The real truth
You may have heard some stories about how to get pregnant or how to make sure you don’t get pregnant
Honestly, the only sure way not to get pregnant is not to have sex. Not having sex also saves you from the possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted disease.
Babies are made when sperm from a man (or boy) joins with an egg from a woman (or girl). When a couple have sex, sperm swims out of his body and into hers. Women and girls have a special place in their body called a uterus. The sperm swims into there. If there is an egg there, then a baby can be made.
Now that you know the basics, here are lies about pregnancy you should never believe.
1. A girl cannot get pregnant if it is her first time
As long as a girl has started having her period, she can get pregnant. It does not matter if it is the first or fiftieth time
2. A girl on her period cannot get pregnant
Sperm can live inside a girl’s body for up to 5 days. If a girl has sex towards the end of her bleeding, she can get pregnant
3. If a girl washes up immediately after sex, she will not get pregnant
The sperm swims all the way inside the girl’s body. No amount of washing will bring it out
4. If a girl jumps immediately after sex, she will not get pregnant
Once the sperm is inside the girl’s body, jumping will not make it come out
5. You are too young to get pregnant
Once a girl begins to menstruate, she is able to get pregnant. It does not matter how old she is
The truth is the only way to prevent pregnancy 100% is not to have sex. If you are concerned about getting pregnant talk to a health worker or trusted family member. They can discuss birth control options with you.
The decision to have sex is one that needs to be thought through carefully. Avoid being pressured or rushing into a decision which you may regret.
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SO SCARY
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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What if i had sex for the first time and did not see any blood does that mean am still a virgen?
Wow! such myths exists?tanks 2 GEM.becoz many gl hv been confused wt dis myths.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends
So amazing
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
That is ture
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hw is that possible?
Is it also true that you can get pregnant if a boy cross your legs
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 5432! No, you can't.
What if the guy promise you marriage after sex with you will go ahead or you will decline the offer
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Rita0708! First of all, are you ready for marriage? is he ready for marriage? Does he have a house, a good job and is he balanced enough to settle down? Secondly, a guy can promise you heaven and earth just to sleep with you and once you fall for it, there is no going back. Nobody should use marriage as a bait for sex. However, the ball is still in your court but the promise of marriage is not good enough reason for you to have sex. We hope this helps.
WHAT IF D GUY IS MY BOYFRIEND AND PROMISE TO MARRY ME
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 5ne! First of all, are you ready for marriage? is he ready for marriage? Does he have a house, a good job and is he balanced enough to settle down? Secondly, a guy can promise you heaven and earth just to sleep with you and once you fall for it, there is no going back. Nobody should use marriage as a bait for sex. However, the ball is still in your court but the promise of marriage is not good enough reason for you to have sex. We hope this helps.
Hw will I no d safe time to have sex
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Fizzzy u just need to settle down and calculate ur menstrual period the four days after your menses u are free to have sex but be careful some can be mistaken so u just have to use condoms hope this helps
are condoms 100% sure to avoid unwanted pregnancy and STD
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Rita0708! Condoms do not prevent pregnancy and STDs 100%. We hope this helps.
Hello guys,but dey say dat once U have sex,nd de guy didn't put de sperm inside U dat U won't get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Bizman! That is not true. First of all, how do you know for sure that the sperm did not enter you? Unprotected sex is not safe not only for pregnancy but also for STDs. We hope this helps.
Please help me caculate m'y ovulation Day my period started 15end at 18please help me caculate ï want to get pregenant
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ayo! Please talk to a trusted adult about your decision to get pregnant and be sure you are ready for the responsibility of having a baby/babies. We hope this helps.
if you sex for the first time, you will get pregnant. is it true?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Faithy! That is correct. You don't have to wait till you have had sex 3 or 4 times before you get pregnant. One can get pregnant the day she gets disvirgined as long as the sperm gets in contact with her eggs, it is very possible. We hope this answers your question.
Yes! You truly get it
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
PLS, WHAT IF SOMEONE HV SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME AND THEIR IS NO ANY BLOOD THAT COMES OUT AFTER,IS IT STILL REMAIN VIRG.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey 5ne! First of all, bleeding is not a sign of virginity because not every virgin bleeds. We advise that you go for a proper virginity test in the hospital to clear all your doubts or worries. We hope this helps.
pls i nd help a boy ask m to b her gf and i dont want and i told him to let me be but he could not pls what can i do i dont no what to do next
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Lotus! If you are not ready for a relationship, you need to learn to stand your ground and stay principled. Turning guys down is not a bad thing but do not be rude about it. We hope this helps.
THANK U BIGSIS
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
But there are porns which I watch but the men do not release sperm in the lady whom they are fucking instead they remove it from their penis after havin sex
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Amy! Pornographic movies are made to fulfill fantasies. They do not show you what happens after the cut just like every other movie. So relying on what you watch (which is based on a script) is not totally safe. You cannot say for sure if the lady got pregnant or not after that movie. So dear Amy, do not depend on what you see in a pornographic movie or any other movie because they are all fiction. We hope this helps.
Well big sis I am a very sexually active lady my boyfriend and I have sex eben on my period and luckily I have never gotten pregnant but I have concerns about birth control pills and well condoms could break so any advice please on the best pills to take
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Kendra23! Thanks for opening up with this comment. We suggest you talk to a medical professional. You can call this medical service center for teenagers and adolescents. The number is 08 02 71 92 78 1 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. We hope this helps.
i heard that a three year old girl got pregnant,how is it possible?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey M! A girl can only get pregnant when she starts to see her period (or has reached puberty). Some girls start early that is why you hear stories of really young girls getting pregnant. We hope this helps.
My boyfriend says the only way to prove i love him i must have sex with him,but i am afraid becoz i have never done it b4.Pls i need ur advice
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Toju! Thanks for the comment. Sex is not a proof that you love someone. Also, no one should compel you to do what you do not want to do or are not ready for in the name of love. Love is not forceful. There is a popular saying that if you want to know whether you are truly in love, you need to take away every form of romance. We hope this helps.
He also refuse to give me money whenever i request for money.And i need money,i didn't what to do becoz am confused.Pls advice me.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Toju! First of all, it is not his responsibility to give you money so please take that away from your mind. Secondly, the moment you agree to have sex with him and he starts to freely give you money, this means that you are being paid for the service you are rendering to him and you know what that means. Being in a relationship for money is not the right thing to do because more often than not, you will be disappointed. There is nothing like having your own money and spending it as you please without anyone monitoring you. Why don't you do something (use your skills) to make money for yourself instead of asking your boyfriend for money. We hope this helps.
Can a human being do without loving someone till he or she die
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Is love inevitable for all humans likewise sex
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Yah
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
When can one have sex without gettin pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Blissqueen! The number 1 rule is this: If you are having sex, you can get pregnant. Beyond pregnancy, you are also prone to STDs, HIV and even AIDS. We advice that if you are having sex, you MUST be ready for anything that comes with it. Also, if you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps.
Can a girl get pregnant if sperm is pour on her and she is still a vigrin??
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Toju! If the sperm pours close to her vagina, yes, she can get pregnant.
How did u know you are still a vigrin??
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Toju! First of all, if you have have sexual intercourse, you are no longer a virgin. Some people also loose their virginity through masturbation and rigorous exercise.
Is it good to have sex while pregnant ?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Is it true when you are pregnant,you still see ur period?
How will I know that am pregnant?
Hey Pop1! Yes, it is. It is even recommended by doctors. We hope this helps.
Hey Favour! Some women can have some light irregular bleeding, but it should not be like a “normal” period. Some women can confuse this for their period because often it can come right around the time she was expecting her normal period. We hope this helps.
Hey Favour! The best way to know you are pregnant is by doing a pregnancy test. You can try with a pregnancy test strip which is sold in pharmacies but you still have to go the hospital for a proper pregnancy test. We hope this helps.
Which drug should I take after sex?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Favour! Please talk to a trusted adult and also to a doctor to prescribe the drugs you can take after sex. We hope this helps.
pls my boyfriend I love him so much BT he insist on having sex with me and I said no den he said he would stop speaking to me which he did after sometime he called me and begged me den I agreed to come to his BT am scared if getting pregnant I just rounded up secondary skull.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Peacybae! Thanks for the comment. Sex is not a proof that you love someone. Also, no one should compel you to do what you do not want to do or are not ready for in the name of love. Love is not forceful. If you are not ready to have sex yet, please do not let anyone put you under pressure okay? Once you have sex (with or without a condom), you will no longer be a virgin and you may even get pregnant. Not only that, think of the other things involved - STDs, infections or even HIV/AIDS. So dear, think about it very well. If you still want to remain a virgin, then do not have sex. Also, please talk to a trusted adult about this for guidance. We hope this helps.
thank you so much big sis.BT in one of ur replies I saw a number DAT u said we can call BT can sum1 using Etisalat sim call DAT number for free
and am still a virgin,pls I we make use of condom will I be disflowered and will I get pregnant.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
why stomach pain some girls after sex ?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Pop1! There are so many things that may cause this. To avoid guessing, we suggest you go to the doctor for a proper test to know what exactly is wrong. We hope this helps.
Can a girl have sex and still see her period without getting pregnant for d first time
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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yes
Hey 12345! Yes, it is possible. It is also possible that one can have sex for the first time, see her period and still get pregnant. One just has to be careful. If you must have sex, please use protection. We hope this helps.
Hi..., Pls Can Salt Flush Out Sperm From A Girls System After Having
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Mary! No, you can't and you should not. The vagina is a very sensitive place and we should always be careful with what we put in there. Salt is too harsh for the vagina. If you do not want sperm in your body, please use a condom while having sex. Once again, please do not use salt in your vagina. We hope this helps.
I want 2 make sex with my g/f i talk 2 her she did'nt accept can i force her
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Guy! You should respect her decision. Forcing a girl to have sex with you is the same thing as raping her. If she says NO, respect it and leave her alone. Never force any girl into having sex with you. Apart from the fact that rape is a crime, it will always leave a bad memory in the life of the girl forever. Plus, sex taken bu force cannot be enjoyed. We hope this helps.
cn first sex lead to pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Orpy! Yes, it can. You do not have to have sex more than once to get pregnant. If you must have sex, please use protection. We hope this helps.
Big sis I just lose my virginity n am afraid of getting pregnant. what can I use or do
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Orpy! Always use a condom. The truth is that the safest way to avoid unwanted pregnancy is to abstain because even condoms are not 100% safe. If you must have sex, you also need to be ready to carry the responsibility (STDs, Pregnancy, Infections or even AIDS). Most times, we just think of pregnancy when we think of sex but there is actually a lot more at stake. Being sexually active comes with a lot of responsibility. You need to be fully prepared for these responsibilities when you start having sex. We hope this helps.
