Hello big sis I have a problem, the tin is, I even been dating a guy for a year now but six months back he traveled out of the country but before he left, he hardly call, he can stay for one month without calling me, whenever I ask,he will say that he doesn't have phone (which is true) and sometimes airtime. I love him so I don't bother but after sometimes I don't feel for him anymore (i:e before he left) I don't miss him like before, the night before the day he traveled he wanted to come over to my house but I told him NO. He told me that he loved me so much that I shouldn't disappoint him. When he left, he didn't call, after a month he called and he was like he missed me and blah blah blah, after he always call once a month or two months, I grew bored of the relationship, whenever he calls I don't feel like answering the phone but I will answer just to fulfill all righteousness. I have grown tired of him .Now the problem is I have a best friend (boy) when we were in school, I had a crush on him but then he had a girlfriend but they broke up before we left school. Now he's the one that always call me to ask how am doing, after sometime he told me that he love me that he loved me when we were in school but the problem then is that he had a girlfriend, hardly will a day pass without him calling me, I told him that I don't want to date at the moment because I'm still waiting for my boyfriend to come back so that I will sort the issue, but the problem now is, I can hardly stay a day without talking to him, I don't know if it's love that am feeling for him,whenever he didn't call, I always get worried, I have become so close to him that I can't stay without hearing his voice. Please what will I do? Remember my boyfriend still think I love him

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.