdrawer.should i go on wit or nt.pls big sis i want ur advise.
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Hey Vicpet! Thanks for the comment. Being rude to him was bad on your part. Your mum was right when she said you should apologize. Now, quitting will not make you learn anything. Do you know that people also learn by watching others do it. You can practise what the others have been doing on your own. Being rebellious is not good. People who rebel do not learn. Why don't you go to him privately and tell him that you really want to learn how to sing and you will appreciate if he gives you a trial. Tell him you won't dissappoint him and make sure you do not dissappoint him really. Leaving the group will not do you any good. We hope this helps
Big sis I luv to make friends wit boys rather dan girls hope am save wit them
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Be careful with the type of guys u make friends with.Secondly,dont make too much of male friends or u might fall into danger.Thanks
Hey Meme! Thanks for the comment. Boys can be good friends too but you have to be careful. Not every guy has good intentions. Watch before you make friends. We hope this helps
Hey Nwachi! Thanks for the comment. We all have to be careful of the kind of friends we make (both male and female). Sometimes, having too much female friends too can put one in danger. Not all boys are dangerous. There are actually some really good guys out there. Thanks
Pls wot am i expected of to doto show my love to a girl i love with all ,y heart but if appears that she is falling for my best friend.Wot will i do to make her love me instead of my best friend?.
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Hey Nwachi! Love is a personal decision. We cannot tell you how to love someone. Everyone has their own unique way of showing love. For your girlfriend, you cannot force her to love you if she doesn't have feelings for you anymore. It is her choice. Forcing her will only make her decieve you. If she no longer loves you, let her go. We know it can be hard and painful but it is better than her decieving you everyday. We hope this helps
Tank u so much big-sis,i appreaciate ur advise.Tanks alot am greatful.
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Hey Vicpet! You're welcome dear.
but bigsis some of pple he use to choose are alway rude also,y did he overlook there own.
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Hey Vicpet! It is his personal decision. We cannot say why he still chooses people that are rude. You do not have to be rude or force him to select you okay? We hope this helps
Ya. I totally agree with everything you've said. Guys are great people to relate with. All we need is to attatch caution while relating with dem.
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To my own understanding i think d reason y THEY say that boys should not play with girls is because ; Some boys 're not trustworthy. Most criminal vices are surrounded with boys especially rape robbery & cultism. Boys are seen to be tricky by Parents because it is believed they can corner girls in quite place. It is mostly believed that they are more stronger & can overpower girls 4 rubbish. MANY MANY MANY REASONS
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I don't concur
Boys Are Heart Minded,So Chill With Them.
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I am bad @ making friends and I am very lonely most times people say I am very snobbish and proud I am very confused
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Hey Ejire333! We totally understand how you feel but if you feel lonely, it's time to make some friends! You can start by smiling more often, saying hi to people you think will be friendly and so on. You do not need so many friends right now. Start with a few and we hope this helps
Ples help i like a gal in my street but i didnt no hw 2 express my feels 2 her
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Hey Skyboi! Thanks for the comment. You can start by being friends with her. Talk to her about random things happening in the area. Be her friend. It all starts from there. We hope this helps
it is good to making friend with girl
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Ye it good becourse girls are friendly then boys
To me boys are not that despirate many think that they are becourse in any situation whiat is to ACT LIKE A MAN !
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Well boys can be funny
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My Bf is the most wonderful person on earth,He's not troublesome, and he loves learning new things...
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Nyc
Nyc to hear
How do I know a boy likes me when he has not talked to me
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Hey Springster! There is no manual to know whether a boy likes you or not. We hope this helps
Pls i hav feeling 4 2 girls and am yet to chose pls i need help
How do I start talking to a boy I like but he has never talked to me
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U can simply say hi and if he ignores u let it go
Boys are nice to make frnds wit but b watchful for dem not to take advantage of u
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If i talk to a boy every one say im in love wit them
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Those are just judgmental idiots. I have more friends that are guys than girls. If you wanna be friends with a guy, go ahead. It's not like you're not going to marry a guy who isn't your friend
Those are just judgmental idiots. I have more friends that are guys than girls. If you wanna be friends with a guy, go ahead. It's not like you're not going to marry a guy who isn't your friend
yes Hikmat is true dere are some stupid people dat tink dat way mostly wen dey see u talkin together
boyz re good,kind nd caring when u get to knw them well also wit girls
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i have a boy who is my friend i like calling him bestie but my friends say dat he is my boyfriend dat am just usin the word Bestie to cover up plz wat should i do to make them believe dat he is just a friend and a brother to me and not a boyfriend
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it depenend on how bott of u do in they stree ..what to do is just take it lyk that .co's any tin u do peppl must talk.
yea its true anything you do dey talk the worst part is weather is true or not dey still talk
boys dont love with their heart.when every they tell you i love it means to have sex with you.boys are telented in liyin
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yea but the are some boys dat do love sincerely but those kind of boys are hard to find dis days
Hey MEEKY! Not all boys lie and not all boys are all about sex. You should never generalise and judge people. Springsters should not do that. You have met just less than 2% of the number of boys in the country so it's better for you not to judge because you have not met a larger number of boys. Thanks.
yea big sis is correct o
yea u right blizzy02
Some says boys are not caring,but not all of them,some are loving and caring
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The problems is that, all the girls and boy,they nt like to take cousaltetiong from each order,
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some say boys easily fall in or hav taste fpr sex but still somehow dey are d best
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DAT'S NICE
some say boys easily fall in or hav taste for sex but still somehow dey are d best
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Big sis,pls how do i know if a guy is no longer in love with a girl or if he loves a gal plz help me out
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The moment he's not in love any longer, here are what you observe He will always want to be lonely He will be sad with everything , even though he'll try to hid it from friend. He'll avoid too much conversation with friend. And move on very fast
Hey Bharsha! @Wildboy has said a lot of things that are correct. If a boy stops loving you, you will notice it in his attitude and behaviour. The signs will be clear except if you aren't paying attention. We hope this helps
Boys can be good friends, i
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but do u knw there ar som boiz dat only wot dey want z touch ur b**bs or b*tts but i av there ans #hotslap#
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#findyourlevel
Hey OLATBABE! We see that you are strongwilled. However, violence is never the way out. You can prove your point without getting violent. We hope this helps
i have a gud male frnd. bt his pretty annoying sometyms sha.
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But can a boy be ready to sacrifice everything for his poor female friends
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Hey Eni115_! This is personal and also depends on the individual. We hope this helps
Big sister At what age can a boy be able to Impregnate a woman?