Big sis answer me.....
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
big sis,i've had sex but with a young boy.I'm i still a virgin?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Khim! Thanks for this. Once you have had sexual intercourse, you are no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if you had sex with a young person or an older person. What makes one a virgin is the fact that the person has not had sex before. We hope this helps.
Is the question about catching fun with a boy without any vaginal penetration
big sis ,am a virgin and after finishing my mensturation had oral sex with a man can I be pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey omowumi123! You can only get pregnant when sperm comes into or close to your vagina. If you did not have any contact with sperm around your genitals, then you may not be pregnant. We hope this helps.
Big sis dat guy gave me salt & water after d sex.D following day he gave me pills & he said dat he did nt released dat nothing wl happen.Before i take salt n water I had take a sachet purewater wl it work.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Orpy! Salt and water does not remove sperm from the body. Please, do not accept such from anybody again. You are not meant to take drugs without prescription especially if it is a contraceptive pill. Having unprotected sex is very risky and it is usually beyond pregnancy. Consider the infections and the diseases that come with it. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult and also get a pregnancy test done to clear all forms of doubt. Also, try as much as possible not to take pills/drugs that were not prescribed by a certified medical practitioner. We hope this helps.
Big sis,i was forced by my friend to have sex with him. After that he noticed he relised in me and gave me Andrew liver salt,pls will i get pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ada! First of all, you need to tell a trusted adult about what this boy did to you - being forced to have sex. Secondly, what he gave you does not help to flush anything out. You may need to see a doctor for a proper test. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who runs a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including sex and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Plz It Wz After 1 Wk And 3 Dayz Of Seeing My Menstral My Bf Had Sex Wd Me Plz Will I Get Pragnant?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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u wil get pregnant if u av not seen ur ovolution be4 dat day
Hey Emem! Thanks for opening up. We advise that you do a pregnancy test to be sure. Also, if you must have sex, please always use a condom. We hope this helps.
if my bf put his finger in my virginal within get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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will I get pregnant or lose my virginty
Hey Chiomamicheal! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina but you can lose your virginity through fingering. We hope this helps.
Big sis,bt I may see my period because for dis month it wl comes on 10 or 14 if I nt see I should go for test abi.thanks
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Orpy! For accuracy, you may want to wait till your period to take the test. Whatever the situation is, we advise that you still take the test. We hope this helps.
is it possible for a girl to pregnant and still see her period?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Melish! Yes, it is possible. It is also possible that one can have sex for the first time, see her period and still get pregnant. One just has to be careful. If you must have sex, please use protection. We hope this helps.
my bf fingered me in my virginal for the first time and now am having the sign of a preganat woman,am I really pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Chiomamicheal! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina. The only way you can get pregnant is if he had sperm in his fingers before inserting it into your vagina. If he did, you should have a pregnancy test done and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
yes thanks
he didn't remove my pant or trouser,he fingered me with my clothes on,but he didn't fingered deeply, it was the first he be doing it to me,guess we went too far,but will I lose my virginty or get pregnant and he did it,four day ago,and till now I don't feel comfortable with my private part I mean the virginal,pls help me,can I,we are really scared right now
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Chiomamicheal! I he didn’t take off your clothes, then there is no need for you to panic. You just feel uncomfortable with what happened. You also probably feel guilty with what happened. However, I if you feel uncomfortable, take a pregnancy test although you cannot get pregnant by getting fingered with clothes on. We are sure it is the effect of your mind on you that's making you feel this way which is normal. We hope this helps.
what wil i do if am pregnant and i dont want it now
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Efe! Thank you for your question - it's an issue that affects lots of young people and it's important you get good information and advice from people you can trust. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Can a lady get pregnant if she had intercourse using her buttox
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Yes
Hey Dumebi9! You will probably not get pregnant if you have anal sex. However, it's possible that it could happen if semen from the anus gets into the vagina. Please note that with anal sex, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) should be of more worry than pregnancy. The risk of getting an STD like HIV and AIDS is even higher with anal sex than vaginal sex. So instead of you to be worried about getting pregnant, you should be more worried about how prone your body will be to infections and diseases. We hope this helps.
How did you know you are pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Toju! To know if you are pregnant, we advise that you go for a pregnancy test. We hope this helps.
I was raped and when I was raped,blood didn't show,and I was 7year then, have I lost my virginity
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Tolu! So sorry about this. Bleeding is not a sign of virginity because not every virgin bleeds. We advise that you go for a proper virginity test in the hospital to clear all your doubts or worries. Also, please talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps.
i only have sex when am still 5 and the person is only using his finger am i still a virgin
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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U Culd loose ur virginity @wateva age. Nw in ur cas it dpnds on hw deep his fingers wnt in2 u.
Hey Better! So sorry to hear about this. It is possible for one to loose her virginity through fingering sometimes but this does not happen all the time. We hope this helps
but how can i check if am still a virgin
how can i check if am still a virgin
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Better! It is very tricky because not everyone has a hymen but if you have had sex or any form of penetration, you are most likely not a virgin. Some people loose their virginity through some forms of exercise also. We hope this helps.
Nice one.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Can a lady get pregnant after 2days of sex ?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Roy! Yes, it is very possible. We hope this helps
Roy, it depends on her fertile window.
Yes, this is very true, there are lots of myths out there that brainwashes young women in Nigeria.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Type your comment here.. have not seen my period since june22 nd I had toilet infections can it stop my period
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey girl! Yes, it is possible that that may be the cause of your delayed period. However, you need to be sure of the number of days in your circle. If you have a 28-day circle, there is no need to panic because it is not yet up to 28 days. Please talk to a trusted adult and also talk to your doctor for proper treatment. We hope this helps.
am gift i was on my period when i met my husband since 3 weeks i have not seem my period i feel weak and my breast the nipple is itching me please help me
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Gift! Thanks for opening up with this comment. We advise that you go for a proper pregnancy test to be sure. We hope this helps.
am gift seem have not seem my period does it means am pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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are u sure?
YEAH
Hi big sister,is it good to have sex before marriage?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Precious! This is a personal decision. If you do not feel bad about it and you feel it is the right thing to do, then it is up to you. However, if you must have sex, always use a condom to avoid pregnancy and also STDs and STIs. We hope this helps.
MY COMMENT DO NOT COME OUT WHY
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Nne! Your comment is being blocked because you are probably using an inappropriate word. There are certain words that are ban of this site. Reconsider the words you are trying to use and your comments will be approved. We hope this helps.
Okay Am Sorry What Should I Do Please!
2weeks after my bf fingered me I have a blood stain on my pant and I don't think,its is mestruation,cause I didn't feel any pain at all,am I pregnant or what I don't understand, pls help me??
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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I guess it means u r no longer a virgin
Ur case depends on how deep his fingers went in. U can also go for proper tests
Hey Amakaright! It could be that he broke your hymen when he fingered you thus the bleeding. The only way you can get pregnant is if there was sperm on his fingers. However, we advise that you take a pregnancy test if you do not feel safe. We hope this helps.
how long will the bleeding take
how long does pregnancy bleeding takes?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Amakaright! Ideally, one should not bleed while pregnant. A pregnant woman that notices she is bleeding should see a doctor immediately as it is not safe for her or the baby. We hope this helps.
If A Woman Just Giv Birth When Is It Ok 4 Her 2 Av Sex Nd If They Dont To Use C D Wat Can They Do
When a lady first have sex,how long does the bleeding takes
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Tomiwa! There is no particular time frame for this. It is totally dependent on the individual. We hope this helps.
big sis! When is it safe for a girl to have sex after finishing her period
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Massalati! A woman gets fertile half way into her menstrual circle. Most times, timing when it is safe to have sex can be tricky because sperm lives in the body for up to 5 days and if not properly planned, one can get pregnant. Apart from pregnancy, chances of having STDs, STIs and even HIV will also be very high if you have unprotected sex. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps.
I had sex when i was small and does it mean that if i have sex again i may be pregnant if i'm not menstrating
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey DAMSEL! Thanks for opening up through this comment. One gets pregnant when ovulation occurs (fertilisation of eggs). A girl may not have started her period but she may have started ovulating. So it is possible to get pregnant even if you have not yet started your period. If you must have sex, please use protection. There is more to having unprotected sex e.g STIs, STDs, HIV etc. We hope this helps.
pls Big sis I had sex yesterday and I have take one pills.And have seen my period 4 dis month dat last week.may I still get pregnant or I may nt see my period next month.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Orpy! Thanks for opening up with this comment. The only way and also the safest way to know if you are pregnant is to do a proper pregnancy test because assumptions don't work well sometimes. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor to be sure. Remember, if you must have sex, please use protection. There is more to having unprotected sex e.g STIs, STDs, HIV etc. We hope this helps.
pls Big sister, I have seen my period 4 dis month last week and I had sex yesterday n I have take pills dat yesterday. it's possible 4 me too see my period next month or may I get pregnant.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
what can cause d whitish discharge dat one has
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
how do I treat infection in order to get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Darling! We advise that you go to the hospital for a proper test and also for treatment. We hope this helps.
plz big sis help me why is it that after having sex the next thing that will come out of my body is blood I think I av a problem
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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ask Google
numba3 u lie
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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What DoYou Mean By That
Can a person use salts to flash the sperm?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Pizzy! No, you can't and you should not. The vagina is a very sensitive place and we should always be careful with what we put in there. Salt is too harsh for the vagina. If you do not want sperm in your body, please use a condom while having sex. Once again, please do not use salt in your vagina. We hope this helps.
Pls Big Ant I Had Sex With My Gf Once Then Some Mouth Late She Tel Mi Dat She Prengant 4 Mi It Is Possible
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Godwin! Thanks for opening up through this comment. The easiest way to find out if the child is truly yours is to do a DNA test (paternity test). You both need to go to the hospital for a paternity test to be conducted. Please involve a trusted adult while you are at this. We hope this helps.
Big Sist I Ask Aduit About It She Tel Mi Dat If A Girl Have Sex 4 A Long Time Nd A Boy Sex Her Dat She Can Get Prengant It Is True
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Hey Godwin! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, you don't have to have sex for a long time to get pregnant. Actually, sometimes, penetration (sex) does not have to occur for one to get pregnant. All it takes for one to get pregnant is sperm coming in contact with fertilised eggs (of a girl) and this can happen in different ways. Also, there is more to having unprotected sex which is STDs, STIs, HIV etc which is also as bad as getting pregnant so sometimes. So we advise that if you must have sex, please use protection. We hope this helps.
