We’re Changing, They’re Changing Too!

Guys go through puberty just like us

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We’ve all been there. We bump into that guy we haven’t seen in a while and we’re in shock! How did he get so tall? Why is his voice so deep? How did he suddenly get sooo cute?

First of all, calm down girl! It’s perfectly normal. Guys go through puberty too. But their bodies change a bit differently from ours. Here’s what you need to know:

Hair
Just like girls, guys get hair in their armpits, pubic area, and on their arms/legs. But they also get hair on their faces and chests. Like us, chemicals in their body, called hormones, cause these changes. They also make them sweat a lot. Sometimes this makes them smell.

Voice
As guys grow, their vocal chords grow bigger. This is what makes their voices ‘break’. First, their voices get all high and squeaky. Which can make them sound funny. After a while, their voices settle down and get really deep.

Face
We’re not the only ones who have to deal with pimples. Puberty hits guys in the face too. Their sweat and oil glands can clog and cause painful acne. It can be a bit embarrassing for them, just like it is for us.

Body
This is the fun part. When puberty comes, guys’ bodies start to fill out. Some of them get a lot taller in two or three years. That’s called a growth spurt. Some guys start feeling clumsy. They lose their baby fat. Their chests and shoulders widen. Their muscles show up. Their hands and feet grow bigger. It all makes them so much more interesting to us. And that’s completely natural.

Sexual Organs
During puberty, guys start experiencing sexual feelings too. They get erections, which is when the penis fills with blood and rises. Sometimes when guys get erections, they release sperm. This is called ejaculation. During sex, guys ejaculate and release sperm, which swims into our uterus. If it joins an egg there, we can get pregnant. Remember, we all go through puberty. So guys are dealing with changes—just like us. If your body hasn’t started changing yet, don’t you worry. Puberty starts at different times for everybody.


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I'm new here

May 16, 2022, 11:10 p.m.

Yes they do.they even get smarter, caring and wiser than they do before just like girl's. We are all one we just have different sex that's all

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

I know a guy that was fat and short before now he's tall,slim and kinda cute

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

I know of a guy in my primary school who always behave stupidly but yesterday when i saw him he was taller than me , slim,have a deep voice and behaves matured now

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

is it true that girls develop sperm?

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey chizzybesty! No, girls do not develop sperm. We hope this helps

I met my sec skul mate jst of a recent,he's far taller dan i am, he luk's so cute dan ever,i felt so small wen he hugged me in public.

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

I recently met my sec friend too and he has grown so huge and even more interesting

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Yeah I met mine too he was cute .He was surprise as I am. "God really made us (human) Beautiful".

change

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Nyc

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Imagine a boy of 25 years old who seems not to have started experiencing his body growth I.e not to have experienced is puberty stage. I think puberty is between the age of 16/17 upwards why reverse is the case of 25 years old boy. Though he has grown beard and hairs in his armpit has said in the writeup.. But what makes his stature to remain the same? Thanks!

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Africanist just because he is no longer growing does not mean he has not gone through puberty that particular way you are seeing him so might be caused by genetic or that the way he was meant to be.hello africanist

Why is my left breast not big like my right breast?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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you Us To Sleep With Left Site,that Is Why Is Crinck

Wonderful

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

this is right,but psyhcology it few dimacetion in view,

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Thats the male for you

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

when is it right to have sex?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

when is the best time to have sexual intercourse??

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey Superior! You should have sex when you and your partner are ready for it and also prepared for any consequence that comes with it. If you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps

Big sister can some one dat online

Ofcourse i have Noticed that

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Is it safe to have friends here?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey Binta2018! Yes, it is. However, you are not allowed to share your personal details such as house address, phone number, location, social media names, name of school or any of such detail. We want to keep you anonymous for safety reasons. We hope this helps

Yes

I LOVE A BY IN MI NABOHOOD AN HE LVS MI TOO

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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CONGRATS MA

HI GUYS AM NEW HERE

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

what do girls love most in guys body

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey peazz! Thanks for the comment but this is personal and depends on the individual. What one person likes may differ from what another likes. We hope this helps

What of some girls that take medicine After sex to avoid pregnancy? What is the disadvantages of it?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey sally! They are prone to getting infected if they having unprotected sex. They can get STDs/STIs or even HIV. Also, if the drug was not prescribed by a doctor, they are prone to having hormonal disorder. We hope this helps

wen having sex I do feel pains y.??

