Big girls do cry

Dealing with a painful period

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Lots of us get menstrual pain.

We know it can get really bad.
For some of us, the pain makes us cry. For others, it stops them from doing everyday things.

Does this sound like you? If it does, don’t get scared. The pain is perfectly normal. It’s also usually easy to deal with.

Why does it hurt?
Period pain comes when our uterine (womb) muscles contract and relax.
Our uterine lining peels away during our period. That is why we bleed. This can also hurt.

What can’t cause the pain?
Some people say sugary drinks, cheese and oil make the pain worse. There is no proof of this.
Food that causes bloating can make the pain worse. So stay away from junk food or food with too much salt.
It is important we eat healthy during our period.

What can I do about the pain?
A hot drink or hot bath can help ease the pain. Relaxing or lying down can also help.
Does the pain affect your normal activities? You may have to try medication.

Talk to a trusted/qualified responsible adult. They can help you decide what to take. They can also explain how to take the medicine. It’s important for us to be careful when taking any medicine. We have to keep ourselves safe!

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I Get Severe Menstral Pain, I Can't Perform My Normal Activites. Pls What Should I Do

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Yes! The pain's not nice at all.... But my mom always tell me to stay strong regardless....

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

how can i get rid of vaginal smelly discharge? i want to help a friend

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey girl! Thanks for asking for your friend. Vaginal odor can be due to a number of reasons, such as bacterial growth, yeast infections, poor hygiene, hormonal changes, and sexually transmitted diseases. To prevent odours, wash your private part with just water every time you use the toilet. Also, change your underwear regularly and make sure it you change into a clean one, drink lots of water but most importantly, please tell her to talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Yes

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

I stool n experience sharp pains. What's with that?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Adey! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, may vomit, stool and still have cramps. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Mine did not pain

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

I FELT PAIN BUT IT WENT AWAY

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

mine too did not pain

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

I don't feel pain when am in my period

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

mine is painful and i dont know how to go about it

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Semiloluwa! First of all, period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. As for the vaginal irritation, please see a doctor. Period pains do not come with this. We hope this helps.

mine is very painful

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

my period doesn't hurt me every time it comes out it can be painful this month and the other month it will just flow normally..without paining me

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

My period always hurt me-why?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey J. C! Period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

My period come roughly why

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey girl! Period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Some period roughly come why

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Am always sick whenever my period is come, why is it so?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Zahra! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, may fall sick. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.

i will be having stomarch pain

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Oyinkan! For some people, periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Wow!

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Mine is very painful dat I can't even eat for a whole day and it makes me to cry a lot

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Blizzy! Almost every girl experiences this so you are not alone. There are some easy ways to get rid of period pains like: have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Mine is very painful and much amount of blood come out of my private part

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Miracle! First of all, period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

I feel bad fr my friend anytime it come to her, she alway cry why? Is so painful

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Nelking! First of all, tell your friend that period pains are normal so she shouldn't be scared. Now to easy solutions, she can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please tell her to talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

When Mine Come It Pains Me Alot Dat I Cry More Dan Cry And D Drinking Of Hot Water Makes D Blood To Flow Much

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Ehh sorry

Hey Rose! First of all, period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Is very bad sometimes

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Thanks for this post, it really is helpful. Hot bath or hot drink don't usually work out for me, what else can I try? And can I get examples of junk foods?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

My period comes d 1st month den d nxt mnth it disappears and comes bck d nxt month eg it came april den it came bck dis month nd instead of d 3days it is nw xtendin

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Serena! Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). Just be sure that your period is within the 35 days windows by calculating. There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps.

.I always exercise my body eat plantians sometime..Whenever i felt ache on my adonmen i drank lipton

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Yes alot,the pain is too much that most of the time i felt like crying.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Pinkybabe! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps

R u MATTHEW FAVOUR

big sister,mine is uncontrollable, it makes me sick for three days no food, I av tried so many medications, but to no avail even the hot water therapy.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Sommy! So sorry to hear about this. We suggest you see a doctor for proper consultation and also prescription of drugs. Do not forget to talk to a trusted adult about this too. We hope this helps.

Sorry to hear that.But are you Somidinla Adegbite?

Mines is terrible... Usually I started to experience stomach ache a week before my period... And my period last for a long time sometimes up to 20days.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Afreen! Menstrual cramps are normal for some girls so you are not alone. If you see your period for 20 days non stop, please see a doctor immediately and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.

