Answering some common questions about your body
Sometimes we need answers, but don’t know who to ask.
Sometimes we know who to ask, but don’t know how to ask.
To help out, Dr. Blen would be answering some of your most asked questions.
My period is not regular; it always comes unexpected and ends up embarrassing me. Please help
For some of us our period can be irregular especially when we first start having our period. It’s perfectly normal and nothing to worry about.
Irregular periods can also be caused by stress, weight problems, extreme dieting or too much exercise.
If your period is always catching you by surprise, it might be because you are not keeping track.
Get yourself a calendar (on your phone or at home). Write down the first day you saw your period. Then write down the first day of your next period. Do this for 3 months. If your period is regular, you will have pretty much the same number of days between one period and the next. This way you have an idea of when the next one will come. Everyone is different, but for most girls it is usually 28 and 35 days between
I always see a colored substance on my pant and it is not blood. I am scared. Am I sick or something?
It’s called vaginal discharge and it’s something we all get. It’s how our bodies flush out bacteria and dead cells from our vagina.
The colour and smell changes depending on lots of things. If your period is about to start, for example. The only time you need to worry is if it is green or yellow in or has a bad odor. This means you might have an infection. You should see a doctor immediately.
What causes pimples and what food should I eat to avoid getting pimples?
A lot of things can cause pimples. Stress, hormones (which can be connected to periods), dirty pillow cases/bed sheets even touching your face often.
Sometimes, eating fatty/oily foods can also cause pimples.
To avoid getting pimples
Am I still a virgin? I fingered myself but blood didn't come out.
Technically, a virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse. So if you haven’t, then you are a virgin.
Now about the blood.
Fact is, not all girls bleed the first time they have sex.
The bleeding happens when the hymen is stretched or torn. What’s a hymen? It’s a thin covering around the opening of the vagina. It does not cover it completely.
Because it is so thin, the hymen can stretch or tear from normal activities like riding a bike. So some virgins have no hymen.
Being a virgin has nothing to do with blood.
How do I get rid of body odor?
Body odor is mostly caused by sweating or bad bathing habits .
To get rid of body odor
Bath regularly
Rub a deodorant or powder under your armpits
Wear clean clothes
Wash your clothes regularly. Make sure you let them dry well
Add a little lemon juice to your bathing water
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I always give birth to baby girl and my husband is complaning that he want a baby boy what can i do
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Omowumi2! Thanks for opening up with this question. The sex of a baby is not the effort of one party but both of you. Try and talk to your husband about this because you do not produce the baby on your own. Also, you both should go and see a medical professional to help counsel you both on the next steps to take in producing a baby boy. We hope this helps and all the best.
z it ok to have a period twice in a month
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
I'm thirteen why I haven't I started my period I'm feeling tense like I'm never going to... please advice me
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Kobocity! Nothing is wrong with you dear. Not everyone starts puberty as early as 13. You still have a sometime as you are still young. Don't worry yourself, you have a long time to experience these things so before it comes, enjoy yourself. Stop worrying yourself okay? Puberty will come soon. We hope this helps.
Hey kobocity can we be friends
Is it normal if am having sexual urge a week before i see my period?nd why is it like dat?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Tomika! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, feel the urge for sex. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Tnx Doc.
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
What courses bad odor around genital areas and solution doctor?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Asensio! There are so many causes for genital odor. Some of them include; infection, hormonal changes, heat, something you ate or sanitary pad that has stayed for too long. The best way to know what exactly is wrong with you, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. In the meantime, try to keep yourself clean down there by wearing clean underwear, changing your sanitary pad regularly, eating right, cleaning up properly after using the toilet etc. We hope this helps.
my friend had sex when she was 10year and since then she never had sex again still she got her period at d age of 15, and she is 19 now,she never still have sex.is she still a virgin?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Emicute! Thanks for asking this question. Your friend is no longer a virgin because the hymen has been torn. Once a girl has had sex, she is no longer a virgin. We hope this helps.
I Tink She Is Still A Virgin Bcos It Is Up To 9 Years Since She Had Sex, D Vagina Is A Muscular Tissue And Can Tighten Back To Its Normal State Wen Not In Use. Hope It Helps
Big sist,pls reply our questions
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Khloe! Your questions have being replied to. Remember that other people are asking questions and everyone's question is answered based on when the question is asked.
Which drugs can someone take when she has peroid pain
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Pretty! You can use your regular pain relief. Better still, talk to a trusted adult about this and see a pharmacist to prescribe a drug for you. We hope this helps.
What happened when the face of an adult girl is little swallowed?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
There is a friend of mine. Who did abortion last month.and this month she see her period last week. But since them she do discharge little blood everyday .is DAT normal
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Pretty! Please tell your friend to see a doctor and also talk to a trusted adult about it. Right now, assumptions are not safe at this point because it is not safe. Also, please tell her about There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Please for days now, i don't really have appetite to eat. There are days i will not eat food at all, but only snacks. What could be the problem?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Zinealah! Is there something bothering you? Sometimes, when we are worried about somethings, we tend to leave food out. Try and talk to a trusted adult around you and also make a conscious effort to eat even if it means setting a reminder to eat. Also, eat in smaller portions so that you don't get tired of the food quickly. Food is very important. We hope this helps.
vagina discharge[milkly]is it good
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Gift! Yes, it is. The only time you should be worried about a discharge is if it green or yellow in colour, if its clumpy like cheese, if it has a bad odour, rashes, swelling or if it itches. If you experience any of these odd symptoms, please talk to a trusted adult about it and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Reply to my question please
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ameerah206CC! Your question is not clear and we are having difficulty understanding it that is why it has not being answered. Please send in a question we can understand so that we can answer. Thanks for understanding.
How do I know if I have toilet infection or any infection
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! There are so many symptoms for toilet infection. Some of them include; itchiness, colored discharge, painful urination, redness of the vagina and many more. To be sure you have toilet infection, please see a doctor for a proper test and also talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
Helo Guys, Am Gonna Be 14 Soon And I Have'nt Started My Period, My Bra Size Has Been 36b For 2 Years And It Looks Like Ave Stopped Growing I Need Help
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Uhhh u haven't stopped growing....I started seeing my period wen I was 14, so u still have time to see urs, most pple see theirs when dey r even 18yrs while most pple start as early as 9yrs, so don't worry, it'll come at d ryt time!
Sorry *16yrs not 18
Tanks, But My Sister And Friends Keep Making Fun Of Me Looks Like Am D Odd One Out And When My Frnds Talk About Their Periods I Ave Ntin To Say And I Feel Left Out
Hey Dency! Nothing is wrong with you dear. Not everyone starts puberty early. Don't worry yourself, you have a long time to experience these things so before it comes, enjoy yourself. The size of your breast is hormonal and may increase as you grow. Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). Talk to a trusted adult family member about your period. You may realize that some people in your family start their period late. We hope this helps.
I usually see my period evry 25 days bt I avnt seen it for dis month..am worried please I nid help
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! Thanks for opening up with this comment. It is normal to be worried about your period. Sometimes, periods come late and also, people miss their periods sometimes due to stress and some other health reasons. However, we advice you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
hi bib sis am new here
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey girl! Welcome to GEM Nigeria. We hope you like the stories. You can also invite your friends here.
Pls how Do I get rid of severe vagina itching
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Get a medic around you. Is most time bacteria infection but yet to bring out green or yellow discharge with bad odor
Hey Ibadan! Just like Crush said, you need to see a doctor. We also advise that you talk to a trusted adult too.
i see it every time am defeatin.It does not stain in my pant,is it still vagiana discharge
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ula! What do you see? Please be detailed so that we know how to answer you. Thanks
dat milky tin
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Why is that i keep masturbating everytime
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Omowumi2! You keep masturbating because your mind is actively into it. What you need is a worthy distraction and a strong decision to stop. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps
how can i eraze the spot/scar on my leg
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Vicangel! Spots and scars are difficult to erase because they were not "drawn" with a pencil. There are different types of scars and different types of treatment for some of them. We advise that you talk to a dermatologist (skin doctor) and also a trusted adult. We hope this helps.
how many days will that milky tin stop.And i only see it when am defeatin
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
it is just small not many the milky tin .It will just com out a little
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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hi ula dnt worry it's normal 4 every girl
please big sister, am worry,it coms out small not many is that good
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Hi Big Sister I had sex with my bf after three hours i still exsperence fluid in my private part pls what should i going to do?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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D fluid is d sperm he deposited in ur body
Hey 4444! Please talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor for a proper test to know what exactly is wrong. We hope this helps
Hi Big Sister What should i going to do to get rid of unwanted hair on my private parts
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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D hairs are not unwanted just shave it off
Hey Justy! Just like Edna said, just shave it off. If it is unwanted like you said, then it should be taken off. We hope this helps.
My private part is getting large....am i still a virging?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hi icegirl it all Depends on u to knw if are still a virgin or not thanks
hi icegirl only u can tell weda ur a virgin or not enlargement or no enlargement it doesn't matter
How many days does menstruation occur?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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D average day is 4 days d minimum day is 3days while d maximum day is 7 days if u are having 4,3,5,or 7 days is normal
Hey girl! Periods last from 2 days - 7 days depending on the individual. The flow also depends on the individual. Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). We hope this helps.