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Hey Mark! Thanks for the comment. This can be done when boys begin to produce sperm in their semen. This generally begins when they start puberty. However, we advise that if you must have sex, you should always use a condom to avoid getting infections. Also, always get the consent of your partner. If she does not agree to have sex or get pregnant for you and you go ahead, you are committing a crime. You also need to be financially and mentally ready to take care of a baby yourself before you start. Finally, talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
It's true boys can be real buh some of them can be something else o
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boys are not d same some are carin and some are nt at all bt we must be friendly with them
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yes is true but not all of them
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I hav affection 4 2 girls and am yet 2 discern d 1 i love pls help
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Hey Springster! It is up to you to make up your mind on what to do. We cannot choose who you will date. Think about it properly. Pay attention to know who it is that you love more. We hope this helps
I have a gf every time she feel jealous that anytime I chat her sister and she laughed she will say am dating her sister...... She always fight me every time on am dating her friends or her sister.... I don't even no wat to do
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continue chattin wit her sis,since der iz notin between u 2 den dnt give up on ur gf
Hey Joseph11! Thanks for the comment. Your girlfriend does not like the fact that you chat with her sister and friend. You may want to reduce the way you chat with them especially if you met them through her. This is so that she can feel safe around you again. We hope this helps
Yea ! I also have such problem
Big sis at wat age z a girl ready for a relationship with a boy
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Hey jennie! There is no particular age for a girl to start dating. It is totally up to her readiness for the responsibilities of being in a relationship. We hope this helps
Hello big sis.,I want 2 post a comment on my issues BT it not loading, it say it contains personal contact or profanity,but not.
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Hey BMW545i! That means your comment contains words that are not allowed on this platform. Please check and be sure there are no bad words there. We hope this helps
Please big sis .I foumd my self in love with three girls I don't no what to do
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Hey Springster! You cannot be in love with 3 girls at time. You cannot love more that one person equally. You need to find out which one of them you genuinely love. It will take a lot of your time and energy. We hope this helps
Hi big 6*,there was a girl disturbing saying "i love you" always and also gave me her number to contact but i have not see her before and she said she is also in town i'm living,i have done some research and found that her sisters are my friend whose i have talk to before to date me and refuse but we are still friend...what may i do or say to the girl chasing me?
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Hey Omotayo2001! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and it is up to you to decide what to say to the girl. We suggest you get to know her better before you jump into a relationship with her. Also, you should let her know what happened between you and her sisters (you asking her sisters to date you before) so that she doesn't get to find out much later. In all, do not be in a hurry. Take your time and do not be in a hurry. We hope this helps
Thanks big sister,i really appreciate your advice,i don't think of doing this before, you are now directing people to the right part, May God also direct you and be with you+your family.
But big 6*,should i also inform her sisters about it?
Hello big sister,there was this girl i lv so much back in my sch days but after things doesnt go well for us to date for long due to lack of understanding, she later said she can't date smone from another relig.she broke my heart to d extent I found it difficult to lv any girl since then.n again I do indulge in masturbtn to reliv pent up Urge's. Pls what do u think is d reason i find it difficut to lv a girl so diply as her.n what can I do.
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Hey BMW545i! Thanks for opening up through this comment. The decision to love is totally up to you. Yes, heartbreaks are painful but holding onto it is even more painful and bad for you because it will hold you down. You need to make up your mind that it is time for you to love again because even the girl in question has moved on and is enjoying love somewhere. Do not make this allow you to miss out on amazing people out there. Get talking to people, smile more, be friendly... It may be hard to trust but with time, you will get over it. The only thing stopping you now is YOU. We hope this helps
Hey Bmw Luk U Don't Judge Odas 4 1 Persons Mistake,go Out Der Get Talking Make Nw Frnds Only Wen U Open Dat Woumd Again Will It Heal Completely Though Der May Be Scars N Try Distracting Urself Xo U Don't Hv Tym To Masturbate :)
Hello big sis there is this girl I admire so much and I want her to be ma date bt ivfound out she's an orphan and she needs som1 to advice her abt life and I thought it wise to help her go close to ma mum so dat she can feel not left alone and also learn somtinz from ma mum bt ma mum said she dislikes d girl so I got angry wit ma mum.xo big sis pls wat should I do now
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There is this girl I love so much and want to date. She likes me too but I don't know how to tell her my feelings or ask her out because she's older. She's beginning to think I don't like her and that's not true. What do I do?
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tell her before it will b too late u DT expect girl to tell u such is u dat will do dat
Hey Springster! You have the final say but you need to be sure that she really likes you. Another thing is are you comfortable enough to date someone older than you? If you are, then go ahead but if you are not, do not bother because you will have issues while in the relationship. You need to think about it well enough. We hope this helps
She does love me but I don't know how to tell her. She wants me to do so face to face and this is my first time. She's the first girl I truly ever loved.
hey big sis,i have a boyfriend nd i truly love him,on a particular day i read his chat with my blood sister,d chat contain things a sister isnt meant to say abt u nd nw my sis asked him to break up with me,he hasnt done it yet bt everytin in our relationship has changed,i dont know wat to do or say to my sis
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Hey mide03! That must be really hard for you to take in. We are so sorry about this. You need to be very calm about it. First of all, you will talk to both of them and you will have to be very polite about it. Let them know that you are aware and just find out why they both had to say that about you. If you do not ask, you will keep wondering and hate may begin to develop from there so it is best that you ask questions (politely). We hope this helps
To have a boy as friend is better than having girl as friend because girls gossip a lot
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xally... most of the girls I don't speak with spread rumors about me having sexual affairs with them .. who does that
Hey Haryormydey and Heypriel! Not all girls gossip so it is not good to generalize. There are some amazing girls out there that are good friends and do not gossip too. We hope this helps
this is just like a real life of every human and i think everybody deserve nothing but respect and a proper care cum equal treatment.
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my boyfriend promise never to have sex with me and am glad pls i want to knw if a guy can still love her bea without asking for sex
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Hey Springster! Yes, it is very possible to stay in love with someone without having sex. Please note that sex IS NOT love. We hope this helps
YES.its rare but real,there are still decent men out there,that i am sure of.
boys do like sharing for instance my boy can give me anything without demanding from him but his a boy with a good moral behavior he cares for me slot especially when I'm unhappy
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Hey Ruth! That's great to hear. Also, note that being in a relationship is not all about just collecting. You should also learn to give so that there will be a balance. Thanks for sharing this
but boys in my school do not do positive things .
