But I do have rights
There are almost 3.7 million orphans in South Africa - close to half of them have lost their parents to AIDS-related disease. This is one girl’s story.
My name is Preity, I am 20 and I live in South Africa. When I was young I lived with my aunt and uncle. They made me believe they had the right to beat and mistreat me because I was not their biological child, and I didn’t have anywhere else to go. I was trapped.
They were plain mean to me. If I asked my aunt for sanitary pads when I got my period, she would say: “Use a newspaper!” When I wanted to fix my hair to look nice, she would say: “There is water and sunshine, what else do you need...”. It was terrible.
Life was hard for me then. I was very discouraged. Only after I had finished my difficult chores late a night, could I then take out my schoolbooks and do my homework.
One day, after thinking about it for a very long time, I gathered enough courage to go speak to a social worker I had heard about from a teacher at school. I was so scared. But I am so glad that I did. She changed my life.
When I went to her, I told her my story and I cried and cried. She looked at me in the eyes and told me, “Child, NO ONE has the right to beat you or treat you badly.” She went with me to my house and she met with my guardians. She had a few meetings. It took a while but she eventually helped me find another place to live away from them. There I was looked after. I was able to concentrate on my studies, and I became strong.
When I was at my aunt and uncle’s I was scared to ask for help. But I am so glad that I did. Now I am happy and safe. I am proud again. I am a girl who fought for her rights and won.
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Congratulation On Your Victory
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
Congratulation
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
NICE STORY
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
I am not treated badly
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
😔
March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.
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Wat os the meaning of kk
Sometimes am treated badly
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Then fight for ur right!
its true they say"a problem shared,is a problem solve" you gats get guts to share.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Awwwwnnnn Dats,so nyc of d social worker
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Dont worry, I'd sue ur aunt mistreating a SPRINGSTER.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
a social worker did very wel.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
D social did we'll and was very nice to u
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
WOW,wow,wow
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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yea that is Good too hear that from he or she
rose cn we b frenz
Thanks
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
This is nice
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Girls have rights. So fight for ur right girl!
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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whch rit
yea u have rights
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Every girl should do what Preity did if facing this kind of problem
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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u r very correct!
hmm.......true talk
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
We all need to assist one another problem that challenge us are like a heavy load until u ask for help you will be forever weary N tough time don't .Last ONLY TOUCH PEOPLE!!! springters be tough
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Congratulation dear
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
God Will Lead Us Through
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
GOD is with u without him u are noting
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
God is ur strength I love u
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
yu no as yu nt have friend me too i no have but i have god
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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ifeoluwa where are u living
Hey Ifunanya! We removed this message because such acts are not allowed on this platform. Thanks
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Am just seeking for a harmsome guy that can love me for whom i'm
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
All praise b 2 GOD.cngrts dear,all springster dis is an exmple show up by priety.so all woman a'v deir rgt we should fight 4 our rgts.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
miz modrator wat ar d step 2 make a gud frnd
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey emiskid! We have written so many articles on this. Please search for #friendship at the bottom of the page and read the stories that interest you. We hope this helps
To make a good friend you have to be loyal to your friend, loyalty loyalty is very important.
I need help
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Belive in urself
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Good
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Npo
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Dis lie is so hurrible
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
DAT WAS GUD!!!!!!.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Yeah i think so
"my rights is my rights, i must stand 4 my rights, i must fight 4 my rights".
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Wow!!! Really happy 4 u Preity - were glad u're happy now
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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wow.. it is really good to be nice 👫💍🍌🍐🥓🧀🥨
IF WE ARE BADLY MALTREATED WE HAVE TO SPEAK OUT FOR HELP
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
PREITY THAT'S D HANDWORK OF GOD
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Thank You
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
God is your comforter
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
that is life. my sister when there life there is for every human on earth. thanks
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
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abi o
yess oooooo
that is life. my sister when there is life there is hope for every human on earth. thanks
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
i'm just happy for you
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
Go Girl!!!, I'm glad you fought for right.
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
Go Girl!!!, I'm glad you fought for your right.
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
With God enything is possible
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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yes with God everything is possible
hi everyone,long time no talk.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Happy New year everyone 🎉
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hi
hello
Happy New year 🎇🎆🎶🌌hurray ,blessings and mercies shall be ours.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Most people do mistreat child that has lost their parents and living with relatives I saw a girl that hawks from morning till night,she doesn't go to school,she learns no handwork and no one ever cared about her cos the woman mistreating her is a policeman's wife and in my country to have case with a policeman and won is a rare case,The day my mum took the case up she was later blamed cos the bad woman is not ready to leave the girl,the lady in point still in the bad woman's nest and desperately she's seeking for help but no one wants to help cos they don't want to have a case with police,The police force will never be on your side if you have issues with their fellow policeman
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Compliment of the season guys.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
it good to be strong while facing your difficult
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
is good to be fit in every thing,be strong and hardworking
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
😎
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
Nice one
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.