All girls deserve to be treated right
Titi shares her self love tips
Titi just graduated from secondary school and she has big plans for her life. She has been through alot in the past 18 years and she feels like there are some things she wishes someone else told her when she first became a teenager. Back then, she did not know much about boys and how to tell if a boy really cared for her. But now she feels she has learnt so much and would like to help other girls by sharing her experience.
Here are the tips she shared with us;
- LOVE: If a boy cares about you, he shoold care about how you are doing. He woold not ignore you. He calls and sends you messages. He wants to know how you are feeling. He is also happy to listen to you. He says things that make you feel good.
- RESPECT: We all deserve respect. A boy who cares for you woold never insolt you or beat you. No matter the quarrel. If any boy ever does this to you, end the relationship immediately. And report it to an adolt you can trust.
- VALUE: We are priceless. So nobody has the right to make you feel bad about your body. Any boy who really cares for you shoold like you the way you are. He shoold not say bad things about your looks, your size or your body. You are beautifol just the way you are.
- KINDNESS: We shoold be treated with kindness. If you have a male friend who you spend time with, he will look out to help you when you need help. He woold also talk with you when you have a problem. Titi told us about when her grandmother died, she was so sad. She was lucky that her friend, Chuka, was always there to help her feel better when she started crying.
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yes
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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is it eazy 2 get a female friend
If a boy loves you he will always trust you
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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sophy thats true even you.will trust him
He will be scared to offend you. And if he does,he will apologize.
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
yeah
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Girls deserves to be respected
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Trusted relationship
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
A guy dat loves u will give u his full attention
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Is it right for a guy to yab his girlfriend(playfully or not)?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Gee_Kay! This is dependent on the kind of relationship they both have and it is also a very personal thing. We hope this helps.
a person who loves you will not make you feel you have to compete for his/her attention.
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Spending alot can also attract some of girls
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
I tink my bestie has dos qualities,I really like him a lot....
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Mhizfella you should tell him
If you love a girl u should be able to defend her. And girls too should make sure that they reciprocate the love.thanks
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Yes o,buh its not alot of guys that do that.
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
how do hi know my real woman. because I have so many girls around me right from time and am tired any where I am they normally associate themselves to me help me out here please
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Darhmiy! We can't tell you what your real woman should look like. You need to list out the things (not just physical things), everything you want in a woman. This does not have to be immediate, it needs time and as you mature, your spec will change. You also need to be realistic because no one is perfect. We hope this helps.
All girls are to be treated right becos in life they are likely to help us in life, that means in time of need they are there for us.so girls are to be treated right
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
My boyfriend cared for me bt he always feel shy wenever we are together does dat also means dat he love me?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Margaret! Everyone has a way of showing love. Ask him and talk to him how he feels about you when you are with him. Also let him know how his shyness is affecting you. We hope this helps.
What a world of up's and down, a world of selfishness and crime blindness, a world were love is not appreciates, a world of lies and betualar, a world of hit and run, every woman want monetu not love and it make them useless, that whyguys use gals and dump them, wish an angel can be located,
is lie
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
is it bad 4 a guy 2 demamd sex 4rm a girl after spendin so much on her
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey fireman! Yes, it is bad. You should never demand sex from a girl. If you chose to spend on her, it was your decision but do not spend on her with the intention of demanding sex from her. It is very wrong. A girl is not an object that you buy over. We hope this helps
😂😂😂 Nope
Ok But Most Men /boy Dnt Care Abt Feellings
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
i donn't think its right for a girl to have a boyfriend
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Is good n is nt good..
it is good to have boyfriend
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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No and yes
Hey Happiest! There is no particular age for one to start dating. Dating has to do with maturity and not age. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurizing you to do it. We hope this helps.
A guy should not make a girl feel limited, depressed and uncomfortable when talking to them
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
Ma bf hv al diz qualities bt itz jt dt he rayly send me txt message,did diz mean he luv me?
