I am special, I am me

The world will try to tell you otherwise, do not listen

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Always remember that:

There is only one of you
There is nobody in the world like you. It is okay not to like the same things as other people. You will see some things differently from others and that is fine. You don’t have to be the same as everybody else. You are you. You are special. Look at yourself in the mirror everyday and tell yourself how special you are.

You have every right to be here
Some people might try to make you feel like you were born by mistake. Some might say you don’t deserve to be in a certain circle. Remember that you have been created perfectly. That gives you the right to be here like everyone else. Believe in yourself and work with the mindset that no one can make you feel less.

No one owns you
You are not a chair or a dog for people to own and treat badly. You are a human being and that means your life matters. You should listen to and respect adults. But your ideas and opinions matter too. Learn to speak up for yourself.

Looks aren't everything
You have dreams, you have talent, you have your mind. There is so much more to you than your face or body. It is left for you to find these things and bring them out to the world. Beauty lies in your character, good behaviour and not just in fashion or being trendy. Drop bad habits and work on a good attitude.

Being a girl is awesome
People may say you cannot do some things because you are a girl. Some may call you the weaker sex. Remember you are smart and you have a strong mind. Being a girl shouldn’t stop you from becoming anything you want to be. You are special, a rare GEM, and a strong woman in the making. Do not be afraid to take bold steps and try new things, because you are a girl doesn’t mean you are weak.

If you are ever feeling down, or you doubt yourself, you can always come back to read this again.

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Fineboy

Thank's

Aug. 30, 2022, 10:47 a.m.

So Touching

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

dats it

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

Tanx

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

sometimes i feel like im not so special but im so wrong am like the greatest person i know and i thanks God for everything girls we are special as anyone we should always know that we are and no one can make you feel inferior about yourself.

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

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Hey Diona! Thanks for this comment. You are very special and unique. No body can be like you no matter how hard they try. Keep loving yourself, that's the best gift you can give yourself.

it feels awkward wen people forces me to be dis nd dat,they want me to impulate dis or dat person,but u knw wat i always tell them dis "i am who i am." But they just can't get me

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

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Just keep telling them that one day they will learn from experience,u dont have to force people to see the real you,your light will make a difference

I Feel Motivated

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

I love this article it inspired me a lot,thank you so much GEM for been so caring to have written this article,thank you once again!

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

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Hey girl! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

a very inspirational article.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hi abbie i just hope dis will work for me

Hey girl! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

So inspiring

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

I always wanted to have a real teens life u know to make out something of my own but each time i look at others i feel inferior

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Vstar! Like your name says, you are a STAR! Do not let the life of others define yours because everyone is different. Stop feeling inferior because you really do not know what those other teenagers may be experiencing at home. Be the star that you are. Remember that stars cannot be hidden, they shine even when they are covered. \now put a smile on that beautiful face. We hope this helps.

nice

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hi goldee

am indeed a rare gem.am proud of being a girl

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Ar u like gold

Always special

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Am proud of myself

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Am different . and i wil never be intimidated by sight.!

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Am who i mind

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Am who i mind to day and for ever

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

I feel so embarrased when someone tells me am ugly,what should i do?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Tummy! You are beautiful the way you are. No one can define what you look like. You own your body so you are define what beauty means to you. It is when you begin to love yourself and see the beauty in yourself that both you and others will start appreciating you. No one can ever be like you no matter how hard they try so please dear, wipe your tears and begin to see how beautiful you are. Focus on being a great person and we are sure you will be. Now put a smile on that beautiful face and say to yourself 'I AM BEAUTIFUL THE WAY I AM'. We hope this helps.

Thnks big sis

my boyfriend always tell me that he always dream of marrying a figure 8 lady....... I always feel bad because I'm only but a slim girl

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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One man food is another man poison,am 100% so much inlove with slim skinny girls...He wil com back to his sense to realise he can make u look like what he want..

I've stopt acting like someone else so dat i wont forget who i am..