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Hey Afro! We are very sure that there are some boys in your school that do positive things. All boys are not and cannot be the same. Maybe you should make new friends and see that not all boys are the same. We hope this helps
I THINK THAT BOYS ARE NAUGHTY MOST TIMES A GUY FROM THE PARK GRABBED MY WAIST IN THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD, AND WE'VE NEVER MET BEFORE
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Hey CHOMMY! Thanks for the comment. These guys are just nasty. They tend to take advantage of every girl they see on the road. This doesn't mean that all guys are naughty. We know it's hard but we advise that you try as much as you can to avoid routes that you find these are guys but it's best not to assume that all guys are the same. We hope this helps
I don't actually knows what wrong but am finding it hard to fall in love with any girl .....Sometimes I do see some of them don't have the qualification am looking for in a girl because some of the girls nowadays are not ready for a real relationship .just looking for a boy who serves as their ATM machine ...I can actually tells you am 18 years of age an haven't date any girl b4
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Hey Ayomide! Nothing is wrong with you. Like you said, you just haven't found that girl has the qualifications you want in a partner. The ones you have seen may just be about the money but this doesn't mean that all girls are the same and also after that same thing. You haven't met up to 1/3 of the girls in this country so it is not advisable for you to generalize. Not so girls are the same! We hope this helps
Thanks sis for the advice
Guy you are too small to date sef. lolz😀😀
I have this girl I love so much right from high school.I find it so difficult to tell her my feelings ever since I hurt her out of maturity,she fought me then Tho we've reconcile and become best friends but I don't konw how to tell.Whenver I remember what I did then,I feel so bad and downcast... Give a help pls
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Hey BabyBolu! Thanks for the comment. Talk to her and apologise again. Maybe this will make you feel better. If it doesn't, maybe it is your mind making you feel guilty and you will have to make a conscious effort to let go of it. We hope this helps
I Myself Do Share Some Of My Pains With My Friends Which Are Boys Cos I Do Get The Best Advices..
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Firstlady, I think you are a stubborn type, it take two to tango
U kw wat, most times u mingle amongst guys as friends, ull notice wen dey talk abt dier luv life ull to kw how guys react to some situation.
They have great understanding and compassion.
They have great understanding and compassion.
Hi Big Sis..There Was This Guy Who We've Bin Dating For The Past Four Years Now, He Do Spent For Me Alot, And He Do Tells Me Dat M D Lady He Loved The Most Among The Ladies He Has Met Befor And This Days Now I Cudn't See His Mesg Nor Call To Ask For My Wellbeing So I Challenged Him Through A Text Mesg That You Can't Even Ask About Me By Text Or Call And His Respond Was Like Why All This Now So Please Big Sister Those This Means He Rili Love Me?
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Hey Firstlady! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Do you love this guy? Because it seems like you are with him for what you are getting from him. Nothing stops you from calling him and asking him what happened instead of sending a challenging text to him. You should apologise to him and then be sincere to yourself, do you really love him? Being in a relationship is not about only taking, you should also give. We hope this helps
Thanks Big Sis Fot The Advices I Do Loved Dis Guy Very Well And It Seems Am A Shy Type That Can't Speaks Out My Mind Out Buh Through My Reactions That Why I Didn't Cal Him Coz M Nt @ Faults
yea... big sis is right, learn 2 apologize 2 ur boyfriend
Thanks Big Sis En Mhiz
Relationship is not about proving your self right. Sometimes accepting the fact that you are wrong even when you are not shows you value your relationship more than your ego.
there is a guy I'm dating he's always asking for sex but I refused cause I'm a virgin, so I broke up with him like 4 times he do comes back nd beg me that he won't ask for it again that we should continue our relationship nd i accepted him.... he said he dont want to loose me, i don't know if he's only after my virginity, help pls.
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I think you should not accept him again He's just after your virginity that's all
Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Sex is not a proof of love. If you are not ready for sex, do not let anyone put you under pressure for it. You need to be very careful with this guy. Also, do you love him? Search within and be very sincere about this. We hope this helps
I don't av any single feelings for him again. he's too embarrassing he will be begging me in public, he always want everyone to that we are dating, I'm tired of him
Boys can keep secret
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hi big sis,pls my boy friend never call me,we only chat once in a while did he really love me,he is in school but we are not in the same sch
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Hey damola! Thanks for the comment. Do you also call him and keep in touch with him? Being in a relationship is not all about the guy calling and keeping in touch. It's a 2-way thing. Call him and find out why he stopped keeping in touch. We hope this helps
Am in a relationship with the guy am in love with but we are not staying in the same area what should i do?
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Hey Smart25! We have already replied this question in the other article. Please go over to it and see the response. Thanks
i love my boyfriend so much bt how can i knw if he loves me 2?
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Hey mhiz! We have written an article for that called "Does he like you?". Please search for it on the site and read it. It will answer your question. We hope this helps
ur bonds and understandings will tell u give u dat answer,let ur heart,observance and understanding tell u.
boys dont keep one girl as a girlfriend. why dat?
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Hey mhiz! Thanks for the comment. This is not true. Not all boys are like this so please do not generalise. There are so many boys that are faithful and honest. We hope this helps
That's a good reply @big sister. Though @Mhiz you are right but all guys ain't same. Most of the guys who do it mainly want sex not love.
Wat if u luv ur man & he doesnt care, he toils wit ur feelings & hurts u wit words not caring how much its hurts u, & he frames u up by creating a story u didnt even act in as a cast & makes it looks real like u did, wat should d partner do?
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If you can't bear it.... d best option is to let go rather than being hurt all the time
Hey BAE! Then that guy does not deserve you. You deserve better than that. No one should ever be in an abusive relationship. Please end it and walk away from that relationship immediately. This is for your own safety because if he treats you like that now, then he can do worse. We hope this helps
You never can tell, all guys ain't same. Some have feelings while some don't. Just that the way they express it differs.
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Boys are good friends,for me like hanging around with boys rather than girls,cos they are source of encouragement.it is not all about dating them,but having a free mind of friendship. For most of exams i have been encouraged by boys to take, and they have confidence in what i can do, beta than my female friends.
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boys is LYK a coin, dey re boys BT dey have a different image
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WAT IF UR GIRLFRIEND IS D MIND BHIND EVERYTIN C
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As for me, boys can maintain good relationship if d partner really love him
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aw afraid talk to giqls help pz
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True talk goodness add me on Facebook. Ugbani goodluck
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right and good word man are meant to be care for
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Guys have feeling
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Some boys are'nt reasonable; sometimes they dont reason before they take some steps and thats why they find themselves in a mess they did'nt even dream of.