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey mhavee! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps

is sex neccesarily??

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey ebony! This is a personal decision. You have sex when you are sure that you are ready for every consequence that comes with it and not when you think it is necessary. We hope this helps

Please what and what Can disvirgin a girl excluding (manhood)?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey veronica15! Thanks for the comment. Rigorous exercise, masturbation (fingering), sometimes, even riding a bicycle can break the female hymen. We hope this helps

Thanks... Most a girl bleed after disvirgin her?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey veronica15! Bleeding is not a sign of virginity because not every virgin bleeds. The truth is that No Two Hymens Are Alike… The hymen is a tissue that’s filled with blood vessels that typically covers part of the vaginal opening. Some girls have a thick hymen or a hymen that covers a lot of the vaginal opening. Other girls have a very thin hymen or a hymen that covers very little of the vaginal opening. We hope this answers your question.

E get what happen to me yestaday evening. Since i have girlfriend i never have sex with her. My younger brothers are complaining. Yestaday evening i was naked in my room one of my brother go call the girl. And she follow him to my room. But before they came i have put up my cloth. They told me to kiss her. i refuse to do that. And they told her to kiss me. She was about to kiss me but i refuse. Then i send her out of my room. And after that i get anoyed..... Did i do wrong thing..... Please i need your advice

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hi Sally. No! No one should force you to do what you dislike and perhaps pre-marital sex is not advisable. That is my opinion.

Hey sally! Thanks for the comment. As long as you are not ready for sex, you should not be forced into having sex. You need to talk to your brothers about what happened. Let them know that you did not appreciate what they did and be polite about it. Also, you need to define what your relationship is about with your girlfriend. Let her know that you are not interested in having sex even though you want to be in a relationship with her. It was lack of communication that caused what happened. If she knew your stance on this issue, she probably would have acted in a different way. We hope this helps

Big sister, I am a boy of 19yrs nd i brought my girlfriend in my 4 sex, havng being my first time. I was troubled mind nd i both of us were nacked nd i was unable 2 meet her feelings due 2 heartbit, then that mak her depart frm me till now. WHAT DO I DO TO BRING HER BACK?

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey dearly! So sorry about that. What happened was that you were not fully ready for it. You need to be sure that you are ready for sex before you involve other people. Take your time and do not be in a hurry. If you are not ready now, it's not a problem okay? You can talk to her and explain to her that you were not mentally ready for it. We hope this helps

Hi bigsister, i am 19yrs and i am affraid of sex because i think my manhood is too small for sex, because it havn't reach how my dad own and some adult own is. why my age mate has bigger ones also. pls i need your help!

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey dearly! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, you should not be comparing yourself to others. We are all different (yes, including your dad) and so you both cannot have the same size of penis. Your penis stops growing when you finish puberty and this varies from person to person. Everyone develops at a different pace. There is no such thing as a "normal" penis size. The size of your penis depends on your genes, just like the size of your hands, feet, and even your hair. And please, keep in mind, penis size has nothing to do with manliness or sexual ability. We hope this helps

Thanks big sister, but at what age the puberty period ends?

i had a friend who are times she feel like havin sex she dont know wat to do,she started romancin her body & doin such kind of tin wat is dat call.