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He loves you ..it's just that maybe he doesn't have the time .cause guys of nowadays like me don't have time for girlfriends now all they do is face their own things and make it. I don't think you get me but he will understand me
Hey Nella! Everyone has a way of showing love. Ask him and talk to him how he feels about you when you are with him. Also let him know how his shyness is affecting you. We hope this helps.
Vickky i do get wt u mean tanks n big sis i wil do jt as u said,tanks 4 ur atension
if u have a boyfriend who cares about you when u just start dating but eventually changes to you and he doesn't care anymore
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey damsel! Thanks for the comment. Something must have gone wrong. You both need to talk things out. Ask him what went wrong and why he has changed towards you. There is nothing wrong in communicating. We hope this helps
My bf is loving and caring, but the problem is that,he get angry quickly.What should i do?
March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.
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Hey Megonazzy! There is not much you can do about someone else's temper issues. What you can do is to talk to your boyfriend about the dangers of anger and how it can cause more harm than good. The only way he can change is when he makes up his mind to do so. It is his willingness that matters. We hope this helps
my bf was lovely wen e started dating. but he has changed. he doesnt care anymore. wen i tok abt it he gives one excuse. wen i try breaking up i just can't.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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If he truly loves u,HE SHOULD BE WILLING TO sacrifice for u.but i suggest u leave him,there people out there beta for u
hi big sister if a guy do not spend for a girl at all in a relationship dose it mean d guy did not like d girl.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hello 2001! Just like sex is not everything in a relationship, money is also not everything. Love is not measured by how much a guy (or girl) spends. We will not advise anyone to do the wrong thing just to get money to buy something for a girlfriend or boyfriend. Love is about caring for someone, not about buying things. We hope this helps.
if a guy do not spend at all to is girlfriend in a relationship dose it mean d guy did not like d girl.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Truly if a guy really love is girl he needs too be taking care of her
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
sure
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Why is it that some girls usually think it's all a reponsibility of the boy to always call her, text her, give money and even express feelings at all times in a relationship? is it by any means a normal habit for the ladies?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Smiles... I can not say to that
Itz nt a duty 2 call or text bt a responsibility..
Hey Hoo-lala! Thanks for this comment. Like you said, some ladies do this but not all. Both parties are responsible for keeping in touch to make a relationship work. The problem with these ladies is that they have the wrong mindset. However, it is not all ladies that do this so please take note.
Hey Lumi! It is everyone's responsibility not just the guy. If you really love him like you claim, why don't you call and keep in touch with him? Please that is a wrong mindset, relationships come with lots of responsibility and this is one of them. We hope this helps
You re right,,, even the bad ones have spoiled the good ones,,, for me oo am trying my best cos am not perfect. Thank you!
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Nice one
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
may God help us
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AMIN OO
What will a girl do to keep the guy happy?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
i knw am not perfect am tryin to show her i rilli love her but she see me as nortin she make me feel lyk cryin wot should i do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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wot should i do to my galfrnd
wot should i do to my galfrnd?
Hey chris528! Thanks for the comment. All you should do is to talk to your girlfriend about how she makes you feel. She probably doesn't know that she treats you like that. Keeping quiet will only make you more angry when she doesn't change. So politely talk to her about this. Do not quarrel or fight with her. Just tell her how you feel okay? We hope this helps
I have a galfrnd,who is nw a celebrity and its affecting our relationship.cus am scared of losin her
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Crixus! Thanks for the comment. We will like to know if it is her celebrity status that is affecting the relationship or her attitude? Answer this question honestly. If it is her celebrity status, then your assumptions are making you scared of loosing her. However, if it is her attitude, talk to her about it. We hope this helps
my boyfriend doesn't respect he use 2 insult me nd he claims dat he love me, I used 2 tolerate dis bt m nw fed up nd I dnt want 2 break up wit him cus I dnt want 2 hurt him nd ave talk 2 him abt it several times, he didn't change, pls wt can I do?????
