Find Your Own “Big Sister”

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The world can be tough on girls. So it’s important for us to support each other—which we do all the time on Springster.

And you know whenever you come to Springster there’s always someone special here...the one and only Big Sister!

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She listens to us and never talks down to us. She’s our biggest cheerleader around the clock. No wonder she’s our woman crush all day, every day.

That being said, Springster isn’t the only place with such a wonderful young woman. There are many other “Big Sisters” waiting to meet you out there. All you need to do is reach out to them. You’ll be surprised by how much you’ll learn. Wondering where to start? Here you go:

Find Someone You Admire
Look around you: your family, your neighbourhood, your whole community. See if there’s any young woman who is doing something you admire. Then if you know someone who is friends with her, ask them more about her. E.g. What’s she really like? Would she be interested in mentoring you? Try not to ask questions that are out of line. (E.g. Can we meet every week?). They might just put her off.

Get Someone to Introduce You
If you like what you’ve heard, ask your friend to introduce you guys. Make it clear that you’d like her to mentor you. Simple. Her friend will pass the message across. If she’s cool with it, a meeting will take place. Remember, it should happen in public. Just be yourself; it’ll be fine. Say hi and tell her your name. Be warm and polite. If you’re nervous, practise in front of the mirror first.

Let Things Flow Naturally
After that first meeting, wait and see what happens next. Everything will fall into place in time. Keep hanging out with her in public. Keep talking to her and getting to know her well. Don’t open up to her immediately. You need to be sure all the amazing things you’ve heard about her are true. So wait until you guys trust each other completely. Then lean back and let the magic happen.

That’s all, girl. Now go out there and find your own “Big Sister.” Good luck!

Want to read more inspiring stories like this one? Then head to our Springster Facebook page and connect with a community of girls just like you! - https://www.facebook.com/heyspringster

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I am in love with my work partner, but i don't know why i am afraid to tell her i am in love with her. Please I need your help

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey Abraham! Thanks for the comment. Love is really deep... deeper that what we all know. You need to be sure that you are not mixing feelings because it could be a crush. How well do you know her? Have you seen her angry at you and you are sure that you still "love" her? You need to know that you cannot love someone you do not know. Get to know her better before you conclude on being in love. Also, it may be awkward because you both are in a work environment. We hope this helps

Mine is my class teacher

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

I am in love with Dan in my church ,but I don't know how to tell him

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I feel am naturally a confused person please what do I do?

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey Timisola! Thanks for the comment. Saying that you are naturally a confused person is not the right thing to say about yourself. There is nothing like a naturally confused person. You can be confused sometimes but definitely not all the time. You need to stop seeing yourself like this and learn to appreciate yourself and the efforts you make. We hope this helps

Hi, guys i want to share my story; i was at primary one when things changed....... I felt sad when my mum changed my school and ever since my life was a mess,i was raped at 5 and my life went upside down, At primary 5 i had a boyfriend and we broke up after 3 month . At primary 6 i started lesbianism. But all this stoped after i left for secondary school, but i was sacred that i won't menstrate . But i grateful to GOD because i am menstrating now in ss2.and since then i never loved or had a crush on any boy. I'm sacred :o;(:( pls big sis help

I want soneone in my lifr to help me in needs nd someone that will always make me happy nd i will make he or she happy

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

hi sister, I will be the one to make you happy if possible.

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am new here.i need some help

U R D Only Big Sis I Ave. Nd U Ave Bn Trutful About Tins 2 Me. A Very Big THANKS 2 My One Nd Only Mentor, SPRINGSTER'S Big Sis!

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Awwwww... Thanks a lot for the kind words Gifted! You are amazing. Big sister loves you

Hi, please I'm new here I need help

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

I'm new here pls😀

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Afternoon Please Am New Here

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Good Afternoon am new here

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pls I need a big sister from here

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hi candy can we be friends.

Hello ! Please am new here and I need a friend

Pls am new here.And i need a big sister here

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U gat me let’s talk 🙂

Hi, am new here o and i need a big sister.

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feel free to share ur problems bcus Big sis is always here for you.A problem shared is half solved.

Hi am new here and I need a big sis to share my thoughts with

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

Hi am new here and I need a big sis to share my thoughts with

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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You are welcome. Just say whatever problem you are having and we'll help. You can be my friend for starters. Once again, welcome

Mhidiv, feel free to share your problems Okay?

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can We be frnds mekky

Sure, I don't see why not

tnks mekky anyway If I may ask,how old are u and what class.

Wat abt a big brother? i admire no woman,nt even my mum.dere's a yung man at d nxt community, i wud lv him to mentor me.

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey Splendor! Thanks for the comment. It is okay for you to choose who you to choose to admire but you need to be careful and know that some guys can take advantage of this and probably molest you. Also, you need to know that getting a mentor is strategic. Not everyone is a mentor. What has this guy in question achieved that you will like him to mentor you on? You shouldn't just choose a random guy from somewhere to become a mentor because you like him, the person should have some distinct achievements that you should be able to point at and also want to learn from. We hope this helps

am new here, am i welcome

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Yep you are welcome to springsters hi lekan.

u are welcome lekan

i don't still understand hw 2 calculate ur period cycle

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Hmmmmm

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searching for an aunt

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hi precious

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Hey can we be friends

Pls can i get a big sis

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am new oo lol am a guy

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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welcome

did you come here to tease people

sounds too close

I don't care.

