Do you want friends?
Then be a good friend to others
Friends make life more fun and share the burden of your troubles. It doesn't matter how many friends you have. What matters most is being a good friend to the people you care about. There are a million ways to be a good friend! Here are some ideas:
- A golden rule is to think about what you would want and need from a friend - and act that way toward your friends.
- Listen to your friends and respect others’ opinions - even if their ideas are different to yours.
- Accept your friends for who they are. Good friends don't constantly criticize their friends or try to change them. Appreciate your friends for who they are and treat them as you would want to be treated.
- Be understanding and forgiving. Put yourself in your friend’s shoes - we all make mistakes.
- Be trustworthy. This means doing what you say you will do and never going behind your friend’s back. Not sharing secrets your friends tell you, unless they are in danger. If they are in danger and need help, find a find an adult you trust to talk to.
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Know the kind of friend u have.
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
U most Know the kind of friend u have.
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
Is It Necessary To Have A Best Friend? I Feel Jealous When I See Close Friend, Who Share Their Secret To Themselves
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
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Hey Loveth6! It all depends on you. Some people do not trust others with their secrets and affairs so they don't have best friends. You do not have to be jealous. Just find a trustworthy friend or group of girls that you like and build that bond. Please note that you have to be a good friend first before you can find a friend that can be good to you. We hope this helps.
I AM NEW
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hy vicky,ur welcome here
hey big sis i hv friends bt nt close friends nd i need 1. some of dem act asif dey re best friends bt dey talk abt u in d back hw would i know real friends frm fake
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Chik! So sorry to hear about your experience, you are not the only one going through this. Real friends are hard to find sometimes. What you need to focus on is being a good person. There are chances that if you are really a good friend, you will attract good people to yourself. We hope this helps.
Sweet..buh most fwends r wicked
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
i have a friend she a girl but i do love her but i don't know how to tell her Pls help.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Joshua123! If you are shy, there are so many other ways to tell her how you feel about her. You can start by being friends with her or you can write a letter to her or even talk to her. But we advice that you summon courage to talk to her. The worst that can happen is that she will say no and that is never the end of the world. We hope this helps.
we need to choose our friends wisely
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Tru Talk!
How Do We Choose Our Friends? Av Come To The Idea Dat Gud Frds Are Rare To Find.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Cruzey! You are very correct. It is indeed hard to choose friends. The first rule is to be a good friend before you can find a good friend. Once that is done, you can find friends that are honest, supportive, friendly, not jealous, and many more. Once you list out what you want, you will find a good friend. We hope this helps.
yes
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Hello Big Sis Is It Possible To Have Frnds On This Website Like On Facebook And Other Social Media
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Jay! Yes, it is very possible. Feel free to make friends here.
YES
i mean can u add them like we do add frnds on social media?
yes
Big sis,all the friend i have end up betraying me and i really need friend.Is it possible to have friend in dis website?Pls.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Khim! Yes, it is very possible. Feel free to make friends here.
Hello,i'm new here
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Hello am new here
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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also me
👑👑
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Is it bad that I have doubt's about my friends even though I've been with them for long?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Steph! No, it isn't. As a matter of fact, it is normal as we are all humans and there is always room for doubt. When you are in doubt, think about the things that you really like about them (their strengths). You can also think of the fun times you have had with them too. These may help clear your doubts. We hope this helps.
Hy,evrybody am new here,pls cn u welcome me?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You're welcome. We hope you like the stories. You can also invite your friends here.
hello
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
dear big sister,there is this friend of mine,actually my bestfriend,we do most things together,but suddenly she started ignoring me,i've tried my best to talk to her but she just ignore me pls advice me on what to do because i'm afraid of losing her
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Amaya! This happens a lot of times. Communication is very important and you both need to talk it out. Maybe you offended her without even knowing so you may want to apologise to her for peace to reign. Also, maybe you should approach her in private with a more friendly approach, maybe she will listen. We hope this helps.
hello am new here and i found everything here interesting. of which i would love to invite my friends too to join. am having a problem with a friend who is pretending to be my best friend but always jealous of me. i don't know what to do with this friend advice please
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Gucci_papi! Thanks for this comment. You may want to talk to this friend of yours telling him/her about what you have observed. Please note that this is a very delicate matter so try as much as possible to be polite to avoid getting into a fight with him/her. Also, if you do not feel like talking will help, you may want to pull back for a while to know if the friend will change. But we strongly suggest that you talk things over (not with anger or bitterness). We hope this helps.
hi am new here. can i ask a question, can a boy be your best friend?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Joy! Yes, a boy can be your best friend. In fact, so many girls prefer to have boys as best friends. We hope this helps
I am new here hw can a boy be my best friend
hi big sister pls advice me a friend of my any time I went to there house him will ignored me he will act as if he did not even no. me at all pls sister wat should I do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Horyinkansolha! He is ignoring you because he doesn't know that you have feelings for him. If you want him to know that you have feelings for you or notice you, you need to let him know how you feel about him. We hope this helps.