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hi big aunty,am having problems with talking to girls,I can't even toast anymore,no matter how hard I try,I still find it very difficult to say anything even when I have love for them,what surprised me most is that I wasn't like this before,but am still surprised why I can't do that anymore.pls advice me
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Hey kingcypher! Thanks for the comment. Have you had a bad experience with a girl before? This could be the cause. If you haven't then you may just be experiencing self-esteem issues or it could just be that you have not found that one girl that you really like. What you can do is to try and make friends with the girls before you start toasting. This way you build a bond and you also get to predict whether or not she will say yes or no to you. This is a safer and better way to get closer to a girl and to get to know her better. We hope this helps
Big Aunt yes you are very right,I was humi lated in the previous relationship I got involved in.I encountered so many insult,lack of respect and bad attitude from the girl I dated then and now am finding it difficult in getting another. so confused that at this my age I don't even have a girlfriend.and no courage to even talk to any or look them in the eyes
Hey kingcypher! Now that we know the source of the problem, it will be easier for you to get over it. The first thing you should know is that humiliating experiences happen to everyone but it is how you handle it that really matters. We have all had that moment at some point in our lives so you need to let go of that bad experience you had. Remember that you cannot forget about your past if you refuse to leave it behind you. The best cure is for you to make up your mind to move on. We hope this helps
Girls ar to be pampared like an egg
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to tell you truth I personally lo
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What are the 5 important tips in relationship?.....
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Hey Enistory! Thanks for the comment. Every relationship is unique and what works for one may not work for the other. The 2 most important things for every relationship is for you to be sure that you are physically, mentally and emotionally ready for a relationship. The second thing is that you need to know why you are in the relationship with the person. Is it because of pressure or because you like the person enough to be in a relationship with him or her. We hope this helps
Hey bigsist.....there is this girl I dated sometime ago....I stop the relationship just because I'm facing some terrible issue .wish I don't want here to be involved .. and she also loose my contact.....but we never breakup,and since then have never move into any other relationship and now i think have overcome the issue......so I eventually saw her somedays back and i have to ask her about our relationship so she was now telling me that she still love me but she don't wanna cheat on her new boyfriend..... please What am I to do?...
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Hey Enistory! Thanks for opening up through this comment. She obviously moved on while you were dealing with issues. There is really not much to do because she already stated that she does not want to cheat on her boyfriend which means that she is not ready to give up her relationship. We hope this helps
Give her two chance either you quite or the other guy quite
Continue
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boys not d same some are good nice and bad
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Hi big sis..i hv vry serius prblm wth my girl,any time i call her she will say i shld wait,all the time so am confuse
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Hey Kandavsss! Thanks for the comment. You need to talk to your girlfriend about this. Communication is very important in every relationship. We hope this helps
hi am doro ,I am 18 and I was been hurt alot cos I av a sensitive heart and not too long ago I started liking someone his name is obi and he is 19 and he is a student and I have never seen him before sometimes I call him he won't pick and if he picks he will say he's busy and one day I asked him through call if he have feelings for me but he said later he will tell me so later he came online that day ,and I asked him again then he told me he loves me cos of my personality and that am down to earth and funny ,so after that he doesn't normally talk with me when he's online I then grew tired of being the one doing all the talking all I want is attention nd love but I don't know his true intentions plss help me with your advice plss
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Hey dorothy! Thanks for the comment. Meeting people online is not safe because you can never truly know their intentions towards you. We do not advise anyone to date online because you are only open to what the person tells you. You can never know their true intentions. You need to let this go. Online relationships are not safe and we do not advise you to go ahead. This is for your own safety and sanity. Also, please talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
thank you big sis God bless you
boys are nice when they found true love and they use their heart less when they are heartbroken
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what the minet of love
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Lol
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boy are my best frnd dey gives me the best advice more than girl
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Me too
I had a crush on this boy in my jss1,now I accepted his friend request and now he is telling me he loves me. I don't like him because he put me in trouble, since that day I hated him. now he us acting innocent, what should I do?.
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First, what level are you now ?
Hey Sonia! Thanks for the comment. You already have the answer. We will always say that you should not date someone you are not comfortable with. You said that you had a crush on him which later turned to hatred. We do not advise you to date someone that you do not have feelings for. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
I think no is my answer. And I don't think I will date anyone, not until I enter university.
Is it right for a girl to have a boyfriend at the age of 15?
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Hey Mhesyluv! There is no particular age to start dating. It is all about your readiness for the relationship and also your maturity. We hope this helps
i love rolling wif guys a lot buh they always make love advances to me....all my male friends are confessing their,love for me....and i hate hurting pples,feelings...what shuld i do
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Hey mide_gold! Thanks for the comment. You should not compromise on your standards because you do not want to hurt someone's feelings. At times like this, there is nothing wrong with you politely telling the guys that you are interested in a relationship. When it comes to things like these, your feelings and emotions are very important. If you do not put yourself first, you may end up with every guy that comes your way. When it comes to relationships and friendships, you have to be able to stand your ground especially when you are not interested. This does not in any way make you a bad person. We hope this helps
It not wrong to have a male friend; infact it is cool cus u learn from them another view of life. it is always interesting having them around but most times closeness deepens and leads to relatinship dat is not based on true love but on just mere closeness nd likeness: Stand your ground,be determined and know what you want for yourself............... not all Friendship are divened to be Relationships...and THE TRUE LOVE OF A RELATIONSHIP IS FAR DIFFERENT FROM THE TRUE LOVE OF FRIENDSHIP. This is just my view about it all....i love to be taught and corrected anyways,we're all learning...tnks!
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Hey QwinZion! Thanks for this! You are very correct and you have a very valid point. Male friends can be cool too. Yes, boys and girls can be JUST friends. We appreciate your opinion
I Dont hate boy but boys need to know how to trust every girl.
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Hey Honesty! Thanks for the comment. You need to know that it is a two-way thing. Girls need to also know how to trust boys too. Also, you need to know that trust is meant to be earned. If you are not a trustworthy person, you should not be trusted (whether you are a boy or girl). We hope this helps
yes you're right...I'm with you in this one
yes u re right am with u
Hi big sis. This is my first time here,I had made a promise to myself never to fall in love with any guy but it not working I keep falling in love. pls sis what can I do
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Tanx big sis,i really appreciate it.Tanx alot.
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There is dis guy I am dating,I don't trust him cos of the things I've heard about him.I don't know what to do,I really confused.
