Seyi talks about her crush
My name is Seyi and I am 14 years old. A few weeks back I saw a boy standing with some boys on our street. He was handsome and tall.
It was my first time seeing him.
I was so shy when I walked by them. I think I even stuttered when one of the boys I knew in the group called my name to greet me.
The other day he visited my brother at home. I found out that his name is Kunle and he is my brother’s friend. When he said hello to me I was so shy I didn’t know how to reply.
Recently I have been seeing Kunle a lot as he always hangs out with my brother. I feel too scared to speak to him.
I told my sister about him and asked what to do about it.
She laughed at me as she watched me blush then she said
“Seyi what you feel is normal. You have a crush on him. This means you are attracted to him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
However what you do with the attraction is important.
It takes more than attraction to connect with your crush.
You need to take some steps towards building the connection
You can start by introducing yourself to him. Walk up to him and just say hello, my name is Seyi.
See how he responds. Don’t feel bad if he doesn’t respond in a friendly manner.
There are times when we like people and they don’t like us back.
At times like this there is no need to feel bad. You will find other people who will like you back.
But if he responds positively, don’t get carried away. Just be yourself. Try to build a sincere friendship with him first.
Find out if he likes you or not. You can do this by observing his behaviour. Like is he shy or nervous when he is around you? Does he always want to talk to you either physically, or over the phone or online? Don’t rush anything. You will be fine.
I felt relieved after talking to my sister. I have plans to try all she said next week when Kunle comes to see my brother.
Hey Springster, liking a boy is no crime. It is what you do with it that matters.
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I also hav a crush bt I haven't told him yet
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your don't have to tell he, but make he know you like he. And it not about crush watch he if he is right for you. Bigsis am right
a guy asked me out i said no he asked my freind out she said no he asked me out again i said no he asked my freind out again she said yes now am feeling bad bigsis am i being jealous ??
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Hey kaybeelove! You do not have to be jealous or feel bad. The boy does not know what he wants if he kept going between you and your friend. Let him go and do not let it affect you okay? We understand how you feel but the truth is that a boy that is for you will not shift his attention to any other person not even for a second. So be glad that you did not settle. Chin up and smile girl, you will be fine. We hope this helps
Big sis answered it all, don't be jealous
hi sis my justice name is sad i love another girl but i can't tell her what do i do?
hi bigsis im new here
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Hw can u make a boy to ask u out
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Get closer to him, laugh whenever he says something or better still blush. Look straight into his eyes whenever you are with him and as well use your eyes to make him notice you.
Hey Springster! Do not force it if he does not like you. If you force it, you will most likely also force the relationship to work and that will be heartbreaking. If he likes you, you can get friendly with him but let things flow naturally. We hope this helps
You don't force a boy to like you, when it is time he will surely like you
Can I make new friends here?
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we dont knw u !!!
hi am new here can some 1 welcom me
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Wa2laca4ma2
I learnt alot well it is hard to control ur feelings i feel glad to knw lyking some1 even though d person dnt lyk u isn't bad :) thanks alot
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Am 14years old, is it right for me to have a boyfriend at this age?
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it depend on d type of boyfriend u are talking about, 4 me is right
For me it is not right, your boyfriend at this early teenage age should be your Book
Hey Adora! There is no particular age for you to start dating. You should date when you are sure you are ready for the responsibilities of a relationship. We hope this helps
depends
hey, Adora.can we be frnds? :)
hi everyone am new here hope am welcum
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Hello lizyB
hi maj
DearYes
DearYes
Hi,i'am new here.am i welcomed
but control ur feelings towards him.
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how does it feel to be inlove with someone and the person is far away from you?
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Hi Am New Here Pls i really like my friend's boyfriend And he likes me too Buh i dont want to hurt my friend Wah can i do?
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Cherie Try not to hurt her might better
whg is it that when i see a beautiful girl on the stree i will develop feeling for her?while seeing her in ma dream i release phiscal.
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whg is it that when i see a beautiful girl on the stree i will develop feeling for her?while seeing her in ma dream i release phiscal.
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Hey Springster! What you feel is not love but only attraction. You think about the girls you see a lot of times and that tends to affect your dreams too. What you can do is to avoid thinking of these girls too much. We hope this helps
Same here but even in my tought
Hi,my frnd has a crush on her cousin wat should she do?
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Hmm...das confusing
Hey NATASHA1010! In this part of the world, such things are not encouraged so we advise that you tell her to take her mind off him. It may cause troubles for her if others get to find out. We hope this helps
Hmmm!! Dats nyc
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Touching.ur sis is right. I had a similar case.