I big sister the friend I was talking about nt close but he ignore me but hi uv feeling for. him
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
NEVER LEFT BEHIND
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
I TIRED OF LIVING LONGL I NEED FEMALE FRIEND FOR DATING A TRUST WORDLY GIRL
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
😎😎😏🙆
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Hello I am new here I find it interesting and educating
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You're welcome. We hope you like the stories. You can also invite your friends here.
THAT GOOD
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
I have three friends,but i dont trust them,anytime i am not with them ,they gossip and say bad things about me.they keep things away from me,they make fun of me.should i leave them or continue to follow them
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Pinkybabe! The essence of friendship is to have people that you can trust. If you do not feel comfortable with them, then there is no need for you to be friends with them them. The choice of the kind of friends you should have is yours but you need to think of the kind of friends you want to have and then look at your 3 friends to know if they possess what it is that you are looking for. We hope this helps.
Hw Cn We Knw That Our Frndz R Gd Or Bad?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Texz! It is indeed hard to choose friends. The first rule is to be a good friend before you can find a good friend. Once that is done, you can find friends that are honest, supportive, friendly, not jealous and much more. Once you list out what you want, you will find a good friend. We hope this helps.
big sis pls help my friend fuck my boyfriend what should I do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Jesy! So sorry to hear this. What you have to do is up to you because you are directly involved in this. Before you make a decision though, consider if it is worth it? Remember, you do not have to fight anyone to keep anyone. It can be really hard to ignore all of this but remember fighting will not solve anything and no one is worth fighting for. So think it through properly before making a decision. We hope this helps.
How can i have a serious friendship here?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Chibueze! You can get friendly with people. Springsters are very welcoming and we are sure they will love to be friends with you too. We hope this helps.
i hav a friend dat was almost my best friend but she did sumtin dat my mum don't like we don't talk again wat can i do to save d friendship big sister
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Princess! Communication is key in relationships (friends). If she did something that offended your mum, tell her. She probably is not aware of what she did and may be wondering what happened. Even if she is fully aware of what she did, talk to her. You both need to make amends and sort things out (Please do this peacefully and politely). No dispute can be sorted out in silence. We hope this helps.
yes
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
How do i add friends here?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
i am feeling bored any friend to cheer me up
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
I need a friend,can I get one from here?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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U can have me as one if U wont to
you can have me as a friend if you want
even me 2
I am present if u like
I'm always open
I treat my friends like dis
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
i need a friend
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Am here but you can add me on facebook @ warren chibueze
I think it's a bad thing having friends cause they are not trust worthy .
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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My brother or it is my sister,it so much decent to have good friend because friend will help you in the day of problem,so try to make good friend.
but some are hmmmm
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Safiya, pls can I no you
so bad
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Type your comment here.I'm not dat a gud friend
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
I Like To Be A Good Friend
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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how will u do this? well you would if u work towards it
That is decent,may god help you.
I would love to be a good friend with excellent qualities
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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It is decent to be a good friend to friend who love or like you.
When i young my mum told me to be good friend to my friend and eventually i suss that is decent to be so.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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i must say this your mother is a good mother
its good to av such mother
gold sharking
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
i was not popular BT mice
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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hi
hello
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
my classmates are laughing at me because a boy that's younger than me is my best friend please tell me big sister is there anything wrong in it?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Stephanie! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with someone younger than you. As long as you and the person are comfortable with it then it is totally fine. We hope this helps.
hi
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Ur welcom
A true friend is hard to find but easy to loose.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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yes you are right @goody
Wow! this is wonderful idea but some friends are harmful to keep.but what i know a gudfriend is beta than a bad brother
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
How do you start making friends with people to avoid looking down on u
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Joker! Be free… Do not try to impress anyone. Be friendly and be also watchful so that you do not meet the wrong people. We hope this helps.
wow this is impress
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
I need a friend dat I will be sharing my thought with
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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can I be your friend?