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sorry for interfering BT y wud u date a guy u don't trust
Hey Mhesyluv! Thanks for the comment. Tizzy is very correct. Once you have a single doubt about someone you are in a relationship with, you should not go ahead with the relationship. Never date someone you do not trust. We hope this helps
yes it's true me i like having men friend too
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Hi Tizzy,I do trust him,but people are telling me bad things about him.
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Hey Mhesyluv! If you really trust this guy like you say, you will not be so bothered about what other people say. Before you date someone, you should know them well enough to know whether what others are saying about them are rumours or true. You need to go back and check whether you know this guy well enough and also know what you want from a relationship to avoid heart and headache. We hope this helps
I have a boyfriend and loves him a lot and i know that he has about six girlfriends,what should i do to win his heart.i need an advice
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Hey Sprinsgter! You should do nothing about it. This boy doesn't deserve your heart, neither does he deserve the heart of the six girlfriends he has. You deserve more than this. No guy can love more than one girl equally so what will you be doing in a relationship with someone you know doesn't love you at all? Please, do not waste your time trying to win anything because he has nothing to offer you. We hope this helps
is it really possible to fall in love with sumone you don't know
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Hey Jackson! NO, it is not possible to fall in love with someone you do not know. This is because love is a feeling that is deep and not based on what you see on the surface. It is deeper than the normal eyes. It is the connection you have with one's personality too. We hope this helps
Hey big Sis,I have a boyfriend that claims to love me and he showers me with good things, but I don't love him anymore for any reason,I want to break up with him but I don't know the perfect way to do it without making him angry.Help me out
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Hey Springster! There is really no need to keep deceiving him because you are doing more damage than good to him and yourself. He loves you so his heart will definitely be broken but if you keep deceiving him, you are getting broken and stressed out while he keeps trying to make you happy but it won't work. So which one is worse? The damage that comes when you date someone you do not love is much more than just staying single. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
Hy, big sis I have a boyfriend this guy do tell me he loves me to d moon and back I know his brother and sister,I also love him too.And this guy do tell me to prove my love with sum thing,too confirm to him that I love him and am a virgin.when ever he ask me to prove it with sum thing I do ask him with what he will say my virginity but he do say it like he don't mean it.And this is not is first tym of saying this,Is he a good boyfriend did he truly love me???
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Hey kem! Thanks for the comment. Sex is not a proof of love in any way. Sex is also not love. Anyone that wants you to prove that you love them with sex should not be taken seriously. We cannot say if he is not a good boyfriend or not but what we know is that sex is not a proof of love. Do not feel pressured to have sex when you are not ready. If he cannot respect your decision, he doesn't deserve you. We hope this helps
Althesame some boys are and some are not
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Big sis,my boyfriend is some I can't say if he love me or nt,he always tell me too let him test my virginity with his finger I thought he was joking until when he told me to allow him or we break up ,wat should I do
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big sister when is the right age to have a boyfriend and to fall in love
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20years
What i want is how to toast a girl because i love the girl and i want us to grow up together
Hey Joy! There is no particular age for you to start dating. Going into a relationship has to do with how ready and how mature you are about it. We hope this helps
Hey Springster! There is no manual on how to toast a girl. However, you need to know and be sure of how you feel about this girl because it seems like you do not really know much about her and you cannot love someone you do not. Take your time and be friends with her first. We hope this helps
Thanks
How can boy toast a girl
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Hey Ridex! Thanks for the comment. There is no manual for this. Everyone has different ways of expressing how they feel to someone they like. Be free, be real and be sure of what you want. We hope this helps
big sis.... Hw do u know if a guy/girl is in love with u????
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Hey benjamin! Thanks for the comment. We have addressed this concern through a story titled "Does he like you?". Please search for this story and see the signs of love that we gave. We hope this helps
if one likes a boy so the boy in turn what should the girl or boy do
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Hey Chi! We do not understand your comment. We will appreciate if you explain better. We hope this helps
If I Like A Boy And The Boy Likes Me What Should I Do About It
Your advise really helps me. Thank you. Please I have another issue.... I'm in love with my cousin. From my mother's side thou. We discussed it nd he feels the same way too. Although we are both in our late teens years ,we still want it to get deeper .buh our problem now is our family.we Dont know how to make dem accept our relationship. Do u think our love is forbidden?
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Hey Springster! We are so glad we have been of help to you. Being in love with a family member is seen as a taboo in Nigeria, it's a big NO! We do not know how you both want to work this out but it doesn't look like a possibility. If you are caught, it may lead to a big issue. You both may want to reconsider this thing because it may not end well. Think about it well and also the consequences before you make a move. We hope this helps
hello guz am new here and i luv evertin here,by d way am a teenage girl dat has everi teenage problemz i tank god i found a solution here am going to tell u all my problem,i am a girl of 16 yrs nd am in love with a boy dat i know very well am 1 yr olda than him we re deeply in love but we re frm different tribe nd dat is another problem for me,he do say dat he luv me so much no mater whot he wont leave me buht am not still convince for d love he has for me,so please tell me what to do i really love him too.
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You're from different tribes so what? Love is not dependent on race, tribe, nationality, skin colour or anything else. Love is supreme. If you guys truly love each other, This problem will pass away as will others. You said you're not fully convinced he loves you. Please if you have any doubt kindly withdraw. Love cannot grow where there is no trust.
Hey jayniz! Thanks for opening up through this comment. This is a personal decision and we cannot tell you what to do. When it comes to driven and age, you are in the best position to make such decisions for yourself. We hope this helps
hw do u want me to convince u jayniz
hello guys, am new here. there's dis girl in my school dat I lyk nd I don't know to tell her pls tell me what to do
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Hey martini! Thanks for the comment. You need to be friends with her first. There's no need to rush, this is the best time to get to know her better. Liking someone from afar never helps until you get to see the total package. We hope this helps
I need ur advice,I have a friend male,who claim he loves me and whenever we r together discussing will try to touch me bt I always turn him down I don't know what to say to him to make him leave me ,I have try to stop calling him,or to stop chatting with him bt yet he will still come back.pls can u tell me what to do to make stop
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Hanny,you are the only one who can stop it.It's not easy not chatting or caling him,but it's more difficult being in a situation you don't approve.Sweetie,if you are you want him to stop his advances,tell him to his face and be firm on it.Tell him that a true friend never compels you against your wish and thats what he is doing
Be bold and firm but don't be rude,except you want to lose a friend.But if he proves stubborn when you are calm,then try sweetie,try hard to push the message into his head and get the dude off your back
Hey Hanny! Rashidiana has said it all. You need to tell him NO and mean it. Do you know that silence also means consent (agreement). This is why when you do not say anything, people just automatically assume that you have agreed. So you need to talk. Also, remember not to be rude but still stand your ground. We hope this helps
hi am new here, my ex keep on disturbing me,he told me we should get back together that he still love me but i refused bcos i don't love him he keeps on calling me bad names and cursing me in front of my friends and i don't know what to do.
