You can learn so much more from being friends with your mum
Who would have thought my mum and I could be friends?
I use to be scared of my mum. I use to think she was mean. Until I started my period.
I was scared and confused. I didn’t know who to talk to but I knew I had to speak to someone quickly.
My mum was the only one around and so I walked up to her even though I was afraid and I told her about the blood coming out.
She hugged me really tight after I told her. She explained what was happening to my body, she said it was just my period and that it was normal. She asked me not to be scared as she helped me clean up.
She was so understanding and cool about it.
She showed me how to wear a pad. She even showed me how to calculate my menstrual cycle.
She told me to always feel free to talk to her about anything. She said I should never be afraid to tell her what is worrying me.
Since then, my mum and I have been really close. I talk to her about a lot of things. She advises me about everything, even boys.
She knows a lot. I share some of the things I learn from her with my friends. Some of them wish they could be as close to their mums as I am with mine.
I always tell them to open up to their mums. Our mothers were young once. They have gone through most of the things we are experiencing right now. They will understand.
They have a lot to teach us.
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Am Alway Afraid Of My Mum I Dt Even No Wat She Likes Or Hate
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
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Hey Torka! Thanks for the comment. It is the fear you have that makes it difficult to know what your mum likes or hate. Have you tried talking to your mum and telling her about your fears? We are sure you are even more scared to open up to her but keeping this to yourself may not help either. If you cannot talk to her, write a letter to her or better still, tell a relative you trust (and that is close to her) to help you talk to your mum. We hope this helps
i always like my moda
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
Hmmmnn! she always beats me & even embarrass me
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
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Hey Isha! We are sorry to hear about this. She is probably doing this because she is not satisfied with some of your actions. We suggest that you try to talk to her when she is in a good mood and tell her how you feel about the way she treats you. If you feel scared, you can tell someone that is close to her to do the talking for you (if she will be OK with that). We hope this helps.
My menstuation us to last for six days It is always flowing heavily and mostly comes with pain.Sometimes I see it twice in a month,and I don't know why.
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
BIGSISTER CAN WE BE FRINDS
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
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Hey Lotus! Sure we can be friends. Big sis is always here for you.
I was once scared but I came to realise dat she only training me.
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
I Can't tell my mum somethings like my crush. i really need someone to talk to
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
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Hey Loveth6! Thanks for opening up with this comment. If you can't talk to your mum about certain things, you can also talk to an aunt, grandparent, cousins or even your siblings. Just be sure that you are talking to someone you trust and also someone that won't judge you. We hope this helps.
U can't coz telling ur mum that u have a crush is bad and ur mummy will be so angry😱😬 u can't tell her coz u r afraid of wat shes going to do its called fear
Why??you shouldn't be afraid sis,sometimes it looks like when you said it she will scold you right?but that is not the case,you still need her,Always open up to her,am sure she will one day noticed you.
what if u want to tell her and you are scared of her shouting at you
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Jammy! Thanks for the comment. It is the fear you have that makes it difficult to know what your mum likes or hate. Have you tried talking to your mum and telling her about your fears? We are sure you are even more scared to open up to her but keeping this to yourself may not help either. If you cannot talk to her, write a letter to her or better still, tell a relative you trust (and that is close to her) to help you talk to your mum. We hope this helps
My mum is very annoying she can't even feel my pains wen am angry
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Blizzy! Thanks a lot for this comment. Mums have different ways of showing love to their children. Even when we feel uncomfortable with the way they treat us, just know that it is just out of love. Try talking to her and make her understand that she hurts you sometimes (especially when you are angry). She probably doesn't know so you need to tell her. We hope this helps.