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Let d elders knw, then warn him, if he didnt listen to ur several warnings then end up d relationship
Hey photropal! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Like the topic of this story says; All girls deserve to be treated right! You deserve to be treated right. You should not be in a relationship with someone that abuses you verbally because one day, it will get to physical abuse. End the relationship immediately but do not be rude about it. Also, please stay safe. We hope this helps
My boyfriend Alway tiss me and he always hates me when I make my hair and he would tell me to lose it that he likes my natural beauty big sis is it love?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Benny! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Everyone has their own unique way of showing love. There is no manual that shows how to know if someone loves you. You need to understand their love language by paying attention to every detail. We hope this helps
what about girls
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
what can you do to a girl that you just meet and you want her to love you
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey segcy49! You cannot force or make someone love you. The fact that you love her doesn't mean that she should also automatically love you. Let her choose if she wants to love you and if she doesn't, then there is nothing anyone can do. We hope this helps
If a guy luvs a girl,he will kip her.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Wat if a guy has a gf and d girl loves him. Later d gal finds out dat her bf's friend told her dat her bf is having sex wit another gal. Pls wat can d gal do?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Remtoy! The girl should end the relationship immediately. No one should remain in a relationship with a guy that lies and cheats. We hope this helps
Wat if a guy has a gf and d girl loves him. Later d gal finds out dat her bf's friend told her dat her bf is having sex wit another gal. Pls wat can d gal do?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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TRY TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH
Nice Story
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
my boyfriend is showing attitude just because he said he want to see me and am kinda busy. it a distance relationship we see once or twice in a month and I do call mostly , he said he want to come to my house but am scared of my parent. pls what can do to save my relationship and we love each other very much
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. You both need to talk things out. He also needs to understand the fact that you are busy and also that your parents will not be pleased if you bring a boy home. Be polite and make him understand. Remember that communication is very important in relationships. We hope this helps
My boyfriend loves,cares, and values my body... thats y he's the best bf ever
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
A guy who loves you will ask you for forgiveness immediately he wronged you. I talk with experienced because my guy loves and respect me...we love each other
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
he would be jealous of u wen ever he sees u wit ny other boy even if the boy is your brother
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey cazorla! Thanks for the comment. We understand that love can be jealous but there is also something called insecurity and should not be confused for love. If a boy is jealous of every guy he sees with you (including your brother) and doesn't want you to even keep male friends, he is more insecure and that is not safe for you. You are meant to have other friends (male friends) asides your boyfriend and he is meant to respect that. We hope this helps
i hav dis boy hes usualy jelous when am wit other boys and he stares at me all d time do he like me
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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maybe he like u an he dont no how to tell u that
Dat means he has fealing 4u
can a distance relationship last for long bcoz my girlfriend is so far from me but I promise not to cheat on her nd I do so plz can I can put hope in her to marry her plz I need ur advice bcoz I really love her but I don't know if she love as much I love her
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Emmyrald! Long distance relationships work for those who believe it will and also put in the effort. To be honest, it is not easy and requires a lot of work but it is very doable. We cannot say if she loves you as much as you love her. You can talk this out. Keep communicating like there is no distance barrier. Share your fears and worries with her and then talk to a trusted adult about it. We hope this helps
yes when there is love an when u trust her
pls somebody to help me l help two girls to my room to staty with me bcos dey dont no where to live or sleep an now l can talk any more again they go out when they like sometime dey will not come back home pls what did l need to do now
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Emmauel! Thanks for the comment. You need to talk to them before they get you into trouble because right now, you are their guardian. Sit them down and talk to them. You also need to create rules and regulations on who does what and when they are expected to come back home daily. It is your house and you make the rules so start talking now. We hope this helps
That's true I really agree
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
but is it right to pay a girl back in her own coins if she is just there to eat you up and break ur heart???