2week after my bf fingered me,I saw my period and it was not like my mestural period and now I have pain my breast and I go to the toliet almost all the time due to the fact that I am popping as in am not unirating,I am logging and early morning,I feel tired and my eyes are somehow,am I preganat?
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have been stooling,for like 10 times in a day.
Hey Amakaright! Sometimes, periods don't come heavily. Tender breast and also purging is a sign of period for some people. If you are so worried Amakaright, please do a proper pregnancy test because guessing and assuming won't help you at all. So please go for a test. As for stooling 10 times a day, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
I believe no 1 is wrong coz it happened to 1 of my friend and she didn't get pregnant MD she has started her period
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Whenever my bf sleeps with me and it time for him to pour sperm he removes he dick is there any chance of pregnancy
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Hey Valentina! Yes, there is! Sometimes, the pre-cum (what comes out before the sperm) is all that is need for one to get pregnant. Also, withdrawal is also very tricky because it is very hard to control the sperm while orgasm takes place and so most times, the boy releases even before he is able to withdraw. Apart from getting pregnant, unprotected sex can lead to one getting STDs and STIs which can be deadly sometimes. Please if you must have sex, use protection. We hope this helps.
alright i tell my other friends about this
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hey big sister.... My bf had sex with me wit a condom but it had a little hole... Will i get pregnant
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Hey Ika! There is a high possibility of getting pregnant if the condom had a hole. Please go for a proper pregnancy test to be sure. We hope this helps.
big sis, my bf fingered me two weeks before my period is there possibility of me getting pregnant
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Hey Cynosure! We removed this message because it contains insults
Hey Exquisite! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina. The only way you can get pregnant is if he had sperm in his fingers before inserting it into your vagina. If he did, you should have a pregnancy test done and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
big sis,pls am 18 now can i have a girl friend?
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Hey CHIJIOKE! This is a personal decision. Having a girlfriend does not necessarily mean you have to be a certain age, it is all about being ready. You have to be sure you are ready to be in a relationship with a girl and also be ready to know what you want out of such relationship. So please think it through well before you make such a decision. We hope this helps.
Am 16 can I have abf
I have waistpain,breast pain, dizziness,sleepy, am i pregnant, cause my bf fingered me and now am bleeding or is it my mestural period cause it only lasted 2day,
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few days after my mestural period stop,all those sicknesses left,but now am having only waist pain and mestural pain,and am not on my period, why all this? I did a unrine pregnancy test and it was negative
pls notice some pregnancy symptoms if u ve BT if nt go to chemist cos urinary test may nt she early
Hey Giftedvv! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina. The only way you can get pregnant is if he had sperm in his fingers before inserting it into your vagina. What you need to do right now is not to confuse your period with whatever it is that you are feeling. Was the bleeding heavy and did you need to wear a sanitary pad? Also, we advise that you wait for about 2 weeks again before you do another pregnancy test to be sure you are getting the right result. We hope this helps
yes I wore different sanitary pads for 3day,and after the bleeding, I had virignal discharges, some are yellow and some are white,and now I have cramps,but I didn't bleed?? why!!?
sum types most feelings and symtoms we get r due to wat we thinking and fear of d unknown can cause a gr8t deal.
yes thanks
yeah I love dat it's true, d best way nt to get pregnant is by avoiding sex
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That is true
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Can a girl get pregnant if the boy do not release sperm inside her
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not @ all
Tnx
Hey Self! No, you won't get pregnant if sperm is not released. Unprotected sex is not advisable as you are most likely to get pregnant. You should also note that pregnancy is not the only risk involved when you have unprotected sex. The chances of you getting an STD, HIV or even AIDS is higher when you have unprotected sex. We hope this helps.
No. Sperms cause pregnancy.
As a pregnant woman which position is good for sex
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Hey Fct! This information will be better explained and demonstrated at the clinic where you attend ante natal. Kindly ask them for full details on this. Thanks and we hope this helps.
plz a friend of mine asked this question she said if someone went for abortion and after that something fell from her varginal now the question is this what is that thing that fell?
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Hey Pweedymhe12! Please tell your friend to see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps.
can a virgin get pregnant first time of having sex and how can it be prevented
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Hey Camelli! Yes, it is possible. You do not have to have sex more than once to get pregnant. The best and safest way to avoid pregnancy is to abstain. If you must have sex, please use a condom to avoid STIs, HIV/AIDS. We hope this helps.
And also if a virgin takes contractive pills will it stop her from getting pregnant and will she bleed
Hi cameli! It will stop her frm getting pregnant and it will bleed.
What is the meaning of fingering?
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Hey Goody! Fingering is the use of fingers or hands to sexually stimulate the vagina. It is done for sexual arousal. We hope this helps.
Isn't it painful
I hav never tried it
if a girl has not started seeing her periods can she get pregnant
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Hey Sweetie! Yes, it is possible. One gets pregnant when ovulation occurs (fertilization of eggs). A girl may not have started her period but she may have started ovulating. So it is possible to get pregnant even if you have not yet started your period. We hope this helps
My left breast hurts when my bf touch it,my breast are just little
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Hey Kinky! Maybe he is touching it too hard and aggressively. We hope this helps.
is it true when u r see ur period boy can nt touch u or if a touch u will been pregnant nt sleeping with d boy
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Hey Angela! That is not true. However, this depends on the type of touch you mean though. Pregnancy requires the sperm of a boy entering into your body. This can either be through sex or fingering (if his sperm touches his hands and he puts it into your vagina). We will appreciate if you tell us the type of touch you are talking about so that we can explain better. We hope this helps.
am nt talking abt having sex wat i mean is when u play wit a boy and the boy hand touch ur body nd u r c ur period
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Hey Angela! Thanks for explaining better. As we said earlier, sex is not the only way a girl can get pregnant. If the boy touches her vagina with his fingers that has sperm on it, there is a possibility of her getting pregnant. However, if he touches her hands or her shoulders, she cannot get pregnant. Pregnancy requires the sperm of a boy entering into the vagina of a girl. We hope this helps.
its true that if we have sex in water I am not going tobe pregnant
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Hey Maryam! No, it is not true. If you have unprotected sex (whether on land or in water), there is a high chance of you getting pregnant. Also, remember that pregnancy is not the only risky thing attached to have unprotected sex. There is also a very high chance of getting STDs, STIs or even HIV. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps.
if u use condom can it prevent u from hving sex
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Hey Eghosa! Condoms help prevent pregnancy and also sexually transmitted diseases and infections when one has sex. The primary use is for the prevention of pregnancy and also diseases. It does not prevent one from having sex. We hope this helps.
YES, IT REALLY HELP !
jumping or washing her self is not the way, bcos ife balu abanyego, e don enter b say e don enter
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What is masturbation?
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Masturbation is the act of arousing one's genitals without the opp sex,picturing a part of the opp sex and trying to gain satifaction
Thanks for answering Star!
Dose masturbation has any negative effect in the body?
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Hey Bright2020! It may not physically affect the body but it may affect you in other ways. Being addicted to masturbation can have a negative impact on your relationships and other parts of your life. Masturbating too much may interrupt your work or studies, which can lower productivity. We hope this helps
What are sex toys?
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Hey Star! A sex toy is an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure. We hope this helps.
What is oral sex?
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Hey Star! Oral sex means using your mouth and tongue to stimulate your partner’s genital or anal area, providing sexual pleasure. We hope this helps.
Bigsister am scared,on the month of july my bf fingered me on my clothes on and days after i feel dizzy,breast pain,dont feel like eat anything,i was so tired and aferwards i had my period on the 19 of july,then after they all stop and only my breast hurt,but it stop,my mesturation lasted for 2day,that month was so different,i had urine test and i wasn't pregnant and later,in the next month August i start having mestural cramp but no mestural period then on the 10th i had my period and on the months of September now i feel very hungry almost all the time and been urinating frequently.and my frequent urinating start since july,i haven't seen my period for this months and my period is irregular but u can be pregnant and still be on your period right,am so scared,why all these changes,people say am growing thin,we did had any sex,i hope am not pregnant
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Hey Nabliat66! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina. The only way you can get pregnant is if he had sperm in his fingers before inserting it into your vagina. We advise that you do another pregnancy test to be sure. This could just be your mind playing games with you. Calculate your period to know when you will be expecting your period for September. Also, do not panic because panic does more harm than good. We hope this helps.
Hi Big Sis! After Reading Some Of D Comments Outlined Below, I Figured Out Dis Question; Can Breast Pain Also Come As A Result Of Fingering?
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Hey PETTY! Breast pain is not caused by fingering. There are so many things that cause but fingering is not one of them. We hope this helps.
bigsister am confuse because i thought when a man pours his sperm on a lady and she washes it of and take drugs she will not get pregnant
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Hey Sexyp! Thanks for the question. First of all, washing sperm (with whatever) does not stop one from getting pregnant. Do not believe that because it doesn't work. Also, pills need to be prescribed by a doctor because not all drugs work for everybody. There is also a particular time that you have to take the drug for it to work. We hope this helps.
Tnx sis
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Hi big sis I had sex with my boy friend with condom but along the line d condom burst so a senior friend of mine advice me to take gin mixed with Lipton nd lime to prevent pregnancy is it a good idea pls help me thou cos am scared.
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Big sis!My friend told me that if a boy touch a girl breast,it will be large.Is it true?
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Hey Faith! No, it is not true. The growth of your breast is hormonal and cannot be influenced by the touch of a boy. We hope this helps
Hi big sis! I had sex with ma boyfriend without a condom, can i get pregnant in the proccess?
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Hey Meg! Yes, pregnancy can occur if you have unprotected sex. Apart from pregnancy, chances of having STDs, STIs and even HIV will also be very high if you have unprotected sex. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps.
tankz big sis
am still a virgin at 17 but my boyfriend says i should ve sex with him but am scared of getting pregnant so he concluded that am we gona quit,pls what should i do ?
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Hey JABBY! If you are not ready to get romantic, talk to your boyfriend about it and make him understand that you are not interested in being romantic yet. But you have to be very careful and try not be alone with him in a lonely place or at night. But if he treatens to quit the relationship because of this, please do nothing about it. Let him go! No one should force you to do what you are not ready to do. If he loves you (like he claims), he will respect your decision. We hope this helps.
Hi big sis:i was disvirgin wen i was 18yrs,and since then any time am sitting close to a guy i admire i will become wet. Pls wht do i do?