Why do I feel solid substance in my breast?

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Springster! They are called lumps. Please go to the hospital to get tested. Only a doctor can actually tell if is safe or not. It is good that you detected it early though. Also, talk to a trusted adult about this and see the doctor as soon as possible. We hope this helps.

HELLO I AM NEW HERE

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

why do I feel pain in my lower abdomen

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Klizzy! If the pain you feel has nothing to do with your period, then you need to see a doctor but if it has to do with your period, then it is normal. Every girl has different signs and symptoms when they get their period and most times, it has to do with cramps (pain in the lower abdomen). Do not worry, it is very normal. We hope this helps.

when my period is about to end i always feel pain in my lower abdomen and something like thick blood comes out too is it normal.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Winda! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, may have blood clots still have cramps. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.

is it normal 2 av lip peelin when u ar nd ar nt on ur period

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Ogorchukwu! If your lips are peeling, maybe you need to moisturise them by using a lip balm, drink more water or eat healthy. It could also be a sign of being sick so you may have to see a doctor and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.

so is the blood clots normal.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Winda! Yes, it is normal especially when menstruating. Many ladies pass blood clots when they are menstruating so it is not something to be worried about. We hope this helps.

HI BIG SIS when i started my period for the first time i don't use to have *PAINS* but suddenly i started having this pains that make me CRY like a baby IS THAT SUPPOSE TO BE NORMAL?

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Honeym! There are different signs and symptoms when it comes to periods and they sometimes change so it is normal. Having cramps sometimes depends on what you have been eating so you need to look back and see what you have been feeding yourself with. We suggest you try eating healthy (more fruits and vegetables). Cut down the sweets, biscuits, soft drinks and other types of junk. Sometimes, what you eat affects things like your menstrual cycle. Also, please talk to a trusted adult around you and if possible, see a doctor. We hope this helps

Hi Big sis! How can I stop severely painful period?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Precious! First of all, period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

I always hav dis menstrual pain that makes me cry..sometimes I vomit cus of it nd it isn't d first tym it has happened.

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Tgurl! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

how can I stop this pain

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Destiny! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

When i started menstrating i didn't feel pains but it's just recently that i start feeling pain. WHY?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Blessycute! Maybe you should check what you have been eating. Also, note that there is almost no particular symptom you feel when you get your period. Sometimes, new symptoms come which your body is not used to. We hope this helps.

y is it that my period is so painful

No

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

i normally have heavy flow what's the cause?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Mma! There is no cause. Having heavy flow is perfectly normal for some people and we guess that you are one of them. We are sure that you are wondering why you are so different from your friends but we advise that you stop comparing yourself to your others because we are all different. We hope this helps.

My Menstrual Cycle Is Not Normal What The Cause

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Girle! Thanks for opening up to ask this question. There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called. We suggest you try eating healthy (more fruits and vegetables). Cut down the sweets, biscuits, soft drinks and other types of junk. Sometimes, what you eat affects things like your menstrual cycle. Also, please talk to a trusted adult around you and if possible, see a doctor. We hope this helps

I haven't seen my period but I always have stomach pain, pain in my navel and mucus in my vagina. Pls is that a sign that I'm close to seeing my period?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Mimi! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, stomach pain/cramps are normal and some people get cramps before their period so it may be normal for some people. Secondly, what you see on your pant is called vaginal discharge and not mucus. It is not just whitish, there are other colors and feels that occur at different times in your menstrual cycle. It could be clear, milky or stretchy depending on your cycle. The only time you should be worried about a discharge is if it green or yellow in colour, if its clumpy like cheese, if it has a bad odour, rashes, swelling or if it itches. Seeing a discharge does not necessarily mean that your period is coming soon. We hope this helps.

.... pls big sis is it normal to experience pain for ovulation d left part of my stomach hurts badly that i wont even be able to walk well whenever am ovulating n i experience loss of appetite n mood swing too

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey kwin! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Yes, it is perfectly normal for some people to experience discomfort and pain when you ovulate even though just a few females experience this. You should talk to a trusted adult about this and also see a doctor for drug prescription. We hope this helps

Hey kwin! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Yes, it is perfectly normal for some people to experience discomfort and pain when you ovulate even though just a few females experience this. You should talk to a trusted adult about this and also see a doctor for drug prescription. We hope this helps

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Is it normal to have menstration twice in a month

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Fresh! Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps.