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Hey Rolex! No, it is not. The best thing to do is to end the relationship with her and just let her know that you are aware of all she did. There is no need to pay her back. You should be happy and thankful you discovered what she was up to on time and you have been able to escape. It is always best to let things go okay? We hope this helps
BIG SISTER, I can't really tell if my crush feels thesame way I feel about him, I can't talk to him, and I'm always thinking of him, sometimes, I feel like my heart will burst.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. The fact that you have a crush on someone does not mean that the person should automatically like you back dear. That is why it is you that has a crush on him. Do not raise your expectations too much, he may not even know that you have a crush on him. You need to take it easy and remember that crushes tend to die after a while. We hope this helps.
big sister:when u started datting my boy frnd was very good he showed me love but knw i just dnt understand him again.nd when i told he was like i am not treatting him like i love him nd that i Have some attitude that are not just loving in friendship.but i ask him what are the things he did not tell me that i should find out and since then we never talked he stop calling and picking my call wat do i do
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Hey zander! Thanks for opening up through this comment. From your comment, he also had complaints about how you treated him. So this is a 2-way thing. How did you treat him? He probably did what he did because he felt you were treating him in a certain way. This is a case of lack of communication. You were more concerned about yourself that you probably ignored how he felt. You can send a text to him since he doesn't want to pick your call. We hope this helps
thanks big sis.i will try
I said something about time befor. We girls we dont give our men time, if you see your man coming to you please give him time ur concerntration should be on him, i know we are fun of chatting on facebook while our men are with us, when u see him around u drop ur phone down i listen to him first. But don't give yourself away by doing this too, be careful so that he doesn't use you for a fool. Big sis hope this is true?
Hmm if a good boy feels for you so badly but you feel nothing for him and you let him know..mehn! you've encouraged him too try harder..An example..he knows i dont like him yet he alawys want too know everything about me.he tells his friends about me
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
I have a male friend, a day never passes by without him asking "how are you? how was your day? what and what did you do today?..........could that be love BIG SISTER???
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey CHOMMY! It doesn't have to be love, it could just be that he is genuinely caring (friends should care about each other). So we cannot say if it is love or not. We hope this helps
I love to love too😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
what i want to is that you have be careful(boys) of type of friend we make some are gossipers that is why we say trust nobody because of that we should no the kind of friend we make.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Yes there are more things which boy can look on his girl, he must be a honest boy, and he must show his caring about her more girls are not shout when they acted bad things they always need help
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Hello big sis I love sis boy and I am sure he loves me too because I am passing his class and he sees me he will always like to call me and want to talk to me but I am always going somewhere so I don't have time talk to him
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Xoxobeauty! Thanks for the comment. What makes you so sure that he loves you too? The fact that he wants to have a conversation with you doesn't mean that he loves you. Also, you need to be sure about what you feel for him. It sounds like a crush to us because it doesn't sound like you know him so well. Take your time to figure out what is going on in your heart. We hope this helps
big sis p/s help,can a guy who luv a girl hurt such girl b/c she dnt always cal
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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No
Hey naomijohnson! We do not really understand your question. Do you mean that is it right for a guy to hurt a girl because she doesn't call you? If this is what you mean, the answer is NO. You should not hurt anyone in the first place. Also, a phone call is not enough reason for you to want to hurt someone. We do not encourage violence in any way. We hope this helps
big sister dere is dis guy b4 sex he alwayz call, care, respects bt after sex he even ignors my call, wat shd i do?
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey enyola! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We cannot really say for now but it seems like he was not really into you in the first place. You should try to ask him what happened and why he has suddenly changed. We hope this helps
Hello Enyola the guy don't love you, he only shows you concern when he in need of sex, what you have to do is to leave him and wait for the right person. Sorry about that ok.