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Hey Meg! What you feel has nothing to do with being a virgin or not. It is a perfectly normal because you are attracted to that person. So do not feel bad. It is when you start using that feeling wrongly that matters. We hope this helps
Hey EBUSEH! Thanks for your question. We are glad you have expressed concern about what happened. From your comment, it sounds like the girl was unaware of what you did and did not give her consent. This is very serious. Besides pregnancy, it could effect the girl's wellbeing in the long term and could result in difficulties with the police for you. It is important that you get more information and good advice from people you can trust. The Child Advocacy Centre helps young people like you. You can call them on 08 00 80 080 01 to get answers to your question. This service is completely confidential - which means they won't share what you say to them with other people. Please know your credit may be charged for the cost of the call. We hope you get the help you need.
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Hy big sis: how can i control my sexual desire?
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Hey Meg! First of all, it is perfectly normal for teenagers to have the urge for sex because you are just getting to know your body and explore a lot of things. To control your sexual urge, you need to know that sex and the urge starts from the mind. So you need a worthy distraction and also to keep yourself really busy too. We hope this helps.
Hi Big sister, is their a probability for a girl to get pregnant if she links a guys sperm
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Hey MhizGEe! We do not understand this. Kindly explain better. Thanks
What i mearnt was, can a girl get pregnant after sucking a guys dick,and drinking up the sperm
I am a virgin and always feel like having a sex, what should I do? nd how do I choose a ryt sex partner?
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Hey Fgirl! Having sexual urge is perfectly normal as a teenager so do not feel bad or weird. Having sex and choosing a partner is very personal but what we will advise about having sex is that the official age of adulthood in Nigeria is 18 but that doesn't mean that is the age for you to have sex. It is all about an individuals readiness and maturity for sex. In preparing for sex, you need to make sure you are ready for it (not because everyone is doing it but because your mind and body is ready for it), also you need to make sure that your partner is above the age of 18 and is willing to have sex with you. Do not force yourself on anyone because that officially becomes rape. If she says she is no longer interested at any point, do not force or lure her into it. The most important of them all is safe sex. Please always have unprotected sex. We hope this helps.
Is condom always safe
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It's not as safe as u thought, cuz it may break/burst which may likely lead to a high chances of being pregnant and being infected with STI/STDs and even HIV. Hope it helps
Hey Natasha! Fgirl has said it all. Condom is not 100% safe. The only way to stay safe is to abstain. We hope this helps.
cn fingerin lead 2 lose of virginity
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Hey Caeli! Sexual intercourse is not the only way for one to loose her virginity. Once there is some form of penetration (fingering etc), there are high chances of one loosing her virginity. We hope this helps.
Can someone who is pregnant still see her period?
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Thank u for questioning Lili it's a NO the Zygot block the passage..
Ok I love this thanks very much
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Thank u for sharing your view with us
woaho its interesting to kno the truth...Be springter until u r really ready for sex
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i need a girlfriend but am shyn
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Use the social media''though be careful.
Cool
Cool
Girls pls dont fall into the hand of sum useless Guys some just want to take advantage of you Dey would say dat . Dey love you but if they love You de way dey say they would not ask for sex When they it can destroy your life
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hope it's not with me pls?
True talk
dats the funny truth.guys are just too cunning for my liking.
Big Sis,if A Girl @ The Age Of 11yrs Had Sex With A Man Abt 21yrs Bt D Girl Ave Nt Started Mestrurating Bt At D Age Of 12yr She Start Doing Her Period Does D Girl Still A Virgin?
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Hey Margaret! No dear, you will no longer be a virgin. Virginity has nothing to do with your period. For one to loose her virginity, penetration (penis entering into the vagina) is all that is needed. The only way to remain a virgin is abstinence (not having sex). We hope this helps.
Can a sperm enter into a female virginal when she is wearing her pant and nika,the guys didn't insert his. Pennis,only his hand,that he put in the girls Virginia, could a sprm enter through that way??
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Hey Nabliat66! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina. The only way you can get pregnant is if he had sperm in his fingers before inserting it into your vagina. If he had sperm in his hands, we advice that you talk to a trusted adult and go for a pregnancy test. immediately. We hope this helps.
What if one drinks Andrew liver salt or drink she drinks hot drink like Chelsea or action bitter after having sex. will the person get pregnant?
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@ Favour, body differs, so anoda man food is anoda man poison, so it ll terminate d pregnancy BT some bodies a stubborn, ll still stay. beta c a doctor & nt take harmful tons cos may lead to abnomality of child afta birth.
Hey Favour! Yes, it is possible to still get pregnant. None of those things will prevent pregnancy. Please, do not take any of them. If you must have sex, please use a condom to avoid sexually transmitted diseases, HIV or even AIDS. If you want to avoid pregnancy, abstinence is key. We hope this helps.
Pls help me. I couldn't hold sex cos I had huge so much, den I mastubated till I released & b satisfy. is it beta I shld do did way Dan meeting a man if I ve d huge. Big sis & others help
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Hey Bleez! Girls your age tend to explore their body a lot of times so it is perfectly normal. Masturbation is a personal decision that only you can make for yourself. We hope this helps
If a girl sucks her man's penis can she get pregnant?
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Hey Springster! No she can't. Penetration is not the only way to get a girl pregnant. As long as the sperm gets into the vagina, there are chances of getting pregnant. Sperm can get into the vagina through fingers (if the sperm gets in contact with the fingers and these fingers touch the vagina, pregnancy can occur). Sperm can also get into the vagina if the boy ejaculates near the vagina. Also be careful so that you do not contact STDs like Herpes. We hope this helps
if a girl masturbate`s is she still a virgin????
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Hey Springster! Sexual intercourse is not the only way for one to loose her virginity. Once there is some form of penetration (fingering etc), there are high chances of one loosing her virginity. We hope this helps.
pls advise; I do mastubste always too. seems I enjoy it Dan sex now
Even if you like jump from today till tommorr it will not stop it from happing The best way is to abstain from it
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Typeour comment here...big sis pls i need a reply cos this have been burden to me when i was 3 i donn't really know if to call it sex i can't remember since that day till today i havenot had any sexual relationshhp with any body i'm i still a virgin
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up with this comment. You need to tell us what happened so that we know how to respond. Also, we advise that you take your mind off it. Do not let it bother you. Do not pay too much attention to whether you are a virgin or not and let it affect you and your relationship with people. Holding on to things like these will distract you. It may be hard to forget but do not let it define who you are now. You are an amazing Springster and that is all that matters. We hope this helps.
big sis i need a reply cause i have a gulity conscience and i need to settle it
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Hi big sis am really scared my boyfriend fingered me last week and since then my period has passed it due date and I only discharge whitish substance from my Virginia pls hope am not pregnant?
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Hey Springster! You will not get pregnant if a finger is inserted into your vagina. The only way you can get pregnant is if he had sperm in his fingers before inserting it into your vagina. If he did, you should have a pregnancy test done and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
Hn
There is this guy that forcefully wanted to have sex with me but on getting access to my uterus he noticed that his penis cannot get through and he still wanted to force it in so i want to knw if i can get pregnant if he forces it in?
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Hey Geofrey! Thanks for opening up with this comment. The first thing you should do is to report this case to your parents or a trusted adult around you. As long as his sperm did not come out, there is no cause for alarm on being pregnant but you still need to see a doctor for checkup. This is a serious issue and the guy needs to be reported. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
big sister.... if a girl and her bf had sex. and he dosent insert his penis into her virgina but through her anus.... Will she get pregnant????
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Sorry to say that but I don't think it OK to have sex through anus
Hey Bimmy! We removed this message because it contains insults and we do not accept such words here
Hey Springster! You will probably not get pregnant if you have anal sex. However, it's possible that it could happen if semen from the anus gets into the vagina. Please note that with anal sex, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) should be of more worry than pregnancy. The risk of getting an STD like HIV and AIDS is even higher with anal sex than vaginal sex. So instead of you to be worried about getting pregnant, you should be more worried about how prone your body will be to infections and diseases. We hope this helps.
,,,sis i had sex after my ovulation,,,twice without protection with my bf,,entering the nxt month my period seize to cum up till nw,,,,,i dnt knw if am pregnant,,,,,but am nt expericing any sign of pregnancy,,,,i feel fine,,,dnt am confuse;,dnt knw wat to do,,,can u help me???
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Hey Alija! Please go for a pregnancy test and always remember to use a condom. Not just to avoid pregnancy but also to avoid sexually transmited diseases (STDs) or even HIV. Also, please talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
pls i saw my period last week wenesday and it stop on sunday can i sex this week wenesday
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Hmmm...
yes
is it if the sperm touches the vegina will d girl get pregnant
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Hey Feranmi! Yes, it is. Also remember that the liquid that comes out just before the sperm comes out is also potent enough to make a woman get pregnant so the best way to prevent pregnancy and other sexually transmitted diseases/infections (STDs/STIs) is to always use a condom if you must have sex or to abstain. We hope this helps
if d boy didn't pour that sperm inside virgina what will happen?
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Hey olasunkanmi! Pregnancy will not occur. However, having unprotected sex makes you prone to STIs/STDs or even HIV. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
u wiil not get pregnant
Big sis pls I need ur help right nw,in dis month I did my period on 1 to on 4 & saw another one on 10 to on 13 in dat same month I thought dat d end in dat month or it wnt too change date bt no, I saw another one again yesterday in dis same month please ma what is go on I need ur help like serious.
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Big sis u dnt answer my own question y
big sis what about those who has usually have unprotected sex still the will not still get pregnant ....could it be that something is wrong with dat person????
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Hey susubaby! Thanks for the comment. Unprotected sex is unadvisable as there are many risks involved. You should also note that pregnancy is not the only risk involved when you have unprotected sex. The chances of you getting an STD, HIV or even AIDS is higher when you have sex unprotected. We hope this helps
Girls pls am beging it like in the world of today guy use Girls and dump them and girls as teenagers it is meant For girls to remain vigins but in the world of today guys Belives girls cannot remain vigins till marrige but girls i want you girls to take it as a goal to remain vigins Meanwhile guys wont you be happy to marry you wife as a vigin . Girls the best gift you can give your husband is your viginity......