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Hi Justina! Welcome to Springster! I'm sure you'll love it as much as I do. Concerning your problem I feel u should just ignore, I mean silence is the best answer to a fool right. I have also been in that situation and I never answered him. Don't act like you care, if he insults u don't even give him a glance. Just do your thing and slay !
Hey justina! We agree with Purification. Do not reply him. It is obvious that he doesn't deserve you at all. He has a right to say whatever he wants to say but the fact still remains that you are not going back to him. He is obviously not mature so do not bother yourself with him. We hope this helps
Thanks Big Sis,i will do as u advice
boys are always fast learnes, they like to be inspire by girls especially loved ones
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HI AM NEW HERE
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i enjoi bein frndz wit boiz
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A girl has a boyfriend but there's another guy she's attracted to and despite their interest, the guy asked her out but she told him she'll be his friend and she's gonna give him feedback later about d relationship. She tried to conceal her true boyfriend by all means in order to accompany the innocent guy who truly loved her so much. All the girl's attitude towards the guy seemed positive as d innocent guy timidly proceeded to maintain and satisfy the girl with his true Love thinking he's going to get the girl, he never ask her once for kiss, hug or sex because he loved her as she desired. He even tried as a student to be responsible nd please her with his attention. She frequently accept gift from the guy and her boyfriend as well. A year later, the innocent guy oftentimes saw both of them together flirting around but he found it so much hard to accept their relationship, he overhead his friends about her boyfriend but still he didn't comply with their relationship. After a year and some month she do no longer hide her boyfriend anymore which had completely revealed to the innocent guy, he couldn't shy away any longer as he suffered a lot experiencing and seeing them together most times, then he decided to call the girl to know his stand one night, he explained everything abt how they meet nd probably asked her about the long time feedback. Knowingly, the girl replied she never knew she hadn't talked about her relationship ever with the guy and even the long time feedback. After all, she sincerely apologise for keeping him too long after all nd gave him simple hug as they departed. Please big sister, the guy(brokenhearted) his my friend I don't know the advice to give him and besides does he or the girl has any discourteous attitude?
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Boys re really fun to be wit but can be dangerous at times
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boys are the best people a girl can make freinds wt.my bestie is a boy
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Boys are awesome.u get to learn new things from them nt hangin around with gurls for the rest of your life
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boys are really the way girls says about them I'm a boy that treat everyone equal being a boy or a girl and I love making more girls as friends than boys I learnt a lot from them wish to have a daughter as my last born because I want to show her some love.
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Wow,this is great
boys are de best creature God created
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Boys can be the way you rithly said, but not all boys are like that. Some are still good and can be good friend
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Am scared of boys cause one almost molested me since then i dnt get to close to boy i met a boy last year dat i really liked but due to fear i pushed him away even though he told me liked me
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Hey Tiwez! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about what you went through. The fact that one person almost molested you does not mean that all boys are the same. There are some really nice guys out there that are not out to molest you. Please, you need to change your mindset. This does not mean that you should not be careful, you still need to stay safe but that does not mean that you should not trust guys out there. Be open okay? We hope this helps
Really, boys can't be true friends with girls????
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Of cause they can, just that it may not be all but many can be good frnds, especially those that doesn't claim being cult boys. In fact i will advice u not to make frnds with cult boys because they can be dagerous. But make frnds with those that are not into cultism because they can be fun to be with.
Boy's is too jealous! anytime i saw my wife wit another guy i will feel so sad bcus my wife is beautiful
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Hey sunnes! That's just natural. Girls also feel jealous when they see their bf/husband moving with another girl. Where the problem is, is the way they react when they see such. Boys are even better cus they can control the way they should react even better than girls.
pls nt everyboi is de same oo sme boys are very caring oo so pls understand
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Yes ooo.
No all boiz are d same
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Hey mayowa, why did u say that? Pls remove that from ur mentality cus is a big lie. Not all the boys are the same
WEL NOT ALL ARE D SAM
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Yes ooo .
I think boys are fun to be with,cos most of my friends are male,even my best friend is a male.
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I think boys are fun to be with,cos most of my friends are male,even my best friend is a male.
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Wow,same here
Sorry boy i_uh hv feelings
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yes...all these are really true..i think boys are great
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Yeah..they're
I love this guy and he love me too We could nt date bcus of skul regulation What can we do?
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Hey fortune! You both need to be sure that what you feel about each other. It may just be lust or a crush and not love. This is very important because a lot of people get this wrong. We cannot tell you what to do about the relationship but we can tell you to be sure of what you feel for each other. We hope this helps
hi
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I luv makin guys but anytim i saw dem talkin am so angry becos last tim broke best frnd heart
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Hh Anna, u shouldn't be angry @ all the boys because not all the boys did that to ur best frnd, all the boys are not the same. Hope u understand.
Hey ANNA! Gooddy-b is very correct. Not all boys are the same so you need to stop judging all boys by what one person did to you. You need to move on and learn to trust again. This is for your own good. We know it can be hard but it is best for you. We hope this helps
anytim I see dem wit gal i am angry becos of wat to my best frnd
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I am new here ooo
I mostly have boys as my friends...is it safe??
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Hey Twerkergirl! This is a personal decision but there is absolutely nothing wrong with having guys as your friend. Just be sure that they are trustworthy but you should still be careful and watchful. We hope this helps
I mostly friend with girls" It's that safe.
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Hi Timi is not bad if girls are your friends or you have lots of female friends is safe but be careful of the type of female friends you make cause some of them can lead you astray.