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Move close to him ask him questions about you
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Hel am new here can u wlcm me
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hi abbas2016 u're wlcm
not bad!
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well
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I think seyi's sis is absolutely right
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Yes!she:is:right
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Seyi you have 100% right to fall in love and to be in love.
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It is not a crime to be in love
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yeah, what u do with it really matters!
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big sis why is it that someone u love always be the one to break ur heart?
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big sis why is it that someone u love always be the one to break ur heart?
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yes
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Yes
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I Want to be ur friend, pls I want ur full name to search for u ,an other details.Pls....pls....pls.
Hey Zedo! This is a group that inspires and encourages girls in Nigeria. Requesting for personal information and also sharing personal information is not allowed on this platform. Thanks for understanding
dere is a guy who iz trying 2 asked me out in his attitude buh i told him iwas'nt intrested. since den i luv him more nd nt no wat 2 do, shld i call or message him?(advice ls).
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Jst call him
Yes call him now
Yes
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hi am new here
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hi
am new here
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Hey Springster! You're welcome. We hope you like the stories. Feel free to invite your friends here.
well welcome how are you?
I want to ask a question how can I do that
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Hey Naomi! You just did.
well dat nice
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Big sis..good evening. How are you doing? Hope everything is fine? Well, I'm new here and I have a problem. Big big problem🙂. Here it goes... I had a crush in high school, we're cool like that but he kept demanding for things couples should do. I told him friends don't do that and he gets pissed of at times. We solve the problem and he acts cool. We graduated,admitted into college and I'm not. But before then we'd hang out at times and... My point is we still friends..but I can't trust him. I want to,I really want to cos I so much love him but I feel like he's the opposite. Now I'm hearing he's been with one of my friends (girl). And I'm so depressed... I need your help pls😞
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Hey Deedee! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We totally understand how you feel but you do not have to be depressed about this guy. Let me tell you a secret. The moment you can't trust a guy anymore, that's the day you should let him go. Want to know why? It's simple, you cannot be with someone you don't trust. Trust is the secret spice to happiness in any relationship. So darling, instead of being depressed, be happy and thankful that you already lost your trust for him which is a good way to move on. He doesn't even deserve you because if he did, he won't be looking at other girls. Raise your chin up and put a smile on your beautiful face because we know you will be fine. We hope this helps
Hi evrybdy is this forum, i'm new here nt that i'm new in brain. My own advice to this situation, first of all keep ur shy away and be bold enough to challenge him in the way ur sister's advice and carefully so that you will not fall into his wrong side of him... thnks
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About the guy get to like her and she to what will you have to say about it
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Big sis I have a problem here this guy loves me and I don't think I like him back maybe its because he's a class younger (but same age). He's asking me not to break his heart. There are many things that he do I do not look for in a guy. Pls wat do I do
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Hey Ng07! It sounds like you are not sure about your feelings so we advise that you do not make a decision yet until you are sure. If he also does not have the qualities you want in a guy then that means that you should not compromise or settle for him. Once again, the fact that he likes you does not mean that you should say yes to him. Take your time. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
Class or age doesn't matter what that matters is whether you love him or not
I Love One Boy,we Love Each Other,we Both Don't No Hw 2 Express Our Feelings For Each Other,till Now,but Is It Gud 2 Date At D Age Of 13?
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Hey Gift! You both need to be sure of what you feel for each other. There is no particular age for you to start dating. You need to be sure that you are ready to be in a relationship and also ready for the responsibilities that come with it. We hope this helps
I Love a Girl but can't tell her.What the problem?
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Hello! I really need your help. I had a crush on a guy in high school & we seemed to be fine, we called & texted each other, he even bought me a little gift on my birthday. I was happy being with him. But after our graduation we were no longer seeing each other because I was admitted into college in another state. He calls sometimes, telling me he misses me & stuffs but I can't go & see him because I am in school. It got to a time his communication with me started diminishing. One day, we were chatting on social media, he was giving me cold responses like he no longer liked me. When I asked what happened to our cute little love? He said "he had passed that level" & since then he stopped calling, no text, & when I tried he does not pick my calls or reply my texts. So I decided to stop, since then we never heard from each other, at this time I assumed he has lost his love for me. I met him in a shopping mall. After we hugged I told him I missed him, he touched my face & told me he also missed me. When I called him as I promised, I asked if I could come visit? He refused saying his house was not a meeting place. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't know what he wants from me. I don't even know if he still loves me or not. I am thinking of asking him. Pls I need your help....