Same

U are annoying

prince Pls are u here to destroy peoples friendship or what.

Pls if you are annoyed, sorry I just overreacted

ok no problem I have forgiven u

Hey Prince I'm sorry, it's just that I got annoyed.

hey how far

How far

I deyoo How Ur side

Hello Any Girl For Serious Relationship??

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Wat type of relationship. Sorry I 4got to say hi, hahahaha. Hi romey.

I not only have a big sister but also a big brother, my big Sis is our one an only big sis of this site and my big brother though I have never seem him real life and he doesn't know about me, he is still my mentor I want to be like him and also like big sister. I want to have my own social inspiration site for teens and also be a pediatric neurologist. Have you guessed his name now he is the one and only Ben Carson and my greatest mentor above all my mentors is GOD. I call him Great Original Daddy (GOD) .

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

I have a big sister and a big brother as my mentor. My big Sis mentor is no other but the big Sis of this site and a big brother. I want to have my own site for teens and also be a pediatric neurologist. Have you guessed my big bros name by now, he is Ben Carson I want to also be like him. But the greatest of all my mentors is The Great Original Daddy (GOD). Happy back to school month 😊 and please greet Misty for me.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Same to you paris2

I need one mentor as my lovely family

Same to you paris2.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Big Sis I want to get posting inspirational quotes everyday, am I permitted?

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Big Sis I want to start posting inspirational quotes everyday, am I permitted?

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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I think so bcus I have started posting mine

Hi anything for me

NICE ONE

Hi do u have any gist for me

so what did ur mum do.I'm not staying any where around abia so I don't know anything about dat.

I AM NEW HERE,I NEED A BIG SISTER

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hi x_ray u are welcome.

THANK'S CUTIE

u are always welcome dear

Hi xray Good afternoon

X-ray u are so so welcome to springster girl.

am looking for a big sister

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. We have given you all the details you need to know about getting a big sister in the article above. Kindly read it and follow the steps to get a big sister around you. We hope this helps

Me too. Guys I'm looking for a big sis.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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HI JANELNDEY

Hey JaneInedy! Thanks for the comment. We have given you all the details you need to know about getting a big sister in the article above. Kindly read it and follow the steps to get a big sister around you. We hope this helps

Me too. Guys I'm looking for a big sis.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Me Too

Am seriously in need of a big sis dat I can trust and n share all m problem m tired of sharing it to m diary

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hi girl I believe u will get one soon OK.

Pls i 'm in need of a big sister

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hey Kingjoejoe! Thanks for the comment. We have given you all the details you need to know about getting a big sister in the article above. Kindly read it and follow the steps to get a big sister around you. We hope this helps

HI BIG SISTER,I NEED YOUR HELP.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hi xray in what area do u need Big sisters help

I want to ask her a question.

Can I meet you

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

hi I want to ask a big sis question

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

I Need A Big Sis O

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I can be one If u like

I can be one If u like

I need one too

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Big Sis, I did a research about Springster and found out it is an NGO which aids girls and boys on problems. There are many Springster site in the world like in Ghana, Malaysia, St Vincent and the Grenadines and many more.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

I need a big sis too. 😀

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hi mamie

I enjoy having sex a lot. Several times with my boyfriend and even his friends. Is this bad?

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Having sex with your boyfriend is not a bad idea but having sex with his friends is not acceptable, instead of having sex with his friends, why don't you go outside and look for a side nigga. Probably friends with benefits if you don't want to loose your relationship with your man. And also play your game well without any trace.

Yes it is!!!!!!!¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡

Hi sharina for me it's a bad thing,cause u are stabbing ur bf in the back by sleeping with his friends, this can cause a fight between him and his friends, please I advice u to stop it cause they might even start calling u names for what u are doing,so please stop OK.nice meeting u.

Hmmm is too bad Pls dnt do it again ooo mbok

I need a big and beautiful sis that can show me the practical way to have good sex and also share business ideas with me.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Hello Big Sister,here is a girl who always ask me to buy gifts for her... What does this mean and what can i do...?

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

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Hello Omotayo2001, The best way to find out anything is to talk about it. Ask her why she keeps asking you to buy her gifts instead of trying to guess. And if you do not like it, tell her too. We hope this helps.

big I love u

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

I need a big sister who can educate me on how to mange a home.

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hi everyone pls a sister need ur help financial to pay my hostel fee pls any amount is something to support may God help you as u help me.

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i don't really have a big sister buh i wish to have

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I also don't have a big sis buh dats not a problem...

March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.

There is dis girl in my sch she is my jnr with 1 class gap and she lks hanging out with me than her classmates and if i dnt talk to her she feels sad but, i rather be with my mates than her i dnt think she understands.

March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.

I tried to have a big sis once But I haven't seen cos many of them don't know what it take and don't give me the advice I want

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I need a big sis who will be there for me when need arise. Need like financial need, advise, love, attention etc

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Thanks alot i think i have found my big sis

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Hey big sis,i need your help pls reply

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