Hi big sister when ever i urinate,de urine always go to different from my penis
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Sorry i mean when ever i urinate, my penis always produce urine in many direction pls big sis am so worried
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Sky! Have you spoken to a trusted adult about this? If you haven't, we suggest you do and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
pls see a doctor
pls when ever am through with my period my breast reduses why
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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D average day is 4days, d minimum day is 3days,while d maximum day is 7 days if are seeing ur period for 3,4,5,or 7 day is normal
D average day is 4days, d minimum day is 3days,while d maximum day is 7 days if are seeing ur period for 3,4,5,or 7 day is normal
Hey girl! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, may have swollen breast which reduces after your period. All of this depends on the individual. We hope this helps.
Gud am ma I had my period on d first day of may and it was supposed to dry up on d forth day but it continued for one week I Taught it was bcux I took a contraceptive pill before d period but ever since my period refused to show up I haven't seen it since dis month I run a pregnancy test it was negative wht do I do pls
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Edna! Periods last from 2 days - 7 days depending on the individual. The flow also depends on the individual. Some people see their periods twice a month because menstrual circle is from 21 days to 35 days (depending on the individual). Some also get their periods 13 times a month instead of the regular 12 times (once a month). There are various reasons for irregular periods as it is called but we suggest you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. Also, the contraceptive pill may have a hand in the delayed period too. We hope this helps.
am still worry 2day a man put his hand in my vagiana.And wheni com back i see whitits tin what is it.I have not yet started my period
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Hey Ula! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Please tell a trusted adult about this immediately and also see a doctor if possible. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Hi big sis....How will i know if my hymen iz still intact
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
Running nose
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
but what of d african mentality dat says if a woman has sex nd blood doesn't flow,she isn't a virgin?
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
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Abi o,ah hate dah kind mentality lyk criously
Hey dijakay! Thanks for this. Like you said, it is called a mentality which is the way people think but most times, mentalities are not always true. There are so many people that do not bleed after sex and they are also virgins. This does not mean that they are lying, it is just nature. We need to get over such myths so that virgins that don't bleed will not feel guilty or less of themselves. We hope this helps.
...True. The word needs to be spread. We are practically living in it. I didn't know it was a myth. Thanks big sister for the info.
Valid information
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
please a friend of mine is having problems to with his penis is Penis is not growing anymore and is small what cause it and what is the solution
March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.
how do I get rid of dark laps
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Hajiya1! You can get rid of dark laps by mixing honey, brown sugar, olive oil and vitamin E oil together for your laps. You can also use either cucumber or potato slices under your arm. They are natural lightening agents and will brighten your laps. We hope this helps.
Hi big sis I just wanted to know that I only have a breast bud and its a medium sized ,so do I need a bra
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Shakirah1! We cannot say if you need to wear a bra because we do not really know the size of the breast bud but if you feel like you need to wear something to hold it in place, talk to a trusted adult around you or get a bra top. We hope this helps.
How do i avoid mouth odour
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
How can I get rid of black spot on my face?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Quinn! You can get rid of black spots by using either of the following; Lemon juice: Apply to clean face for about 5 minutes, rinse off. Aloe vera gel: Apply to clean face for about 10 - 15 minutes, rinse off the face. Potato slices: Cut potato into thick round slices and place on affected area, rinse off. For black armpit, try mixing honey, brown sugar, olive oil and vitamin E oil together for your armpit. We hope this helps.
Thanx big sister
helo big sis my period came friday/saturday and stop on wednesday evenin and i did were pad again and remove it dis mornin and wore only pant and dis afternoon i went to wee and saw blood on my pant is it normal.pls help
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Nice! Do not panic dear. Just talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor it is probably not so serious. If you just started menstruating, this tends to happen a lot. We hope this helps.
I always c my periods for 5days but after a day blood drops the other day is it normal?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. The flow when you menstruate normally drops after the first day or after a few days. This is very normal. However, some people have heavy flow from the first day till the last. The way your flow works is unique to you alone. What happens to you may not happen to another. If you do not feel safe, please talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Gud day big sister I don't really no or have not really understand how to calculate my periods to know when next it coming please enlighting me ma
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Springster! In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your mestrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. The duration/flow depends on individual. The last day of your cycle is day before your next period starts. For example, if your period started on the 1st of April and your next period starts on the 3rd of May, your cycle will be 2nd of May. This means that your cycle lasts for 31 days. Your new cycle starts again from the 1st day of your next period. Please note that your period can be delayed at sometimes and can also come earlier than normal. We hope this helps.
big sis I think u re absolutely right
how can i get rid of menstural pains
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
how can I grow taller. people laugh st me,saying am too short.
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Amakaright! First of all, you are beautiful the way you are. Secondly, everyone has a unique body structure so this means you are unique. Two people can't have the same shape no matter how hard they try. So please love yourself the way you are because you are very unique. Look at the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are indeed a true beauty and nobody can be like you. We hope this helps.
My period always start that the ending of every month and join the next month am afraid what should I do
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Chekwube! There is nothing wrong with that and you shouldn't be afraid. When we say monthly cycle, what we mean is either 28 days or 30 days (depending on your cycle). It does not have to start on the 1st of the month and end on the last day. It can start at the end of the month but as long as it lasts up to 28 or 30 days as the case may be with your menstrual cycle, that is all that matters. What you need to do is to track your period using a calendar to know how long your cycle is. Please note that menstrual cycles last from 21 -35 days depending on the individual. We hope this helps.
How do I stay fit?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Mary1! Eat right, exercise, drink lots of water and get enough sleep. These are the keys to a fit and strong body. We hope this helps.
can someone be pregnant tthrough anal sex?
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Thugnificent! You will probably not get pregnant if you have anal sex. However, it's possible that it could happen if semen from the anus gets into the vagina. Please note that with anal sex, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) should be of more worry than pregnancy. The risk of getting an STD like HIV and AIDS is even higher with anal sex than vaginal sex. So instead of you to be worried about getting pregnant, you should be more worried about how prone your body will be to infections and diseases. We hope this helps.
no
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Hi,am new here
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
If I shave my armpit nd also wash it with soap and water: it is still smelling nd also dark
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Lizzie! You can use a deodorant in your armpit or use the tips in the article which include lemon juice and drinking lots of water. We also advise that you bath regularly, wash your sweaty clothes regularly and also shave your armpits. We hope this helps.
Hi. Am new here
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
I see a coloured substance in my vagina it smells but not much is it normal
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Ayama! Thanks for this question. There are different types of discharge that are normal for girls; White - this is common at the beginning & end of your cycle. Clear & stretchy - this is also called "fertile" discharge and it indicates that you are ovulating. Clear & watery - this does not come at a particular time. It can show up at any time in your cycle. These discharge occur at different times in a girl's menstrual cycle and they do not show at the same time. We hope this helps.
I had this kind of brownish discharge yesterday what does it mean???
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Shakirah! Thanks for this question. You may see brownish color in your panties after your period and this is known to clean out the vagina. It looks brown because old blood looks brown. The only time you should be worried about a discharge is if it green or yellow in colour, if its clumpy like cheese, if it has a bad odour, rashes, swelling or if it itches. We hope this helps.
Hi big sis I just wanted to ask u if u have any suggestions about how I shud tell my mom about my period I mean if I start how shud I tell her because I'm very shy
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Hi big sis I just wanted to ask u if u have any suggestions about how I shud tell my mom about my period I mean if I start how shud I tell her because I'm very shy I want u to tell like sentences I can ask her
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Shakirah! Thanks for opening up through this comment. There are so many ways to tell your mum about your period. You can start by choosing a time she is less busy and tell her like this "Hi Mum, I think my period started today" or "Hello Mum, my period has started please can you tell me how to be more careful so that I don't get stained again. Thanks". You can also tell her indirectly by asking her for sanitary pad. By doing this, she will know that your period has started. Don't be shy okay. It is every mother's wish that her daughter starts her period so we are sure she will be very excited about it. We hope this helps.
Hey big sis,If i have sex wit a guy and i haven't start my period m i still a virgin
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Nini! No dear, you will no longer be a virgin. Virginity has nothing to do with your period. For one to loose her virginity, penetration (penis entering into the vagina) is all that is needed. The only way to remain a virgin is abstinence (not having sex). We hope this helps.
am worry.People have been mockin at me am i a odd
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Ula! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Why are people mocking you? We will appreciate if you share with us. When you are faced with a situation like this, you need to learn to see the best in yourself. No matter what they are mocking you about, try not to let it get to you and also, try not to show that you are sad (yes, it is hard but the moment they know that all they are saying is affecting you, they will intensify their actions. Be strong and be the best you can be okay? We hope this helps.
i always feel pain in my kidney
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
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Hey Angela! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps.
I had a brownish discharge yesterday it was a very small amount and I haven't started my period yet what does it mean
March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.
Sorry
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Hw will a girl knw dat she hve infection?Wat cuz it and how to treat it.Does the white discharge smell?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Faith! There are so many symptoms and signs. Some of them include; itching and irritation in the vagina; swelling and irritation of the vulva (the folds of skin outside the vagina); pain or burning when peeing or having sex; thick, smelly and colored discharge. There are so many causes but to treat it, you need to see a doctor. We hope this helps.
What is anal sex big sis
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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This is the insertion and thrusting of the erectpenis into a person's anus, or anus and rectum, for sexual pleasure.[
Hey Kiki! Umma has said it all. Thanks Umma for helping a Springster out. We appreciate.
If you are a virgin and have anal sex those that means you are no longer a virgin
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Virginity has to do with vaginal sex. However, anal sex is not safe at all. Please note that with anal sex, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) should be more of a worry than virginity. The risk of getting an STD like HIV and AIDS is even higher with anal sex than vaginal sex. So instead of you to be worried about getting pregnant, you should be more worried about how prone your body will be to infections and diseases. We hope this helps.
