Express your thoughts and feelings
You know the craziest thing about your teenage years? They’ll be over sooner than you think. From the good and the bad to the neither-good-nor-bad, it all goes by way too soon. So keeping a diary is a smart thing to do.
It doesn’t just help you keep track of your emotions and experiences. It also helps you know yourself better and become more confident. And if you want to be a writer, a diary is a great place to start. Here’s how:
1) Make it Personal: First, get an unused notebook. Then write down your name, age and hobbies on the first page. That way, if your diary gets lost, it’ll be easier for it to be found and returned.
2) Choose a Schedule: Decide whether you want to write once a day or once a week. If you want to write in the morning, fine. If you’d rather write at night, fine. Always begin by writing the date and time at the top of the page. Include other details to remind you of where you were at the time. So in the future you can reread your diary, reflect on all you’ve learned, and embrace your more confident self.
3) Write, Write, Write: Grab a pen/pencil and let your thoughts flow. Write as if you’re talking to yourself or gisting with your best friend. Write about anything: how your day was, your goals, your best memories, your biggest dreams. Don’t hold back, girl. Keep it real. Remember, it’s okay if you skip a day or a week. Just start again from the present day.
4) Spice it Up: Paste stickers, photographs, pieces of fabric and flower petals inside your diary. Write down your favourite poems, quotes and song lyrics. Write down the nicest compliments you’ve ever received. Whenever you feel sad and blue, flip through and lift your mood.
5) Keep it Safe: Your diary is very personal. It belongs to you and you alone; so you should always keep it in a safe place. E.g. between your folded clothes, inside your pillowcase, even stuck up under a table or chair.
There you go! You’re all set to start a diary. Enjoy!
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Please respond to me
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
Big sis,what should I do if a boy sees my secrets in my diary
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Hey Bodaciousbabe101! There is really nothing you can do about it. Just make sure that it doesn't repeat itself again and also try to keep it safe. We hope this helps
I have a secret but is my secret safe here
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Yeah.darling.u are in the right place
Yeah.i do and it's fun
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Hi
Wow! It'd be fun,i'll start writing too!
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Anytime I want to start up a diary of my own my siblings end up finding it and reading it and I don't know where to find one with a lock .
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Hey Paris2! Thanks for the comment. You need to get a place that no one else can figure out. This place needs to be very private. We hope this helps
I don't have a diary pls how do I have one and keep to it
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Hey Rita! Your question has been addressed in the article above. Please read it and follow the tips we gave. We hope this helps
HI BIG SIS,HI EVERYBODY.HOPE I AM WELCOMED
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HI BIG SIS,HI EVERYBODY.HOPE I AM WELCOME
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Yes u r
I really need someone to talk to. Is there anyone available? I'm losing it
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Hello dear You can talk to me
Hey Petimae! Big sister is here for you. Please feel free to open up. We look forward to a response from you.
I WISH TO HAVE A DIARY,BUT MY SIBLINGS WILL WANT TO KNOW WHAT I HAVE WRITTEN.WHAT SHOULD I DO
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U would av to keep it in a safe place
If u av a rum of ur self,find a secret place to keep ur diary
I have a diary but my sisters are fond of reading it and that too without my permission... Pls help
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Big sis am so excited dere iz somtin lyk diz cuz i ve a diary as a teenager nd it has helped by motivating my spirit nd wen eva i feel sad my diary bcums my frnd cuz i luv it wen writting in my diary!!!!!
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One of my friend calls her own diary Travis Smith .
I ave a diary bt my sisters are fond of reading it
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I ave a diary bt my sisters are fond of reading it.pls i need ur advice
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Hey Chrisy! Thanks for the comment. You need to keep it in a safe place that only you knows about to avoid other people reading it. We hope this helps
i have a diary it's really fun and amazing
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Am felling alone😜😜
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I hv always thought of owning a diary, bt am scared dat some1. can read it, i share a room wit my brother. wat cn i do?
