Tips on how to choose a real friend
In life people will come and go. But real friends will stay with you.
You can talk to them about anything. They always look out for you.
You can be yourself around them.
A real friend will help out in any way they can. They don’t look down on you.
They tell you the truth.
These are your “ride or die friends”.
Meaning they will stand by your side no matter what
Do you have friends like this already or are you trying to find them? Here are ways to spot a ride or die friend
If you want a ride and die friend you need to be one too.
Are you trying to make friends? Don’t be shy. Approach someone you like at school or a new neighbour. Start with a small talk. Ask them about their day. Offer them a snack. Compliment the way they answered a question in class. Start a conversation about a music you like or a movie you just saw.
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I want to have a beautiful girl
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hi shadow,can we be friends? pls!!!!
how can i find a true friend
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Hello
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
i need friends here.any sprinster lady
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Hey Springter! Grooming and things like these are not allowed on this platform. We try as much to educate girls and make this place safe for them. If you need a partner, please for one in the real world. Thanks
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
big sis i need a friend, i dnt have any and it feels lonely cause i have alot of dreams i want to share with a friend.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey starly! Thanks for this comment. We understand how you feel. It can really be lonely when you do not have friends. You can make friends in your community by smiling regularly. Also, look out for people that you can gist with and join in conversations. These are easy ways to make friends in the real world. You can also make friends here on Springster. We hope this helps
Thanks Bigsis.. I've got lots of friends that I don't know who's my bestfriend neither d one to choose as my best friend~ What Should I Do I Need One??
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Joyce! Thanks for the comment. Do you really need a best friend? You have a lot of friends and it seems like you do not know what to do with all your friends. Find out if you really need a best friend and then choose one you can trust from all your friends. We hope this helps
hakanee
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
ride relationship
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i am new am i welcome
cool
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Nice one.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
hello baby
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hi kaura,pls dont be angry with dis statement,who is your baby?
Hmmmmmmm.easy o take it slow 😜😝😻😀😁😂😃😆🐾no ♥on spingster
Please i need an advice, i was meet a lady 2years ago, i was liked this girl with everything which was lead me to fall in love with her unconditional, and we was severally chats together but i have no courage to told her the feelings i have for her, vew months later i was conditionally left the area she was with lots of pains, we later lack of comunicating together, since then i was always feeling the pain untimely, i was trying to let her know this but don't know how to say it. pleas what can i do?
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Hurlardex! Thanks for the comment. We understand how painful it is for you to move out of a location and also lose constant communication with a friend. What you both can do is to constantly be in touch through chats, phone calls, letters (if you have someone that can send them for you) and random visits. The more you keep in touch, the less painful it is it. We hope this helps
i love everyone who loves me for fear of God
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hi mershow,wat do u mean by who loves me for fear of God?
Dear Big sis. Please is this a crush or love there was a boy in our junior class that every pupil wanted him as a friend we girls went in for close relationship for we tought he was cool though he is now in another school we still miss him so much
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey mixander! Thanks for the comment. It is a crush because you all are just interested in him because he is probably attractive. You all do not know him on a personal note. We hope this helps
i like a boy not that i Love him but i don't knt whether he like me too but am far from him and no way for us to talk not only one but two
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey chidinma! Thanks for the comment. We do not really understand what you are saying but from the little we can gather, you are saying that you like a guy but distance is a hindrance to your communication (please correct us if we are wrong). So, you can get to know someone better through any means of communication and this can be through phone calls, messages, chats etc. You can always find a way to communicate if you really want to. We hope this helps
Big sis i want to chat with a friend in springster
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Am really in need of a genuine friend someone I could trust. My present Friend is trustworthy but I don't just feel okay with her ,2 me z just lyk a pest.plzzzzz I need a trustworthy friend n a real one,.can I get one here I will pleased
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Dricks9000! Thanks for the comment. We understand the need to have friends that are trustworthy however, you need to check yourself to know that you are also trustworthy. Friendship is not a one-way thing. You also need to be a trustworthy person before you start thinking of having friends that are trustworthy. If you have a problem with the one you currently have, then you may also have a problem with others. So, we advise that you should also be careful so that you don't meet the wrong friends too. We hope this helps
If truly good still i wish to have, i will be happy if i can have.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Hi Bigsister, i don't want to make friend with boys because when you began to talk with them or come close to them they will start tuching you were don't like or other girls will began to think negative about you both, BIGSISTER PLEASE HELP ME <3 <3
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey chioma! Thanks for the comment. First of all, not all boys are like that so you need to change that mindset because not all boys will start to take advantage of you when they get close to you. The first thing you need to do is to know that not all boys will do this and then also, it is not every time that people begin to think negative when you are close to a guy. You need to be mature enough to be able to handle being friends with boys and general friendships. One thing we know for sure is that not all boys are like that. We hope this helps
Thank You Great Sister!!
hi, I have a friend and I know she's my 'ride or die' friend, but I still feel lonely and I feel I'm not getting much attention from her and everyone..