Big sis pls I really need ur reply. My period don't hv a constant number of days it flows at tyms it flow 4 two days at tyms 2 days. Is dere any problem??????
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Pretty_val_32! Periods are not always regular and it is normal for you to be worried. However, you need to learn how to count and calculate your period to be very sure of the duration of your period. In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your menstrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. The duration/flow depends on the individual. The last day of your cycle is the day before your next period starts. For example, if your period started on the 1st of April and your next period starts on the 3rd of May, your cycle will be 2nd of May. This means that your cycle lasts for 31 days. Your new cycle starts again from the 1st day of your next period. Please note that your period can be delayed at sometimes and can also come earlier than normal. We hope this helps.
Girl behave smart and love yourself de way you are and i am a new comer
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Can sum1 get pregnant wen d person av not started menstruating
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Meerah! Yes, it is possible. One gets pregnant when ovulatin occurs (fertilisation of eggs). A girl may not have started her period but she may have started ovulating. So it is possible to get pregnant even if you have not yet started your period. We hope this helps
My period usually comes out every 28days but this time around it hasn't come out I only see whitish substance in my virgina and am really scared, pls help?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up with this comment. It is normal to be worried about your period. Sometimes, periods come late and also, people miss their periods sometimes due to stress and some other health reasons. However, we advice you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Big Sis I Ave Disvirgin Since 2yrs Ago Still Nw I Did Not Ave Sex With Anybody A My Still A Virgin
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Ewaola! No dear, you are not. We hope this helps
You're a born again virgin dear
Am 16 Years But Have Not Started My Period What Should I do
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Happy! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Some girls are late bloomers (they start their periods late). We still advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
wat is ovulation? if a girl is pregnant can she still ovulate
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
if a sperm touches my vegina we i get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
I ave a boyfriend but he has never ask me of sex but there is this argue feelings in me Like i want to have sex ,like romancing my self. pls what should I do
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Swty! It is perfectly normal for you to have sexual urge. It happens to all of us so don't feel like it is a crime. You are at the age where you may want to explore your body and it is also not a crime. However, what to do is your decision to make not ours. We advise that you think about it properly before you make a decision. We hope this helps
big sis if a guy romance a girl will she lose her virginity
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Toseen! First of all, we need to understand what you mean by romance. We will appreciate if you explain better to us. Thanks
How would you know if you are a virgin
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Ma i see my period but the fact is that after the first day i want come again until the fifth day or sixth day and the first day may be light or heavy why ma?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Angel! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
am 26 years old since know my penis is small but when desire comes to me it will bcom big and after it will bcom like small boy that hv 10 years and some tym after i release eaz blood com at the end plz how can i doooo
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Elmubeegee! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, it is perfectly normal for your penis to stand erect when you get the desire and shrink back after. This happens to every guy so do not let that bother you. As for the blood, please see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps
please big sister am having a heavy discharge what does daht mean?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Jemmy! Please, are you talking about vaginal discharge or menstruation? If it is mentruation, it is normal for some people to have heavy flow but if you are talking about vaginal discharge, please see a doctor and talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps
what is the normal time 4 girl to have sex and be free
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, having unprotected sex makes you prone to not only pregnancy but to STDs and even HIV. So please, if you must have sex, always use protection. Secondly, you need to calculate your menstrual cycle properly to know this information. If your cycle is irregular, it may be a bit difficult. Please talk to a trusted adult for guidance. We hope this helps
Big Sis What Is Vaginal Discharge
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Chimdyy! This has been explained in the article. Please read it to get the proper explanation. We hope this helps
should a girl be pregnant if it is her first tym of having sex.and also should a girl get pregnant on the 25th day of her menstral cycle will she be free.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey jama! Thanks for opening up through this comment. As long as the girl has sex without a condom, she can get pregnant at anytime (whether it is her first time or if it is the 25th day in her menstrual cycle). The only way that is 100% safe (from pregnancy) is to abstain from sex. If you must have sex, always use a condom. We hope this helps
the last day of ur menstral cycle is it possible 4 a girl to get pregnant
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You can get pregnant if you have unprotected sex. The only way to avoid getting pregnant is through abstinence. If you must have sex, please use a condom. We hope this helps
Hi Big Sis! My Frnd Told Me Dat A Virgin's Womb Falls.Now My Question Is Does A Virgin's Womb FallS ?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hello Anora! We have never heard of a womb falling and we do not believe that virgins' wombs fall. Please ask anyone who says such things to show you professional evidence like a doctor who can confirm this or information in a very good textbook. We hope this helps.
I Want To Be Pregnant For My Husband How Should I Go About It
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Make sure you have sex everyday, most especially on your ovulation period
After having sex with my fiance his dick is always stained with something white like a yogurt is it normal ?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Yes, it is. That is sperm. Please be careful if you know you aren't ready for a baby yet.
am really sacred cause i feel hot inside my body since when my bf told me to drink salt and water to nuitralize the sperm he released into my vagina is it going to prevent it cause am having a lot of pains in my throat.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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I think you should get help at a health center. Don't ever take raw salt.even if its in water. You would be damaging your liver. I would advice abstaining from sex, but if you can't, please find a contraceptive method that works for you, or use condoms. Please be very careful as sperm can live from 3-6days after inter course.
Hey angenina! Thanks for opening up through this comment. What you need to do is to go for a pregnancy test first. Salt water does not neutralize sperm. The reason why you feel pain in your throat is because you probably added so much salt in the solution you drank. Like Angelfortune said, taking a large amount of raw salt is very dangerous so you should also discuss that with your doctor. We hope this helps
Hi Big Sis,how do i get rid of eczema naturally?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Graciabelle! Please see a doctor to prescribe oitments or steriods for you to use. Also try not to have hot baths as they tend to dry out your skin. A warm bath will be much more better. Always moisturise your skin and wear clean cloths at all times too. We hope this helps
i see my preiod ones a day every mouth am i ok
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
hello big sis, I just lost my virginity but there was no blood from my vagina and it was as if I lied to my boyfriend abt it. does it mean I don't have hymen?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Roseysmall! Bleeding is not a sign of virginity because not every virgin bleeds. The truth is that No Two Hymens Are Alike… The hymen is a tissue that’s filled with blood vessels that typically covers part of the vaginal opening. Some girls have a thick hymen or a hymen that covers a lot of the vaginal opening. Other girls have a very thin hymen or a hymen that covers very little of the vaginal opening. We hope this answers your question.
Hi big sis! I noticed that every month before I see my period I always have strong sexual urge for days ,and when my period is over I have no interest in sexual activities. Pls is this normal?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Selena! Every girl has different signs and symptoms when she gets her period. For some, it may just be slight discomfort while others may feel extreme pain and like you, feel the urge for sex. All of this depends on the individual. But please, talk to a trusted adult and also see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Hey big sis,i got my menstruation on d 24th of NOV thru 27th nd on d 1st of DEC,i saw it again bt it was scanty.Pls help
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Graciabelle! What you see may be spotting. Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
is good to ovulate when mensuratin?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Ada! You cannot ovulate when you are on your period. They do not come at the same time. Ovulation happens about two weeks before the next expected period. So if your average menstrual cycle is 28 days, you ovulate around day 14. We hope this helps.
Are you still a virgin if you got fingered nd blood comes out???
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up to ask this question. First of all, bleeding is not a sign of virginity because not every virgin bleeds. Sexual intercourse is not the only way for one to lose her virginity. Once there is some form of penetration (fingering etc), there are high chances of one losing her virginity. We hope this helps.
Big Sister Please Tel Me My Friend Has A Problem Ooh. (WHAT CAN HE DO TO STOP MASTURBATION)
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Deborah807! We have answered a similar question asked by you in another article. We hope this helps
What causes quick ejaculation and its prevention.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Blaqbash! Thanks for opening up through this comment. There are so many things that cause quick ejaculation. To cure it, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
Why to I get silly thoughts about sex when my bf nd I kiss and he may wanted light kissing. But I kiss I'm way than I plan to nd we kiss for longer time nd we almost had sex but he was abt to note that I was scared so we stopped nd gave ourself space what is happening to me need help
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey pink! Nothing is wrong with you. You are just sexually aroused when you are with your boyfriend. It is a good thing that he stopped when he noticed you were scared. If you are not ready for sex, what you need to do is to learn how to control yourself when you are around him. Yes, it is possible. Don't be scared, it happens to a lot of us but the way to limit yourself from going the extra mile is by self control. We hope this helps
Hi guys plz nid help I don't wanna think of my bf so instead I watch porn nd den I get really wet but d thought of I'm is gone cos everytime I call he is always busy md Neva there for me nd now I do dis wen I miss I'm or am alone nd I lnw it nt helping matters but wat can I do I still luv I'm but I don't know if he still does or if he is really busy plz nid help
My period always come out in different date every month i don't know what to do pls is it normal i need help?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Ebere! When we say monthly cycle, what we mean is either 28 days or 30 days (depending on your cycle). It does not have to start on the 1st of the month and end on the last day. It can start at the end of the month but as long as it lasts up to 28 or 30 days as the case may be with your menstrual cycle, that is all that matters. What you need to do is to track your period using a calendar to know how long your cycle is. Please note that menstrual cycles last from 21 -35 days depending on the individual. We hope this helps.