Blizzy same here, finally I have someone who feel d same way I do
Ma mum was scaring I never talk to her about anything. I prefer keeping it to myself.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Nitta! It is the fear you have that makes it difficult to know what your mum likes or hate. Have you tried talking to your mum and telling her about your fears? We are sure you are even more scared to open up to her but keeping this to yourself may not help either. If you cannot talk to her, write a letter to her or better still, tell a relative you trust (and that is close to her) to help you talk to your mum. We hope this helps
helo gud,pm to u all
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Sometimes i am scared to talk to my mum and i have started
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
That's right girl,mom is the best friend every one should have.My mom is amazing too am sooo proud of her
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Datz sweet! Evryone shld learn to love his/her no matter coz she x d only person in d best position to guide you....
my mum can be my best frined
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
I always fear my madam because she is too harsh someone
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Aizzy1996! Thanks for the comment. Have you tried talking to your her? Sometimes she may not be deliberately harsh to you, she may just be under pressure or she may not even know she is harsh to you. Try and do what she says you should do so that she will not have a reason to be harsh. We hope this helps.
And you can never satisfy her in any way
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
am shy to talk to my mother to play with her onto l saw my period,l was shy and crying that my mother will beat me ,but she was happy with me,even now am shy to talk to my mother about what am seen as a girl l am
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 1234! Since your mum is open then you should fight your shyness. Always remember that your mum was once your age and experienced such. Be open to her, ask her questions about how she handled certain things when she was your age. Feel free with her because she is willing to share with you. When your mum is your best friend, you will no longer be shy to ask questions. We hope this helps.
Living With My Aunt And She's Hates Me,,, And I Refuse To Share It With Her For That Reason...Is Just Recent I Shares It With My Friend, She Took Me To Her Mum
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
WHY is it dat wen a person uses pad or tampon.she must feel sick?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 6524! Some people actually react to using tampons. This is called TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome). The best thing to do if you start feeling sick every time you see your period (especially if you just started your period) is to discontinue using tampons and switch to pads immediately. Also, you should talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. This may seem like a casual case but it can also be very serious. We hope this helps.
MY MOM IS NOT DAT BAD
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
I dunno,buh me I don't think I will Eva b fwends wit MA mum😩😔😖she doesn't seem 2 undastand me yyyyy
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Inem! Thanks a lot for this comment. Mums have different ways of showing love to their children. Even when we feel uncomfortable with the way they treat us, just know that it is just out of love. Try talking to her and make her understand that she hurts you sometimes (especially when you are angry). She probably doesn't know so you need to tell her. We hope this helps.
my mother treat me bad\good, some time,l cry because of this,l start being storborn,l donot listen to my mother some time,this lead to her causing me,THAT THE BAD THING OF THE WORLD WILL VIST ME,l cry but l want to kill my self or run away
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 1234! Thank you for opening up with this question - it's an issue that affects lots of young people and it's important you get good information and advice from people you can trust. We are sincerely sorry about how you feel. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know and you will be advised without being judged. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Mine Ws Different Bcus My Period Started Late Nd I Tough Dat I Ws Pregenant
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
It's always embarrassing when I tell my mum about my personal life but I wish to tell her. What should I do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Fabilo! We totally understand how you feel. You just need to overcome the fear in you and open up to your mum. She can really be your best friend. If you don't think you can face her, write a letter to her and make her understand how you feel and how you want to open up tp her. We hope this helps.
to me i dont knw how to open up to her
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Ebibest! Thanks for the comment. It is the fear you have that makes it difficult to know what your mum likes or hate. Have you tried talking to your mum and telling her about your fears? We are sure you are even more scared to open up to her but keeping this to yourself may not help either. If you cannot talk to her, write a letter to her or better still, tell a relative you trust (and that is close to her) to help you talk to your mum. We hope this helps
will my mum not shout at me
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Softbabe! She may shout at you but the good thing is that she knows what your worries are and she also knows that you are willing to talk. The good part about this is that whether she shouts or not, the message has been passed across to her and we are sure that it will touch her. Also, please talk to her when she is in a good mood. She is your mum and so we are sure that you will know the best time to approach her. We hope this helps.
My mom eoe
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
My mom doesn't have time for me... She's always busy. And above all we're never friends.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Amrah! Have you tried talking to your mum and telling her about your fears? We are sure you are even more scared to open up to her but keeping this to yourself may not help either. If you cannot talk to her, write a letter to her or better still, tell a relative you trust (and that is close to her) to help you talk to your mum. We hope this helps
Big sister is it only pad that u can use when period
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Clever! Sanitary pads are not the only things you can use when on your period. You can also make use of tampons. The reason why so many people don't use this is because they find it umcomfortable. They are usually inserted in the vagina but they can be used to swim (even when on your period). We hope this helps.