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Hey Debbie! Thanks for opening up through this comment. The first thing we need to clarify is that there is a big difference between missing someone and being in love with someone. So when he said he missed you too, he didn't say or imply that he loves you so do not get it twisted. We advise that you talk to him about this. Ask him what he feels and what he wants but before you do, be very very sure that you can cope with a long distance relationship (if he says he's still interested). But from what we can see, he has already told you that he has moved on. We hope this helps
I need help,i love a guy,bt dnt want to date him.Becos my sis dose nt like him as well as my bestie.They belive he is a bad person.But i knw he is nt,nd no matter how many proofs i have they wont change their minds.They re very important to me that is y their opinions matter.But they re standing in between us.I dnt knw wat to do.
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Hmmm 🙄
😏
Hey Sprinsgter! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Have you considered listening to them about why they think he is a bad person? If you haven't, be openminded and hear them out. There is no harm in it. The final decision on who to date is your choice to make because you will be in the relationship alone. We hope this helps
hmmmn choose wisely that all i gat to say
Does he lyk to ? If he does follow your heart
Hi big sis. The thing is that i have a crush on a guy. I have no hope of telling cus it will seem that i am too outgoing and probably flirty but i believe that it will be short lived since crushing dies out quite fast. So should i digest my courage& tell him or do i just leave it like that
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. This decision is up to you to make. However, we are very glad that you know what you feel is a crush and you understand how crushes work. We hope this helps
Obviously he is no longer in to you. Boys act that way sometimes. Telling you stuff they dont mean, if he start acting coldly towards you, be prepared to end it.
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Hi big sis, there is a guy dat has been asking me out 4 long nw nd he had been of help 2 me when i hav problems nd lots more. i love him as a frnd nt as my lover but d problem is dat he wont accept dat but keep disturbing me, wat should i do???
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Make him understand that you are not interested in extending your friendship to any other thing. Be polite but still stand your ground. We hope this helps
hello my name is tosin i am 17 yrs there is this guy i ways dating before and he is now aksin me out again what should i do
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. What happened to the relationship before? Why did it have to end? You need to go back to what caused the relationship to end in the first place before you think of going back to him. We hope this helps
hi big sis, my name z tiwalade dere was a boy i lyk he ask me out nd we started datin.after some period of time he sent my frend 2 me dat he z no more interested it pain me bt life goes on later anoda guy toast me nd me nd the guy started datin he treat me wit love nd care i stil luv d guy am datin b4 bt i take dat of my mind later he asked me out again nd i accepted cus i stil luv him he tld me 2 leave d guy am datin and i also see dat he nw care 4 me pls big sis i dnt wnt 2 lose anyof dem i need am totally confuse
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Hey tosin! You need to know why you are dating in the first place. Are you dating just to have a boyfriend? Or are you dating someone you are sure you love? You cannot love two people equally. You definitely have to love one more. The first guy did not even treat you right. The final decision is up to you to make but you must first define what you want in a relationship before you can know who to date. We hope this helps
Hi big sis i mate this guy doing my jamb lesson i some kind of like him i started going close to him,he do talk to me sometime he sits close to me but sometimes he do ignore me those that mean he dose not like me
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Hey 53555! We cannot say whether he likes you or not. However, please note that whether or not he likes you, you have to know that everyone needs their space. Even married couples do not always talk to each other 24/7 (this does not mean that they are quarreling). He came to the lesson to learn and that is his number one priority. This should also be your priority. Maybe he wants to focus on what he is there for and he has every right to do so. We hope this helps
hey big sis,i like a boy and he said he likes me,but he is dating another girl.so wat should i do
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Hey Mally! Do nothing. He is already committed to a relationship and he should focus on his relationship. Do not encourage him to cheat on his girlfriend and also, do not encourage him to break up with her. If he truly loves you, he will know what to do. Telling you he loves you does not mean that he actually does. Please, do not settle for less okay? You are special. We hope this helps
Hi, big sis am in a relationship with a guy n I have a guy in my church bt anoda branch n he is asking me out bt I don't know wat to do n av told him dat I av a bf already n am confuse.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. The decision is up to you to make. There is nothing you need to be confused about because you already have a boyfriend and yes, other guys will still disturb you but that doesn't mean that you will say yes to every guy that asks you out. You need to know what you want in a relationship before you even go into one so that you do not get confused when situations like these come up. We hope this helps
HI SIS,I HAVE A GIRLFREND AND I LOVE HER SO MUCH, BUT SHE IS DATIN MY FRIEND ALSO,WHAT DO I DO
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Hey SIM! Thanks for the comment. You deserve better. You should not settle for someone that makes you a second option when you can actually be someone's priority. She cannot love 2 people equally so this means that she probably doesn't even love any of you. Loving her is not enough, she also has to love you for you to have a blissful relationship. The final decision is up to you to make but we know that you deserve more. We hope this helps
There is a girl I love and I don't think she like me
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about this. It happens all the time but you need to be strong and move on. It can be hard but you can do it. Just let her go... We hope this helps
my name is temi am 16 years old there is a boy in our street that want to date me i love the boy with all my heart but my mother is the teacher of the boy pleasewhat will i do