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Pls i need replys to keep the fun going And i really need to know your thought
Big sis I need ur reply nw pls
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Hey Torpy! So sorry we missed your question. Please talk to a trusted adult about this and see a doctor too. We hope this helps
My bf fingered me with my clothes on,and am sure it without no sperm,since July and since them,I was very scared cause I thought I will get pregnant, after July I got my period, August, September, October, but I very scanty,not red,somehow brown and watery,with small blood cloth,and am having back pain or waist pain,Breast pain,pain like mestural pain,my breasts is soft,and inside my mouth is doing somehow,I feel dizzy at times,sometimes as if I wanna vomit,but have done a urine test and it said negative, it suppose to be negative, cause there no contact with the sperm,but why all these sign,some say is PMS,some say is ovulation, some say it a physcological changes and I very scared,that the first time he will do that, I don't have money or know where to do a blood test.am very scared now, my leg sometime look sollowen but I did had sex,why all this
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Hey Serious! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, we can only but imagine the stress you are going through right now. There is every possibility that this is just a panic attack or the light blood flow could be an infection. However, we advise that you take another test (urine test if you cannot afford a blood test). Be sure to take the test close to when your period is due or 2 weeks after you ovulate for proper accuracy. But we still advise that you see a doctor for proper diagnosis because assumptions can be dangerous especially if this is an infection. We also advise that you talk to a trusted adult (any adult you trust that can give you proper advise and guidance on what to do). Big sis will also be here for you okay? Do not let fear control you. Panic and fear can also affect your health negatively. No matter what happens, you will be fine. We hope this helps
Pls what should I do am scared,have my bf,he said we didn't do anything, that it my mind playing a trick on me, that we didn't do anything, I started my period on the 25 of October with a brownish watery discharge at first and later watery and some blood cloth,lasted 3days but scanty,pls if am not pregnant why all this sign and what should I do for this month period to be normal,if am not pregnant???? Pls I need ur help
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
big sis some time i jst feel like havin sex why?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey bsmart! It is perfectly normal for you to get sexual urges. When you reach puberty, your interest in sexual activities intensifies because your hormones start to develop. You may want to explore as you are getting very curious and also because your organs begin to develop. This happens to so many adolescents and teenagers so you are not alone. We hope this helps
Hey sis!aw do i knw a guy is a virgin?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Verah! Truth be told, there is no physical virginity test for men to know if they actually are. The best way of getting to the bottom of this is to openly ask the guy if he has had any sexual relations in the past. This may be a bit difficult because you are fully dependent on his ability to tell the truth. We hope this helps.
can a girl get pregnant when having her period
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey kali! Yes… The only way to avoid getting pregnant is to abstain but if you must have sex, please use a condom. Pregnancy is not the only risk involved in having unprotected sex. You are prone to sexually transmitted diseases and even HIV. So if you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
can condom prevent someone to avoid pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! The best and safest way for you to avoid getting pregnant is to abstain. Condoms can also help but they are not 100% safe. We hope this helps
pls is it true dat first tym of sexing brings abt d cming of blood in gals?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Yes
Tanx
Hey Verah! Not with every girl. Bleeding is not a sign of virginity because not every virgin bleeds. The truth is that No Two Hymens Are Alike… The hymen is a tissue that’s filled with blood vessels that typically covers part of the vaginal opening. Some girls have a thick hymen or a hymen that covers a lot of the vaginal opening. Other girls have a very thin hymen or a hymen that covers very little of the vaginal opening. We hope this answers your question.
Hy big sis,is it when a girl is on her period she cn gt pregnant after s3x
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You can get pregnant when you have unprotected sex. The safest way to avoid getting pregnant is to abstain but if you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
Hi big sis if a girl is dis virgin and their is a blood stain but if their is no blood stain and that is her first time of having sex is she still a virgin
Big sis is it possible for a girl to get pregnant after having sex four days before her menstration
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey blessingwilson! It is possible especially if she had unprotected sex. You are prone to pregnancy anytime you have unprotected sex. The only way to prevent pregnancy is to abstain but if you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
hi
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hi to u too
I had sEx 4 days after my period,,,will I get pregnant?? please I need your reply.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hi Sanchez! It is really hard to determine whether you are pregnant, every girl's body is different. If you did not use a condom or another type of birth control then it is best to get a pregnancy test either at a trusted clinic or with a pregnancy test from a good pharmacy. Some girls can get pregnant 4 days after their period if they have short menstrual cycles so the best way to know is to get a test about 2 weeks after you have unprotected sex. Please remember to be careful and make sure you use a condom if you have to have sex. We hope this helps.
hey,,Big sis I need answer please
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Big sis am new here so i guess am welcome..... Have never wanted to get involve in sex but i gave in... I had sex with my boyfriend on the 13th of october... I saw my menses before that... On the 29th i saw it again after having sex on the 13.. And it finished on the 1st of november.... Something like water started coming outta my nipples and when i tasted it was salty.... I was really scared that i went to the hospital for test and it was negative but am still scared because of the liquid coming outta my nipples tho i like romancing a lot... Thank you
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Seraph! Welcome to Springster and thanks for opening up through this comment. If the test was negative then you shouldn't really worry about it. What you should do is to talk to a trusted adult about the liquid and also go back to the doctor for proper explanation. We hope this helps
Wat if his sperm drop mistakely
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Wat if his sperm drop mistakely wat can u take to stop it
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hello Lovely, we would love if you could be clearer about this question. We need to know where exactly the sperm was dropped. If he was inside you at the time then there is really nothing to do to remove the sperm. Try to see a doctor or take a pregnancy test as soon as possible. We hope this helps.
PLEASE I WANTED 2 HV SEX BUT I DONT KNOW HOW 2 DO
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey PECTOR! Thanks for opening up through this comment. If you do not know how to have sex, it is obvious that you are not yet ready for it because you cannot do what you don't know how to. Do not be under pressure to have sex because everyone is having sex. Be ready! read articles about it, ask questions, be knowledgable. Know how to protect yourself before you even think of starting. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
nice...a million% true
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
how do i know am in ovulation period
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey emel! The whitish thing you see is called vaginal discharge and it is not just whitish, there are other colors and feels that occur at different times in your menstrual cycle. It could be clear, milky or stretchy depending on your cycle. The only time you should be worried about a discharge is if it green or yellow in colour, if its clumpy like cheese, if it has a bad odour, rashes, swelling or if it itches. Seeing a discharge does not necessarily mean that your period is coming soon. We hope this helps.
hi am new here hope am welcome ,whenever i want to see my period it like hell, for over 3 yrs, but i discovered wen i started dating my bf,but wen i begin to have sex with him,my period flow bit by bit and i don't feel any pains for over 3month nw ,i need to knw y pls
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Chiney u don't feel pains anymore because uve already had sex
Hey chiney! Before we get to your question, @Sunny08 that is not true. Having sex does not stop you from having menstrual pain. Now back to the original question, we do not get cramps all the times and sometimes, our period signs and symptoms change too. This does not mean that you will never have cramps again. We hope this helps
But can ampiclos bicham prevent pregnancy
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Puppy! No, it cannot. That is an antibiotic and it doesn't have anything to do with pregnancy. The only way to avoid pregnancy is to abstain but if you must have sex, please always use a condom. We hope this helps
Am new I want a date
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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hey Hw u
can the sign of pregnacy show up after one week of unprotected sex?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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having sex every and using prevention drug everyday can d person still get pregnant
Hey waclef! It takes between 6 - 10 days for the sperms to fertilize the eggs. If you must have sex, please use a condom to avoid getting STDs/STIs or HIV. We hope this helps
Hello, I don't know if it is cool to ask. Which drug can a lady use to prevent unwanted pregnancy after having unprotected sex? Just asking
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Your doctor will be in the best position to give you this information. We hope this helps
hlo am new here am having this pain for 2weeks now when ever i touth my brest its hurt
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps
Hi Big sis, I am a vigin, but two days a guy tried to rape me. He pulled my trouser down and was trying to insert his penis, but it wasn't easy for him, I pushed him away, he was strong and screamed but I was home alone. He pulled me down and quickly insert his penis in my anus, he wasn't able to penetrate very well, because I quickly stood up, he removed it. He then put his finger inside my Virgina, and then tried to insert his penis again, he was able to just put it at the outer part of my Virgina as he keeps missing the way, When I realised he was about to make his way, I bite him so deep and pushed him away, as he was still facing down in pain I ran outside. I checked around my Virgina, there was some white mucus substance which he released, i don't know if it's semen or sperm, it was quite much and around my Virgina surface, I quickly cleaned up. I checked my trouser i saw there was a whitish clear substance with a little blood mixed with it(sperm or semen I don't know)it was at the back of my trouser, i guessed it dropped from him when he was trying to insert his penis into my anus. Please help me, I want to be sure if I'm still a virgin or not. Because he didn't penetrate deep at all, I didn't feel he enter me, it didn't hurt me, he was just at the tip. But i dont know why he released that much.Please help, I hope I'm not pregnant, because since then, I'm been feeling somehow, my anus hurts but it stopped yesterday.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Baby! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We are so sorry for what you went through. We can only but imagine what you went through. First of all, you need to report this to a trusted adult around you. Also, you should talk to a doctor about this so and get tested. We also hope you are not pregnant. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including sex and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Have a qustn apart 4rm usn condom hw can u ave a sex without gtng pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Triumph! We have already answered this question in the other comment. Please read through it. Thanks
Can i get pregnant by kissing and romancing my boyfriend
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey merit! No, you cannot. The only way you can get pregnant is if sperm comes in contact with the vagina. Kissing will not get you pregnant. We do not know what you mean by romancing but if that includes penetration (having unprotected sex), then you can get pregnant. We hope this helps
Merit. You just want to obtain kissing permission
my stomach is painting me I don't know what cost it please help me out
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Asmath2020! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
Please Will I Get Pregnate My Boy Friend Had Just Have Unprotected Sex In My Anus & Had Release Sperm There Please Am I Pregnate?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Chy! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Pregnancy is not the only risk involved in having unprotected sex. You are also prone to having infections/diseases. Anal sex exposes one to even more diseases. Please , you need to go for a proper pregnancy test and you should run a test too for infections. If you must have sex, please and please, use a condom. We hope this helps
hy sis.a friend of mine was raped dis sunday.due to d inccident she started bleeding.yet she ovulates,cn she pregnants?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey GOLD! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We are so sorry about what happpened to your friend. We can only imagine what she is going through right now. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Gold Aseigbu?
hey big sis am new but I have this problem with my girlfriend and I need a careful advice about it, I was the guy who disvirgin her but I realized that she always in the mood each time she set her eyes on me and am really confused with her she always have the desire to have sex with me she doesn't mind if I use condom or not all she want is sex trust me we have like 4-5 times everyday including today and am experiencing a strong pain in my penis and I need help with that.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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it is beta 4 u 2 abstan from her b4 she goes out of hand nd tel her what do happen to u after the sex
Hey cute! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You need to sit down and talk to your girlfriend. Explain your worries to her and make her know that there are high risks in this (e.g. pregnancy, infections etc). You should also talk to a trusted adult about this and see a doctor too for the pain. We hope this helps
it's painful 4 guy 2 realese sperm dan lady 2 give birth.
Hahahaha!!! Why won't you have penis pains when you have sex that often? By the way, I don't think you were the first person to have sex with your girlfriend. I mean, you have sex 4-5 times daily??? She's not a newbie man... Investigate more
big sis m new here though, hope m highly welcome....... av had sex with my bf den but I avnt started my period yet..... but now av started but I have not had something intimacy yet, ma????question is if par adventure I have sex today will I bleed ?????