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Yeah,dis Is Me Am Box,and Box I Will Be,but Nt D Bad Box.Thanks Big Sister 4 Dis Article.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Awwwwn...this is awesome!Thank you big sis.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

am a new member, and i nick advar, my dad don't care for me and i stop caling him and he is compling what sho i do.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hi Princess,so so sorry about that,God will take control of everything so calm yourself down okey!but you know no matter what happens he is still your father,so you have to try to make sure you go closer to him and always call him it will make him change by God's grace and he is complaining because he is feeling bad that are no more calling him,there are some parent that kind of behave like that not because they don't love and care for their children but sometimes is because of time or too many things to think of and they may be lot in thought, so please calm down wish you luck!

i think grace is right

Wow thanks for having so much faith in girls,am a new member

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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me too

I am a strong special me! Thank God am a girl!

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Am strong and special too

I thnk Almighty Allah u am strong and special

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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allah i think is god

I am special and strong

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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yes

I feel sad and depressed the way i look due to my size and shape. I feel like nobody in the family. I feel am not treated special. My six makes me feel they are the best and I can't make it in life. They are both in uni and am in poly and they feel we are not the same. It makes me look down on myself and my opinion is never needed

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o sorry donot worry focus on education and show them you are special

Self confident is the best ,when some one did not have self confident it can lead his or her downfall .perhaps if you are pretty or not pretty it did not mean you will not see good husband

Hey Mhizgrachi! We believe every girl is beautiful regardless of her shape and size. This is what makes us all unique and special. We advise that you love your body and see the beauty in it. Once you start with loving yourself anything else you do becomes less of a source of stress and more of continual self improvement. Do not look at things like the university your sisters attend but focus more on being the best you can be at all times. Everyday you wake up, look at the mirror and say to yourself, I am beautiful regardless of my shape and size. Now put a smile on that beautiful face for big sister! We hope this helps.

i am the head not the tail always special no matter what people say.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

i am special.. i wil always be

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

what about girls that have body structure like that of boys?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey girl! There is no such thing as having the body structure of boys because everyone is unique and special in their own way. Embrace yourself the way you are. Love your body because there is someone out there wishing to be like you. You are also very special. We hope this helps.

Lol...I saw myself dat way bcos my friends have once said I have broad shoulders and I also have big legs....I actually overlooked it I was exchanging words with a guy and he was lyk I'm a man cuz of my broad shoulders and big legs...and I'm a slim girl so those attributes were kinda vivible on me but I didn't allow those words bother me, I learnt to love my body cuz I know most pple even wish to be like me....I think I'm really pretty and no one can deny dat fact, my hair is really long too....so whenever any1 tries to put u down, always look at d exceptional things u have which makes u unique and with dat ur morale would be boosted...so don't look down on ur body, rememba u can't be some1 else and no one can be u!

Lovely

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

cute.... i can do it!

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

my friend (annabelle) said i should ask if there's any way she could make herself shorter and fatter,and that she wants to make her back straight 'cause she doesn't like it when people call her hunchback and that she wants to get a more fairer, smoother and fresher skin

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Tanks its as if u know wat i'm going 2ru coz i don't know how 2 cope wit my inferiority complex

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Serena! First of all you must determine the cause for your inferiority complex. It could be something that happened to you as a child or what someone said to you while growing up. Find out what it is and tackle it once and for all. Also, you need to change your thoughts by changing your negative self talk, fix your mental self image and fix your self confidence. Learn to believe in yourself and consider yourself beautiful at all times. If you must have friends, choose people that will boost your confidence too. Finally, before you leave your house everyday, look at yourself in the mirror and say, I AM THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND I LOVE MYSELF.

tanks for dat piece. i was already feeling down and stupid thoughts were already going through my head.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey girl! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

Big sis thanks for that courage

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hi today is ma birthday

Pls 2day is ma birthday

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Ekemzy! Happy birthday to you! GEM Nigeria team wishes you long life and prosperity. Girls, please wish Ekemzy a happy birthday. We love you girl.

Hi Ekemzy!happy birthday,so so sorry I didn't see it early and am wish you a long life and prosperity!

Hi Ekemzy!happy birthday,so so sorry I didn't see it early and am wishing you a long life and prosperity!