Is it ok to be deflowered
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! This is a personal decision. If you must have sex, please use a condom to avoid unwanted pregnancy, STDs/STIs and also HIV. We hope this helps
I don't know if am still a vigin cos wen I was little my neighbor use to remove my clothes nd kiss me nd put in dick inside me nt leta on about some months wen our parents found out I started my period am deflowered need help can still get those image of my mind nd i cnt forget him as well i keep on thinking about him nd wanting him is that good
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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hmmmmm I can't really say tho but to me u still a virgin
Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We are so sorry for what you went through when you were younger. We can only imagine how difficult it is for you. What you need is counselling and someone you can talk to about this. There is an organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
Wat do I do am sexually attracted to any guy that I ave a crush on really wanna stop or control my self
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Like you said, you are having a crush... A crush is a feeling that is shortlived - doesn't last long/ it tends to die after a while. So if it is a crush you have on this guy then it will most likely die before you know it. We advise that you do not make drastic decisions on feelings that will fade off after a while. It is not a crime to be sexually attracted to someone else (a guy). You can actually get to know the guy better. Talk to him, be his friend, know his personality and if you can stand him. We hope this helps
Is it a good thing that my niple is hurting even wen am not in my period?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Pink! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor
I had a boyfriend who forced himself on me out of my will but after that I expected to see blood but I only saw Virginia discharge that was much, I then concluded that I'm still a virgin because i didn't feel he penetrated well.Could I still be a virgin?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, you need to tell a trusted adult about this because he forced himself on you which is wrong. Secondly, not all girls have hymens (it is the breaking of the hymen that causes bleeding) however, we advice that you talk to this organisation called 'Education as a Vaccine' who run a Helpline that you can call and find out everything you need to know about health issues, including menstruation and pregnancy. The number is 08 02 71 92 781 and it's free if you call from Airtel and open Monday to Friday from 9 till 5. It's completely confidential so you don't need to give your name or any details - you can just ask questions and get the support you need. Good luck with everything.
I have not seen my period since october is something wrong with me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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you have to for a test
you have to go for a test
Hey Springster! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
A boy nd a girl are in relatnshp and all of the are virgins now there z tendacy that both did nt have infction. Nw, apart 4rm condom, pils, nd injection, hw can they have sex with pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Viaper! If we understand to correctly, you want to know how to have sex without getting pregnant? The only other option apart from the ones you have listed is to abstain from sexual intercourse. That's the safest way and also the surest form. We hope this helps
hi sis.I have a problem wit my stomach. I always stool,as if everything is leaving my body.and I want to really gain weight. once I jxt eat toilet next. wat do I do.to add weight. since too much food is causing prob.am 48 kg at 17
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. You need to see a doctor to know why you always go to the toilet after every meal. As regards your weight, it could just be that you are meant to be slim. Look at your family members and see how they are. If they are not on the big side, it is most likely a family trait. Learn to love your body, you are beautiful the way you are okay? We hope this helps
Hi I am new, I want to ask a question my close friend told me she has been forced by her cousin to sleep with him since she was 10 years her jss1 she started seeing her period in jss3 now she is 12 years. she said when he removed her clothes and tried to sleep with her she cried because she know she can get pregnant he fingered her but she begged him to stop he pushed her out with her clothes, I told her about the springster effect while she was telling me today she said I should ask if she is a virgin any longer.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Jasmine! Thanks for the comment and thanks for referring your friend to the Springster site. We are so sorry to hear about what your friend went through. The first thing she needs to do is to tell a trusted adult about what her cousin did and she should try as much as possible to avoid him so that he doesn't repeat it again. As regards the virginity issue, the truth is that she may still be a virgin but we do not know for sure. This is because she was fingered and there was no sexual intercourse and from your comments, it seems like it was not done for long. Some people get disvirgined by fingering but not so many people. What is very important right now is for your friend to talk to someone about this. We hope this helps
Her mother is a deacon in our church, she can't talk to an adult, she also does not interact with any boy in our class I tried convincing her that all boys are not the same, the boy left her neighborhood and travelled ,please I am concerned about my friend's emotions. Tell me a different way to do this .
it is still Jasmine.
first, in my own belief...sleeping with ur cousin is a SIN... They are one blood.....lastly it is under probability that she has been deflowered
Pls I Dont Know My Period Date It Will Just Come Anytime
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Esther! Thanks for the comment. You need to learn how to calculate your period. In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your menstrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. The duration/flow depends on the individual. The last day of your cycle is the day before your next period starts. For example, if your period started on the 1st of April and your next period starts on the 3rd of May, your cycle will be 2nd of May. This means that your cycle lasts for 31 days. Your new cycle starts again from the 1st day of your next period. Please note that your period can be delayed at sometimes and can also come earlier than normal. We hope this helps.
hw wil i reduce my breast iz big pls
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey 5050! Thanks for the comment. We believe everyone is beautiful the way they are. What you need to do is to learn to appreciate your body. Look in the mirror and see the beauty in yourself. The moment you start appreciating your body is when others will start to appreciate you too. Your body is gorgeous girl. We advise that you get good fitting bras that can help you support your breasts properly. We hope this helps
U can't even appreciate ur body is how 2 reduce ur breast naah 4 u oooo...
i always a vaginal pinning
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
How do I get to interact with other springsters?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Purification! You can interact with other springsters by being active here. Comment on posts and just get active here. It's that easy. Don't forget to invite your friends. Remember, everyone is a Springster. We hope this helps
I always started experiencing menstural pain seven days before it started is it normal?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Pretty! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
Hello...I'm new here...I'm 15. I've discovered over the years that I have a very high, uncontrollable libido(sex urge), I dont have a girlfriend. But the thing is that I masturbate and ejaculate whenever I feel very sexual. To me, that is the best way to stop this urge so that I won't end up watching porn over long hours and sin, waste my time, resources, etc. But after masturbation, I feel really guilty.... My question is that I'm I doing the right thing? What can I do? Pls help me.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Tess! Thanks for the comment. Having a sexual urge and also masturbating is very common among teenagers. This is because you are trying to get to know your body better and also trying to explore too. There is no right or wrong answer to this. It is very personal. If you feel like you want to stop, then get a worthy distraction and keep yourself busy at all times so that you won't want to masturbate. In all, it is still up to you. You should also talk to a trusted adult about this too. We hope this helps
Masturbation is a sin read your bible
Hi everyone....i've not seen my period since last month December...it is normal?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Suzy! December is not up to a month now so there is really no need for you to panic. You should also learn to calculate so that you know when next to expect it. We hope this helps
i am new here am turning 12 dis yr and i'v not seen my piriod is it nomal?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Rinal! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with you dear. Not everyone starts their period as early as 12 years. Do not be worried okay, your period will come when your body is ready. While you wait, you should read all the stories about periods so that you can be fully prepared. We hope this helps
Pls i dont know hw to caunt my period to know when next again it will comes out pls help me
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Itz so easy browse online or check ur mathematics text books on d topic menstrual calculation on modular arithmetic hope dis helps :)
Hey Angel! In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your menstrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. The duration/flow depends on the individual. The last day of your cycle is the day before your next period starts. For example, if your period started on the 1st of April and your next period starts on the 3rd of May, your cycle will be 2nd of May. This means that your cycle lasts for 31 days. Your new cycle starts again from the 1st day of your next period. Please note that your period can be delayed at sometimes and can also come earlier than normal. We hope this helps.
Hi nis help my bf is always busy MD we re nt close as before nd wat I do wen I miss I'm is watch porn which I knw is nt gud but I can't control it nid help nd I don't know if his being busy is to avoid me or he is saying d truth but I knw I'm nd am confused
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Sprinsgter! You both need to talk. If you were close before, there may be a problem. Watching porn cannot close the distance, it may make you feel good at the moment but what you need to do is to talk to you boyfriend about how you feel and what is going on. You should both be sincere about what is bothering you. We hope this helps
Hi big sis I have a question I have been seeing vaginal discharge for over five months is this normal
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Tkgirl! Vaginal discharge is part of your monthly cycle. There are different colors and textures and they mean different things. The only time you should be worried about discharge is if it looks green or has a funny smell. We hope this helps
i av been seeing viginal discharge for a year now what should i do
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey fibi! Vaginal discharge is part of your monthly cycle. There are different colors and textures and they mean different things. The only time you should be worried about discharge is if it looks green or has a funny smell. We hope this helps
How can i sex without releasing for 1hour ?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Evidence5851! Thanks for the comment. But why will you want to have sex for one hour straight? We think that is a bit odd. However, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor for more details on this. We hope this helps
Constant cleanliness
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
What causes masturbation
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Harbey! Masturbation (especially among teenagers and girls your age) is normal because you are at a stage where you are trying to figure out your body and also explore. So many people your age do this so it is normal. Masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. Also, getting addicted to masturbation can affect you sexually later on in life. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps
Hi big sis. I never have sex before. How can i prepare for the girl time? Am 18 years boy now
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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I mean for the first time?