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey blessing! It is called masturbation. We hope this helps

My Friend Often Feel Like Havn Sex But He Start 2 Marstubate, Is Mastubation Good Or Bad

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

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Hey SAM! Masturbation, especially among teenagers, is common because a lot of people are trying to explore their bodies and are not really sure of what certain parts of their body mean. So, there is no right or wrong answer to this. This is a personal decision and is up to your friend to make. However, please note that masturbation is frowned upon by the Nigerian culture. We hope this helps

I Thought They Are Romans

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

If i am forced to have sex what should i do

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Springster! We hope that doesn't happen to you or anyone. The first thing to do is to talk to a trusted adult. This is very important because they can know what to do to help you out. Secondly, try as much as possible to stay safe and avoid that person even if they try to apologize and act friendly. They are not your friends and can never be your friend. Finally, never blame yourself for what happened. It is not your fault that someone could not control his/herself. Please stay safe at all times. We hope this helps

Hello

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

is it true that when we have sex true anus we still get pregnant

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey kuldijat! Thanks for the comment. You will not get pregnant but you will definitely get infected. There are so many infections you get from having anal sex. It is not safe and it is also very dangerous. The anus is not meant for sex but for defecating. We hope this helps

hi bigsister i'm having proplem of mutitudes lovers in my heart, i need your help please!

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey dearly! Thanks for the comment. You cannot love more than one person equally. So what this means is that you probably do not even love them. You need to sit down and list out the traits you will love in a guy. Do this without any of these guys in your mind (please be realistic when creating this list). When you know what you want in a guy and in a relationship. We hope this helps

how many rounds of ejaculation is more sweetable for sex?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey dearly! Sex is personal and different for everyone. There is no amount of ejaculation will make sex sweeter for anyone. Rounds of sex do not necessarily mean sweeter sex. We hope this helps

Am 20 but my labia is still tiny. What should I do to make it bigger?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Rachel! There is nothing you can do to make your labia big. Also, there is nothing wrong with having a small labia. This does not affect your sex life in any way. Do not compare your body or it's part to others. We are all different and so are our body parts. There is no particular way that the labia should be. We hope this helps

Thanks

What can course a man to ajaculate under 5 minutes??

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey sally! Sexual excitement can cause premature ejaculation as it is called. We hope this helps

when am sexually excited some liquid/drowy fluid wil come out of my vagina. pls wat culd dat be?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey ONE-SECOND! That is a form of discharge called arousal fluid. This is as a result of your sexual excitement and it is perfectly normal so do not panic. We hope this helps

A guy is asking me out seriously, am not ready. I am just 16, he tried kissing me which has make me to bcom shy of him. Aunty pls wat should i do? I love him bt i dont want to ave him

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey RichyB! You need to be very sure of what you feel for him. Love is very deep and you cannot love someone you do not really know. You already said that you are not ready so do not force it because you will not enjoy it. Go into a relationship only when you are ready for it. We hope this helps

How to toast women

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Ridex! This is a group that inspires and encourages girls in Nigeria and not a place to look for a girlfriend. Grooming and things like these are not allowed on this platform and so we have to take down this comment. Thanks for understanding

when men get arouse there penis stand what happen too girls too wen they get arouse

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey kachiboy! When girls get aroused, their vagina gets wet and very lubricated. It is not obvious for everyone to see but the girls will know. We hope this answers your questions

Is it true that a girl breast pump out if she arouse sexually?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Kira! That is not true. The breast is naturally meant to pump out even if you wear a bra or not. You do not have to be sexually aroused to have a breast. What this will mean is that every woman is sexually aroused and that is not true. We hope this helps

i have a friend who has a girlfriend. He masturbates but when the girl wants to have sex with him he refuses.. What do u think is wrong with him????

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey benjamin! Thanks for the comment. Nothing may be wrong with him. Sometimes, masturbation is an addiction that some people do not just get over. We cannot say what is wrong with him but he may not just be ready to have sex. The urge for sex cannot be forced on someone. One has to be ready before they should have sex. We hope this helps

Hi big sis please can someone know that a girl is a virgil.