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey ellabella! Thanks for the comment. You will only bleed if you have sex while on your period or towards the end of your period. Having sex after you have started your period does not make you bleed. We hope this helps
Hey big sis...I'm new here.....I'm 17...my boyfriend wants me to have sex with him... but I'm scared of getting pregnant and he doesn't want to use CD......he said if I take postinor2...I won't get pregnant...but big sis I'm still scared and I cant bear the heartbreak if he leaves me..... please can u help me out....will the postinor2 prevent pregnancy.... Thanks big sis
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donnn't don't do what you're not comfortable with.. speak up girl... tell him you're not ready if he leaves you then he isn't worth you.. you'll meet someone that'll love and adore you
Oh.... thanks ranita.... I won't....😧
Hey Daphne! Thanks for the comment and thanks to Ranita for that wonderful comment. She has said it all. In addition to that, please note that pregnancy is not the only risk to having unprotected sex. You are also at the risk of getting STDs/STIs or even HIV. Since you are not ready, don't do it. If he truly loves you, he will respect your decision. We hope this helps
Am 15 and haven't seen my first mesturation
i had sex the first day of my period. Can i get pregnant? But i stil have my period my normal 5 days. Can i still get pregnant!
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey 6a7y! Thanks for the comment. If you had unprotected sex, it is possible to get pregnant. Please note that if you must have sex, always use a condom. Also, having sex on your period exposes you getting infections. Please do a pregnancy test to be sure. We hope this helps
is it
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Hello big sis, hope all is great? Big sis I had unprotected sex two days after my period and I didn't take any pills to protect myself although the guy did not release inside me will I still get pregnant or infected??
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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how are u sure he didn't release inside u....
no
Hey meritb42! There are chances of you getting pregnant. Also, having unprotected sex can make you have infections especially if your partner is a carrier. Taking pills can't stop infections from coming. Please talk to a trusted adult and go to the hospital for a proper test. We hope this helps
Am virgin am afraid of having sex with my boyfriend
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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that is good dear, try to keep ur self till marriage time sis
Hey Ayomiposi! If you are afraid of having sex, that means you are not ready and so we advise that you do not have sex until you are sure that you are ready. Do not give in to pressure. We hope this helps
@17you are too young to get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
my friend told me that her boy friend do release on her underwear not her vaginal.can she pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey ANNAL! Thanks for the comment. First of all, she can get infected (STDs, STIS, HIV etc) because they are having unprotected sex. Secondly, yes she can get pregnant especially if she wears the underwear immediately. Sometimes, the sperm does not necessarily have to be released into the vagina for pregnancy to occur. As long as there is a contact (close to the vagina), pregnancy can occur. Please if your friend must have sex, tell her to always use a condom (you can also adhere to this information too). We hope this helps
thanks alot big sis.can a lady who is pregnant be menstrating?
Not possible
100% sur no doubtin.wen a guy release,e release nt less than 20million sperm.even out d vigina,they can swim in.
I don't think is possible how can a guy released on a girl under wear without no penetration she can still get pregnant big sis I think you should just say the truth not using lie to make people avoid sex tell them is not good to have sex when u are not yet married. period
The best thing is to abstain from sex, don't depend on protection it can fail uuu
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
if a boy kisses and romance a girl will she get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Love! Thanks for the comment. What do you mean by romance? If you mean sex, then yes, pregnancy is possible. Please, if you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
If a girl get pregnant how to remove that pregnant
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We do not encourage this act and so we advise that you talk to a trusted adult about this and then see a doctor. We hope this helps
when iz d aiit time to hv sex
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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I think u can hv sex if u and ur partner hv agreed
Hey Springster! Like Feyvour said, sex has to be based on consent from the partner. So if your partner is not ready, then you shouldn't be having sex. Also, you have to be sure that you are responsible enough and ready for any consequence that comes with it. Finally, please note that if you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
Pls can someone help me my girlfrd want me 2 disvirgined her without condom and me i don't want 2 become a father nw,and i am ready 4 it pls hw can i prevent my self 4rm dix prob
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey feyvour! Thanks for the comment. If you are not ready to have sex, no one should make you do it. Tell your girlfriend that you are not ready. If she loves you, she will respect your decision. Do not have sex because you are under pressure to do it but rather, have sex when you are ready to have sex. We hope this helps
Can girl get pregnant with condom after sex , in a month to that time ?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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yes, in most cases der ar some condom dat's been cut(link) witout usein dem.
Hey Evidence5851! Condoms can sometimes prevent pregnancy but please note that it is not 100% accurate. So this means that you are still prone to getting pregnant. Like enyola said, condoms can break and leak too. The only way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence. We hope this helps
How can i discover 1 month or 2 month pregnant from my girl body ? , without doing testing ?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Evidence5851! The only way to confirm that you are pregnant is by doing a test. Guessing may work but it is just best to do a test. We hope this helps
What period can a guy meet girl to avoid pregnancy?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey veronica15! Please, if you must have sex, always use a condom. Pregnancy is not the only risk involved in having unprotected sex. You can also get infected with STDs/STIs or even HIV. We hope this helps
Can condom protect unwanted pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey veronica15! Condoms can sometimes prevent pregnancy but please note that it is not 100% accurate. So this means that you are still prone to getting pregnant. Condoms can break and leak too. The only way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence. We hope this helps
Can condom protect unwanted pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Big sis it is good to sleep to have sex with ashawoo
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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dat is totally up to u....it's ur decesion
Hey feyvour! Thanks for the comment. You need to note that prostitution is a criminal offense in Nigeria and anyone that patronizes them is automatically an accomplice and can also be arrested. Also, you are also prone to infections like STD/STI, HIV/AIDS. We hope this helps
Hey big sis, a friend of mine was raped by her cousin at d age of ten, now dat she has grown without being touched since that time, is there any possibility dat she is a virgin? Am new.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Viv09! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about what your friend went through. Her hymen was probably torn when she was raped and so there are chances that she is no longer a virgin. We hope this helps
Is a pity
Whoe dats gud
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Big sis is it good 2 finger a lady while having sex
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Fingerin is nt dat gud whil havin sex,bcus (1)d lady might get hurt in d process.but most ladies luvd been finger.
Hey feyvour! This is a personal decision. However, please note that fingering can lead to having infections in the genitals. Also, we advise that you always use a condom if you must have sex to avoid getting STDs or even HIV. We hope this helps
is virginity important after marriage?
Pls can someone help me hv jxt finish sex with my girl nd i hv given her lime nd soda water can she still be pregnant again
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey feyvour! Lime and soda CANNOT stop a girl from getting pregnant. If you had unprotected sex, you stand a very high chance of getting pregnant and even getting an STD or even HIV if the person has an infection. To confirm if you are pregnant, you will have to do a pregnancy test after 2 weeks of sex to get an accurate result. We hope this helps
Big sis if a girl want 2 get pregnant what is d first step
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey feyvour! The first step is to be sure that you are financially, mentally and emotionally ready for a child. This means that you must have a steady source of income, maturity to deal with a pregnancy and also handle an infant, a roof over your head and enough to cater for a pregnant lady and a baby. This is the first and most important thing. If you do not have these, then you are not ready for to get a girl pregnant. We hope this helps
Hey big sis, can someone who masturbates be called a virgin? Pls I need an answer.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Viv09! Thanks for the comment. No having sex does not automatically make you a virgin. You do not only lose your virginity by having sex, fingering and rigorous exercise can make you lose your virginity too. We hope this helps
Please can fingering disvirgin a gurl.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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yes
sorry if a girl ave sex nw and she did nt stand and d man release on her but wen d girl sit down d sperm come out den wat z going to happen to her
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Are you afraid you might be pregnant? Sex is for couples not for singles desist from it if you induced in it. Now in either ways you can get pregnanted When the sperm goes inside the vigina and fertilize the egg.
Whether u stand or sit as long as there is ejaculation inside of u there's always a risk of u been pregnant unless contraceptives was used before d act and u weren't ovulating or within d time u were meant to ovulate
Hey adeola! Thanks for the comment. Whether you stand or sit down, as long as the sperm came in contact with the vagina, there are chances that you can get pregnant. You also stand the chance of getting infected. You should always use a condom if you must have sex. To confirm if you are pregnant, go for a proper pregnancy test. We hope this helps
yrs bck i was almost rape by a gay and he also try 2 finger me i refuse and i escape it.But dis one happen 2 me last year on d 20th of dece 2017.Dis gay called & say he wants 2 talk 2 me i say ok i wen 2 him he ask me if i was a virgin,i say yes he say is a lie.He started touching me i tod him 2 stp bcos i was on my period so i was afriad,i told him 2 stp he refuse i beg him he refuse bt i do not tell him dat i was on my period stage.So he push me up 2 d bed he hold me so dat i wont move he bcom naked in front of me he started romancing my body startin frm my breast i was afriad i beged him he refused so he hold my hands he was sittin down on my stomach he was naked he hold his penis and put it on my chest he was romancin my breast wit his hand suddenly dare was whitesh sometin comin out of his penis 2 my chest he ask me not 2 touch it y did he say so,after he is don he clean it and told me dat he is preparin me for sex dat i should back 4 d sex den i told him wat did he do 2 me,den i told him he has btra me
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey blessing! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you should talk to a trusted adult about this immediately. Thankfully, you were not raped but by all means, you should avoid this guy. Never accept any invitation from him, try as much as possible to avoid going out at night or walking in lonely places. If you cannot avoid it, walk as fast as you can or go with someone. This guy is a treat to your life and you should not be seen around him. Please be safe. We hope this helps
yrs back i was almost fingerin bt i escap it& i was almost rape by a gay.Last yr i was call by a gay & he say he wan 2 c me i say okay i wen 2 him he ask me am my a virgin i say yes he say is a lie. suddly he started removn him cloth push me 2 bed & told naked in front of me first tim cin a man,nakedness so afriad,he started touchin my breast romancin my body i told him to stp he refuse suddly he hold my hands & he put his penis on my chest forcin him self on me he started movin out whitesh sometin rom his penis to my chesh ask me not to touch it y did he say dat den he clean it after he has satisfies him self on me i told him wat has he don to me he told me dat he is preparin me for sex so dat d day dat i wil com bck 2 him2 ve sex dat i wil not feel pain.i told him dat he has betrayed me since den i refused to greet him anytime i c him bt am still a virgin. wat does it mean am afriad.