Hey sally! You have to be sure that you are really ready to have sex and also, you MUST make sure that your partner is also ready. Do not in anyway force a girl that is not ready to have sex. The most important thing to note is that you must always use a condom to avoid getting infected and also to avoid unwanted pregnancy. We hope this helps
What do you suggest i can use to make a facial scar fadr completely. And i want to ask if some facial cleansers are bleaching products. Please answer me
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey MilaRhay! Some cleansers have lightening agents in them. You can make use of aloe vera to get rid of scars. Please note that it doesn't work like magic, it takes time and patience. We hope this helps
am having headache and my body system is hot
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey michael! Please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
big sis pls I saw my last period on 22 nd today is 22 nd I hv not seen my period but since yesterday my pant is doing me as if is wet but if I check I Will not see anytin but today wen I check I saw something like white creamy in vigina nd my pant what's wrong pls I need ur answer
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey prettydamsel! First of all, what you see on your pant is vaginal discharge and it is perfectly normal. Secondly, you need to learn how to calculate your period to know when next to expect it. It is not usually best to use dates to calculate but when you understand your menstrual cycle, it will be very easy for you to calculate your period. Finally, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
how can I get rid of staphylococcus
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Stephen! A doctor will be in the best position to respond to this. We advise you talk to a trusted adult and then see a doctor. We hope this helps
Y a doctor big sis
Hey Springster! You need to see a doctor because this is a medical condition and can only be treated by a doctor. So it is very important for you to see a doctor. We hope this helps
Pleas does having sex stop some people growth
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Naomi! No, having sex does not stop your growth. We hope this helps
Thanks
NO
it has nothing to do with growth
Is it true that some women when being pregnant for the first time they might still be seeing their period
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Vivian! Yes, this may happen but not to every woman. We hope this helps
Dear big sis,,,,i had romance wit my bf on d 17th of dis month...Which was d last day of my period...He released on my tummy...I asked him many times if he released in me..He said no..so,thirty min afta he left..D last drop of blood came out......On d 26th of dis month,i started aving tummy pains in my lower abdomen and left side of my tummy....I went to do xray of d whole of my tummy...And dey discovered i had infection..Not hiv ooo.....And dey said my ovaries were in good shape...Ave been scared since....I dont knw if i am pregnant or not..Since my ovaries are in good shape...Am just scared...Pls tell me..Am i pregnant or not
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Chinonso! Thanks for the comment. We advise that you pay attention to treating that infection because infections can affect the womb if not treated immediately. To confirm if you are pregnant, please go back for a pregnancy test. Please talk to a trusted adult. We hope this helps
Hi big sis.I've been having Virginia discharge (White discharges) Ever since I started my period .Is it right to be seeing it everyday cause I'm seeing it everyday. Pls what does it mean .smiles
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey 1999! Thanks for opening up with this comment. What you see on your pant is called vaginal discharge and there are different types of discharge and this depends on your menstrual cycle. White and thick discharge is usually seen at the beginning and end of your menstrual cycle. It shouldn't be itchy but if it itches or smells, please see a doctor but if it doesn't itch or smell, do not panic. We hope this helps.
Hello big sis I have a question
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Big sis, good day i have this itching down there,on my armpit and acnes on my nose. I have seen a doctor and even taken antibiotics still it hasn't stopped. I am so tired i need help!!!!!!
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. You should go back to the doctor and complain. Also, talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
I had sex some days to my menstration and some days after but d next month i had my menstration 16 days late instead of 3rd i had it 18th and nw am feeling dat my tummy is getting bigger does dat mean am pregnant?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Mhiztoy! Thanks for the comment. Having unprotected sex is the first step to getting pregnant. Also, it exposes you to STDs/STIs and other infections which is why we always say that you should always use a condom if you must have sex. You need to learn how to calculate your period because your period should be calculated based on your menstrual cycle and not the day of the month you saw it the last time. To confirm if you are pregnant, please do a proper pregnancy test because we cannot tell if you are really pregnant. We hope this helps
I Have Not Seen My Period And My Belly Is Always Paining Me Including My Breast
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey May! This is a sign that your period may soon come. You should talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor if you still feel these signs. We hope this helps
I have infection, what home remedy can i use to cure it
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Judith! There is no home remedy for infections. Infections are very serious and should be treated by a certified doctor. We advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor immediately. We hope this helps
Were can I get a lemon juice
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Hey Shelty! When we say lemon juice, we mean the juice from the fruit called lemon. Buy a lemon, remove the juice and use. We hope this helps
when its time for me to start my period,i always feel pain in my stomach to d extent that i will be cryin.pls what cause it?
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Thanks for the comment. Periods come with pain/cramps and it can be really uncomfortable as nobody likes pain but getting your period means growth. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
Segdam it is norm
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Segdam I am new, it is normal
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If you are a virgin , if you get married how will it be possible to pierce the Virginia when it is on wedding day.
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Hey A-girl! Thanks for the comment. The hymen (the skin that covers the vagina that you cannot see) will be broken when there is a form of penetration (sex). We hope this helps
About the virgin thing... Is it safe for a virgin to finger her self.... Is there any harm?
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Hey Thellyn! Thanks for the comment. Fingering can actually disvirgin you (break the hymen). It can also cause some infections especially if your nails are dirty. Getting addicted to it can also affect your sex life in the future. These are some of the harms that come with fingering yourself. We hope this helps
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pls what z d meaning of white thicky substance coming out from d vagina en it preventive measure
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Hey Ayetty! The whitish thing you see is called vaginal discharge and it is not just whitish, there are other colors and feels that occur at different times in your menstrual cycle. It could be clear, milky or stretchy depending on your cycle. The only time you should be worried about a discharge is if it green or yellow in colour, if its clumpy like cheese, if it has a bad odour, rashes, swelling or if it itches. Seeing a discharge does not necessarily mean that your period is coming soon. We hope this helps.
what simple way can tartar be cleared from teeth and how can strect mark be cleared.
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Hey Barbiedex! Thanks for the comment. To clear tartar on your teeth, you need to brush your teeth at least twice a day (morning and night), change your brush every 3 months and also see a dentist every 6 months. Some natural cures for stretch marks include; aloe vera gel: apply and leave on affected area for about 20 minutes. Wash off. Lemon juice: apply and leave for about 10 minutes. Rinse off with warm water. Potato: cut potato into round slices, rub on affected place. Once the potato juice has dried off, rinse off. Shea butter: apply shea butter on the affected place as cream. Keep doing this. Be sure to use any of these methods. We hope this helps.
My 20yrs old sister has a smaller than i.wat can she do?
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Hey Barbiedex! Thanks for the comment. She should learn to love her body and embrace it the way it is. Also, she should never compare herself to others, she is unique the way she is and must not be the same size with her mates and peers to feel confident. She is probably wired the way she is and the best she can do is to rock her body the best way she can. We hope this helps
hw can i make my hair grow faster and what kind of food will to have body
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Hey chidinma! Thanks for the comment. Your hair growth is hormonal and so do not put so much pressure on yourself for hair growth. Our hair growth is different that is why you see some people with long full hair while some with short scanty hair. It is all in our genes. We have written articles about hair growth, search for "How to have a healthy hair". We know you will learn from it. We hope this helps
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can someone get pregnant after having sex through bombom
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Hey elum! You will probably not get pregnant if you have anal sex. However, it's possible that it could happen if semen from the anus gets into the vagina. Please note that with anal sex, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) should be of more worry than pregnancy. The risk of getting an STD like HIV and AIDS is even higher with anal sex than vaginal sex. So instead of you to be worried about getting pregnant, you should be more worried about how prone your body will be to infections and diseases. We hope this helps.
Hello big sis if you see your period for the first time and you vomit does it mean that you are pregnant
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Hey Iam1234! Everyone has their own sign and symptoms for periods and vomiting can be one of them. The only way you can get pregnant is if you had contact with sperm. Not everyone that gets pregnant vomits so it can just be your own period sign. Do not get worried. If you are not sexually active, you are not pregnant. But please note that people vomit when they see their period so you are not alone. We hope this helps
my breast is getting bigger than the usual small size and it is also painful. But why does it not grow fast so that the pain will stop.
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Hey Sonia! Thanks for the comment. Your breasts are growing and it can sometimes be painful sometimes. Do not get worried. You should also talk to a trusted adult about this. Your breast will not grow overnight or in a month. It is just the same way you will not grow tall in a short period. Your body growth is gradual and takes time and that is perfectly normal. It will actually be scary if your breast grew big overnight (lol). Enjoy the process because someone will soon start wearing a bra soon *wink*. We hope this helps
I notice the more am growing older my vaginal be come smaller what may b the causes
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Hey babylove! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with you. It is perfectly normal for your body to shrink while you age (yes, it also affects your vagina). There is nothing to worry about as it happens to all of us. We hope this helps
When am on my mensuration, I use to have stomachache, backache, pains around my waist and I purge What can I use or do to stop it
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Hey Bee! It is perfectly normal for you to see these signs when you are on your period. Some of them can be stopped or reduced naturally while some others cannot. You can try any of these easy solutions to stop the pains; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
what is the cause of girl who has not had sex to stop seeing her period.
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Hey Daniegood_Icons! Like we said in the previous comment, you need to talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. One important thing to note is that a lot of things that have nothing to do with pregnancy can actually affect a girl's menstrual cycle. Besides, it is not only pregnancy that can stop a girl from seeing her period. We hope this helps
hw do i know im a virgin without going for a virginity test &my younger sis asked if its cool to date at 17yrs.
