Hey Mellisa! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Rape is a very serious and is a punishable offence. First of all, you all need to talk to trusted adults about what this man is doing so that they are aware of what is happening. As you also said, he is making your friend feel guilty about it. Please let your friend know that it is not her fault in anyway and this is something rapists always do so she should pay no attention to him. Most importantly, please do not plan anything. The best way to pay him back in his own coin is by reporting him to a trusted adult (all of you in the group) and leave it to them to handle. Violence is not the way out and also note that he is a dangerous person and can do more harm than good to you. You do not know what backup he had. So please Mellisa, for your safety and everyother person's safety, you should just leave this to the older people you trust to handle okay? Big sister is pleading Also,your friend and all the other girls that were affected need professional help. We recommend The Child Advocacy Centre to your friend. They help young people who need professional help on around rape, pregnancy and other issues. Your friend can call them on 08 00 80 08 001.She doesn't have to worry about anything because it is a confidential service and calls are free. Big sister will be here if you need more help on this. Please send our love to your friend and all the other girls that have been affected and we hope this helps

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.