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Please talk to a trusted adult about it..don't keep quiet I also was a victim of sexual assault when I was way younger and I was scared of telling anybody but years later I regret my actions of not speaking out. Pls speak to someone u trust and don't let d guy go scot free
Hey blessing! Like we said in the comment below, you need to report him to a trusted adult and avoid him because that guy can come back for you. Lily is very correct. Do not keep quiet about this. Your safety and your life is very important. The fact that you still see him regularly means that you are probably not safe in that neighborhood. Please report him to someone you trust as soon as you can. We hope this helps
my mom do not know abt it am afriad of tell her the truth.Am my say bad for not tellin her d truth.
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Pls talk to a trusted adult or your mom about it..its OK to be scared and feel bad but u really need to speak out and get help
hw will a guy knows dat his girlfriend is not a virgin.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey blessing! A virgin is one that has not had sex before. It is based on what the girlfriend tells the boyfriend that he can know whether or not she is a virgin. We hope this helps
I am 26yrs i told my self dat i wont allow anybody to decieve me. Here i am now forcin myself to be loved by someone bt i end up fallin into d wrong hand,i told myself dat i wont let any body to touch me bt now i ve been touch by three diff guys.Just bcos i dont wan to b alone.Pls i need answer now.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey blessing! Thanks for the comment but you did not ask a question so we do not know what exactly you want us to answer to. However, from your comment, you need to learn to love yourself and stop depending on others to love you. This will make you fall for anyone that is available. Be content with yourself, take care of yourself, give yourself treats when you can afford it and just be happy even when you are alone. Self-love is the greater than any kind of love anyone can offer. We hope this helps
y is it dat men offten ask a lady dat is she on her period
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Hey blessing! Not all men do this so please, do not generalize or assume that all men do this. We hope this helps
1 can a girl get pregnat wen she ve sex on her two days period 2 i ve a frnd who say dat wen u finish ur period dat day den d next,day dat if u ve sex dat u wont b pregnant is dat true.
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Hey blessing! If you have unprotected sex, you will not only get pregnant but you can also get an STD/STI or even HIV. If you must have sex, please and please, always use a condom to avoid all of these. We hope this helps
my friend had sex and the next day she told me dat her virgina swoll up. Plz what could cause it
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Hey prettydamsel! Thanks for the comment. Please tell your friend to see a doctor immediately and talk to a trusted adult about it. We hope this helps
I want an advise on this... I'm addicted in using pills 💊.. That keeps my penis stronger and avoid quick ejaculation any time I have sex with my girlfriend.... And we enjoyed it so much... Those it have any bad effects with the aid of using that pill 💊
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Hey Horpsy! Thanks for the comment. Where these pills prescribed by a doctor or a certified pharmacist? If no, please we advise that you discontinue the use of the product because it may have side effects on you. You should only use pills that are prescribed and as prescribed. Also, you are meant to have an erection naturally when it come to sex so you really do not need to take pills to enhance it because once you get addicted to it, your body may become dependent on it for you to perform. Please, stop using the pills to do what your body can do naturally. You should also talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
What will happen if i have sex wit a gal after her period without using condom?
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Hey Sugar! Thanks for the comment. She can get pregnant and you both can get infected. First of all, you should not be having unprotected sex because it is beyond the risk of getting pregnant. You can also get infected with HIV/STDs and STIs which can be very bad too. We hope this helps
i do nt have sex with this guy but he pour in my lap
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Pour in your lap, what's that?
Hey sunshine! Thanks for the comment. You do not have to have sex before you get pregnant. If the sperm comes in contact with your vagina, you can get pregnant. Please go for a pregnancy test to be sure. We hope this helps
Hello! How do i know if a girl wants to have sex?
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Hey BleZZing! The only way to know if someone wants to have sex, the person will say they are ready for it. If you do not get a YES (verbally), do not ever assume or guess that the person is ready. We hope this helps
Hy dearies, after having sex, 3 days later I menstrate, can I b pregnant.???
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Hey kilamiti! If you had unprotected sex, you can be pregnant. It takes up to 2 weeks for you to be sure that you are pregnant. So please, go for a proper pregnancy test to be sure. Also, please note that pregnancy is not the only risk involved in unprotected sex. You can also get infected with STDs/STIs and even HIV. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
Yes.its very easy my dear.
Fifteen years old girl can get pregnant?
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Hey TWHYZ! Thanks for the comment. Yes, a 15 year old can get pregnant as long as she has started ovulating. Some people start ovulating as early as 9 or 10 so if she is sexually active (especially if she has unprotected sex), she can get pregnant. We hope this helps
If it is ur fist time seeing your period and when you finish and probably you fall sick and you vomit does it mean you are pregnant
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Hey Xoxobeauty! You cannot get pregnant if your vagina does not get in contact with sperm. Your period cannot make you pregnant. Also, vomiting does not mean that you are also pregnant (not every pregnant woman vomits). We hope this helps
if I had sex with my girlfriend two days before her period, will she get pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey wisyranking1! Yes, she can get pregnant. As long as you had unprotected sex. You are also prone to having infections (like STDs/STIs and even HIV). Please talk to a trusted adult and go for a pregnancy test after 2 weeks. We hope this helps
Big sis my girlfriend came 2 my house dis morning nd by dat moment am jxt through wit my bath so wen rubbing my cream she asked 4 a help on my back later she say she want sex nd she want me 2 such her vaginal 4st my qst is dat sucking clean viginal is it right
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Hey flechi! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Before you start having sex, you have to be sure that you are ready for both the responsibilities and the risks involved. These include pregnancy, STDs/STIs and even HIV. These are very huge responsibilities and if you are not ready to handle them or even know what they mean, you shouldn't be having sex. Also, you should not have sex because someone else suggested it to you. You have to make up your mind and be sure you are ready for it. As for your question, sucking the vagina comes with it's own risks. You can get a sexually transmitted infection from it especially if the person has an infection. You have to be very careful but this is eventually a personal decision for you to make. Do not be in a hurry to make this decision. We hope this helps
can a 12yrs boy impregnate a girl or woman
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If.yu.have.sex.and.yu.have.not.start.seeing.yur.priod.we.yu.lose.yur.pride
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Hey anoty! Thanks for the comment. Not seeing your period has nothing does not in any way have anything to do with having sex. If you have sex for the first time, whether you have seen your period or not, you will lose your virginity. We do not know what price you are talking about but period has nothing to do with sex. We hope this helps
Big Sis. Can a dis-virgined girl on ones sexual intercourse becomes a virgin again after several months without sex.?? Pls, reply.
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Hey sexywinie! No, virginity lost cannot be recovered. Please note that the process of losing your virginity is actually the tearing of the hymen (this is at the inner layer of the vagina). Once the hymen tears, it can never be recovered. We hope this helps
big 6ter a girl or boy dat z a virgin real in normal day ad when he or she sleep he or she discover dat he was having sex wit d other opponent. does dat means d person z nt a virgin.
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Hey j.smart! Thanks for the comment. Losing your virginity is not something that can be done through dreams. The only way the hymen (the thing that makes you a virgin) can be torn is when it is done in reality and not in a dream. So, do not be scared okay? It is nothing to worry about. Talk to a trusted adult about the dreams you have been having if you feel concerned. We hope this helps
Hey Dyke101! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We are so sorry about what you went through. It must be really tough to go through all of these alone. We can only imagine how much pain you feel every time. If you do not like to masturbate, you can make a move to stop it. Masturbation can easily be stopped when you make up your mind to stop and try to distract yourself whenever you get the urge. This way, you do not get to think about the pain and also cry. We also strongly recommend that you talk to a trusted adult about this. There is an organization called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
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pls i wnt 2 sure ..i realy wnt have sex..bt i dnt wnt 2 use condom and i dnt wnt 2 get pregnant ..what method should i use
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Hey serena! If you really want to have sex, you MUST use a condom. Now, condoms are not just to prevent pregnancy but also to avoid getting infections like STDs, STIs or even HIV. The only other method is to abstain from sex. Please, if you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
You don't wanna get pregnant and you don't wanna use a condom? Sure... It's impossible unless you're infertile
Bigsis pls I need answers!
Actually Am Newly Here!. Pls Big Sis, I Had Sex Wit My Grlfrnd For Interval Of One Week And Oneday, After Her Breading. Deos't Mean Dat She Can Take In???, Pls I Need Ur Hlp
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
What is the first symptoms of pregnancy?
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Hey Faith! Thanks for the comment. Everyone is different and so we cannot give you signs because what one person may feel can be totally different from what another may feel. We advise that you pay close attention to your body and the signs it gives. We hope this helps
If a guy masturbates does he loose his sperm? Am new.
Big Sis,i Had Sex Some Days After My Period,it Was An Unprotected Sex,but He Didnt Sperm Inside Of Me But Am A Little Bit Scared
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Sprinsgter! You need to go for a test. Not just a pregnancy test but an all-round test. There are so many risks involved in having unprotected sex and pregnancy is just one of them. You need to be sure that you did not also get infected with an STD/STI or even HIV. We advise that if you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
I hav an unprotected sex nd after it I use drugs since dat day I hav been feeling somehow in my body
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey aduragbemi! You need to see a doctor immediately. Taking drugs without a prescription is not advisable. Please go for a proper medical test to know what is wrong. Pregnancy is not the only risk involved when you have unprotected sex. You are also prone to STDs/STIs and even HIV. So you really need to see a doctor. We hope this helps
U need to consult a doctor
that good, some girl's when they are in their period mood and went for sex will they be pregnant. If sperm is being release into a girl of 12 year's old below will they be pregnant
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Hey water! Thanks for the comment. You do not have to get to a certain age before you can pregnant. All you need to get pregnant is to start ovulating. Some people start as early as 9 years old and so this means that they can also get pregnant. So it is not about the age but it is about the body. We hope this helps
big sis can a girl get pregnant when a guy was not undressed and the girl was not undressed. but d guy released on his own body.?
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Grace! Thanks for the comment. The chance of getting pregnant are slim. You can only get pregnant if the sperm comes in contact with the vagina. We hope this helps
can a girl get pregnant when d released on a guy trouser touch her panty
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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No it can't be possible because any thing dat has to do with pregnant must involved sexual intercourse so is not possible
Hey Kura! Thanks for the comment. Penetration (sexual intercourse) does not have to happen for pregnancy to occur. All that is needed is for the sperm to get in contact with the vagina. This can happen if the 2 people involved are having oral sex or if the guy ejaculates on his hand and places that hand or finger in the vagina. We hope this helps
Hello bigsis m desperately in need of help.....I nd my boyfriend had unprotected sex, ,he used pullout method when (he comes) buh I think little of his sperm entered inside me,,,bt I took emergency contraceptive......... Nw m yt to see my period So I want two ask ,does a girls whitish discharge disappears if she's pregnant or is it the sign that my period is on its way....