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Hey abbey! Thanks for the comment. You need to be sure of how you feel about this boy first. Love is a strong feeling and it takes a whole lot to love someone. You both should, first of all, get to know each other better and know if you can actually date or meant to date before you rush into anything. Take your time and also talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
Hy big sis am 14 I jst wanna knw if having a boyfriend at dis age is wrong
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It's Wrong
Very wrong... you're too young hun
Hello.... I'm a guy who once had a crush on a girl I met talking to my neighbour and after some time we got along I asked her for her name she told me her name was favour and when I told her how I felt she told me that she liked me too, which made me happy. For like 3months later... But I was surprised the day she told me that I made her annoyed. I didn't know that it was because she saw me talking with this girl I met that is actually pretty and we do get along very well even though we have not known each other for a month yet. And she just came over talked to me,she really brought up a funny topic and it made favour jealous. And I think this girl faith likes me.
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Hey Splendid! Thanks for the comment. Some girls (and even boys) get jealous when they see the person they love with another. What you need to do is to let Favour know that you were just having a normal conversation with Faith and nothing more. You also need to make her trust you too. Also, Faith needs to know that you are in a relationship with Favour so that she doesn't start having expectations. There needs to be a balance to how you communicate with her too (yes, she can be your friend, there's nothing wrong but it should not go beyond that). Just carry your girlfriend along and let her know that you really love her. We hope this helps
frm d luk of things, u lyk favour bt seem 2 enjoy having a chat wit faith. 2 me favour loves u bt she's a kind of gal dat gets jealous seeing a gal wit u nd in dis case"funny topic" as u said. ma advise 2 u is have favour know dat u love her so dat she trust u nd make faith know dat u love favour so dat she dont go expecting tins frm u nd u shuld also spend quality time wit favour so she dosent go emotionaly jealous seeing u wit another gal
Hey big sis, I was in love with a girl and I am also sure she loves me too but because I was in higher institution and she is in secondary school,she said she was not interested. Please what can do to convince cuz I love her.
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Hey whizkid! Thanks for the comment. There is really nothing much that you can do. She already said that she is not interested and so you cannot force her or convince her to change her mind. You just have to let her go and respect her decision. We hope this helps
thanks big sis,i have a crush on a girl and am feeling shy to move closer to her but with this talk,i will try to put it into action
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Hey Dzeimz! We are glad that you find this article useful. Please let us know how it went with the girl. We will be looking forward to your amazing feedback. Thanks for this
i will try my luck 2dae.ma,cn i snd er messages tru phone or i shud go n meet er face 2 face?
Big sis ,if crush is not love does it means that crush can not last longer than love
if u truly lyk a gal den u shuld tell her nd see wat comes out of it nd pls talk 2 her wit confindence if nt she wont take u serious
Hello Big Sister Am very confused right now I was introduced into lesbianism I was not happy about it so I spoke to my teenage church teacher about it and she spoke to my pastor He prayed for me Then he said he wud tell my parents he asked me if I watched porn and I said yes(cos I did) He said he wud tell my parents about it sooner or later Am scared right now I hv stopped lesbianism and porn already becos of dis I sincerely didn't like it at all but since it was a habit, I cudnt stop Now my pastor wants to tell my parents Am scared cos I don't know how dey wud react
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Hey Chilive! Thanks for the comment. We are glad you have gotten over your addiction right now, that's the most important thing. Your pastor probably wants to tell your parents for good reasons. You should talk to him about it and let him know that you are scared of how your parents will react to this. Let's hope he understands. We hope this helps
Hi everyone I don't see any used of loving someone that love another.u are just hurting ur self .wise up people
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Sometimes we cnt help the people we fal 4n luv with
But I really still luv this guy but is nt giving me attention Pls advise me
Look dear u will fine someone else who will love u more let go of him or her and u are still u u have a lot of time OK
What about my boyfriend dat have gotten another girl but despite that I still love him What should I do
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Good one
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Big sista wat u crushed some one friends for 4 yrs nd unfortunately he likes ur best frnd bt to u he smiles with u
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Hey Annamontez42! Thanks for the comment. Unfortunately, there is nothing that can be done about this. The fact that you like someone does not mean that they must like you too. It can be really painful especially when they choose to like your friend instead but you have to be mature about it and move on so that it doesn't affect your friendship. It can be hard but doing it will help you become stronger. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps
it's OK if u go to him
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I LIKE A GURL IN MY STREET BUT IDONT KNOW HOW TO APPROACH HER BECAUSE I AM SHY PLS BIG SISTER WHAT WILL I DO
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Hey tega! Thanks for the comment. We know it can be hard for a shy person to approach a girl but if you do make that move, you will always be in the background. Start by saying "hi" to her. It could just be a crush because you really cannot like someone you do not know. So get to be friends with her first and get to know her better. We hope this helps
Big Sis, my name is Ademola, there's one girl in my school, I really love the girl but I don't know how to tell her that I love her, anytime I see her, I will hide, but the girl doesn't like me, because they say am too playful, Big Sis, help me
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I guess u should talk to the girl and try being freinds wt her afterall u are classmates.I hope this helps.I know a guy who is just like and u also bear the same name.