For my mum sher is my best friend.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Type ur comment here... must my parents always know when i'm menstruating ? sometimes i feel bad about it
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey PETTY! There is absolutely nothing wrong with letting your parents know about your period. However, if you do not feel comfortable with telling them about it, then don't force it but you don't have to feel bad about it at all. It is part of your growth process as a young woman and we are sure they are happy that you have a regular period. Sometimes, it is also good to involve them incase you have any irregularities or if you need sanitary pads. We hope this helps.
Thanks Big Sister
i am very afraid of my mum coz she is very hard 2 close with
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Julianah! Thanks for the comment. It is the fear you have that makes it difficult to know what your mum likes or hate. Have you tried talking to your mum and telling her about your fears? We are sure you are even more scared to open up to her but keeping this to yourself may not help either. If you cannot talk to her, write a letter to her or better still, tell a relative you trust (and that is close to her) to help you talk to your mum. We hope this helps
my mum get angre esly
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
My mum nd I understand each other
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
i use to see my period 2day some time 5 or 4day and i can't tell my mum about it plz what should i do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Favour! Thanks for this comment. There is nothing wrong with you telling your mum about this. We are sure she will definitely understand. Periods last from 2 days - 7 days depending on the individual. The flow also depends on the individual. Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps.
Unlike other girls I hardly see my period at times in a year it comes like 3 times...... Can you just imagine!! I just hope there iz really nothing wrong with my body😰😰 I need help!!!!!!😧😧
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Teens_age! Thanks for opening up with this. It is not normal for you to see your period 3 times a year. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
big sis there is a guy am dating more than a year nd is my mum friend son nd we love each other nd i dnt knw how 2 tell my mum about it couz d guy is 2year older than me.pls i need ur advice
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Arinola! Thanks for opening up with this comment. We advise that you tell your mum when she is in a good and relaxed mood. You know her better so you know the tone and language she prefers to communicate with. Just be confident and do not be scared okay. It's a good thing that you are willing to talk about this with your mum. We hope this helps.
Am so afraid of people even when some one say hello to me I don't even know how to reply I really want to change
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Flawless22! Thanks for this comment. All you need is to overcome your fear. First of all, what makes you scared? Then you need to defeat it. It is perfectly normal to be tensed sometimes okay. So take a deep breath when someone says hello to you. You can start by replying by waving or smiling if you are not comfortable with talking to them yet. It is a gradual process but we trust you will be fine. We hope this helps.
Thanks Big sister I will try my best
i have a friends she see her period twice in a month instead of once in a month.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Enny! When we say monthly cycle, what we mean is either 28 days or 30 days (depending on your cycle). It does not have to start on the 1st of the month and end on the last day. It can start at the end of the month but as long as it lasts up to 28 or 30 days as the case may be with your menstrual cycle, that is all that matters. What you need to do is to track your period using a calendar to know how long your cycle is. Please note that menstrual cycles last from 21 -35 days depending on the individual. So if someone's cycle is for 21-28 days, she is likely to see it twice a month sometimes (not all the time). If she sees it twice every month, please advise her to talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
I wish I'm close 2 my mum
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Goody! Awwww… you can be close to your mum. All you need to do is to talk to her. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your mum. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
Am really scared to share my feelings with my mum b'cos each time i try telling her things esp when i tell her boys or she hear me talking about boys she end up abusing me.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Mhizzfriz2y! Awwww… so sorry about this. You shouldn't be scared. Maybe your mum doesn't like it when you talk to her about boys. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your mum. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
i'm really close to my mum
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
There r some things I don't talk to my mum about.Boys.I am afraid she might beat me. Big sis wat should I do?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Barbie! Awwww… so sorry about this. You shouldn't be scared. Maybe your mum doesn't like it when you talk to her about boys. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your mum. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
Wat should I say if a boy tells me he likes me.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Barbie! This is a very personal question. You should, first of all, know how you feel about the boy first of all. Think about it properly before you give your reply. If you do not like him, please and please, do not feel under any form of pressure to tell him you like him too. We hope this helps.