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Hey babyluv! There is really no way to check to know if you are virgin or not. However, you need to ask yourself certain questions like have you had sex or even being fingered before? Do you do very rigorous exercises that are focused on the lower part of your body that can tear the hymen? If yes, there are chances that you are not a virgin. There is no particular age for you to start dating. Going into a relationship has to do with how ready and how mature you are about it. We hope this helps
Hi am new here.i av a bf who i live with and planniñg for marriage but i am now pregnant and i dont know how to tell my family am pregnant and he wants to marry me.so what do i do
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Hey dubem! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You need to tell your family members about this. This is a serious issue and it cannot be hidden because sooner rather than later, your tummy will start to grow and everyone will see it. It is best for you to let them know the situation on ground now. Start by telling someone you are close to and you really trust. This can be a guide and make it easier to tell other members of your family. We hope this helps
Hi, am new here,big sister I want you to reply me please ma, my question is that" if some one have sex at the age of 10 or 11,does it mean that,such a person have disvirgin
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Hey 123! We already replied this comment in the other article. Please go over there and read Big sister's response. We hope this helps
hy big sis,am new here nd my questn z dat, my menses ceased for 3 months, nd am nt pregnant either bcos am nt sexualy active pls wt caused dis? wtz wrong wt my body? am scared o pls ansa my question urgently
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Hey Ayomide97! Thanks for the comment. Do not be scared okay? It happens sometimes. What you should do is to talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
In any case, I don't frequently release sperm, am just 19 and still a virgin but whenever am extremely aroused sexually (not penetrated), it comes out clear and little instead of pure white. I heard sperm comes out whitish. Is it normal big sister?
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Hey Richie__01! Thanks for the comment. What you see coming out of your penis is not sperm but what is called pre-cum. It is not as rich as sperm in looks but it is as effective as sperm because it can impregnate a girl if it comes in contact with her vagina. We still advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps
Wat causes over sweating
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Hey Snowy! Thanks for the comment. People sweat for different reasons. You need to understand your body, pay attention to what makes you sweat normally and also excessively. We cannot give you a list because what makes Springster A sweat may not affect Springster B in any way. We hope this helps
countless times i have counted my menstural cycle but it have never come according to my calander and it usually get me embarrased especially in class pls i really need your assistantance what should i do ma
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Hey Maris! Thanks for the comment. We will like to know how you have been calculating your period. One thing you need to know is that you need to calculate your period for at least 3 months to get an almost accurate understanding of your menstrual cycle. In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your menstrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. The duration/flow depends on the individual. The last day of your cycle is the day before your next period starts. For example, if your period started on the 1st of April and your next period starts on the 3rd of May, your cycle will be 2nd of May. This means that your cycle lasts for 31 days. Your new cycle starts again from the 1st day of your next period. Please note that your period can be delayed at sometimes and can also come earlier than normal. We hope this helps.
Big sis , I eat alot buh I don't get fat why???
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Every one has different body anatomy even if it's all the same it functions differently.. 😉 U re thin naturally that is how your body is made.. No matter how you eat you won't get fat... Besides you are perfect the way you are accept it and be happy😀😃😄😁😆😅😉
Hey Amie! Thanks for the comment. Marie is very correct. If you are not naturally a fat person, no amount of food can change that. You should learn to love your body the way it is because that is how you have been programmed. We hope this helps
Hy big sis, my breast r growing 2 big nd i dont want 2 b too busty So wat shuld i do
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. There is really nothing you can do because the size of your breast is hormonal. You cannot control the size in any way. You should look at the members of your family to see if their breasts are big or small. You can wear a good fitting bra to help hold your breast properly but please note that it cannot reduce the size of your breast. We hope this helps
theres dis guy dat am dating.when he asked me out i said no buh he didnt give up so i decided to giv him d love he wants.not dat i love him but i was determine to love him,after i discovered that he's the only 1 that could get romantic with me.i cant stand any other guy doing that.i started thinking that what wrong me if i continue this way i may likely loose my virginity to this guy but i am unable to decide.what should i do?
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Hey morphen! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision for you to make. We cannot tell you what to do but we know that you need to check if you really love this guy or you are attached to the romance. Take out the romance for a while and find out if you both even love each other. Sex and romance is not love. We hope this helps
HY BIG SIS, SOME TIMES I HAVE THIS URGE FOR SEX THAT I CAN'T RESIST IT,SO I END UP MASTURBATING,IS THERE ANYTIN WRONG WITH ME
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Hey VANDEE! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with having the urge for sex. It is normal and you need to know that it happens to everyone. Masturbation (especially among teenagers and girls your age) is normal because you are at a stage where you are trying to figure out your body and also explore. So many people your age do this so it is normal. Masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. We hope this helps
big sister, is there anything or any period in a lady, dat is called d safe period, if there's how do I know my safe period, Is it possible 2 get pregnant if I have sex a day after my monthly period stops
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my body itches me most especially after bath, my body is full of dark spots especially the upper part of my body and my legs. is there any home made remedy to restore my body to its fresh state Thanks in Anticipation
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Hey Abimbola! Thanks for the comment. You can try boiling your water before you bath to kill the germs in the water. Also, you should use a disinfectant while you bath. Change your sponge and also wash your towel too. Try these tips, they may work and also, tell a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
My menstral cycle is not the same,at times its 23 or25days,please is it normal?And if no what should i do please?
Dat is nice
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Please what do i do to get rid of black ampit?
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Hey Springster! For black ampit, try mixing honey, brown sugar, olive oil and vitamin E oil together for your armpit. We hope this helps.
Please How Do I Get Rid Of Mouth Odor?
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Hey Oluwatosin! Thanks for the comment. We advise you to brush at least twice a day, visit the dentist every 6 months, change your toothbrush every 3 months. The most important thing is for you to see a dentist. We hope this helps
Pls what are the signs to no about girls wen they ar having their maturation
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Hey Vincentalli! Thanks for the comment. This is different for everyone. Some people have menstrual cramps, headache, nausea/vomiting, weakness, loss of appetite, acne/pimples, mood swings etc. The list is endless because we are all unique and different. You need to pay attention to your body so that you know the sign that is unique to you. We hope this helps
HI BIG SIS, WHY IS IT THAT SOME WEEKS TO MY PERIOD I DO HAVE BLOATED TOMMY
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Hey VANDEE! Thanks for the comment. This is normal for some people. This is your menstrual sign and symptom and it is different for everyone. You should still talk to a trusted adult about this though. We hope this helps
pls can i still grow tall,am 18yrs or wat can i do 2 help me grow tall
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Hey bella! First of all, you are beautiful the way you are. Secondly, everyone has a unique body structure so this means you are unique. Two people can't have the same shape no matter how hard they try. So please love yourself the way you are because you are very unique. Look at the mirror every day and tell yourself that you are indeed a true beauty and nobody can be like you. We hope this helps
what is masturbation and if you do it does disvirgin you.is it bad or wrong and what are the consequences
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Hey Sonia! Thanks for the comment. Masturbation (especially among teenagers and girls your age) is normal because you are at a stage where you are trying to figure out your body and also explore. So many people your age do this so it is normal. Masturbation is frowned on by most cultures and religions. Also, getting addicted to masturbation can affect you sexually later on in life. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps
Hi big sister am new here. I have been having vaginal discharge coming out ever since I was 12 when I started experiencing my period. It is sometimes colour white and sometimes colourless. At a point I thought this is normal but am starting to reevaluate that I have been to the hospital when I was 14 and this year I took another medication but it still come out. I am currently 15 .pls I need advice because am tired of this predicament. My mom tells me that a girl's pant is meant to be dry not wet with vaginal discharge . And I was also told that it is only wet when one is aroused
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Hey Rubyrubs! Thanks for the comment. Vaginal discharge is not bad neither is it a sickness. It is PERFECTLY NORMAL. There are times in your menstrual cycle that you are meant to be dry but your pant is not always meant to be dry. There are different types of discharge that are normal for girls; White - this is common at the beginning & end of your cycle. Clear & stretchy - this is also called "fertile" discharge and it indicates that you are ovulating. Clear & watery - this does not come at a particular time. It can show up at any time in your cycle. These discharge occur at different times in a girl's menstrual cycle and they do not show at the same time. We hope this helps.
what if i allow my bf to masturbate me is it wrong
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Hey Gold! This is called oral sex. It is also a personal decision but please note that this can also give some infections too if you or your partner have it. We hope this helps
Big sis what is cum and precum I don't understand .
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Hey Sonia! Thanks for the comment. Precum is the liquid that comes out before a guy ejaculates. It is light and most people ignore it but it is very very potent and can get a girl pregnant. Cum is also known as sperm. We hope this helps
pls what makes your vagina wide
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I don't have breast at this age, am clocking 19,not that I don't have but very small. so I don't know maybe something is wrong with me.
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Hey olaitan! Thanks for the comment. You not having big breast may be hormonal and there is little or nothing you can do about that. What we advise is that you first learn to love yourself and your body first. This is the key to overlooking what others will say about you. If you don't love and appreciate yourself, others will find it hard to appreciate you too.Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). We hope this helps.
i'm 15 big sis..but yet i do where 32A cup bra...what natural remedy can i do to make my boobs get bigger
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. You not having big breast may be hormonal and there is little or nothing you can do about that. What we advise is that you first learn to love yourself and your body first. This is the key to overlooking what others will say about you. If you don't love and appreciate yourself, others will find it hard to appreciate you too.Do not worry about it as there is little you can do to increase it. Just be comfortable in your skin and take your mind off it. The size of your breast does not determine what you will be in life. Look at the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful (big breast or not). We hope this helps.
Girls that are looking a big boobs needs a g-spot massage to bring out their hormones
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Hey ELNaabii22! Thanks for the comment. We have taken down your comment because it has inappropriate language and does not belong on this platform. We also advise that you mind your language as the next inappropriate comment that comes from you will have you deleted from this platform. This is in accordance to the Springster. do's and don'ts. Thanks for understanding
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Big sis,my sis hs refused t do any housechores,says her priod does not need stress.wat do i do???