Boys also need care and help, when you help a boy with good mind he will always appreciate with pride
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Yeah,,that is true
i like boys because they are very secretive
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U said it all
I have guys as my closest friends
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Wunmxy itz not bad 2 av guyz as closest frnds
Uhmm big sis There is diz guy ah luv nd he luvs me too buh den he doesn't gv me attention. What do u think ah shud do ? Plz advice me
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Hey Cindy! Thanks for the comment. First of all, what makes you so sure that he loves you? You should not assume things and you also need to be sure that what you feel for him is real love and not a crush. Secondly, if you both are sure that you are in love with each other, why are you both not talking about it? Listen Cindy, most times, we tend to abuse the word love. Anytime we have any type of feeling towards someone, it automatically becomes love. You need to go back and review this feeling and you should also not conclude that someone loves you unless they show you that they do. We hope this helps
Hi big sis.There is this guy that am dating,he love me and i love him too,am the one that even confessed my love to him and accept me as his girlfriend,he broke up with his ex cuz of me.Now this guy is madly in love with me,he even love me more than i love him.Now have been busy with life,i want to be alone,am an ambitious girl,i want to face my future but i don't know how to tell him am no more interested in the relationship cuz it's gonna hurt him and i will be blame for it by my friends cuz they all like him because he is friendly. Now my problem is i don't want to hurt him and i want to stop the relationship.What can i do big sister?please advice me
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I think i will have myself to blame and others will blame me for breaking up with me .The guy is innocent,am the one that have problem with feelings,our relationship is positive,have been helping him with his future,he his a dreamless guy but i make him ambitious,and the reason of his ambitious was because i told him i can only marry an ambitious guy.He is doing everything cuz he doesn't want to loose me but i think of a solution.May be i should keep acting as if i still have interest in the relationship on till he achieve his dream,hope am making sense?
Hey shukkzy! Thanks for the comment. You should not blame anyone for this as this happens a lot of times. People fall in and out of love and no one should be blamed for it. The best thing for you to do is to let him know. Do not do things to please others because he is friendly, you will be hurting him even more if you pretend to still be in love with him and that is worse than heart break. Just let him know this and you will be at peace instead of pretending to love him. We hope this helps
hey shukkzy, if you understand the power of love once you are committed to true love, you can't just suddenly optout, easy handle solve the problem, you said he is innocent and quit his ex for you, please play wise and never offend him because you might regret later, not easy to find true love like the guy
Pls Big Sister, I Luv This Girl, But She Is Always Forming Big Girl..I Know She Luvs Me But She Hav Many Male Friends Which I Don't Like..I Do Text Her Messages Alot But She Don't Use To Reply Me Most Times..Pls Should I Dump Her ?
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I think this is also for you from Big Sister First of all, what makes you so sure that he loves you? You should not assume things and you also need to be sure that what you feel for him is real love and not a crush. Secondly, if you both are sure that you are in love with each other, why are you both not talking about it? Listen Cindy, most times, we tend to abuse the word love. Anytime we have any type of feeling towards someone, it automatically becomes love. You need to go back and review this feeling and you should also not conclude that someone loves you unless they show you that they do. We hope this helps
hey big sis why does our parents especially our moms don't want to say us especially with boys why.
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The answer is simple.Our parents believe that boys are dangerous.You know,before our parents gave birth to us they have had many experience with guys,most of the experiences are bad and they don't want us to fall into same calamity,that's why they think keeping us away from boys is the only way to stop us from falling into same calamity
Hey Springster! shukkzy has said it all. It is just their own way of protecting you. We hope this helps
shukky are an adult or a teen please don't be offended because you speak like an adult and reason like them but please answer me.
hi big sis my parent do not want me to dat nd am 12 now nd i have intrest in a guy
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Your parents are concerned and probably feel like you are too young. You should talk to them or a trusted adult about it and also about the guy you have interest in. Let them know what attracted you to the guy and what it is that you like about him. We hope this helps
Hi big sis..am very much inlove with this guy i have seen him 4 sumtime nw and cant get my mind off him...i dont knw whether he feels the same way 4 me..should i approach him and tell him hw i feel for him.
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Hey Nonye! Thanks for the comment. You cannot love someone you do not know personally. What you need to do is to get to know him before you start to tell him that you love him. This may even be a crush because it sounds like that to us. Do not be in a hurry, be friends with him first and know him personally before you start to think of getting into a relationship. We hope this helps
don't rush, start soft, if you don't, he will take the advantage of you and treat you mercilessly
Hello Big Sister. One day as i passed on the road, a young guy called me and pleaded me to transfered few songs from my phone to his... So i did. As i wanted to live, he excused me again & asked for my phone number, i gave him & i left. Few minutes later he send me a text that he likes me & he'll like me to be his casual friend, i hesited at first coz i realized that he's married. But he kept calling & sending me text msg. I gave up to his request, now we are very good friends (cassual friends). For 2 years now, he's so kind to me. But the problem is, his wife started growing a negative thought that her husband is up to something else, which is not the truth. Each time i told him lets break up & quite away with the friendship becoz of his wife negative thoughts. He kept telling me not to mind his wife. The truth is- i like him, we cares to each other as friends. But the problem now is his dearest wife, am afraid, i dnt wanna cause problem in someone's marrital home. Big Sister, please advice me on what to do.
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please try to distance yourself with the man, women are full jealousity put yourself in her shoe, being just friend with him full attention will not for his wife anymore
Hw can u just enage into relationship with a married man? What do u think his wife will think of..? Though is casual but have u 4get what women is all about.?
Hey Wizbrown! Thanks for the comment. You need to keep a distance. You are already causing tension in that home because you want to be friends with the man. If his wife is upset and he doesn't respect her enough to cut off a relationship with her then you should distance yourself from him for your own sanity and your own sake too. You do not need to take permission from him to end the friendship since you claim that it is just "friendship" and nothing more. You also need to be careful because it seems like you are in a relationship with this man and you are in denial. We hope this helps
I am new here.
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okay
I dated a guy form my when i was 12 till 18 nd he broke my heart nd i then on hate boys till now
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All boys are not the same. Hating boys really isn't of any benefit. The whole world is a mixed place of both boys and girls, hating them will only make life difficult. Give boys another chance so they can show you how great they are.
Ya what sweetie said is true hating dem will make life difficult 4 u,u just have 2 take tins easy.
Hey big sister.i kip gettin hurt everytym becos d guys i love dnt lov me bck I want 2 say gudbye to love lyf, i cnt cope
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Hmmm..... anyways maybe u are kinda stil young
God's time is the best, is not enough to love somebody, the person must have to reciprocate the love for a relationship to take place. Again try to be good the best u be.
Boys are promise breaker. It's not only boys that breaks promise but the girls too. A boy can promised a girl to live with her forever without focusing any other girl but he might failed to do so.likewise a girl might do so. So both of them can be called as promise breakers. S.prodigy 17
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Big sis pls am new here but i will like to share my experience with you. I dated a guy up to 8 month and then unfortunately i got pregnant for him and that period i was about writing my final sec school examination. I was devastated that i almost killed myself but i thank God i didn't die and do u kwn the funny thing when i informed him,he told me it was my fault and he does not have money for an abortion and stoped calling me. After some time he send a frnd of my to tell me that a bady needs it's father. And i have aborted the bady,if i happen to meet with he again what should i do
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Thank him
girls are very nice sometimes 2 stay with but at a time they behave as if the ar mad girls ar also gud friends
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That's girls for u,hi 2255 nice meeting u.