My MUM's my best friend
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
My mum is my bestie
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Wel for me am nt close to my mum she neida talks to me or avices me al she dos s curse me am strtin to hte hr wat todo
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Payson! Thanks a lot for this comment. We are so sorry about how you feel and what you are going through. Mums have different ways of showing love to their children. Even when we feel uncomfortable with the way they treat us, just know that it is just out of love. We do not think that any mum would hate her child. Try talking to her and make her understand that she hurts you and treats your brothers better than she treats you. She probably doesn't know so you need to tell her. Please do not hate her. Just let her know calmly (without anger and hate in your tone). We hope this helps.
Am sorry
Wat should i do i feel lke my mum does nt love i hv never seen her curse my bros when dey do wrong bt she does to me
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Am not dat close to my mum
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
My Mum never talks to me and I think she hates me.How do I start a proper conversation with her?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Prisca! Awwww… you can be close to your mum. All you need to do is to talk to her. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your mum. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
my is late so am all alone,
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
I'm not scared of my mum
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
i don't just like talking to my mum,what could be wrong?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
WOW THAT WAS REALLY NICE,PLEASE YOU GUYS SHOULD KEEP IT UP. #JEREX2ART ON #TGIF
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
my mum is late and am not close to my anuty....I found Joy in sharing my problem with my big friend and I love their advice ..... I just brokeup with my girl friend and am not happy about it....I went back to her and apologise buh she tends not to listen.....pls big sis advice your small sister
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey ShugaBoo! Thanks for opening up with this comment. So sorry about your mum. Now to your girlfriend, why did you break up with her in the first place? There must be a reason why you did what you did and you need to go back to that reason. She has every right to be upset because you broke up with her. We hope you are not going back out of sentiments and also not because you do not want to be lonely. Think about it well. We hope this helps.
Hello Big sis.....she has reconcile with me but I can't be close to her again
I told my mum 1yr letter that i have been menstrating.she was shockd and askd y i hind it i told her becaus she's 2 mean
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hmmmm....so aw did u know the things to do when you menestrate
Yes i did
wow....kudos on dat, goodmorning to u....can we be frnds?
Good morning shugaBoo...as far as am concern every body in springster are friends...
Hey Blessycute! Wow! How did you cope for 1 year without telling your mum? That's a lot. We are glad you have finally told her about it. Thanks for sharing.
Is packaging good?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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I mean packaging breast so that they seem to look bigger
Hey Tomidimu! This is a personal decision. How you choose to wear your bra is totally personal as long as what you are doing is not affecting other people. We hope this helps.
Hey big sis I now have a step mum how can i make her my Best friend.
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Angiel! Your step mum can be your best friend too. All you need to do is to talk to her. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your step mum. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
Our mother's are the best! Why? They lead us to the right path by sharing their own experience with you, because they won't want you to follow that same path. The decision is left for you to choose(The right or the wrong way) by applying common sense and asking God for direction. Note:sharing her experience with you doesn't mean she wants to gain sympathy,but it is the Intention's of the heart that matter's the most. The decision is in your hand's.so be wise!
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
My mum doesn't seem to understand me...She gets angry at the slightest mistake .I find it totally difficult to speak to her about anything at all. I've got two friends that are extremely close to me and they've always had tales to tell of their mums but I'm always the spectator,mine seems to be different. I need your help Springsters!
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Larbie_Kray! Awwww… you can be close to your mum. All you need to do is to talk to her. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your mum. DOn't feel bad, just make the move. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
Not that my mum is mean but am scarce of her badly i have a boyfriend and she dont know am planning on letting her know about it but i dont know how to address her...please i need a reply
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Nancy! Thanks for the comment. It is the fear you have that makes it difficult for you to open up to her. Since she is not mean, it can be very easy. All you need to do is to talk to her. You can start by talking about random things i.e. school, friends, things you like etc. You can also ask her about her day and also her interests. It can be easy when you both talk about things that interest you. This is a starting point on being close to your mum and then telling her about your boyfriend. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.