HI BIG SISTER THANK YOU FOR THAT COURAGE

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

tnx,,alot

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Tnx for the Encouraging words Wat a courage u got

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Hey girl! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

But even my own family act lyk am not one because of my temperament

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Serena! Sorry to hear about this but the truth is that nobody wants to associate with a temperamental person. The good thing is that there is a way out. All you need to do is to make a conscious effort to be nicer and also to let things that hurt you go. Put a smile on your face at all times and you will see that not only for family members but other people will begin to appreciate you and see you as special. We hope this helps.

I am a girl but i have a large stomach what can i d to have a flat stomach

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Omowumi2! You should try changing your diet to a more healthy diet and also you should exercise. Do exercises centered around the tummy like situps, planks, leg raises, etc. We hope this helps.

Hello!Am skinny and my boobs are small but i don't like it'i want to get fat a little.Please help.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Joyce! We believe every girl is beautiful regardless of her shape and size. This is what makes us all unique and special. We advise that you love your body and see the beauty in it. To gain weight, you can eat lots of carbohydrate and fats, eat lots of tropical fruits e.g banana, eat often, don't drink water before you eat so that your tummy won't be full, drink milk and yogurts, get lots of sleep and don't forget to enjoy yourself while doing all these because worrying also makes one loose weight. We hope this helps.

Well in my case, i had a very good shape before while growing up but now i am becoming fat a little, and its taking my shape away which i don't like. Whewi tried reducing my diet, i just getting skinny and my shape is not returning, what should i do??

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Nancy! The first thing you should do is to embrace your body (regardless of the size). The more you pay attention to loosing/gaining weight, the more you loose your self esteem. Your body changes as you grow so you may no longer be as shapey as you used to be but the most important thing is to see yourself as the most beautiful girl on the face of the planet. There can be only one YOU. Take your mind off your weight and begin to see the beauty in yourself. We hope this helps.

i think the best thing to do is to have confidence in ur self becos peopie will see u d way u see ur yourself

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Maybe ooo

Hey Tops! Very true! Once people start to notice that you are not confident, they will take advantage of the you. Thanks for sharing this.

Go gal

Hi grace tanks God bless u amen

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hi Ekemzy,thank you and Amen!

Big kudos 4 gem & others

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

How do i begin to see d beauty in myself??

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

big Kudo for u all

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Nice to be

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Tank u gal effect 4 always encouraging usπŸ‘πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Inem! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

am realy gland to meet u friends, I am a new member here,

Am Proud To Be A Girl

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Hy am new hope am welcom

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Of course u r

Good talk

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

tnx for dis u inspired me

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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HY SUSAN

Havin A Self Confidence Is D Key Of Evry Woman Lif. Tanks 4 Dis Cus Wit Dis Evry Woman Wil Learn To Trust In Her Self

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

it nice to special

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

nice saying

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hy ahmaddolala nyc 2 meet u

how can i discover my talent

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Is it true that a whitish substance comes out from a girl's vigina before menstration?

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Springster! Thanks for this question. Yes, white discharge is a common premenstrual symptom that affects many women. We hope this helps.

ok any time i feel discriminated i'll read dis article again & again 2 bold & be strong i am a rare gem

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Springster! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

i am fine boy rich love nass

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Hey I'm New!

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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u r wlcm dear

U re welcome to our amazing world of springster

Ur totally welcome

am new also!

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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U Re Welcome My Dear

nice one, i am new here but i must say that this is a wonderful place for girls to learn from,especially the younger girls,this place will guide them as they grow into adulthood

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

HI AM NEW HERE,any body that welcomes me will be my best friend LIKE big sister!

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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AM NEW HERE

wow this is very amazing.. I think it will help me alot ..because I always feel bad and alone since am an orphan I always look drown on my self asking myself why did my parents born me ......I think this will help me

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

wow!i really love dis

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

AM STRONG

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hello

Cell

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

YEAH,dat's me,am special so special in my way

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Rose! Yes, you are very special.

hw do i share ma thought

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Am new here.d 1st 2 welcome me becomes my frnd

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Ur welcome deary

Big Sis, I have tried to share my story but it isn't working

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Armed001! Try refreshing the page. It could be network problem.