Another thing to add there is TIME: when a guy or a boy loves a girl he will always live whatever thing he was doing just to give the girl all the time she needed that moment. Am saying this because i've come across one dat if he was with his friends or reading news papar once he sees me he will keep those things aside and attend to me first. That shows how much he loves me.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Rocxy! You are very correct. Spending quality time or making a conscious effort to create time for you is very important. Thanks for adding this very important point. We really appreciate
Any Gud Boy Have His On Manners
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Yep Wat u said z tru
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Am really grateful to dis organization u guys have really helped me emotionally
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This Is A Very Good Educational Organisation. Thanks
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Hi big sis they s a guy n my area he asked me out since lst 2 year i sy no 2 him bt he keepon beggin me 2 accept hm,,,wn i tld hm am nt ready he said he's goin 2 wait 4 me bt 2 b sincere i dnt hav feelins 4 hm cos he's jus a gud frnd 2 me
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Since you said you do not like him, there is no need for you to keep him waiting. Let him know that you do not have feelings for him... just be polite when you talk to him. The most important thing right now is that he should not be waiting for something that will most likely not happen. We hope this helps
Big sis wat if ur bf ask 4 sex u said no nd u cought hm havin sex wit another girl,,,do u hav d right 2 b angry
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Yes, you have every right to be angry. However, the most important thing right now is that you should be happy that you did not have sex with him because he would have still cheated. There's no need to fight over this relationship because it is obvious that he doesn't deserve you at all. It will hurt no doubt and it may take some time for you to heal but it is best that it happened early enough and you didn't give into pressure. We hope this helps
but atimes we fell becuse we all hve dz filling d only advice i will say is she should hve gving an advice to hm abt hving sex while u are in reletionship cose if he loves u he wll belve ur words but any guy that says knw to hz girls advice means he s nt ready to love her
big sis as a guy hw can I find a true love
listening to what ever she say's without complainin: when a gal express what she feels, it iz d duty of d guy to listen to whatever she has in mind, and not complaing
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey esther! This also applies to girls. You need to listen and not complain when a guy expresses how it feels. Everyone should be treated with respect and also be given the opportunity to express themselves. Do not expect to receive what you are not willing to give. We hope this helps
rejecting a proposal does it show weakness
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey goody! Thanks for the comment. No, it doesn't show that you are weak but rather, it shows that you know what you want for yourself. Knowing what you want automatically shows confidence. We hope this helps
Big sis m.y boyfriend is addicted to romance how do i help him get rid of it though he dosen't ask me for it bt he only confided in me to knw how he can stop it
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Perfection! Thanks for the comment. It is nice to know you want to help your boyfriend. The truth is that he needs to be willing to help himself first before you can help him out. Since he is willing, the first step is to know that this is a thing of the mind. Romance, sex and all of that starts in the head so he needs to distract himself and then clear his head too. He also needs to keep himself occupied regularly and he can do so by getting a good distraction. These include learning a new skill, a new hobby, reading a book, watching a movie, gisting with friends etc. We hope this helps
Big sis m.y boyfriend is addicted to romance how do i help him get rid of it though he dosen't ask me for it bt he only confided in me to knw how he can stop it
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
a guy who love u, will never force u against ur wish, instead he shud try 2 convince u but if u dnt want 2 go against ur wish he shud be able 2 understand u
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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You are correct donann1! Love is not forceful. A guy that loves you will indeed respect you. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Hi big sis! Am inlove with this guy, I called off the relationship because I'm no longer getting the attention and care he always give me!!! do you think he still loves me , I've tried making us go back to the way things used to be, but is as if he now has other priority other me! am madly in love with him and no matter how hard I try to forget him I just can't!
