My love don’t cost a thing – Jennifer Lopez
How much is love worth? If you were to price your love, how much would it be?
I am pretty sure you are still thinking about the cost. Do you know why?
It’s because love is priceless.
Everyone wants to be loved.
Most of us girls want to be loved like some of the princesses from our childhood stories.
Some people will do anything to get or to give love.
You must have heard of girls who exchange their love for phones, jewelry or money.
Or of guys who do the same or try to get our attention with gifts.
But we know love is not something we can sell or buy.
Don’t let anyone try to bribe you to love them.
Gifts from someone who cares for you are fine. But the caring comes before the gifts. Not the other way round.
When people already care for each other, they can exchange gifts to show their love. But when someone gives you gifts to make you care for him or to make you do certain things, something is wrong.
Is there a guy on your street you know who keeps offering you chocolate, airtime, or money for your love?
Is there someone who keeps telling you to date him just because he has money?
Today, let’s say a capital “NO” (insert link for how to say no politely) to such people.
If they don’t back off, report them to a trusted older person or parent.
We are Springsters.
A Springster is an independent girl.
Her love is a priceless jewel. She loves and values herself for who she is and not because of what she has.
She can’t be bought. She knows safe ways to make her own money .
She knows what she wants and she goes for it. She’s strong and she knows it. She is like Jennifer. Click to read about Jennifer
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money is not love
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Learn 2 say NO if ur luv is bought it implies dat u re cheap
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
love is from the heart,and no money can get it out,
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
there is a guy in my school that me to be his gf
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
is it good for 16yrs old to have a boyfriend
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey bolu! here is no particular age for one to start dating. Dating has to do with maturity and not age. Before you start dating someone, be sure that you are really ready for the responsibilities of dating and if you are mentally prepared for it. Also, don't date because your friends are doing it or because a boy is pressurising you to do it. We hope this helps.
yes
LOVE CAN BAY
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
True love no go die
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
hi bigsister am in a longdistance relationship with a guy but how will i know if he is dating another girl.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey 2001! Thanks for the comment. There is no manual for this. To be in a long distance relationship (or any relationship), you have to be prepared. Trust issues will do nothing but stress you out. You know the person you are dating better than us, talk to him about your worries and always be in touch. We hope this helps
hi big sister where will it b suitable/safer for a girl that z dating a boy to talk to him or meet him.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey 2001! An open place is always best to meet the person. This is for your safety and to avoid being abused by the person. We hope this helps
hi big sister am new here pls tell me how dose this place work it like u are very popular here, I can't put a dp
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Hey ninoteddy! Welcome to Sprinsgter. Lol, Big sister is popular here because she answers all your questions and advises you like a big sister would. Also, you cannot upload a picture because we do not allow people to reveal personal information. We like to maintain privacy so that everyone can freely open up without being scared of being identified. We hope this answers your questions. To learn more, please read our FAQs at the end of the page. We hope this helps
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
I love my life
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
love doesn't worth any amount of money 💰
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
love doesn't worth any amount of money 💰 , if I am right
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Wow Big Sist Its Like You Just Read My Mind There's This Guy That Has Been Disturbing Me Have Told Him Am Not Interested But He Dosen't Want To Listen But Have Made Up My Mind To Put A Stop To Everything
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Hy big 6c, diz my first tyme here hope am welcumed.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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u are welcome
hmmmm money money
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
we r expensive to to exchange our love for money
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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hmm..u r right dear
Hmmm...tru talk,but there was a girl i used to cares for and i loves her a lot and she also does...one day,i talked to her to be in lovebird with me and she refuses and said she will always care but can never be in lovebird...what may i do?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Omotayo2001! She probably did not love you enough to want to be a lover. You shouldn't do anything about this because this is her personal decision. You cannot force her to be lovebirds with you so what you should do is to let her go. Love is not forceful and so you have to accept it and move on. We hope this helps
Hello Big Sister. I'm not happy again, because my truth love have broken my heart . what should I do to take away her love in my heart?
all this it true. but as for me can't believe a girls again, because girl have teach me a powerful lesson
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Ifedamola! We are sorry for the mad experience you have had but we advise the you do not generalize because not all girls are the same. We are sure that you have only met with less than 1% of the girls in this country. So this means that there are other girls out there that are totally different from the ones you have met. Keep an open mind okay? We hope this helps
Bigsis, Please they is a girl that i love for almost five years back & she too love me and i don't know what i did to her, and she broke up with me around (2015 ) a year back, and since then i have been beging her up till now and she didn't agree with me, but they's one of her friend that love me, she always talk to me just for her to win my love. should i stop beg her & start dating that her beautiful friend, because i'm tired of beging her now. BIGSIS, what should i do?
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey Excellove! Thanks for the comment. Its best for you to move on. It's been 2 years now and it is obvious that she has moved on so you should do so to. Regarding her best friend,it is totally up to you to make a decision. However, you have to know that you shouldn't go into a relationship because a girl has been trying to win your love or because she is beautiful. There's more to being in a relationship than that. We hope this helps
Bigsis I'm Waiting. Please.
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
A guy has being asking me out 4 d past 1morth and he is still disturbing me i love him but i dont want a date what will i do
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey prigr55! If you are not ready to be in a relationship, do not compromise that for anything. No matter how much you like or love someone, once you are not ready for a relationship, do not force it because it won't work. We hope this helps.
a guy has been askin me out wat should i do
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
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Hey chealsel! This is a personal decision for you to make. Are you ready to be in a relationship? Do you like this guy? All these questions are for you to genuinely answer and this will determine what you should do. We hope this helps
I steal in love. with some girl, and i will never even tell i love her but am fear what shall flow, now what i can do
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
sure love is priceless but is d body priceless or rather useless
March 20, 2022, 7:59 p.m.
Love is priceless but some of our girls now make it known to us that no money no love which is bad, big sis help we boys talk to them.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Lol Kingsley, this is not general. Not all girls follow boys for money. Anyway, this article was written to address your concern and so we are sure that all Springsters now know that "Love don't cost a thing". Share this story to other female friends so that they can know too. Let's get the word out... Thanks for this comment.
Our love and body are priceless but most girls are making it cheap because of material things. Girls find it difficult to say NO because of peer pressure; their friends are all doing it.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Is it true that money can open the legs of any girl????
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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No, it is not true Mozriski. This is a myth and we all shouldn't generalize. Money does not open the legs of girls. Not all girls are materialistic or after money. We hope this helps
no one can ever buy my love for any price,...
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
There are this particular guys in my street they keep bothering and they dint know my name before but now that my sis mistakenly said my name and they heard my name and since den when ever I pass the street they start calling me to come buh I don't answer them plus tell me what to do big sis 😑
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Xoxobeauty! You need to talk to a trusted adult about this first of all. Then you should try to stay safe at all times. We suggest you read the article "Those boys on the corner". It will help you address issues like this. We hope this helps
Big sis I looked for the story you recommend for me and I went to hashtag safety but didn't see it even Search for it normally dint still see it
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Xoxobeauty! You can look for the story through the sections at the top of the page. We hope this helps
hw can money buy love
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
Big sis, please help me out I don't no what to do again, The man I love and he also love me back me and even want to married me, my parents dose not aprova of the relationship
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Loveth23! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision. Are you both ready to get married now? Do you both have the financial, emotional, mentally ready for marriage? If you are, you both need to talk to both parents and also other trusted adults about this. If you are not ready to get married immediately, you need to take things easy and see how everything evolves. We hope this helps
Love is beautiful and some people said love is blind.
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.