I take (andrew liversalt) when having mensturatiom pain,am i taking the right medication

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Afoma! Thanks for opening up through this comment. No, you are not taking the right medication. Please talk to a trusted adult and visit a certified pharmacist for proper prescription. We hope this helps

hi very one

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

pls wat can i stop eating or drinking 2 stop de pain bcos has now am feling de pain

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Boss Lady! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

pls big sister help me, I don't know my ovulation period and did it look like, i have short circle which is 23-25 days and my mensuration run 2-4 days and when did I have big chance to have a baby boy

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hello Nnenna! It's great that you already know your cycle. If it is 23-25 days then that means that you will be ovulating 11th to 13th day of your period. This is the time you are most likely to get pregnant. About 5 days before your ovulation and 3 days after your ovulation will also be fertile and can get pregnant if you have sex. We do not know of any way to get a boy and we think you should be careful when getting advice from anyone who says they know how you can get a boy. Please do not do anything that may be harmful to you. We hope this helps.

pls big sister help me, I don't know my ovulation period and how did it look like, am a short team circle which is 23-25 days and my mensuration run 2-4 days and when did I have big chance to have a baby boy

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

pls is it true that u should not drink matt on menstruation

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Miracle! No, it is not true.

pls if infection as been treated last month will d period com easily dis month

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

I haven't have menstral pain since I start menstrating [Is it normal?]

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey PEACE! Yes, it is perfectly normal. You are one lucky girl. Lol! You should be happy that you do not have to feel that pain. We hope this helps

Thanks

Yes I do experience pain every month .but d first day I started it Dis do not happen. Y

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Mizhcherry! It happens and it is normal. Feeling pain is normal for some people. Yours may be from the second day while some others may start from the first day. Every one has their unique sign. We hope this helps

am having serious mestural pain even when Lyn down wat should I do

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey Rukaiya0001! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Mimi how old are you

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

BIG SIS I AM NEW HERE,I WANT TO ASK WHY I HAVE NOT HAVE MY PERIOD NOW THAT I AM 12 YEARS OLD,I HOPE YOU WRITE TO ME VERY SOON.

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey OYEWO! Nothing is wrong with you dear. Not everyone starts puberty as early as 12. You still have some time as you are still young. Don't worry yourself, you have a long time to experience these things so before it comes, enjoy yourself. Stop worrying yourself okay? Puberty will come soon. We hope this helps.

yes oyewo big sis is right and i started mine at the age of 14 after i passed out of secondary school

sorry i mean that i woke up one morning and my nipple where very hard i don't understand please explain to me

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey linderex! Thanks for the comment. Were you cold when you woke up? And how long did the hardness last? Cold and sexual arousal can make your nipples hard temporarily. So it is nothing to worry about. You should still talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps

Sometims I feel lyk am abt to die from period pains. From horrible stomach pains to vomiting and even spitting. And ave treated an infection bfr. Pls big sis, am i ok?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey Springster! A lot of people have menstrual pain. If it is extreme, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps

so pain

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

How will I get fat

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey 2180! We believe every girl is beautiful regardless of her shape and size. This is what makes us all unique and special. We advise that you love your body and see the beauty in it. To gain weight, you can eat lots of carbohydrate and fats, eat lots of tropical fruits e.g banana, eat often, don't drink water before you eat so that your tummy won't be full, drink milk and yoghurts, get lots of sleep and don't forget to enjoy yourself while doing all these because worrying also makes one loose weight. We hope this helps.

I do ave pains but i found out exercise really eps me. Lyk dancing or running abt

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Terus! Thanks for the comment. That's great to hear. We are glad that you already have already discovered what helps. That's a good one. We hope this helps

i am new here,pls i need your help,what can i do to stop irregular period

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey ph045! Welcome to Springster. Irregular periods are caused by many things. What you can do is to eat more fruits and vegetables, drink lots of water and avoid all the junk foods and sodas. Please talk to a trusted adult about this and also see a doctor. We hope this helps

pls big sister is it normal to menstrate twice in a month

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey ifenz! Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps.

Y do I vomit wen m on my period?... Its disgusting!!!

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Mildred! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, may vomit. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.

i hav never experience a menstruational pain but last month dat i did i think i wil die nd i was in school but hot drink

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Big sis buh i heard taking hot stuffs like tea is nt gud wen on ur period

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey Phrancy! Thanks for the comment. That is a myth. Hot drinks and a hot water bath will help relieve the (contractions in the uterus) cramps in your tummy and also help ease out the blood flow. Try it and see that it works. We hope it helps

Big sis,that means I won't add milk to the tea right? bcos I heard milk is nt good when am having my period,just tea bag right?