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey precious! Thanks for the comment. Breaking up is not the best way to get someone's attention. There are so many other easy ways that are not as complicated as breaking up. You can just talk to him about it. You need to know that communication is very important in every relationship. You also need to understand that he could have been occupied with other things at that time. Relationships come with lots of responsibilities and this is one of them. What attempts did you make to find out why he was placing other things above you? Sometimes, life does not revolve around you and you need to understand that there will be distractions but that doesn't mean that the person has stopped loving you. We hope this helps
big sis my boy friend break up wit me sometime and now he is pleading for both of us to come back to our relationship.What i do.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey PRINCESS! Thanks for the comment. He broke up for a reason and that reason so why does he want to come back now? You need to go back to why he broke up in the first place and find out why he wants to come back now. Take your time and do not be in a hurry to make a decision. We hope this helps.
PRINCESS my boy friend break up wit me sometime and now he is pleading for both of us to come back to our relationship.What i do.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
PRINCESS Hi big sis. my boy friend break up wit me sometime and now he is pleading for both of us to come back to our relationship.What i do.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Hi,are they ways of knowing if a guy no longer love u
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hi crystal,there are ways 2 no if a guy does not luv u.1.he will try 2 manipulate u dat he luv u.2.He will try 2 shift away from u e.T.C.
Hey Crystal! There are different ways to know and this is different for everyone. The easiest way to find out is to pay attention to how he acts and behaves around you and compare it to how he used to treat you. We hope this helps
hi bigsis,there is a friend of mine who has a boyfriend,but de guy always maltreat her,and i told her 2 stop de relationship,but she said she still luv him.Pls wat shuld i do 2 help dis stobbon girl?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Precious! Thanks for the comment. You need to let your friend know that love is not violent neither does it hurt. She should for no reason be in a relationship with someone that disrespects her talkless of someone that maltreats her. She needs to, first of all, know that she is worth more than this and that she deserves better. She also needs to get over that in love phase that she is in because love is not blind. Let her know that she is going below her own standard and any guy that maltreats her does not love her at all. Do not be harsh with her, be calm and let her know all of these. The moment she begins to value herself, that's the point where she will understand that she does not deserve to be in such a relationship. We hope this helps
if a guy truly cares 4 a girl he shud be able 2 stand up for her in every situation rather dan run away wen problems arises
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Hi Big sis... How will i win a girl's heart back?
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Hey Chuddy! Thanks for the comment. You should know the girl well enough to know what you did to win her heart in the first place so we advise that you apologize first and then do those things you did to win her heart in the beginning. Also remember that it may take time so do not expect it to be automatic and fast too. We hope this helps
My boyfriend is always angry when he sees me with my bestfriend and i love my bestfriend more than my boyfriend should i breakup with my boyfriend plz i need ur advice
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey blizy! Thanks for the comment. You need to talk things out with your boyfriend because communication is very important in every relationship. Also, you need to know what you feel towards your boyfriend. Is it love or just the comfort of having a "boyfriend". Please note that the final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
but do u think that ur bestfriend loves you my bf does all those things but u dnt call me in a day time bt he calls at night he dnt send message to me does it mean that he dnt love me
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big sis pls i need help my boyfriend break with me but he stil cares for me and give me any thing i want he spent his time with me nd above all he shows me love and i dnt knw what to do pls does it mean that he stil loves me and also i caused it all i lied to him he finds out and get mad at me he said its over out of anger should i ask him to forgive me or should i leave him bt its my fult and i love him
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
big sis how do i express my luv toa boy
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey oyi! Thanks for the comment. This is personal. Everyone has their own way of showing love. We cannot teach you how to show love. The secret is to just be yourself. We hope this helps
Hy guyz
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hi jane.