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Ade258! There is really no way to check to know if you are virgin or not. However, you need to ask yourself certain questions like have you had sex or even being fingered before? Do you do very rigorous exercises that are focused on the lower part of your body that can tear the hymen? If yes, there are chances that you are not a virgin. We hope this helps

Ok thanks

Why is there something like lines appearing on my nipples when I touch my vagina

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Springster! When you say lines, do you mean that your nipples get hard and erect? Please explain better so that we know what response to give to you. However, you need to note that when you touch yourself sexually, your body reacts and there are high tendencies that you feel the sensation in some parts of your body like your nipples, your toes get sensitive (this is different for everyone). We will still need you to confirm what you feel so that we will know if it is a medical issue or just normal. We hope this helps

There's dis guy I know, he told me dat whenever he heard or say anything pertaining to love, sex, or girls he started to feel somehow uncomfortable, excited nd most times his body got rose up nd sometimes erection occurred down there then he starts experiencing sexual feelings too. He's just 20 and he said that he's not been passing through dis earlier before it started unconsciously. I think he isn't pleased with this nd he wants solution please big sister

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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He's a virgin

He's a virgin please big sister I need your advice for him 🙋

Hey Rachel! Thanks for opening up through this comment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this guy. It is normal for guys to get sexually excited. However, he needs to learn to control it because it may get awkward if he gets an erection anytime he talks to a girl or talks about sex. Apart from that, there is no need for him to panic because what he is experiencing is perfectly normal. We hope this helps

There's dis guy(virgin) I know; my friend, he told me dat whenever he heard or say anything pertaining to love, sex, or girls and especially whenever he see panties and bra(girl's underware) he started to feel somehow uncomfortable, excited nd most times his body got rose up nd sometimes erection occurred down there then he starts experiencing sexual feelings too. He's just 20 and he said that he's not been passing through dis earlier before, he insisted he's still a virgin nd he's n it started unconsciously. I think he isn't pleased with this nd he wants solution please big sister

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Thanks big sister I really appreciate ur advice 😘

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

big sis i just joined and i think i'm enjoying the show

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Davi! You're welcome. We area glad that you're enjoying the show. Feel free to invite your friends

there's a guy in my compound he's asking me to have sex with him,and really but the complication is not good big sis pls advise me on what i should do

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey davi! Thanks for the comment. You shouldn't have sex because someone is asking you for sex. You should have sex when you are ready for it and the responsibilities that come with it too. Sex is not meant to be forced. If you are not ready for it, don't bother about going ahead with it. There are huge complications and responsibilities that come with having sex. It is beyond someone else wanting it. We hope this helps

pls and pls always run away from such type of guys just rebuke them and live there but if u are gving time to those type of guys pls run away

I want to have sex

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Real_lil_princee! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, sex comes with lots of responsibilities and you need to be conscious of them. Most times, we tend to think of the pleasure only and forget about the responsibilities. If you are thinking of having sex, you need to be ready for things like unwanted pregnancy, STDs/STIs or even HIV. You need to also think of protection (which is very important), you also need to be sure that your partner is also as involved as you are. So think about it properly. We hope this helps

I'm 20 still a virgin but i feel like having sex but i kept on developing the feelings of guitness in me. What should i do?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Mirass! Thanks for the comment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you having the urge for sex. It should not in any way make you guilty. We are all humans and having the urge for sex is totally human. It is what you do with that urge that matters. We cannot tell you what to do right now because what you are going through is normal. Just be careful so that you do not do something that you are not comfortable with because of the urge you have. We hope this helps

In any case, I don't frequently release sperm, am just 19 and still a virgin but whenever am extremely aroused sexually (not penetrated), it comes out clear and little instead of pure white. I heard sperm comes out whitish. Is it normal big sister?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Richie__01! Thanks for the comment. What you see is not sperm but it is pre-cum and it is perfectly normal as it happens to every guy. It comes out when you are sexually aroused. Yes, sperm is whitish/creamy but what you see is not sperm yet. Don't be worried okay? We hope this helps

How can someone stop masturbating, please can u help out big sis, this issue kilks young people inside. Or is masturbating good?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Pls i need a reply big sis

Hey Miketune! Thanks for the comment. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. However, masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. Also, getting addicted to masturbation can affect you sexually later on in life. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps

Yes! u are right big sis

Miketune it has been discovered scientifically that masturbation is good but it because bad when done excessively and it also a healthy part of growing up because you are trying to discover you body.But if you want to stop that good then stop thinking about things that makes you masturbate or you can go to wiki how and asked 'how to stop the urge to masturbate'.