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I have a diary and it's really a great thing but since it's a notebook and you can never be safe enough from prying eyes. I have a new principles like I never write the real names of the people I write about and I interchange reality and imaginations fluently to confuse people who pry
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Nice one Daz! Thanks for sharing these tips with us. Trust us, they are very useful and helpful and we hope other Springsters learn from this. Once again, thank you.
I have a girl i love,we were close friend,is not that i dont no how to tell her,but i use to think she would have a boyfriend and this is hurting me
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Hey SHEI244! Thanks for the comment. The girl in question is not your close friend if you do not know if she has a boyfriend or not. You need to get closer to her to know her better before you can start to say that you love her. Love is deep and much more than what we usually call it. Be friends with her first and then you can proceed from there. We hope this helps
Hellooo, I am new here . I love the article it was nice and very helpful
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I am new here and I luv the article. I'll give it a try.
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I have an elsa frozen fever diary i got it on my birth, i write my feelings there and everything that is going on.
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I jxt joined I beliv am going to love dis thing Nd u guyz are gonna help me overcum mah fears
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U re welcome,feel free 2 ask questions
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I have a diary,i dont even keep to it i only write good tins bcos i dnt know who can open it and read
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Wow Fm Al Ur Experiences I Tink I Hav 2 Get A Diary
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I Just Start To Us A Diary Today.Seriouly It's Nice Writing About Oneself, I Feel Happy When I Start Writing About Myself.
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Pls I'm New In Using A Diary. May I Ask This Question; Can I Write My Past Event On My Diary, Event Like, My Nur./pri. Scul. The Year Started And Ended?
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The problem with me about writing a diary is that though in the beginning it's fun, I easily get bored with it and don't continue so keeping a diary won't be as easy as it seems...
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I love you
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Why are you writing that
i'm 14 i had a diary my mum saw it and she sized it that diary was my only friend i told it every thing about myself i wrote my emotion ,she said she going to give it to my school principal i dont know what to do i need your help
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I've Always loved writing, I had a diary Since jss1,I stopped cos I was told its childish but wen I got to ss2,I started all over, I have a question, is it wrongly to have a bf?
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Hi Lola don't mind want people say I myself I do have a diary where I write thing I don't want to forget or things that are happening in my teen years now in my life.Is not bad to have a bf but don't have a bf because you were forced to or because people are calling you a baby for not having a baby have a bf when you are ready for it.
jbaby is right Lola dont have a BF bcus everyone is having or bcus they are forcing u to,have a BF when u are ready and matured enough to have one and when u can handle a relationship with a matured mind.nice meeting you.
Question..... ur consign
please i think i have emotional urge
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Tanz big sis well to me having a diary is fun and it personal jus like my diary i only share my thoughts my experience and my secret is jus like talking to someone nd i always feel relieve wen i jott my problems down it makes me happy to say the truth a DIARY every teenagers are to have it fun and easy. A lot tanz to big sis for everything am so grateful
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Tanz big sis well to me having a diary is fun and it personal jus like my diary i only share my thoughts my experience and my secret is jus like talking to someone nd i always feel relieve wen i jott my problems down it makes me happy to say the truth a DIARY is wat every teenagers are to have it fun and easy. A lot tanz to big sis for everything am so grateful
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That's nice dear
No i don't but with this i will get a dairy thanks big sis
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Hi confi that great cause diary are great. can we be friends?
Hi Jbaby005 I lyk d way u comment on pples post on springster. Could we be friends?
i had a diary when i was in ss2,i love writing but then my class mates found it and started making fun of it they said it was childish since then i have not written in a diary.
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Clap 4 urself
Awwww, that's sad, but that's the reason why we were asked to hid it,becoz mean and uncultured humans won't stop making fun of it
I agree wit Daisy. It happened 2 me b4. There r many uncultured human beings around us datz y we need 2 hide our Diary in a safe n secret place
Beth1 sowie 2 say dis buh u sound harsh n it is not helping matters. Galz cum 2 get advise buh smtyms u end up castigating dem. Its not nice @ all. So plz think b4 u comment on a galz post.
I will make sure i get my diary immediately
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that's great Cathy.