You can start by asking your mum to tell you how she lived when she was young.
Not that my mum is mean,she knows about my boyfriend but any time I tell her i want to go visit my boyfriend... She won't allow me....am not always happy about that....please springster what can I do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Zenah! Thanks for the comment. Since you are close to your mum, you should ask her politely why she never allows you to go and visit your boyfriend. This way, you know why she has been stopping you. We hope this helps
I don't think it's really nice you visiting ur bfza
Aldo my mum is my fwend BT she does sum annoying things like blaming me for the wrong doings of my sibling. E.g, dey a 2 clean d rum BT did not do so mum will cum n say i shud av done it while i also av tins to do or ave done mine
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey BenchDa! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Have you tried talking to your mum about this? She probably has her reasons for doing this and it will be better if you ask her so that you understand better. Also, if you are older than your siblings, she is probably trying to instill leadership skills in you. We hope this helps
IF I TELL MY MUM THAT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND SHE WILL KILL ME SHE IS TOO HARSH
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Be patients it will be d time dat is she will ask u 2 bring ur bf
Rafmore is right Rina cus ur mom might one to see him she can know him
Rina! From my experience my mother is like that too. I am 22 years old but my mother dont want to see me around men with reason, and the reason is that, she want to 2 go to school have a job befor i talk of a man, because it may happen i get pregnant and end up being a house wife without having a job and that the man wil not gve me everything i want. That being a wife and having job wil make de man to gve u wht u wnt knwing dat u re working. So your mother have a reason for behaving that way she want the best for your future. So try as much as possible and make up with your mother, when u apoloyise to her and make u understand nd be sure that u wouldn't talk about boyfriend again, u wil knw that ur mother loves you. Then you can have a boyfriend without her knowing dnt make it open and be careful so that u dnt get pregnant. Hope that you are clear. Big sister please if am wrong signal me.
Good of u
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
nice one
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Big sis are there not more ways to get close to me mum cus to ask for money to buy my santurypad makes me scared
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Big sis are there not more ways to get close to me mum cus to ask for money to buy my santurypad makes me scared
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
my mum isd worst i wonder she is my mum at all
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Luk Rinal U Don't Say Tins Lyk Dat Just Take Tins Ezy Ur Mum Will Cum Around
my mum is the same too as ur mum
Hy big sis... Wat if i don't ave a mother, den wat should i do
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Remtoy! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about the loss of your mother. We can only imagine how you feel right now. You can confide in any female adult you trust. This can be your aunt, sister, cousin, neighbour etc. We hope this helps
well i don't think i cant talk to my mum
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
I dont feel comfortable talking 2 my mum
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
I am not even to site beside of my mum, what is the solution ??
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Homa! Thanks for the comment. We do not understand your comment so please explain better so that we can help you. Thanks
Helo Am New
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
hi
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
I love my mother very much. I remember how she use to beat me, when ever she beat me i wil be sad and i wil 2 eat her food that day and i will think she always hate me. But now i realize how sturborn i was. And now i know the value of punishment. As am talking to you am the first daughter but second born. I have a brother and he senior all the child my mother have but if something happen at home i wil be the first to know befor others. So i and my mum we are so close and we love each other so much.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Rocxy! Thanks for the comment. Your comment just made us smile right now. We love the fact that you and your mother have both had your bad years but right now, you are now close and connected. This is really cool. Thanks for sharing this with us.