Now i understand puberty

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Yeah! Is true

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

The guy i know before went to the university nd came bak wit a different intonation,deeper voice,broader shoulders,more cute,shinning wit his fair complexion nd gap tooth

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey BEEBEE! Yes, this happens a lot of times and it is perfectly normal. This is the best way to know that he has entered puberty. Thanks for sharing

Hi am nw here am i welcome

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Yes u are

am new here,am i wlc big sis

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

dearest big sis i luv dis group,there is dis guy we met on fb there is a far distans btw our states he ask me out nd i told him am nt ready bt he promised he will wait till am ready nd i also promise to date him when am ready bt he do call nd av nt sn him b4 hope av nt made a mistake 4 promising him

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey sneh! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you have to be careful because not everyone on social media (Facebook, Instagram etc) lives a real life. Some of them are hiding their real personalities on social media. You have to be really careful because you only get to hear and know the things he tells you (what if they aren't true?). Also, dating someone you do not really know is equally stressful because you will constantly doubt his love for you. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps.

Hey big sis i want to have sex what will i do not to get pregnant

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey 16! Thanks for opening up through this comment. The safest and best way to avoid pregnancy is to abstain. Every other method is not 100% so this means that you still stand a chance of getting pregnant. If you must have sex, please and please, always use a condom. This is to prevent unwanted pregnancy and also to keep you safe from STDs/STIs and even HIV. If you can, please talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps

Boys are wonderful

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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even girl are wonderful why don't we say girls and boys are both wonderful in their own unique ways.hello don

why is my breast so big???

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey manofGod! Thanks for the comment. We do not have an answer to that question. The size of your breast is hormonal and there is nothing you can do to reduce the size. We advise that you learn to love your body the way it is. You can buy a good fitting bra that will give you some support. We hope this helps

when is the right age for me to have a boyfriend, cuz there's this boy we all attended high skul together he was not that good looking me n some of my friends do bully him at times tho he was older, now I saw him a few weeks back and he was looking very fine❤ and I don't no how to talk to him cuz I feel ashamed

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey bells! Thanks for the comment. What you feel towards this guy is a crush because you were attracted by his looks and you never really liked him in the first place. So please do not confuse this to be love. You can talk to him and apologize for what you did in the past and then ask him for another chance to be friends with him. That's an easy way to go about it. We hope this helps

hello guys

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

my bros start feeling sooo full of himself.

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

Can sperm that looks like water got one pregnant?

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey Alone! Thanks for the comment. The potency of your sperm has nothing to do with whether it is thick or watery. The best way to know is to go to the hospital for a test. We hope this helps

In addition with what is said, thick sperm can get one pregnant easily than De watery one because some guys bf HV sex they we take smth DAT will mk they're sperm watery. so no matter how many times he release De girl will not be pregnant even if she's in ovulation period

Any time am with a girl i feel like having sex with her, why is it like that

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey young! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with having the urge for sex especially with someone you are attracted to. You are naturally attracted to the opposite sex and this is not wrong. However, it is what you do with that urge that matters. This does not mean that you should want to have sex with every girl you see. We hope this helps

big sis, i need an advice.i think am an addict, i cant remember when i started but i cant stop. am addicted to masturbation ,its really hard to stop please how do i go about it?