Ur business
Where can I get a diary because I want to bookshops but can't found it
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Hey kama! You do not have to buy a diary, you can buy an exercise book to use as a diary. You do not necessarily need to buy a "diary". You can wrap it and design it to your taste. We hope this helps
Where can I get a diary because I went to bookshops but can't found it
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If you can't find one, buy a thick cover notebook, design and customize it and there you have it your very own diary.
This really help. Thank u big sis
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Thanks big sis
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Nice
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Nice
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9z idea, I think I must gv dis a trail coz sometimes I feel like discussing about my day but unfortunately, there is no audience.
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nice idea i will try to get my own diary pls where can i get a diary
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Is here with me u can get it here ok...don't bother
Can i find a girlfriend here?
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Am sure u are not asking me..? that's ur business, perhaps i didn't read dat nonsense u type there continue asking ok.....
Bet1 is like ur mother died recently or ur boyfriend raped ohh am sorry fool dont put d blame on me ahh or am gona make u regret ur skin beef
Ah eh....please friends do rat talk..? this is my first time 2 c a rat talking or even posting some unuseful post, though am passing
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I have diary
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Good
I have a crush on my friend from nursery school .after we parted for 4 years we met each other. He said he had crush on me too .all of a sudden he avoid me.doesnt answer my messages what should i do.
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Continue crying
I want to get a Dairy. Can i write my past life.
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Big sis, ma bf broke up wit me....he said its not working out anymore for us cos we r nt living close..nd like I said I hvnt gotten a fone..I do use am mum's fone so we don't talk always..let's say 3 or4 times a week I always try my best to call him wit any fone I can get access to bcos I like im nd I hv to be d one to call or txt bcos of ma mum...I don't tink dat is really y he broke up.. Big sis am feeling am a bad gal, I did nt like it dat d relationship did nt last. We dated for 3 months plus....pls I big sis nd ma fellow springsters wat do u think????how do I react wen I see him??shld I still call him as Normal friends??cos I still like im?
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What do u know about love....? A guy just broked up with u, u are still there talking about love without moving up with ur life mtcheeeeew
Uhmmm... Our dear God asked us to forgive although it hurts, we just need to let go, well I don't knw buh I think that he wasn't that into you, and he is just using that as an excuse... Buh hey girl, although you like him, I'll advice you to keep some distance away from him for a while until you've gotten over him, then you can let go keeping in mind that he is just too childish to handle your kind, precious and golden heart, dearie
Hey Pretty_val_32! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision for you to make. We cannot tell you how to react neither can we tell you whether or not to make friends with him. You need to think it through and make a decision on this. We hope this helps
Hey Beth1! Thanks for the comment. You really did not have to insult her neither did you have to be rude about it. Comments like yours are not allowed on this platform because this is a purely positive space. We hope this helps
Am a jss 3 student going to sss 1 I have not decide wat I want to become wat should I do
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Juz lyk me going 2 SS1 buh y dont u know wat u wanna be? Wat r u passionate abt? Think dis should help u. Reserve ur Thank U 4 wen u decide:-)
Meaning dat u hav no plan 4 ur future, sorry 4 urself remember dat man's life tick away with every ticking of clock...if u don' t wake up u are sleeping away ur future....remember a person who cannot sit down and plan her future cannot arise and confront her life...u are where u are 2day because of yesterday decision
Hi... I'm new in the group, buh if you don't mind, I think I might have some useful answers... Actually, its normal for you to be indecisive about this kinda stuff because of your temperament, but you should understand that whatever you wanna choose, choose something that you enjoy, and love doing, something that you're passionate about, choose something that in the future would give you pure happiness...;)
A guy in my summer school lyks me buh I like anoda guy which is in my skl n I told d guy dat I lyk him(referring 2 d guy in my summer school) Wat should I do now Big Sis?:-(
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A guy in my summer school lyks me n even wrote a luv leta buh I like anoda guy which is in my skl n I told d guy dat I lyk him(referring 2 d guy in my summer school) Buh now I dun lyk him again. Wat should I do now, Big Sis?:-(
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I love u guys
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M jux tryin tew be kind tew my friend
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Nice article.