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Hey Jennifer! Thanks for the comment. Discharge is not the best way to monitor if you are pregnant or not. You need to go for a proper pregnancy test and also see a doctor. You can also talk to a trusted adult about it. We hope this helps
Bt I took contraceptive
go and see your doctor
can a girl get pregnant without penetration.is when a guy released on his trouser.and it touch d girl underwear.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. There are high chances if you getting pregnant as long as the sperm comes in contact with the vagina. You do not need penetration to get pregnant. We hope this helps
There is possibility for the girl to get pregnant if the sperm smims out from the man body into the woman"s own. Thanks.
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How can i prevent masturbation
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Hey Kura! Thanks for the comment. It takes discipline and determination to stop masturbating. What you really need is a strong distraction and something very interesting that will keep you busy and help you get your mind off it. It really is a thing of the mind. You can start a business, learn a new skill or hobby, read a new book, spend more time with friends... Basically, do anything that will take your mind off masturbation. We hope this helps
U need a strong distraction
Can u be pregnant nd mensturate
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Hey Snowy! Yes, you can. We hope this helps
All are true
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This is an advice for girls who have seen their period
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can a girl get pregnant, if u have sex with her and didn't cum inside?
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Hey bethrand! Thanks for the comment. Yes, it is possible. Please note that there is a something that comes out of the penis before the sperm. It is called pre-cum and it is as effective as the sperm itself. It is transparent and not as creamy as the real thing but it is potent enough to get a girl pregnant. Most people do not even know when this comes out. Also, please note that pregnancy is not the only risk involved in having unprotected sex. You can have an STD, STI or even HIV if you are not careful. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
Of course this is interesting
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big sis can masturbating make u loss ur virginity pls reply
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Hey sussy! Yes, it is possible to lose your virginity through masturbation. The hymen needs only a form a penetration to tear and that is what makes you a virgin. Rigorous exercises can also make one lose her virginity too. We hope this helps
Y does when a virgin is having a ovulation she craves 4 sex?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Not only virgins crave sex. We all do. Please note that it is perfectly normal. For you, the urge comes when you are ovulating while for others, it comes at different times in their cycle. This doesn't make you bad or dirty. It is just normal. We hope this helps
Hello big sis, I've been troubled by my girlfriend forcing me to have sex with her but I don't want to due to pregnancy but I wish to have sex with her...please help out
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Jasper! Thanks for opening up through this comment. No one should force you to have sex with them. Sex is not by force and if you are not ready for it, do not feel under pressure to have sex with her. Sex comes with lots of responsibility and pregnancy is just one of them. There are also chances of you both getting infected with STDs/STIs and even HIV. You need to be very sure that you are ready for these responsibilities before you start having sex. We hope this helps
Big Sis, whats masturbation? hw does it hapen? when watching porn videos, ur vagina gets wet is that masturbation & does it mean u have lose ur virginity? ANSWER PLS
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey daina! Thanks for the comment. Masturbation is when you touch parts of your body to give yourself sexual pleasure. Some people masturbate when they watch porn but not everyone does that. By masturbation, you touch places like your breasts, vagina and/or penis (for boys) until you get sexual pleasure. Yes, you can lose your virginity through masturbation especially if you insert a finger or an object into the vagina. We hope this helps
Big sis does masturbating make us lose our virginity??? I'm really curious
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Hey Patricia! Yes, it is possible to lose your virginity through masturbation. The hymen needs only a form a penetration to tear and that is what makes you a virgin. Rigorous exercises can also make one lose her virginity too. We hope this helps
Big sis when a girl finishes are mensuration how many days does the ovulation period Iasted
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Nary! Thanks for the comment. Your ovulation usually happens in the middle of your cycle. If your menstrual cycle is for 30 days, you are most likely ovulating on day 15. For a 28 day cycle, it will happen on day 14 etc. You need to be very sure of your menstrual cycle before you can know when you are ovulating. We hope this helps
Hi bigsister, I don't know what's going on with me, my period was supposed to come on the11th of this month and I started seeing the signs of it coming n also the symptoms but up till today(16th) I haven't seen my period.... But the signs, like breast pain is still there up until now.....what do I do
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Hey Drey! Thanks for the comment. It is normal to be worried about your period. Sometimes, periods come late and also, people miss their periods sometimes due to stress, your diet, and some other health reasons. However, we advice you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor if it still doesn't come after a few days. We hope this helps.
Hi big Sis, there's this friend of mine that told me a story about herself that when she was 6yrs old she slept with a guy of her age due to children stuff, up till now she hasn't had sex with any man up till now that she's 21yrs of age My question is that, is she still a virgin or not??
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Hey sexy21! Thanks for the comment. There are chances that she is still a virgin. If the guy was her age, there was probably no proper penetration and even if there was, her hymen was probably not torn because there may not be much penetration or pressure from a 6-year-old child. Please note that this is under probability and not a fact. She may not be a virgin too. We hope this helps
big sis what should a girl do if she is aroused and her nipples are hard and showing though her shirt
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Hey curiousG! Thanks for the comment. Getting aroused and hard nipples is not meant to be a problem so you should not be worried. The nipples get hard for different things (even cold). Some people have naturally hard nipples. There is nothing wrong with that. We hope this helps
ACCORDING TO NUMBER FOUR WAT IF U ARE UPSIDE DOWN AND THE SPERM ENTERED INTO THE VIRGINA WILL IT COME OUT AS U ARE UPSIDE DOWN
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey JICO-A! Thanks for the comment. Like we said in the article, it doesn't matter if you run, jump or lie upside down, once the sperm is in and it fertilizes an egg, there is nothing that can prevent pregnancy from happening. You need to know that what you said is a myth and no amount of staying upside down can change that. You also need to know that pregnancy is not the only risk involved in having unprotected sex. You are also prone to getting infected with STDs/STIs and even HIV. If you must have sex, please always use a condom. We hope this helps
is it true dat wen u have unprotected sex and u add salt 2 a little water & drink u won't get pregnant
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Hey donann1! That is NOT TRUE! Please do not believe that. Drinking salt water is actually dangerous to your health and it can be harmful too. The only way to avoid having sex is to abstain from it. However, if you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
If a girl does not have sex for two weeks what will happen
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Princess! Nothing will happen. You can go 5 - 10 years without having sex and nothing will happen. We hope this helps
Pls is it normal 4 your period to last jst 3 days when it used to be 5days?
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Periods last from 2 days - 7 days depending on the individual. The flow also depends on the individual. There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called. It can be your diet or if you are on medication but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps.
Big sis, for two months i havent see my period nd i dnt hv any pregnancy sign bt i have a vaginal infection. I wonder if it d medication am usin dat delayed my period. Wat do u tink?
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Hey Sunshine! Thanks for the comment. Sometimes, medication can actually affect your menstrual flow but we advise that you still talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
Nw I know
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After period for week if you have sex will you be pregnant
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Hey Bewill! As long as you are having unprotected sex, you can get pregnant. The only way to avoid pregnancy is to abstain but if you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
Thanks big sister
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I understood all thank u
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where can a man touch in my body that can get me romatic and can lead to sex
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Hey 5555! Thanks for the comment. This is personal and different for everyone. If you must have sex, please always use a condom and talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps
Big sis u ave make me feel great for joining dis group tanks for de teaching
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Yaaaaay Pamela! We are so glad that you learnt a lot. We hope this helps
To stay without dateing can also help abstain from aveing sex big sis dat right
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Hey Pamela! Thanks for the comment. Abstaining from sex is not the same thing as staying away from dating. You can date without having sex. Abstinence takes discipline and is a personal decision. We hope this helps
Big sister I heard that using condom prevent pregnancy is it true
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey bloss! Thanks for the comment. Yes, it can but it is not 100% safe. The surest and safest way to prevent pregnancy is to abstain. We hope this helps
yes big sister Thank for ur help may u be rewarded abundantly
Big sis when a girl is raped or have sex before mensuration what will happen to her
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Golden when is girl is raped or have sex when she has already started her messes she will get pregnant if she have an unprotected sex but when she has not started her messes she can't get pregnant but can be infected with STD.
U are right
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how can u wash it
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Some myths are just wicked how will jumping after sex make a girl not to get pregnant. In fact I clap for them👏👏👏
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Is dere a drug or anything that can make one loss her virginity apart from sex
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Hi Tee, There can't really be such a drug because losing one's virgin only means having sex and nothing else. We hope this helps.
Can a girl get pregnant if she have sex when she is young
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Hello Fifi, It depends on how young she is, if she has started puberty - like growing hair on her body and getting pimples - then she can definitely get pregnant. Even when there are no signs of puberty, puberty may have still started inside a girl's body and she could get pregnant. We hope this helps.
But wat if u have sex with a guy Immediately and u stand up d sperm will leave the body immediately(according to my teacher in my school)
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey Jessymiky! Thanks for the comment. What normally happens after intercourse, is that a lot of the ejaculate does leak out. Some of it, however, remains in the back of the vagina and an even smaller amount makes its way up through the cervix, into the uterus and down the fallopian tubes. So please note that pregnancy will and can still occur because all that is needed for pregnancy to occur is just one sperm cell. We hope this helps
Hay am new here hop am welcom
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I really need ur reply..if a guy musturbate does he wast his sparm ..
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Hey SIT! Thanks for the comment. Sperm does not waste. It takes about 24 - 36 hours for a man's sperm to replenish but the truth is that even a few minutes after evaluating, there are still some sperm ready. The sperm replenishes itself all the time. We hope this helps
can a guy of 16 pregnant a girl of 9years no penetration but he pour on top
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey SIT! Thanks for the comment. The only way to confirm pregnancy is to go for a pregnancy test. The fact that sperm got into her vagina means that there are chances of her getting pregnant especially if she has started ovulating. We hope this helps
big sis..is annal sex good time
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
is annal sex good
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey Sit! Thanks for the comment. Anal sex is not good. The anus is meant and was designed to pass out excreta. This means that it is a passage way and not a place for pleasure. You can get an infection from this and some other really extreme things. There is an organization called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Big sister I have sex with my girlfriend when I want to pour I quickly remove it can she get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
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Hey SIT! Thanks for the comment. Yes, she can get pregnant. This is because there is something called pre-cum and this is what comes out before a man ejaculates and this is equally as potent as the sperm itself. The only way to avoid getting pregnant is to abstain from sex. We advise that you both go for a pregnancy test to confirm this. In addition to this, we advise that you always use protection if you must have sex. We hope this helps
Can I get pregnant because a boy used his buttocks to hit me on my buttocks
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thank u so much ma
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