my anty
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
My mummy my pride👩❤️👩
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Big mumy I used to tell my mom everything about me buh then it came to a time that whenever i tell her wat happened to me or how I feel about an opposite sex she will rather talk to me in a harsh manner so I don't tell her anything again
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Amie! Thanks for the comment. We understand how sad it is. Why don't you try to talk to her about how she changes when you talk about boys. The truth is that so many mums don't know how to handle such conversations and so you can tell her that you trust her with such conversations. Don't just give up on her, just try again and politely let her know how this makes you feel. We hope this helps
my mom is a lovely woman, but I don't know what is wrong wit me, am just 2 secretive, she have tried all she could 2 make me trust her enough 2 open up 2 her, but I just can't get along wit her, I love her but am not just use 2 her, sometimes I get angry wit her 4 no reason, maybe am use 2 confiding in myself rather dan confiding in her, bcus in d early stage of my life she was never dere 4 me, and I dnt like her husband, my dad is late so she remarried, I dnt want nbodi 2 share her wit me, dat y am angry wit her, I dnt trust her, pls I need help, am I doing d right thing???
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey donann1! Thanks for the comment. We totally understand how you feel right now but you need to let go and forgive her. The fact that she is trying to make up for the time she was not there is enough for you to forgive her. It is not her fault that her husband (your father died) but you need to consider that she too is human and she will also need companionship and this is not just for now but for the future when all her kids (including you have grown up and moved on). You do not need to punish her for this. How will you feel if someone treats you in this way and neglects all your efforts? Your mum deserves more than what you are giving her. Holding onto a grudge will not help you or solve anything but make you bitter. Give her a chance okay? Enjoy the relationship with your mum. A lot of people will do anything to have this. We hope this helps
thanks big sister
GOOD THANKS
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
if she can i we be happy
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Think its okay
I need girl friend to get married too
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Good To Know
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Can a child dis vigirn at the age of 6 years or 9 yrs and why, i need help.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Cynthia m nt sure but I think that it doesn't depend on the age, which means that no matter the age as long as u had sex knowingly or unknowingly even if it was a rape, u re DISVIRGINED
Hey Cythia! Thanks for the comment. Getting disvirgined is when the hymen tears when there is any form of penetration in the vagina. Once there was some form of penetration, the person is no longer a virgin. We hope this helps
My step mom helps in her own way but m afraid telling her some secrets because she might scold me so hard that I would always wish my own mom was alive. I have tried almost all the listed tips on her but m still afraid of telling her my secrets instead I confide on my little step brother. Please Big sister help me #LoveHilda
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Hilda! Thanks for the comment. You really should try to talk to her about these things. You are assuming that she will scold you when you have not even tried talking to her about these. What if she doesn't scold you? What if she helps out and is understanding? Have you considered all of these? We advise that you give it a shot. We hope this helps
How is it going to be
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
i used 2 b afraid of mai mum
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
What if your mom doesn't seem to want to talk about such topics and she doesn't bring it up ?
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Chincha! Thanks for the comment. You cannot say that your mum doesn't want to talk about these things because she hasn't brought them up. If she doesn't bring them up, then you should do that. It is only when she doesn't respond to it that you can conclude that she doesn't like to talk about it. Until then, make an effort. We hope this helps
Am A Type Dat Is Always Afraid Of Talkin 2 My Mum But I Realy Hav Alot Witin Me 2 Tel N Am Scared I Tink I Hav 2 B Mysef N Let Her No About Everytin Happenin 2 Me 4 De Are Realy Hurtin Me
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Ritkama! Thanks for the comment, You should not be afraid of your mum. She is human and trust us, she really wants to know more about what is going on in your mind. You can start by gisting her about your daily activities and what you enjoyed and didn't every day or twice a week depending on how available she is. You don't have to rush her through everything. So take it gradually. We hope this helps
Sometimes I feel like talking to her abt my problems but I don't want her to b unhappy. Her happiness is my happiness.
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
my mum & I are good friends, sometimes I want to tell her everything that's happening in my life but she just scream and yell at me I can't even tell her about my boyfriend. she will just kill me
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
I find it difficult to tell my mum most things because when I was maturity nd entering puberty, she was in school furthering her education, so I had nobody to speak to,I was somehow deceived by a guy who we later ended up dating each other, later I realised the guy was only playing me,still my mom was not there for me but when she finished in school I still couldn't tell her my feelings cos I don't want her to know I was once in a relationship with some ,please help me I'm really in need of it
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.