Thanks bae

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Luv this big sis , keep inspiring us !

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Nice one

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

I Love this. Thanks.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

wow interestin

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Good

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Yh

Perfect

Hey big sis! can't you make the competition prizes be more exciting? like maybe a makeup kit for the winner and other girly things like jewelry.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Itxqueenannie! Thanks for the comment. Makeup and jewelry are very personal and very dependent on personal choice so it will be difficult to give them as gifts because we don't know individual's preference. We hope this helps.

I totally concur to you cos there's a giant in every female

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Wow, this is gud advice

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Say to ur self for i am beautifully and wonderfully made in side of thee lord.dont look down on ur self

How do u share ur story

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Goody! Scroll to the bottom of the page to where the instructions are for the Your words competition. Click on the icon that says "write your story" and it takes you to the page where you can write your story. After writing your story, click submit. We hope this helps.

Am strong and wise

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Always be confident about urself #Girls Rulz

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

i love this

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

I really got motivated nd inspired after reading this article......thanks alot

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Springster! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

I used to feel i was a failure but after reading this i must say i'm motivated and inspired to mopve on with life. Thank u so much.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

This Is Perfect, Awesome And Thank You.

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

I Am Fearfully & WonderFully Made , & I Am Proud Of Being A Girl

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

I can never be disadvantage in life either can I be small The seed of greatness is in me

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Wow go girl keep boasting your morale N others around

thanks springster am grateful for the encouragement this article cheered me up and gave me 10,000 reasons to move ahead thanks

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Springster! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

i luv dat u luv thiss ms D..

nice article

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

some guys i know always says women are weaker vessel

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Do you think it's right for a 15 years old girl to have a boy friend...?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Jessipearl! There is no particular age for one to start dating. Dating has to do with maturity and not age. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurising you to do it. We hope this helps.

Why some people always used to be jealousy?bcoz sometimes wenever i talk,dey always takes my words as a fool but at d end of d day my words always hlp dem if dey later re-think but dey always takes my words as a childish speech and am tired of it wot can i do to make dem think straight wenever i speak?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

I love myself...

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

In addition, You are created by God for a specific purpose & he will help you to get to your glorious destination if walk in his laid down pathway,he created you in his own image for you not to be downgraded by anybody because each & everyone of us are mostly important to him. You are entitled to good testimonies &u will share it.

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

In addition, You are created by God for a specific purpose & he will help you to get to your glorious destination if walk in his laid down pathway,he created you in his own image for you not to be downgraded by anybody because each & everyone of us are mostly important to him. You are entitled to good testimonies &u will share it. I AM SPECIAL,I KNOW THAT I AM,I LOVE MYSELF

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Yeah Not everyone would accept you in a particular circle, never let anyone pull u done. Everyone is imperfect cus no one is perfect, never be afraid to make a move. Accept correction not defeat!!

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

hi there.....If you're passionate about something,find a means to make it happen. People would always talk but most times,their opinion should matter less and not mislead you. I am working on my passion right now and I just find so much joy being able to finally make it happen

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Makanju! Thanks a lot for this. We are so happy you shared this with us and we love wise words like this. Once again, thanks for sharing this.

I want to be a contortionist but am not thin,

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Flexibelle! Thanks for the comment. There is no rule that says every contortionist must be thin. So please, stop limiting yourself with this excuse. All you need is physical flexibility and this is not limited to size. Everyone can be flexible if they work hard and practise regularly. Now that you know the secret, work towards it and we will see you at the top. We hope this helps

This is authentic

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Woow

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Wow! Tnk u so oo much for this @Big Sis

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

wow interesting 😊😊😊😊😊😊

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Thanks for the lecture

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Thanks

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nice talk

u the best

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Very encouraging πŸ‘

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Nice article makes me special.

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

okay, I know I sound stupid but ......... am not happy with my life anymore!! I feel like dying! although I have a wonderful parents but I don't know I still feel alone .no one cares no one! actually there is one person a boy. he said he likes me that he would do anything for me. am very happy that someone actually care for me.