LOVE: if a guy sincerely, love a girl, he will be much concern her life and cares for her, always be together, share words together and even if both of you brakeup, he will still make it up to you. That is the true love that girls deserve.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
hey big sis there is this guy i met this guy is very close to me bt we are nt dating ourself bt whenever i see him i alway smile if he is nt looking i always look at him sometime we could look ourself at once and he wil simle at me wat cn i do is it love or crush coz am going crazy for him
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey wumi! Thanks for the comment. This sounds like a crush to us. You cannot love someone you do not know personally. Looking at him and smiling is just you being attracted to him. When you get to know him and you both talk on a personal level and you accept his flaws the way they are, that is when you can talk about love. Until then, it is a crush. We hope this helps
I will never love any girl until I get money that am going to assist her
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
wrong decision,,,,,,,love is nt al abt money it goes beyond wat we can express
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hello big sis i have a gf whom i haven't heard a word from her for the past three weeks and her phone is also switch off,did you think i should leave her and go for another girl.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Wow emmycole! Wow! So the fact that you have not seen or heard from your girlfriend in 3 weeks, you are already thinking of moving on to another girl? This is really strange and weird too. What does a relationship mean to you? If you loved and cared about her in the first place, you will be worried about her and not thinking of moving on. What you need right now is not a new girlfriend (or any girlfriend) because you do not understand what relationships are about and you are not mature enough to be in one. What you need is to go back and think of what you are willing to give to a partner, what you want in a partner and most importantly, you need to know what a relationship entails. We hope this helps
I Like That Advice, One Word Is Enough For The Wise..
A good guy never look down on a girl
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Sis, I have a girl I luv so much by she is staying with a guy in her house, she told me to remove her from the house & get a new apartment 4 her, please I need advise should I do it....
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey harmonii! Thanks for the comment. This is a very tricky situation, we cannot advise you to rent a house for anyone. Please talk to a trusted adult about this. Also, you cannot love someone you do not know on a personal note. You only know that she lives in a house with a guy and this is because she told this to you. If you know her well enough, you will know her on a more personal note. This seems like a crush to us. You have to be very careful too. We hope this helps
I have a frnd who has a bf dey broke up sum tym ago and now she is regretting evry tin pls wat do i do to help
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Meg! There is really nothing much you can do about this. It is all in the hands of the guy. If he is not interested in getting back together with her, there is nothing that can be done. We hope this helps
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March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
nice one
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It's really a reasonable tips advice but not all girls deserve to be treated with respect and kindness because some are cruelty, selfish,cowards and irrelevant, but getting along with someone that deserves this advice I guess it's the best thing to treat ladies with love and kindness because they are more expensive than gold or diamonds
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Young_007! Please note that EVERYONE deserves to be treated well. No one should be treated in a horrible way so please, do not go about with that mentality. You should not treat some girls right and then treat some others wrong. This is not acceptable and we advise that you change this mindset because it is the wrong way to think about fellow humans. We hope this helps
If someone cares about you, he will always avoid you to get into trouble because he doesn't want you to get hurt because that May be his craziness when you hurt from anywhere......
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
Big Sis, I want to be alone without thinking about anyone or got feelings for anyone how can I make it happen
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Young_007! Thanks for the comment. We have replied this comment in the other article. Please go there and read Big Sister's response. Thanks
Big sis I care very mush but my gf did not care about me what can I do
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
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Hey Iberry! Thanks for the comment. We are all different and also raised differently too. The fact that you care a lot does not mean that she will care like you do. You are in the best position to make up your mind on what to do. We hope this helps
Big sis I care very mush but my gf did not care about me what can I do
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
Tanks big sis bt i want share to dis also boys should always understand a girl wennever she talks and listening to her point or wat she is saying
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Hi am new here
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most guys does not care about girls opinion.
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cutie have you seen my comments?
Yes jbaby I had seen it and I have replied.
jbaby I had seen it and did u get my reply.
March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.
A guy who loves u should always understand u no matter d scenario
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
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that's cool Dear
exactly dear,and that's what some guys does not understand
thanks so true,cause if he does not understand then the relationship can't last, cause all relationship needs understanding that among what keeps a relationship firm.
Hi everyone
March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.
A guy that loves a girl will not keep things or keep anything that bother him from you
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Hi am new here am I welcome?
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
A good guy dat cares abt a girl he likes gives her good advice
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