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I don't know what to say
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so what are u now doing are u not saying something
Beth hv moved on
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Now u come dear.... Happy that u have moving on with ur life
Daisy tanks a lot 4 ur advice, I luv it.....
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can i get a friend here
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yes stargirl am here for that
of course stargar
hi,am new here looking for friends.
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Hi expivstar u are welcome and we can be friends
hi
Hi am new here, hope u guy's will be so nice to me........Am glad to meet u guy's
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Hi zeecool u are welcome,everyone would definitely be nice to u.If u want to chat with me check dis article(3 things u can learn from ur mum)and press reply under my comment.
Hi Frnds Am New Here. I Hope To Meet Nice Frnds Here
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Hi clemzy u are welcome and I'm very sure u are gonna meet good frnds here
DAT'S INTERESTING
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Hi capable are u new here
Hi capable are u new here.If u wanna reply just check dis article"learn to laugh at urself"
REALLY BUT HOW DEAR
I'm cool how are u
u just need to check d top of dis platform den u would see "search"den type"learn to laugh at yourself"den u would see it,so just go there and look for my comment and press reply den type whatever u want to and I would definitely see it earlier dan I saw dis one
OK THANKS DEAR
AM GREAT HOW THINGS
How far
hi👋 friends👭👬👫 good morning🌄🙋 I am looking for a good friends
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hi we can be friends.
hello we can be friends also
Hi can we be friends
hi can we be friend
Here too looking for friends 😁😀
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I'm right here.
and also me
hi we can be friends also
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Hi
hello good day
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How far everyone.
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I dey oo,watin dey Sup
nothing dey happen oooooo.(cutie wetin dey sup means what's happening).
Yes I know,thanks
Are u busy now?
no I'm not.
am cool and you
Cutie are u not fine?
Hey it's been long. I see you like Bhad Bhaibe
I do like her and her songs especially trust me,and cash me outside.
Hi jbaby I'm good,u are not replying my messages
Cutie am very sorry for not replying to comments OK,I hope am forgiven, happy Sunday.
ok no problem u are forgiven and happy sunday to u too
Hi jbaby,I don't know y I am not always shown my replies anymore.
How far wetin dey Sup
Gud morning ladies and gentlemen of Springster,have a glowing day and a happy Sunday.
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good evening everyone I am back ☁☁🎈🎈☁☁☁☁ 😊😊👀😊🌛☁☁☁ 😊😊😊😊☁☁☁☁ ☁☁😊😊☁☁☁☁ ☁☁😊😊☁☁☁☁ ☁☁😊😊☁☁☁☁ ☁☁😊😊☁☁☁☁ ☁☁😊😊☁☁☁🎈 ☁☁😊😊😊😊😊😊 ☁☁😊😊😊😊😊😊 ☁☁😊☁😊☁😊😊 🌾🌾😊🌾😊🌾😊😊 ✨🌾 🌾 🌾 😏😏😏😏😏 😏😏😏😏😏😏😏 😏🕓🕓😏🕓🕓😏 😏🕓🎱😏🕓🎱😏 😏😏😏😏😏😏😏 😏😏😏✔😏😏😏 🌀😏😏😏😏😏🌀 😏🌀😏😏😏🌀😏👍 👉🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀 🌀🌀🕐🌀🌀🌀🌀 🌀🌀🕐🕐🕐🌀🌀 🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀 🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀 👟
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welcome backoooooo
I need advice on some issues pls
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In Wot Issue Did U Need Advice
Hi everyone I actually just got my diary this morning.
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Wot Tym Did U Got Ur Diary
Hi plenty I got my diary around past 10 this morning,are you new here
Hi everyone
Hello everyone am going back to school today.
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ME TOO
Are u in the hostel?
Can my friends read my dairy?
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Hi pheebs if u want them to read it they can and if u don't want them to read it,it's ur choice to make but I think it is suppose to be seen by u.
