Hey PrettyTomi! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, it is not your fault that you were abused. For him to strip you and abuse you even after saying NO is not acceptable in any way. Also, making you feel guilty about what he also did is wrong. Please know that you do not deserve such treatment. You have a right to have emotions, express them and also be confused (we do not know it all), this is perfectly normal and does not mean that you should be abused by anyone. You should not be in a relationship with someone that puts you at risk or threatens you because it can affect your way of thinking. Please talk to a trusted adult (if you have one). You can also speak to the women at Risk Foundation who help young women who are faced with similar situations such as yours. You can call them on 08 09 21 00 00 9. This service is completely confidential-which means they won’t share what you say to them with other people. We hope this helps

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.