Hey Ademola246! Omotoke has said it all. You need to talk to her and be friends with her. For now, drop the love and get to know her better. You cannot love someone you do not know personally. Build friendship with her and then you can take it up from there. We hope this helps
Ok, so how do you know if a guy likes you or not? I mean there's this guy in my department, cute and all. Every time I'm around and he sees me, he always makes sure to make eye contact. His friends are very good friends of mine but whenever they're together and I come around to greet them he behaves in a whole new way. He might have been saying something or cracking a joke before but the moment I step into their midst he becomes so calm and never says anything throughout the time. The thing that actually confuses me is that he's never said a word to me. Not even a "hi" or a "hello".
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Hey Springster! It could just be that he is shy. We have written an article on how to know when a guy likes you. The article is titled "Does he like you?". Search for it at the bottom or top of the page and get real tips on how to know if a guy likes you or not. We hope this helps
am i welcom.
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a boy in my clas,i like him but he dont give face
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Hey jeje! Thanks for the comment. This happens a lot of times and it is normal. Please know that the fact that you like someone does not mean that they must like you too. This is very important for you to know. He may not feel the same way and it is very okay. We hope this helps
hi,my nam is jeje.a boy in my clas his name is olayide,he is jjc,i like him but he only play with his seat mate ad he love reading novel so he dont have time for anybody only our clas captain and we are in the same department ad our clas captain she is an account student.plas help me.
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Hey jeje! Like we said in the comment below, the fact that you like someone does not mean that they should also like you. From what we have read, what you even feel for this guy is a crush and crushes will die after a while. You like what you see and not his personality because you both do not even talk. You cannot force anything at this stage but you can get friendly with him. Talk to him and get to know him better. This will work for you. We hope this helps
comparison Hy Big sis am 15 I just wanna knw if having a boyfriend at dis age is wrong
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if u are ready for the commitment.y not.
Hey oseruware! Thanks for the comment. Your age has nothing to do with your readiness for a relationship. You have to be sure that you are ready for the responsibilities and the commitment like Omotoke said. We hope this helps
There is this guy in my school, he's actually a senior by two years but i feel awkward anytime he looks at me or i remember his name.don't know what to do cause i don't like the feeling, What Can I Do?
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Hey Springster! This is how you feel when you have a crush on someone. Don't be scared, it is perfectly normal okay? Crushes tend to die after a while so do not be worried or even force it. We hope this helps
You know intracting peoples for the first time you must feel shy,but when you familiar,it is well interested stories.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
I think I might be able to help. I had a big crush on my friends brother. it took me lots of practice not to stammer wenever am wit him.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Hey Big sis. I wonna know if I could date at the age of 17 without the relationship involving things adults are meant to do, example: sex. But it could probably involve just kissing and nothing more. Is that okay?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Bhella! Thanks for the comment. It is possible for you to be in a relationship without sex. Not every relationship must involve sex because sex is not love. You both need to talk about this and agree that you will not involve sex. Every relationship should be unique and different. We cannot tell you what to do in your relationship but what we know is that you do not need sex to sustain your relationship. We hope this helps
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March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
pls wu is big sister
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
I once had a crush,but I didn't inform him. I kept it to myself.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
I once had a crush , now he is far away from me I don't think I can still recognize him again .I missed him.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
I once had a crush , now he is far away from me I don't think I can still recognize him again .I miss him.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.