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Don't Think Like That.Everybody Have A Story To Tell.Hey! Becareful With That Boy..

Hello estellaher,if u feel lonely anytime try to login go online nd chat wit some frnd dat will make u happy nd gist together wit ur frend.everybody as his or her own problem or wat z brothering her mind.nd try to be careful wit dat guy.cus guy are fill wit sweet mouth.

hi estellaher, don't think in that way at all, everybody loves you and always have it in your mind that your parents are your first love, they love you so much that they brought you up that stage you are, think also too that they might be having a hard time, try to make them happy, play with them, smile and put the boredom away. Believe in yourself, have faith you, we all have purpose, love and smile with peoe, be optimistic and you would see that people around you would love you, at the same time mind the people you move with and seek advice from people.

Wow.Moral

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Oh yeah, life is something u will not judge but I believe in energy

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Very good

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

Wow Awesome

March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.

I think i would do just dat

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Yeah! I'm special , smart , strong & i don't care what pple say about me

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

yeah!!!!!Am special,am me,like no other

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

tank u big sis

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

This is nice one! I am me, am specia, am difference amound the differend, am me alone in the world. Correct one

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

thank you big sis

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Thanks four the advice:)

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

This is just what I needed,

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Inspiring,motivating,nd encouraging.

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

This is good

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

I am special and I am a sickick

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

People make Me feel bad wen they say Am thin and Flat.wat can i do

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey Tess! Thanks for the comment. You need to, first of all, learn to love your body. This is the most important thing. You know, when you love a particular thing so much, there is nothing anyone will say that will make you want to hate that thing. That is how it is when you love your body. You won't be bothered about others say about you. So love yourself and you will be even more confident. We hope this helps

Thanks big sis

Tess don't mind them because you are beautiful the way you are Whetter thin or fat.

nice 1

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

I am 17 bt looks like a 13 years old,its only my face that can tell that I look older,the last time I checked my weight it was just 35. Please is there anything I can do or eat dat can make me look a little bit of my age? nt dat I want to be fat or something or is that weight okay for my age?. Please I need answers.

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. There is really nothing you can eat to make you look your age. We suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor for more guidance on what to eat and also to know if your weight is okay for your age. You can also see a pharmacist if you do not have access to a hospital. We hope this helps

I like your story

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

yes i am special and unic

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

i like this articles its encouraging

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

Yes ooo i can't beg for my right because am so costly

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

this article is encouraging

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I am 16 and i hv dis "WAWOPT" syndrome-worried abt what other pple think.pls help me big sis

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Hey IBI! Thanks for the comment. We do not know what "WAWOPT" syndrome is. Can you please shed more light on this? We look forward to a response from you. Thanks

AM HAPPY 2 B HERE I MIGHT B DOWNGRADED BUT CAN'T PREDIT MY 2MOR

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

i'm 15 and my mate do tell me the way i dress is not right that i should try dressing attractive and it is making me feel bad,they usually refer to me as omo pastor,pls wht should i do?

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Hey Katherine-15! Thanks for the comment. No one has the right to tell you how to dress or not. Dressing is a way to express yourself and so no one should dictate on how you should express yourself. They are not the ones to tell you what is attractive or not. As long as you feel attractive and comfortable in what you wear, no one should have a say on it. These people are trying to make you dress and look like them and this is not the way. This is how peer pressure starts and you need to tell them you fell comfortable in your "omo pastor" clothes and they should stop trying to influence the way you look. As long as you do not tell them what to wear and how to look, they have no right to do so with you too. We hope this helps

hi big sis...I'm not so cool with my self...I'm seventeen years old but my younger sister looks more matured than I am...she's fifteen..all my friends says she's looks like my elders sister... all the boys find her more attractive than I am...I'm not angry about that...but I'm just scared if I finally have a boyfriend and he also finds her attractive than I am, and likes her...and my sister could be saucy at times...please what should I do?

