3 Ways to politely turn down advances from boys

With puberty comes blooming and physical changes that sometimes increases the interest of boys in some girls

Your thoughts (466) 3 Ways to politely turn down advances from boys

It is not a bad thing to be admired as it is natural to be attracted and be friends with boys.

You however have the right to turn down a boy if you are not interested especially when romantic advances are not welcome or you don’t feel the same way

Here are some polite ways to let him down:

Just say no
Don’t be mean or rude. But be firm and consistent. Politely make it clear that you are not interested and you are not going to change your mind

Explain that you understand the risks of getting involved with a boy at your age
Let him know you don’t want to take chances with your future

If you feel that he is pressuring you, tell an adult that you trust
Don’t be afraid to report a boy that is making you feel uncomfortable. Also avoid being in situations where you are alone with him.

Do you have a boy disturbing you in your community? Talk to an older trusted person about it or talk to us in the comment section.

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