Hey Phoebe! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and it is up to you to make. We hope this helps
I love keeping my diary but sometime i get bored of it
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I think i hate dairies..each time i bring up my story in my diary i have a urge to tear it. Cos i find ntin special in them
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Then find something special and write in your diary, like you are
Then find something special and write in your diary, like you are a springster, write down some motivation, encouragement, tips, diy's and other things you have learnt here. Write your future ambition, dreams, what you love about yourself and many more. U should have something special in you, write it down in your diary.
Hey Dorcas! It is fine to hate diaries. Not everyone is meant to like the same thing. If you do not like it, do not force it and look for something you may like. This could be recording your day on your phone like an audio book or even talking to someone about it. You can try these out and let us know if you feel better. We hope this helps
I don't support the idea of having a diary... what if one doesn't really have good memories but bad ones?? And then when u go through your own diary, u re-live all those bad moments. I had a diary once and it ALMOST got me into trouble. Besides, most adult now don't understand that a diary is something very personal and not supposed to be read
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you really do have a point.
yea am in the same line of thought as you.... I dnt see d need keeping a diary because one day it might fall into a wrong hand and all you thoughts and secrets will be exposed.
Hey Preciousummer01! Thanks for the comment. It is totally fine to not like the idea of having a diary. However, it is not possible to have only bad memories. What this means is that you are only paying attention to the bad memories and ignoring the good stuff. Diaries are personal and it is best for you to keep it in a safe space that you only have access to. Adults will check and read every and anything you keep within their reach so it is not just about diaries. You have to be very careful with your diary the same way you keep your secrets to yourself without allowing anyone to hear about them. We hope this helps
Its really awesome..f
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Yes it sure is
Hi ade,yeah its really cool
Hi everyone,last person standing Pls kindly say Hi
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cutie how far nah,
I have a problem with guys but i really need a boyfriend
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hey qween, i think it depends on what that problem is....it will determine the kinda boyfriend you wanna have.
Hey Qween! Thanks for the comment. Your comment is contradictory. You have a problem with guys on one hand but you really need a boyfriend. First of all, what is the problem that you have with guys. Secondly, what do you really need a boyfriend for? What is your aim for going into a relationship and what is it that you want out of the relationship? What are you the qualities you possess and what are the qualities you want from a boyfriend? Are you ready for the responsibilities that come with it; attention, calls, messages and time? These are some of the things you need to have answers to before going into a relationship. We hope this helps
Tank u big sister,i lov u.d advice is helpful
I had a bad breakup and i really got hurt the guy was a big liar.. he lied to me were friends for 4year and i had a crush on him.. he asked me out this year i was so happy i said yes... we dated for some months.... then i found out later that he was a liar our whole relationship was based on lies... i was so shocked..i trusted him i guess too much 😟😟😟.. Then we broke up i cried for two months then i met a guy on the internet he's based in ghana he's older than me by 5yrs he's working over there not as a g boy we talked became friends he made me laugh and forget the pain i was in from my last break up he confessed that he liked me i agreed to date him.... then we started dating ...then another guy came he was younger older than me by 2years....and hesl started begging me saying he's in love with me and he stays in the same state as me.... i agreed to date him i guess out of pity and because i doubted if the one in ghana really likes me besides he hasn't seen me yet... then... i started dating the two of them online... then i met the one in the same state with me for real..... he's a cool guy pretty shy... he really likes me and i told him i didn't want sex he agreed...to it... that made me like him more.. then my conscience started judging me i couldnt continue dating the other one in ghana behind his back so i told him even though it meant losing him.. i really like him alot i love him... so when i told him he got mad i cried and apologized he was still angry till the next day he called me and said i should stop crying that he loves me alot that i really hurt him but he cant lose me... that we should stay together and that... i should promise not to lie to him and block the other guy. now i don't know what to do cause i feel. sorry for the one in ghana.... cause i met him first.... should i leave both of them or the one in ghana... Am confused 😭😭😭😭
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Hey Bae-124! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision for you to make. However, from your comment, we noticed that you didn't start either of the relationships on the right note. You dated the guy in Ghana because you were heartbroken and you he gave you attention when you needed it. You dated the other guy out of pity. These are totally wrong reasons to date someone. It also doesn't seem like you know what you want from a relationship and a partner and this is really important because once you know this, you will not just go into a relationship for the sake of going into it. We hope this helps