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Ruthp! Thanks for the comment. Have you tried talking to your friend about how you feel right now? If you haven't, you should. She is your friend and she cares about you so she will be willing to help you out. We hope this helps
I feel shy whenever i want to make friends, esp, with boys.Pls how can i control it?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Ashly! Thanks for the comment. You need to know what makes you shy. Then you can overcome it. Also, you should start by saying "HI' with a smile on your face. That will be easy. We hope this helps
Not that I feel shy,but anytime I try to talk to some one new I just stop talking my voice freezes and I run away not embarrass my self People say am timid but inside I think am not What should I do
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Yeah why don't u run away!!!! Ha
Hey Mira! Thanks for the comment. We advise you to read the story "How to start a conversation with a boy". It will teach you all you need to know about this. We hope this helps
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March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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So true why I don't even have friends. Most humans are fucked up
hi Delphine let me tell you something is not good to tell some people secret do you why is because when you tell someone a secret their would be a thing like a force that would make you to tell someone and is when you tell someone that you will be relaxed that is how it used to do me but that does not mean I can't keep secret I can when you tell me not to tell someone else then I can keep it.Happy Sunday
hey Delphine... you can share secrets but not personal secrets..... Trust is the basic thing in friendship
I don't have a friend & i feel lonely. even if it is a boy i need some1 2 share things with but d problem is dat all d gals suroundin me r not trustworthy nd am shy wit guys wat can i do
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Gifted! Thanks for the comment. From all the comments you have been sending in, it is obvious that you have trust issues and you are not willing to trust others so this automatically means that others will not trust you too. You cannot be unfriendly and not trusting and expect others to be friends with you. You need to work on your attitude and also your mindset before you can get friends that will trust you. This is very important for you. We hope this helps
I fynd it difficult 2 make frndz.plz z it normal
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Mhiz220! Thanks for the comment. It is very normal to find it difficult to make friends. Not everyone is jovial, friendly and outspoken. However, we have written articles on easy ways to make friends even for people who do not normally feel comfortable doing so. We hope this helps
I find it very difficult 2 make friends because i feel d person would snub me whenever i approach him or her i really need an advise
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you need to take that off your mind because no one will snub you. The moment you take that thought off your mind, that is when you will be able to freely make friends with people. Even if they snub you, it is not the end of the world and you should be able to easily move on to the next person. Do not take things like this too personal okay? Making friends can be as easy as A B C. We hope this helps
making friends is actually nice...but I'm friends with males than females
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
I talk 2 pple mostly girls because i'm scared of boys & i don't hv some1 i can call a friend
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey IBI! Thanks for the comment. You shouldn't be scared of boys, they are humans just like you and there is really nothing to be scared about. As regards making friends, is there a reason why you do not have a friend? We will like to know so please share with us. Thanks
Why?
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
am shy to talk to a girl I love so much what can I do to confuse her pls big sis
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey gift! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you do not love the girl in question because you do not know her well enough to say that you love her. You need to start by being friends with her and then get to know her better before even introducing how you feel about her. We hope this helps
You girls really impressed me and your friendships is very strong,can I also join you as a friend to continue forever?
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hi Ahmad you can join us as far as you are on this forum you will be our friend and nothing can change that even if we have not meet before,welcome to springster Ahmad nice meeting you here on springster.
Pls can I be Ur frnd too
I need help. Most of the time, I'm normally with my phone because there's no one to talk to and I'm tired of it. I want to make new friends in my neighbourhood but I don't know how to go about it. Can you help me?
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Mekky! Thanks for the comment. You need to make real friends. We have written a lot of articles on this topic and we advise that you search #Friendship at the bottom of the page and read the articles that relate to you. We hope this helps
Can a person who u never see make a good boyfriend/girlfriend u just only charting with the person and he hold ur number...?
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Beth1! Thanks for the comment. Nope, this cannot work because the person could be lying to you and you won't know because you will only believe and hold on to what the person says to you. We hope this helps
Hi I'm new hia. I wanna hv new girlfriends on SPRINGSTER. Thankie
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
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u are welcome
Same here ones that are reliable
Welcome, u can start with me.
U're welcome
My only trust founder and reliable friend is jesus i don't have a trust worthy friend ,i don't just have friends my number one true friends are God in Trinity and my family
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
I like this in whole also be who you are try not to be a wonna be
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Wow! Dis Article Is Of Help. Tnx!
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Nice article
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I makes new friend by acting funny at their sight,if I noticed him/her laughing I will approach her and ask her funny question that would make him/her smile the next day he/she saw me
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Wow.I love making friend with people.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hello!
Hi Beep.thank you.
i don't know why, i always be the first to talk to people before they become my friend, why don't they talk to me first?
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hi
hey George, how are you
Hello george
Hi Fruitful
This is superb,I mean so real,the writer really made sense,I don't have many friends just 3 precisely and sincerely they're not really ride or die buh with this I think and hope I will get my ride or die friend soon.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You're welcome. We hope you like the stories. Feel free to invite your friends here.
Then I wish to be ur ride or die friend
I have a true friend in whom i can confide in,and am very happy with it
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
i love dis
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I dont have friend,I can confide in because most of them sees me as a talkactive
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Ok
Hi, I'm 17, I find it hard to talk to people, talk more of making friends.... what can I do to change this??
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey Mimi! Thanks for the comment. We have written a lot of articles that can help you with this. Kindly search for #Friendship at the bottom of the page and read the articles that relate. We hope this helps
Hi,am new.I find it hard to confide in people
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
I have a good, lovely, caring and God's sent friend. She's more than a friend self,we have been friends right from primary till date. I don't play with her
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
Hi, i am new and i need a friend to confide on
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#Nice Writeup
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