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At home, my voice was louder than everyone’s voice. I could talk my way out of trouble. I knew what to say and when to speak. But at school, I was different. I was shy and timid. I got bullied, and I felt so ashamed that I couldn’t tell anyone.

Everything changed when Linda came to my school. She was the shortest girl in my class. She didn’t talk unless she had to. Soon enough, the bullies started. One afternoon, they caught her and started making fun of her. But she didn’t cry. She stood tall and looked each of them straight in the eye. She walked away with her head held high.

The bullies were shocked. It wasn’t what they expected. They didn’t know what to do. The way Linda carried herself gave me courage. I told myself if she could do it, so could I. When I got home, I practised in front of a mirror. I reminded myself to be brave.

At first, it seemed the bullies had forgotten about me. Then they surrounded me during break. They called me names and laughed. I took a deep breath to stay calm. I stuck my chest out and told myself not to believe what they said about me because that is not who I am. I told them that if they couldn’t talk to me respectfully, they shouldn’t bother talking to me at all. I made it clear that if they didn’t leave me alone, I’d report them to an adult.

After that, the bullies stopped bothering me. I became more confident. I started speaking up in school. I made friends with Linda. When I told her that she’d inspired me to be bold, she smiled like it was nothing.

Sometimes you’ll find yourself in a bad or hard situation. Don’t be afraid to speak up. Your voice is your greatest weapon. If you feel threatened or intimidated, tell a trusted adult immediately.

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Wow this is so inspiring

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Nice Article

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Quite inspiring

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

This story have really inspired me

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Goodluck

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Great

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

How will I talk when friends bully me

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Christianah! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We understand how difficult it is especially when you are alone in that situation. The truth is that real friends won't bully you so you may want to consider changing your friends. Also, why don't you draw inspiration from Amaka's story and stand up for yourself because if you don't, you will keep getting bullied. We will be here if you need more help but please you need to stand up for yourself. We hope this helps

me too about christanah comment

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

We are all humans. Despite the fact that we are not of thesame size, it doesn't give room for bully

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

yes I support her

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Big sis, the same thing dat happened to amaka happened to me but my classmate think i'am powerless. I really need your help what do i do?

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

I believe it is very gud to look up to yourself and be brave

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

somehow by seniors

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

somehow by seniors

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Somehw by my classmates by d way i'm new

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Around where did u live

Hi Natasha1010

Hmm...abi oh

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Somehw guys do try harrasing me but i always get it straight to them dat i'm special

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Me!!! No One

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Hi Amaka, thanks for sharing your inspiring story with us, I learnt a lot.

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

i have

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

I love your story

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

I had the same experience,,but am fine now thanks big sis!!

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Yes

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

yes

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

Very inspiring i luv dis site tnxs for dis

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.