I had a bad breakup and i really got hurt the guy was a big liar.. he lied to me were friends for 4year and i had a crush on him.. he asked me out this year i was so happy i said yes... we dated for some months.... then i found out later that he was a liar our whole relationship was based on lies... i was so shocked..i trusted him i guess too much 😟😟😟.. Then we broke up i cried for two months then i met a guy on the internet he's based in ghana he's older than me by 5yrs he's working over there not as a g boy we talked became friends he made me laugh and forget the pain i was in from my last break up he confessed that he liked me i agreed to date him.... then we started dating ...then another guy came he was younger older than me by 2years....and hesl started begging me saying he's in love with me and he stays in the same state as me.... i agreed to date him i guess out of pity and because i doubted if the one in ghana really likes me besides he hasn't seen me yet... then... i started dating the two of them online... then i met the one in the same state with me for real..... he's a cool guy pretty shy... he really likes me and i told him i didn't want sex he agreed...to it... that made me like him more.. then my conscience started judging me i couldnt continue dating the other one in ghana behind his back so i told him even though it meant losing him.. i really like him alot i love him... so when i told him he got mad i cried and apologized he was still angry till the next day he called me and said i should stop crying that he loves me alot that i really hurt him but he cant lose me... that we should stay together and that... i should promise not to lie to him and block the other guy.. now i don't know what to do cause i feel. sorry for the one in ghana.... cause i met him first.... should i leave both of them or the one in ghana... Am confused 😭😭😭😭
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wow,i think ur relationship is kinda complicated,But u should'nt have dated someone out of pity
What u did wasn't nice but to fix things,i think as a girl,u shld let ur heart decide and apologise to d oda
Hmmm..... Dats a step.... I really need an answer to this question. Is there any wrong in turning people down... That is someone trying to make acquaintance (meeting at a place) for the first time??? Am always feeling insecure... Please wot do i do??
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with turning someone down especially when you are polite about it. You do not have to feel insecure, decisions like this are up to you to make. If you do not feel comfortable with someone, you should not be forced into a relationship or acquaintance with them. We hope this helps
Big sis, av known dx guy 4 abt 4 yrs nd we've been close a bit nd recently, i av been dared to date him for a day which i did buh did nt end well cuz he waz asking for sex chats i refused but he is disturbing me please how do i stop him
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Big sis, av known dx guy 4 abt 4 yrs nd we've been close a bit nd recently, i av been dared to date him for a day which i did buh did nt end well cuz he waz asking for sex chats i refused but he is disturbing me please how do i stop him
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Hi it as simple ask ABCD since u don't like it tell him to stop or u can even block him if he still continues,then talk to a trusted adult.
Woah..... Tnx a lot
hey sister i have a boyfriend he keeps Asking me for sex and I didn't like it but i still want to maintain d relationship hw should I go about it
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why is it that whenever parents see their child's diary they think about the diary otherwise
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I wonder oooo
Hi,i'm new but what honeydrops said is true
Yes i do have a diary it has helped me alot
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Big sis I'm a guy. I've not had sex b4 but I do (Masturbate). I want to know whether I'm still a "Virgin".0r noT. Answer me pls😔😔
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Hey, if you're masturbating that means you're still a virgin
I want to have a dairy but I don't have any priva
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I want to have a dairy but I don't have any priva
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I want to have a dairy but I don't have any privacy at home but I really need to write down my thoughts
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Hi guys I do have a pink diary that has a key,I do write lot of stuff on it,but not regularly,I write on it when I want to.
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Hi expivstar.
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I don't have a diary what do I do I need an adviser
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Tnx 4 dat i do appreciate Nikki
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I do have a diary but cant share my secrets......... Thanks for the advice sha
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just thanks to you
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I once had a diary but it really hard keeping one because boys want to know everything
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Hey Jessica! Thanks for the comment. Keeping a diary is a personal decision and it is up to you to make. We hope this helps
Hi am new here .i would lik 2 share a secret 2 u, pls need permission
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Hi Rita, You are proudly welcome.