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Hey Pepsian! Thanks for the comment. You both need to talk about it. If she really does not need stress when she is menstruating, someone can fill in for her. Periods don't last forever, in just a few days, it will be over and everyone will move on. There is no need to fight or quarrel over something little. We hope this helps
please I've not seen my period for this month and I had sex last 2 weeks...i made use of pt and it showed negative.M I pregnant?
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. The only way to be sure that you are pregnant is to go for a proper test. A pt does not always give accurate results. Also, please note that if you haven't been sexually active, it cannot be pregnancy. You should talk to a doctor to know the possible causes of delay. We hope this helps
I don't know my exact menstrual cycle,it varies from 28,29,30 sometimes 32 , but 28 and 30 is very common. how can I track my period ?
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Hey Hadassah! Thanks for the comment. We are glad that you are aware of how this works a bit so it will not be difficult for you to properly track it. What you need is to get a calendar and also closely monitor your period for the next 3 months. In calculating your period/menstrual circle, note that the first day of your period is also the first day of your menstrual circle and the last day of your period is not the last day of your circle but the last day of your period. This is what you need to monitor well. We hope this helps
hey Hadassah its normal for your PERIOD to vary with time
can someone please list bra cup sizes for me I want to know all
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Hey 1414! Thanks for the comment. There is a bra cup size or sister size for everyone. So it will be almost impossible for us to list this out for you. If you want to know your own bra size, we have an article for that on the site. All you need to do is to search for "Picking the right bra" in the search button. This article is also on the home page. We hope this helps
thanks big sis
Hello, I am new here
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Ur'e highly welcum.
Hello, I am new here
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is the hymen red?
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Its color is slightly pink but it can also look whitish
OK thanks
Hey Kenzie and lilmae558! Thanks for the comment but please note that the hymen is not visible, it is located inside the vagina and so you cannot see the color. @lilmae558, you may be confusing hymen with something else based on your response. We hope this helps
ok
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big sis,I am new here,I want to ask a question?,is it every time you see your period you have pain
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Hey emily! Thanks for the comment. Menstrual pain is relative and different for everyone. Not everyone feels pain when they are on their periods and so the response to this question is that it is different for everyone.Just pay attention to your body. We hope this helps
How do i get ride of mesturbating
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WithneY I think if you want to stop masturbating then stop thinking about things that gives you the urge to do it and when lonely try keeping yourself busy.
Hey WithneY! Thanks for the comment. Getting rid of masturbation is easy once you make up your mind to stop it. If you really want to stop it, you need to make up your mind and make sure you stick to it. Also, look for a strong distraction that will keep you busy all the time so that you won't have the time to masturbate. We hope this helps
Masturbation is a sin because it's written in the bible in all ye do whether you eat or drink do it to d Glory of God...so stop masturbating u are nt gvin glory to God
Jbaby005 i will love to chat u up on facebook..what's ur user name
hi anonymously am actually not on Facebook cause am not yet allowed to join on Facebook so we can just be friends here on springters and don't forget to click on comments instead of anonymously so that I can see your username here on springters and when commenting next Time always remember to indicate you are the one please so I can know you are the one who asked for my username OK? bye for now have a good and glowing day.
big sis so days to my period I do have a very big breast but after my period it reduces to it normal size and I do wear 32A cup but when it start I start wearing 35A cup is that normal cause I hate it.
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Sorry take heart...am d one that requested 4rm ur fb user name or whatapp
darling jbaby its normal it happens to me too and mine aches few days to my period
hello i notice some unwanted scar is coming out of my leg just like my foot is cracking and i need your help to get rid of this thing am scare d marks wont destroy my leg
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Hey big sis wat causes d vagina to tear ?and wat causes swellings like boils and rashes in d virgina?
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big sis I have a tough palm and it embarrassing mhe how do I cure it
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I love looking at girls with big ass it's sweet i need advice
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U need 2 repent
Male please stop looking at their much cause when a girl notices you are looking at her ass she feel insecure and embarrassed and this can lead public embarrassment. How will you feel when a girl is looking at your dick and people start noticing what she is doing how would you feel.so stop it cause is bad.
Jbaby005 it's true shai thank you....what ur fb name
Male am not on Facebook yet.nice meeting can we chat here,anytime you are ready just reply any of my comments let start chatting OK,nice to meet you.
Jbaby how are u doing??and also thanks..u are in ss1 now right?and how old are u?
hi male before I will answer this question how old are you first and what class are you if you answer me genuinely I will answer you.
am great how about you.
Am good...am in ss3 n 16 years wbu??
Male am 14 and SS1.
And also what state are u?
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Male am an Igbo, but I can't say anything concerning my state, or location cause that's prohibited here on this platform.
Male who is your best artiste(musician)and you favourite actor.
Is ur real name jennifer
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My name is not Jennifer oh but it start with letter j,why did you begin with Jennifer is it because of the j I started my username with?
Jbaby ur name is jennifer rix
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no it's not and you can't find it,so just stop guessing,and why do you want to know my name.
Best artite-davido whle actor-akin and pawpaw or mr ibu..wbu j
let me ask you this question are you ready?
Ok sorry if am offending you
Ok ask me d quest?
OK what course are you studying at school.
my Best artiste is my celebrity crush lil kesh
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Gud..ask me d quest na
J baby ask me d question?
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Wait b4 u ask me any quest..i would love u to be a christain and to believe in jesus christ and avoid sins like lieing,cheatin,masturbatin e.t.c and read d bible daily
OK what course are you studying at school. please reply let me ask the last one cause I want to sleep.
Sci wbu what's d last one?
Male am a Christian and a Catholic for that matter I don't cheat but when it comes to lieing am going to try my best in that area but remember am not a lier and I do read my Bible and pray.
you have made me change my mind because of this Christian question you asked me.
U are a catholic...am a catholic too
Please Ask me..i want 2 go off
Wonderful that's great,have you started receiving communion.
Yeah..u wanted 2 ask me if i have a girl frnd??
OK if you wish to off,tomorrow na we go talk,go and sleep OK good night till tomorrow.
2mrw..hav u confirm?
I taught you wanted to go off,Mr joker I don't want to ask you about that oooo.
Okay..so u are free 2 ask me abt anytin?
Am not going off again..MRs joker i taught u wanted 2 sleep
OK let me ask me can you play this game truth or dare.
Hav done confirmation
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no I have not yet but I will,who do want to win this coming election,for me am seeing Mr president Buhari again on that well decorated seat.
Yeah he wil win..BUHARI
OK
Mrs joker are u nt sleeping again
I have 20 wishes and one of it is to have a platform like this cause we girls need help are you going to help me help my fellow girls? cause I really want to help girls that's among the reason I joined here.
I don't know what to ask again ooo oya you ask me am ready for any question you ask me.
..so what's my contribution
it feels like we have meet before.
good bye.
good bye.
ok thanks male.Why are u commenting anonymously.can we chat right now.
Hi male how how have u been,did u enjoy ur day.
Ok any quest...
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in fact just forget I will do it myself but you can help in your own side OK.
Good morning male
Male are you going to come online tonight?please if you will come online come around let me say 12:30 or 12:00.
Okay i wil come online...and also cutie u can be my friend
cutie and jbaby can i be your friend
We are christains na serving same God wit one faith
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Male you are asking question like a friend of mine,let me tell you something they do serve same god but they have different beliefs of things.
Male if you want to wish what will you wish for.
male good night we talk tomorrow,sleep tight bye.
hello Male,what will I say to you na,OK is it bad for a girl to speak slangs, ehe I heard that shaku shaku dance is a slavery dance,that we all should dancing to it that if we don't stop a demon is going to posses those are are dancing for me I don't believe that,do you?
No i dn't believe that...the wish i want is
finally you have come online.
Are you a Yoruba cause I want to learn Yoruba.
Pls can I be frnds with u and jbaby
that is great of you,thank you a lot.
yes you can cutie.yes start chatting cause is like he has gone to bed.
tnks jbaby I am so glad u accepted my offer dear
hi male.
hello everyone here,big sister good day.
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I dn't speak yoruba j baby..and i can i support you towards ur platform?
It's was nice meeting you..bye
Hi Big sis,y don't I see my mens when I am supposed to see it.sometimes It comes 5 days b4 it is supposed to come .
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that's the way mine use to happen to me before.
cutie let's start chatting OK.
cutie,why won't I am supposed to cause you are my friend.
cutie that's true what class are you and how old.
actually I am 13 nd I'm going to ss2 dis term(Wen We resume)
cutie what do you want us to talk about now am all you anything you want us to talk about.
please I don't understand by u and male please make me understand. OK am on YouTube at the moment downloading music videos.
that's so true,he made me remembered my cousin and classmate, I would really like to mate him but it kind of impossible.
cutie are on messenger?
OK am done.
good morning to you too.
my night was great and good, I thank god for everything.
how was yours.
cutie let me gist you Small,when I was in Jss2 a boy wrote me a love letter telling me how much he likes me,and other nonsense about sex,I did not answer him,I wanted to report it but I was not sure who was writing it because the boy was using as someone else name then forget about it,and I did not report again when I entered Jss3 this boy came again but I never knew it was him he was acting nice towards me when my friend asks him for anything he won't give it to her but when I ask him he would give it to me then later another of his friend then told me about it I then flash back in thought I saw that he was the one all this while,then I was annoyed with him I gave him all the things he gave to me when I taught I was just a friend and I stopped talking to him,do you know why I stopped talking to him? it was because he wanted to have sex with me ,you guys might think am lieing but am not what he wanted really hurt me then I stopped talking to him then my friend then asked me why am not talking to him again I then asked her if she has forgotten she said she has not that I should forget about it and start talking to him then I forged him.I believe that a guy that we love me will come at the perfect time,this guy is 15 am talking about is 15,I told my friends I would like to date a guy that is older than I am with 2,3 or even 5 years.
cutie are you a girl?