It really fun to. Have guys around...my best friend is a boy nd I really like most people think we are dating ..but no
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I do have a great and gorgeous friend his a boy, when I want to start I will ask him,he would tell me if u like him go on and if u don't that's ur choice he is really good.
I actually think its nice to be friends with guys but I'm afraid of us being "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS"
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dat is true but most people (especially Nigerian parents) think being friend with a boy is for sexual purposes which is very wrong.
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Like my mom
Yep that's what most of them think,if they try seeing a girl with a boy they won't care to know if u both are just friends they would just conclude and say u have start dating him some will even go behind ur back and start calling u all sorts of names just because they saw u with a boy the society will live now is so corrupt with bad and evil thoughts.
Very bad
Ello am new here
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when i was in school i have 2 best friends nd both are boys,we do everything together like eat,play nd read bt people say i like boys a lot bt dat did not change our friendship even till now dat we are out of school we are still best of friends nd dat did not stop me or them from having a boyfriend or girlfriend
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Wow,i love that
Hello,i am ne
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Hello,i am new here hope I am welcomed??
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Hi tiwa u are welcome
Tiwa u are welcome
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I'm also newbie so glad I found this site I have lots of things to share with you guys
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Hi Nikki
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Hi Nikki!! you are highly welcome to this platform hope you will enjoy your stay here because is so interesting,fun and educative. once again u are welcome. I'm pinky.b by Name,nice meeting you.
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hi new here hope to have alot of fun
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hi guys...I m new here
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Hello bulky and
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Hello bulky, You are proudly welcome.
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Hello Adedolapo_247. You're highly welcome.
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But most boys are heart breakers. Why is it so?
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Hey Kassandra! Thanks for the comment. This is a myth as it is not a fact. Not all boys are heart breakers. There are a lot of girls out there that break hearts too. We advise that you do not generalize based on your past experience. We hope this helps
I have a boy friend, I told his dad our secret cuz it was necessary But he says he can't trust me, I don't know how to explain to him why I did.... He's really mad at me and I don't know what to do.... Pls help
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Hey Tisa! Thanks for the comment. You did the right thing dear. Telling a trusted adult about your relationship is not a bad thing. Try to make him understand and if he doesn't want to change, then give him some time. You do not have to blame yourself because you did the right thing. We hope this helps
How old are u Tisa
How old are u Tisa
IT IS NOT RIGHT FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE BELOW TWENTY(20) TO BE DATING.IF YOU SHOULD START DATING,DO IT WITH THE INTENTION OF MARRIAGE IN MIND OTHERWISE JUST STAY FRIENDS AND ALWAYS AVOID BEING TOGETHER ALONE IN A ROOM WITH A BOY IF YOU ARE A GIRL AND DON'T STAY JUST THE TWO OF YOU IN A ROOM WITH A GIRL IF YOU ARE A BOY!
Hey Kassandra, don't say most boys may be is the boys that you have met and have come in contact with, Guys are really great friends In my own opinion.
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Yeah,True talk
Awwww Tayo is a total gentleman👊🏆💗
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Is it right for a girl to ask a boy to be her friend?
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Hi Chiluv, This story will help answer your question - http://ng.heyspringster.com/sections/girl-stories/it-okay-girl-ask-boy-out/ - it is not wrong to ask a boy out but it depends on your personality. Read the story to help you decide if it will work for you or not. We hope this helps.
Alright thx
As for me, there is nothing wrong.
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BOYS CAN MAKE GOOD BUDDIES.THEY CAN BE PROTECTIVE AND CARING TOO!
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Yeah ✌
There is nothing wrong with having a boy as a friend Just that so many people think in a wrong way
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you are right girl, for me people's opinions about a girl and a boy been friends doesn't matter at all because the more they see it that way the more the two genders act like they are in different world
Boys can a very good fnd
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Yeah
HEY, been a friend to a guy he doesn't mean anything i think is the best way be friends with a guy cause when you're in trouble or worried about a true guy who has good feelings will notice how you feel and cheer you up, there's nothing wrong having a male friend. For instance, i love being around with a girl to know how they feel about we guys when they're alone cause i don't want to rush into any relationship and i have never been in any relationship not that i don't have the courage or see the woman i like to be with but is just my decision
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Nice talk
In my class when they see u talking 2 a boy,they will start calling d 2 of u husband and wife and i don't like it.
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Let them say
Big sis , a friend of mine told me to advise her but I don't know what to say,she told me that when she was online few days ago her boyfriend told her on Facebook that we was not feeling fine that he needs to see her and tell her somethings , she went due to the fact her parents where not at home and their house is not far from each other , when she got there she entered and her boyfriend locked the door at the back and he was on towel . He removed the towel and was wearing nothing and took her to his room, the guy removed the girl clothes and they started kissing and heard a knock on the door the girl had to dress up and found out it was the guys parents so she left somehow and after that time she has being feeling strange about sex and want to have sex , she told she is still a virgin , she asked me if it good for her or not .....Big sis I don't know what to tell her
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Tell her she should keep her virginity.that shud epp
I have a boy that is my bestie,He loves being called pet names,pampered and also like giving advice most times he gossips,But i prefer him to most of my female friend who like condemning my body and keeping tabs on me.
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Wow dats great,,you are lucky to have him as your friend
I wish I had a guy bestir😪
Even being a friend with a boy does not mean anything but be careful with the boy u make friend with.
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Yeah,,dats d main point
Am scared of having a boy friend because, i dont trust boys and i will never trust any boy.
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AM NOT SCARED OF THEM BUT I DON'T TRUST THEM AT ALL
see my dear don't be scared of any guy they are just human being like you, if you don't trust them it's okay maybe they don't deserve ur trust or so but don't worry a guy will surely guy and you will trust him
I feel like a lot of people needs this. thank you!
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I hate boys 😠
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why you hate them？
Lol
what's ur reasons or reason for hating boys dear
Hi am new here am new here am I welcome?I love this article
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Hello girls, happy Sunday to you all its been I long till since I came here, I have been having some problems login in.
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thumb up
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yea i also have a bestie who is a boy he is kind
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thumb up marcus
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