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I am always insulted and don't no what to do
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I'm new here Am I welcomed??
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Yes ur welcomed
of course u are welcome darling
Ur totally welcome, I hope your enjoying the site😀
I'm not good at keeping records,or filling diary don't know why😢 have two diary's that were given as gifts but they almost empty,if I make up my mind to write today, might not write again till probably the next month, can I get help please.... Am new here though
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I'm new here.... hope am welcome
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Hello Mammiedude, Yes dear you are highly welcome to this platform.
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I have a diary can my best friend read it??
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Nobody is to be trusted. as 4 me, no one can read my diary
I need a girl friend if you are interested please reply me
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Hi,i'm interested
if it on this site ,it not possible.
Can my boy friend read my diary??
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if u want
I'm in love wit a guy I thought loved buh his behavior has changed a lot..What should I do to know he truly loves me
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Just fake your self sick
To know he truly loves you... Thatz gon be hard,cause guys just dont show how they feel towards girls,you just have to be around him more often,let him feel secure and open when with you.. Intime you would know where he stands.. *wink* I hope this helps😊
I suggest that you search for this article' does he like me' and read it and also follow the advice there. Hope this helps.
Two mantras to succeed in life. One, believe in no one but yourself. And two, once you make up your mind never look back.!!!!!
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I was wooing a girl but she hasn't answer me
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Pls don't be offended but If u were wooing her in this site I doubt she'll ever answer you
Think I will get myself a diary
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I once kept a diary which my dad saw. He scolded me about everything I wrote;for example,I wrote about my crush. He came to my school the next day and told the boy to watch out for me and that if he saw us together,he's going to arrest him. I was so embarrassed that I started avoiding the boy but he cornered me one day and told me it was okay. He said its not my fault and that its was my hormones working which is normal. We became friends from then on.
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awwnn! ur dad is kind of funny lol
Ur dad is overprotective,he's just Ur crush for crying out loud
Well,I think its because I'm the only girl.
Plz I need a serious relationship that can lead to Marriage if you are interested
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This is not a dating site
The guy I love is in Ogun state buh I'm in Lagos,we only get time to see each other once in a while
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cn we hangout
I had one but my aunt actually saw it and it's with her right now.
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she does not have the right to do that
I had one but it's history now.
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I used to keep one, but mom saw it and read it
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sorry
that's bad
good girls
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I av a diary,but mom saw it,read it,nd was bittered
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Hey Love! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about this. You can try to keep it in a safe space where you only have access next time. We hope the diary didn't put you in trouble. We hope this helps
ok tnkz
Wat was in d diary
it contained my daily activities nd feelings
Writing is just my hobby...
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Thanks
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Thanks big sis. I do have a diary tho it's on my phone but I'm always lazy to write in it. I've not even touched it for 2 or more weeks now.
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Hey RhiRhi33! Thanks for the comment. It should be easy to type since it's a phone but you need to know what works better for you. Will a physical diary be better than an E-diary? Try both out to see which will be more convenient for you. We hope this helps
Hi big sis,am 15 and m confused on what to do dere z dx boi in my class who i have a crush on nd we r good friends and of recent he has been snubbing me .someone once told me he also likes me i dont know if i should ask him y he z snubbing me or i shd just leave him alone pls help
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey dhamzkhid! Thanks for the comment. First of all, crush is not love and it tends to die after a short time so you need to keep this in mind. Secondly, you should not conclude that he likes you based on what someone else told you because it can either be true or it can be a lie. So tread carefully on this path. Finally, it is totally up to you to find out why he is snubbing you. This bit is a personal decision for you to make. We hope this helps.
Don't av any, but I think I av to get one
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I had a diary before
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Hey,am new here am I welcom
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Hey,am new here am I welcom
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Ur welcome dear
I'm new here.am i accepted
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Hey Springster! You're welcome. We hope you like the stories. Feel free to invite your friends here.
I love these Dear Diary, am letting them know I have u
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