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey kassidy! Thanks for the comment. Masturbation starts from the mind because you think about it before you do it. If you really want to stop masturbating, you need to make up your mind that you want to stop and then do things that will distract you and keep your mind occupied. You can learn a new skill, gist with friends, finish up that chore etc. Just do something that will not let you think about masturbating. We hope this helps.

thanks big sis,........it usually stops when am dating,once i stop am bk. its hard to really find some one who gets what it means to be you.

Masturbation is a sin..try not to sin against God so that u wil not go to hell..and read your bible daily thank you

I am feeling well as I am in love with someone who i loved so much

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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but don't b carried away by love

that's great.

Sex is not what guys like us are supposed to be into, we should get prepared before we have sex.

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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its not for underage cause when the urge is too much the can fall for it

yes

yes

that so true you pattern has to be ready for it keflex I think you are a good boy or man.

sex is not good for dose under age

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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WK that is true because if you under 16 in American you can't have sex cause that's illegal but in Nigeria I also think it may be from 16 or 18.

it is actually 18

BIG SIS I ROMANCE MY DATE N BLOOD CAME OUT OF HIS PENNIS DOS THAT MIN HIS A VIRGIN

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey DELPHINE! Thanks for the comment. The blood you see is not a sign of virginity. There is no way to show that a guy is a virgin and boys do not bleed when they have sex for the first time. The blood may be a sign of an infection. Please advise your date to see a doctor immediately and you should also see a doctor too. We hope this helps

BUT WE HV NT SEX BFR ITS JUZ ROMANCE N BLOOD CAME OUT HIS PENIS N HE SAY DAT IS PAINING HIM

BIG SIS PLS ANSWER ME

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

big sis am older enough 2 av sex bt wat really happened s dat i dnt av gf nd i feel like always having sex, wat shud i do, or cn u help find a gf

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey true! Thanks for the comment. Having the urge for sex is normal among teenagers and adolescents, however, it is what you do with the urge that matters. Please note that having a girlfriend is not meant to automatically take the urge away. A girlfriend is not a tool or sex object so that is a very wrong way to approach this. What you need is a distraction and not a girlfriend because you also have to learn how to suppress that feeling because it is not every time you want to have sex that you will get sex. Also, Springster is not the place to get a girlfriend so please note that. We hope this helps

hello true please don't have a girlfriend because of sex but because of the way you feel for her cause you have a girlfriend because of sex it will affect to start having the feeling of lust instead of lust so just try to remove your mind from things concerning sex OK don't worry that urge will soon stop.

Big sis.... I have a date and she always wants us to have sex when we romance... I don't feel like having sex with her..... But she always get angry when I say no.... Is something wrong with me?

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey TOPEDOSKI! Thanks for the comment. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are perfectly fine. Sex is a personal decision and it is up to you to make a decision on this. If you are not ready, do not allow her to put you under pressure. This is how peer pressure starts and we beg you not to give into it. If it is only sex that she wants, then she doesn't deserve you. We tell our girls to move on when someone pressures them to having sex with them but in this case, since you are a boy going through the same thing, we advise that you also move on. You will find someone that will respect your decision to wait. We hope this helps

The way i think now is different from b4.i see myself as a matured lady.but i'm still a young teenager

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey Biebera! Thanks for the comment. Yes, you can be matured but also be a teenager. Maturity has nothing to do with age. Some people say that maturity has to do with age but we disagree. It is all about perspective and how you see and handle things. So you are correct.

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big sister I got big dick am afraid to see a girl for now, pls tell me how to reduce it

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey 08038! Thanks for the comment. The size of your penis is hormonal and cannot be increased or reduced. The fact that you are afraid to see a girl for now means that you are not mentally, physically and emotionally ready and mature at the moment. We hope this helps

08038 you can't reduce the size of your dick all you have to is to love your dick cause that is part of what make you special and unique.

Hey sis..i love girls butt too much how can i prevnt it

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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hi Male,how are you doing, if you want to stop looking at their butt then just determine that you don't want to do it or perhaps just make a little plan that will make you to stop but for me is not bad looking at a girl butt but what really matters is when you can't just stop looking at their butt.