On Sunday, I was not on my period but I had pains in my belly that I managed to walk

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey Honeydrops! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

big sis,am having severe menstrual pain and it getting out of hand

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey marina! Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

I do feel headache and stomach pain what should I do

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey peace! Thanks for the comment. Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, may have cramps. All of this depends on the individual. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.

Big Sis Am Confuse About My Period Cos My July Period Started On 28 And End On 1st August And It Did Come Uptill Now

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

big sis .... I do ave pains when ever am in my period ...from day one to the last day,i have tried all this excercise stuff bt to no avail ........bt when ever i talks drugs it stops but my fear is that i heard that if i countinue taking the drugs it will affect me badly .....is that true?

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

Thanks for ur advice Big sis it wud epp alot but its jst dat my pple in d hauz do not let me rest even wen am aving menstrual pain, pls wat shud i do????

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

I love this thanks so much friends I gotta learn a lot from here. 😘😍😚😍

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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hi lorita22,of course you would learn a lot but this just the beginning.

Big sister i heard if boys touch girl breast it wil grow bigger..big sister is that true?

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hey Nervous! Thanks for the comment. This is not true. The size of your breast is hormonal and cannot be increased by someone touching it. Please, do not believe that a boy touching your breast will increase it because it won't. We hope this helps

BIG SIS ,Y DO I USE TO FELL BEFORE MY PERIOD

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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I don't understand

Y I DO I USE GET ILL BEFORE MY PERIOD

Its a sign dat ur period is coming.

Hey CAPABLE51! Thanks for the comment. This is a sign that your period is coming soon. It is really nothing to worry about. We hope this helps

Big sis I noticed something Recently, I get sick when I see my period why is it like that?

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hey Kechy! Thanks for the comment. This is a sign that your period is coming soon. It is really nothing to worry about. We advise that you still talk to a doctor about this too. We hope this helps

Hy big sis, i really want to know the repercussion of being a chronic masturbator.... ever since I got into puberty,i think I masturbate twice daily...i have tried everything,... Nothing works,mayb if I knew some of the dangers i wouldn't engage with the act anymore

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Dear friend. I want u to know that masturbation is a sin against God. I dunno if u are a christian. And every sin attracts a punishment. Eternal punishment. Hell. Secondly, u masturbate for pleasure. After that quick pleasure, u feel empty and all stupid again. Then why do it? Masturbation thirdly, makes u unclean. Masturbation is one major cause of infidelity. WAY OUT? God helps those who help themselves. make ur effort to stop. Pray and fast about it if u really want to get out of it. God bless u.

Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Masturbation (especially among teenagers and girls your age) is normal because you are at a stage where you are trying to figure out your body and also explore. So many people your age do this so it is normal. Masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. Also, getting addicted to masturbation can affect you sexually later on in life. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps

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March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

B4 i started menstruating there was a day i think am going 2 die bcos d pain was 2 much nd it lasted 4 a whole day.after then,when i started menstruating i dnt feel any pain it now.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Am thirteen and have not started menstruating

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

I don't know what if I do with hot but water or cold water it gets too much

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Am sure dat wen u use hot water it will definetly reduce d pain

Unlike other people my back doesn't hurt when I menstruate rather my butt hurt and causes sitting stressful

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

I do experience it ,wen am feeling this pain am as week as a plucked vegetables Until I told my mom about it and she ask me to drink hot Lipton tea after I took it d pain reduced Also u can fill an empty container like those one's used to sell oil with hot water then place on your stomach why u lye flat on your bed These are the methods I used when am in my period Then about diet eat mostly whole grains e.g rice,maize and food containing iron e.g plantain and more of vegetables

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

I experience terrible menstrual cramps. I can't do anything when I experience them and I'm usually confined to my bed. My painkillers rarely work and when they do, it takes a long time to start. Usually I have a hot water bottle that I use and that helps with the pain.

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

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Hey Maelee! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry and trust me, we understand how you feel. It's a good thing that you have figured out that hot water bottles work for you, we advise that you stick to it. Also, try to avoid taking sweet things about a week to your period and see if there will be an improvement with the pain. We hope this helps

My periods are always accompanied by very painful cramps. It always hurts badly for the first two days. It also affects my knees and legs.

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.