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Hey hi_feisty! Thanks for the comment. We understand how you feel and we get that it can be sad and painful but the truth is that it shouldn't make you feel not cool. Any boyfriend of yours that finds her more attractive than you does not deserve to be in your life in the first place and so this is not even a thought to consider because it can make you build hatred towards your sister. Everyone has their spec and trust me, not all guys will find her attractive. The ones that find her attractive now do so because she is their spec. You need to get this off your mind and get to appreciate yourself because if you don't, you will keep paying attention to every detail about your sister. There is also nothing wrong with looking younger (you will love this part when you grow older, trust big sister *wink*). The most important thing right now is to love yourself and be happy with the way you are. We hope this helps

i dnt knw y ppl especially my classmate luk down on me bcos dey thought am nt matured enough though am somehw d youngest in my class am 13 maybe bcos my breast is um big up to theirs

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i dnt knw y ppl especially my classmate luk down on me bcos dey thought am nt matured enough though am somehw d youngest in my class am 13 maybe bcos my breast is nt big up to theirs

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hi goldzy please never you allow what people think about you to affect you even if you are youngest it does not matter what really matters is what is inside of you that you what to show the world.

just ignore dem bcus no one can change d way u are.I am 13 too and d youngest in my class but I speak more matured dan some of my classmates but i have a baby face.

just leave them believe in yourself, you are a rare gem, believe that you are special

I agree with u but is a big role to play

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my goodness thanks this is so awesome

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Hi faith.

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Did u hear that world, THERE IS ONLY 1 ME.....!πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

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I luv dis. .thank u big sister.

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Nice fact

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I SHARE THE SAME IDEA

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Nice

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Good

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interesting write up it really help, but why girl is awesome what about boy? tell more about boy

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True

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I used to feel bad about myself, I have always being weird. But now I know, I am special, I am me.

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Sometimes i do ask myself, what so special in me dat attracts frnds so much to me especially female becoz am a type of person dat ave no time for such...pls wad could be de reason for dis big sis??

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Hi dyna, Perhaps ur behavior or something more than that.

Hey big siz am a 19year old Not so attractive nd not too ulgly shaa Presently in college Just got admitted Made some couples of frnds Buh I don't y Wenever we went out in or somewhere de guys deir always prefer my friends to me am not jealous Buh am always stranded yes some of my friends re more beautiful while some re not Nd my frnds mke jest of me like am dis am dat Or my mouth is did ND dat I no I ve an akward facial looks especially my teeth nd my lips big nd thick So de guys don't luk my side nd Even wen dey do wance my frnds comes out dey got talking nicely nd flirty Am Moody now I'm beginning to hate mysef Y me Like u re 19witout a boifrnd I don't blame de guys nd my friends Buh I'm beginning to think sumtin is wrong with me Y mi nd for how long Am just sick nd tired of de whole tin Big sister do u think sumtin is wrong with me If nah den y

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My advice in a nutshell: No matter how ur L❀️❀️K is, feel good, and LπŸ’‹VE urself, others will do... believe dis and tell urself what u deserve, people will give u, carry yourself as a king πŸ‘‘ u will b treated as one.... Tell yourself positives affirmation every morning; such as: I’m pretty I’m lovely etc.

Hi faith am new here am I welcome?

March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.

Hi big sis in my class I was always looked down becos am the shortest & smallest in my class am always treated As if I don't exist what should I do big sis?.

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I know who I am, I will never change my self again and just for what so that people will like me. I mean friends isn't all the world I can't change myself so that my friends will like me better. I know people who like me for who I am like my family, ur right I am not a dog, so I won't act like one. I am smart, beautiful and loving. I am me. I can't change myself but I have changed my mind.

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My mom always act as a discouragement to me and also my twin brother always beats me up for no reason at all.

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i am peculiar, a rare nd priceless gem...i will neva do anything to change me

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Hi,am new here. I would love to be part of this big and lovely family. I also want a bestie i can trust in. Hope am welcome?

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Hi Mia your welcome

Thank you very much konye

Hi mia am new here too

OK mia

Hi bosslady hope you are enjoying the stories and lessons

Hi am new here too wanna make friends with me?

OK mia

Yes kate i would love to

Hi am new here am I welcome? wow i learnt a lot

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Am new here,am i welcome?

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