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of course I am and from u and male's chat I heard u are not on fb and u are 14 in ss1
that's great ehe what should we talk about now.
I think about u and male
frm u and males chat dat I Saw,he is a really funny guy.
But I am not on YouTube bcus my Samsung android phone is old.
Pls chat me up wen u finIsh downloading ur stuff
sorry I am not allowed on any account only whatsapp and instagram and dat is until my dad gets me my new phone(b4 d end of dis month By GOD'S grace)
bye cutie we shall talk tomorrow good night.
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Good morning Darling
How was ur night.
my night was Great,tnks.
We can play truth n dare and if u wil like to meet me...i wuld love 2 see u in your church
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male do you know where CPM is?
What's the meaning of CP..
male so if I tell u the name of my church you will you side and come their, have you heard of sjs(sisters of Jesus the saviour).
it means Catholic prayer ministry.
wait let me ask you something is your name maleek Prince?
What state is catholic prayer ministry?
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My real name begins with W
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My begins with W and end with D...And also i think u are lieing to me that u are not on facebook...because hw did u knw of maleek prince??
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male am not on Facebook seriously,so you don't believe me abi am not on Facebook but am on messenger,I just wanted to check on messenger if you are their and I searched for male but I did not see it that is why asked you OK if am lieing I will then be asking you when I already know know I lied to you shai it's not your fault cause you don't know me that's why.will you like to chat with me on messenger?
And cutie why d u think abt male and jbaby..Lets play true n dare
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Jbaby reply all my comments
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Yes..i would like to chat wit u on messanger..sorry 4 sayin u are lieing
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Yes i wuld like to chat wit u on messager..sorry sorry 4 sayin u are lieing
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J baby..u are not replying me..hw wil i check on u on messager?answer na
Hey Male and Jbaby! Please note that asking and sharing personal information on this platform is highly prohibited and unacceptable. We insist that this stop immediately
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big sis are you mad at us? am really really sorry for everything,big sis what happened is not what you think were only trying to be friends, since what we did are prohibited we are really sorry from the bottom of our heart we are sorry I hope you find a place in your beautiful heart to forgive us some day bye for now.
Hey Jbaby005! Big sis isn't mad but you know the rules and really should not break these rules. We are not saying that you shouldn't be friends here but you should not share all these details. We hope this helps
Hi this is Male...Big sister am sorry for not abiding to your rules ..and J baby005 am sorry for the mess i put u up...AM SORRY...thanks and goodbye all
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hi kings I understand and I forgive you, next time when we are going to be chatting, we should not say personal stuff OK, are you coming back?
what's your username
Esebamen wisdom kings
male how far,thanks for ur contribution.
Cutie hw u doing??
how far guys,I have been busy lately now,that is why am not coming online like I used to.
Hi male I'm in ss2 and not ss3.thanks
Hey jbaby005! This is a final warning. The next comment we see from you asking for personal information will make us delete you from this platform. You have been breaking the rules and we have cautioned you several times but it doesn't seem like you are willing to learn. Please take note.
please Big sis, i want to plead on their behave, forgive them.
Jbaby005 am sorry..and Big sister am sorry...
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what's your username please
Esebamen Wisdom kings
Hello hav u added it
yep I have.
Hi male
big sis are you mad at us?if you are mad at us am really sorry,is not really what you think, we were only trying to be friends,big sis, if all we said were all prohibited here am really, really sorry, I hope you find a place in your beautiful heart to forgive us bye for now.
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Hey jbaby how can i get u on messager??
actually, you knew what you did was not right, if not you wouldn't comment anonymously. you are very wrong.
I need a female bestie hum 13 14 or 15 yrs... am a guy frm nigeria
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
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hello Prince,can we be friends?
wow sure ar u on facebook?
am not on Facebook but am on messenger.
umm nt fammilar.. k ur state?
what's your fb username.
etz d prince
Prince what number are you in Facebook cause am seeing different persons here.
My profile pictures a football player written George
OK I have seen it I send you some messages so go to fb and reply me OK,let's talk.
kk nice to meet u
prince u can always chat with me,I am jbaby's friend nice meeting u.
Cutie ar u also on fb
no prince I am not on FB
Then how can we possibly chat?eeh cutie
Nice article
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Hello everyone.
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Hi xup
Hi jbaby.
I dey ooooo,want of u guys nah,how una dey
Jbaby letz chat on messenger
Hi ceaser .
Pls,how cn I keep a healthy nails?? My nails dnt grow...from year to year,it remains d same.pls wat cn I do Dr Blen?? I'll really appreciate it if u reply me.Thanx a lot.
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Good morning future leaders of tomorrow, have a great and beautiful day,and also a great weekend.
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I pray so, coz there will be an election in our state tommorrow .And I want the springster to pray for Us. there are Three main party, apc:ilerioluwa. pdp:adeleke sdp: omisore.but I actually like omisore. and I think the election will be tough, and there can be riot anytime, I pray God gives us a right leader.
Happy Sunday, to everyone here.
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Happy Sunday
Happy sunday jbaby.i'm doing great jare!!
How is every body here
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We're fine u
We are incredibly fine.
everything is okay 👌
HI JOHN AM NEW HERE JUST LIKE A BABY
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HI BIG SIS I HAVE A BF I LOVE HIM ND HE LOVE ME 2 BUT HE HAVE A GF WHAT AM GOGING 2 DO
Hi everyone,I'm new here am I welcomed.
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Hi everyone,I'm new here hope I'm welcomed.
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welcome Dear
PINKY.D U ARE WELCOME
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Pls springster help me. I have this problem; whenever am through with my bath my body starts itching me. What could be the cause
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Hey BLOSOM! Thanks for the comment. This is not something for you to be worried about because it happens to a lot of people. Itching after you bath could be caused by many things and one major cause is dryness of the body due to the soap you used, water or even the air that dries your body. When you itch after bathing, it means that your body is stripped off its essential oils and so all you need to do is to moisturize your skin when damp. We hope this helps
Thanks big sister. But it continues even after applying cream
hello guys I do want to pass this information to u guys that masturbation is a sin and a demonic attitude please if u are still maturbating stop it now!!!! or else u will face the consequence alone, anybody that tell u masturbation is normal please tell that person to get behind u cause it is not normal at all.
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if u what to know why I said so just comment under any of my comments and am gonna give amazing reasons why masturbation is bad.
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People really need to be educated on y masturbation is bad bcos there are other sites that say masturbation is healthy, I'm not calling any names
not only masturbation alone even watching of pornography is bad and that's among what leads to rape,molesty and even masturbation beware!!!!!!!! please.
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Hello big sis,there is this black spot in between my laps,they are caused by whenever I sweat,a boil will come out and it will start paining me ,after two or three days it will go.The thing is that I can't wear skirt without ,wearing tight,if not the boil will persist unless am wearing trouser and it has made in between my laps to be blackish, pls help me,what should I do to clear that place to make it look smooth,help me I need answers pls.
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big sis answer me
Hey chinny! Thanks for the comment. We advise that you wear loose tights or shorts instead of fitted ones. This may help you. We also advise that you talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor about this. We hope this helps
Big sis please i am 19 and i have been noticing my breast growing since when i was 16. The problem now is that its not growing any bigger. It is the same size it was 2 years ago. Is there a problem with my body?
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pls answer me
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Hi big sis,I have this black spot in between my laps and it cause weneve I sweat or without wearing tight,and it has made it blackish,I don't know what to do cos it irritates me,what should I do to clear it pls I need answers,help
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Hey chinny! Thanks for the comment. The good thing is that you know already know what causes it and you should try to avoid doing those things so that it can go. If you must wear tight, try to wear one that is loose on you. To avoid sweating, clean your laps and also rub powder on them for a dry feel. We hope this helps
I was once fat but gradually as I began to leave puberty stage I started becoming LEPA wat should HV been d cause of dat ? Funny enough I asked my friend (male)wat should I do to dat situation , he told me I needed some sperm to regenerate d hormone in me at dis stage of mine .itz dat true?
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Hey Kelyt! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you DO NOT need sperm to regenerate any hormone. The only thing sperm will give to you right now is a baby in the womb. This your male friend is only looking for a way to take advantage of you and you need to be very careful with him. Secondly, you losing weight is all part of growing up. Like some people say, you have lost your "baby fat" and this is not something to be worried about. Puberty is all about growth. We are sure that you have grown taller in the process. Do not panic, these are some of the changes that come with this stage. We hope this helps
How Do I Get Rid Of Stomache Cramp
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Hey Angel B! Thanks for the comment. First of all, period pains are normal so don't be scared. Now to easy solutions, you can try any of these tips; have a hot bath, place a hot water bottle on your tummy, take a walk or take some pain killers as prescribed by a doctor or certified pharmacist. However, if the pain persists, please talk to a trusted adult and see a doctor. We hope this helps.
My boob's Av been growing for more than 3years and it's still the same size
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Hi guys am new ,please welcome me
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someone whose discharge is green or yellow will they person still see her period?
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