I am new in dis group my problem is dat i didnot know how to make new friends
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Abisy! Welcome to Springster. We have given you tips in the article. Please read through and follow it. Thanks
I need a friend
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Am new I want friends
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Am New Please I need A Friend
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
is it good for a girl to have is best friend has a boy
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey queen! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with a boy. We hope this helps
yes my sister is very gud to have man as ur friend
I am a virgin and i dont know how to talk to my girlfriend
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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U have to told her if u real love her
I used to be a narcissist I usually stay alone and think I can do it all alone till I went in for therapy and I am now a free spirit all I need is friends
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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hi am funke l can be ur friend if u dont mind
Bolu here we ar make alot as u can.okey? am one (churcle)
Hi, I'm Tolu. I am a very social type but don't know how to handle friendship. I make and keep a lot of friends. any friend I meet/keep gets so intimate with me, they share their problems, weakness, thoughts, plans with me, I do same too with them. we advise each other but over time the friendship starts going down to the extent that we'll stop talking. I get scared and unhappy whenever I lose a friend or when they get new friends or when they stop communicating with me. pls, what can I do..?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
HW can I add you
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
hi am fenasat gud morning big 6*
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
there is a girl and her friend they use to me and a guy is having an affairer ,so she uses bad eye on me. but the boy told me he likes me and i think the girl told him he like him but i do not know what to do about this please help me out
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey damilola! Please explain better so that we understand your question. Thanks
there is a guy who told his friend to tell me he like me,many tyms we make eye contact and he would smile at me .but there is a girl that plays with him like they are datin so anytime she sees us makin eye she get annoyed and she used bad eye on me i don't know wat going on .please help me am confused
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Basically all my friends are married.... and I want to make new friends anyone I can call a sister cause I don’t really have one right now
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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sure,am ur sister nd a very good friend
Basically all my friends are married.... and I want to make new friends anyone I can call a sister cause I don’t really have one right now
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Guys i am new i need a frnd 2 talk 2 ,
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Am Here
guys am a new comer and also need friend to talk to
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
i am musa. I am 17age bt hav nt being in any relationship wt a girl pls is any tin wrong wit me...? And i need a girl.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey mubzy! Thanks for the comment. The fact that you are 17 doesn't mean that you should be in a relationship. Being in a relationship has nothing to do with age but rather your readiness and maturity for a relationship and not your age. Before you get into a relationship, you need to be sure that you know why you are getting into a relationship and also know what you want to achieve from that relationship. Relationships come with lots of responsibility. We hope this helps
friends are de best tin dat can ever appen 2 u,so choose wisely
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Pls am new here, and I need friends here o
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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I'm Here to be your friend. welcome.
may we also be friend excelove
I need a friend
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
who will be my frnd?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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me🙋
Hey sunb! I'll be your friend...
I want friends
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Big sister what if your best friend has other friends and pays much more attention to them and not you.....what if she doesn't tell you anything even if you know there's something wrong with her but she tells her other friends?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Gesi! There is nothing wrong with your best friend having other friends. The fact that you are both friends does not mean that you both should not have other friends. If you feel like there are some things that she is not sharing with you, you should tell her politely and ask her why she is not sharing certain things with you. Do not be imposing but just gently and politely ask her. We hope this helps
can a boy and a girl be best friends without falling for each other
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Yes, Queen! It is very very possible to be just friends with a boy. We hope this helps
tnxs u are the best
Queen it's possible,but boys of nowadays peferred ending up in relationship.so action speak louder dan words.
Yes,you can be bestfriends with a boy My bestfriend is a boy
And me too I need a friend
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Am here dear
big sis is it good to have a male bestie
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey bambi! There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a male bestie. Boys and girls can be just friends too. We hope this helps
I need a friend plz
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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i be ur frnd if you mind taking a guy frnd.
I need a friend ooo
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
I need a friend
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Hey Sprinsgter! We understand that you want to have friends and that is fine. However, we are not allowed to disclose locations and personal information on this platform. If you want to make friends, you can talk to people you like on the platform only. We hope this helps
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Alright Then!
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
thank you for this
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
But hw can u get good friends
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
i need a good friend
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.