Let’s help you read those signs
Do you stay awake thinking of someone? Do you wonder if he is thinking about you too? We have been there. It is very normal to start thinking of boys as we grow older. This is part of puberty and adulthood.
It is possible to tell if a boy likes you. In fact, the other day we overheard Ikenna and Sarah talking. The things Ikenna said made us think he likes Sarah. Here is some of their discussion;
Ikenna – Wow Sarah, you changed your hairstyle. I really like this ‘all back’. I like it more than the ‘chuku’ you had last time.
Sarah – Thanks! Long time, no see.
Ikenna – Yes, it’s been very long. I told my best friend about you yesterday. I told him it has been a long time since I saw you.
Sarah – Anything new?
Ikenna – Not really. I am watching that TV show you talked about. I love it! Can we watch the next episode together?
Why do we think Ikenna likes Sarah?
How about us, girls? What do you do if a boy likes us and you like him? We can be honest. If he wears a nice shirt, tell him. If you are good at a subject, offer to teach him. Slowly, you will get to know each other. If you are not ready to date, he can be a good friend for now.
If you do not like a boy, do not pretend you do. Tell him that he is a great person (if he is!) but you do not feel the same way. Be firm so he knows you are serious. This way he can move on.
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I had a bf which i love very much but i broke up with him bcos he wanted sex but i still love him why?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hello Success! Thanks for this comment. You did not break up with him because you no longer loved him, you broke up with him for a different reason. When someone loves someone else and they break up for another reason, it takes some time for the love to die especially if the 2 people keep seeing each other. But you broke up with him for a good reason. If he wanted sex and you did not, it was a good idea to leave that situation so you do not end up doing something you do not want to do. Just bear in mind that you need to work on not loving him anymore now. Make sure you see and talk to him as little as possible at least until you are sure that you are no longer in love with him. Try and get busy with other activities. Make new friends and or spend more time with your old friends. We know it feels tough now but you will soon look back and be proud of how you handled this situation. We hope this helps.
Pls Help We Have Be Datin 4 A Year Nw His Asking Me 4 Sex An Am Not Ready What Can I Do I Love Him An He Love Me Too
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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You should jt be honest with him, if he Trutly loves u he will understand. Bt if he refuses u should just break up with him, u will fine someone that is better than him.
If u r nt ready 4 sex,dnt let him force u 2,cus if he do dt only means dt he dose nt luv u.U cn talk 2 him politely dt u r nt ready 4 it,let him undastds d reason u dnt wan 2 do it.if u explain evrytin 2 him n he stil insist i tik u shd quiet it,it wont b gud 4 u in d end.tanks
Hi Dupe! We think it is great that you know yourself and you're strong enough to let him know that you are not ready. Please continue to think of what you want first because it is your body so it should be your rules. Nobody has the right to tell you when you are ready. You are the only one that has that power. If he tries to force you or makes you feel bad about your personal decision them we do not think he truly loves you. We hope this helps.
Hi sis. I have always felt bad 4 d kind of guyz dat lk me.cuz I don't like dem.buh d ones dat I lk don't come y
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! This is one of the big questions of life. We cannot plan who we like or who likes us. Just continue being true to yourself. Do not force yourself to like someone you do not like. Continue to meet and make new friends. Soon, you will like someone who will like you back. We hope this helps.
I love joing this website
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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U r vry free 2 join,fel free n share ur problems 4 solution.u r wlcm
me too. We are all welcum
Pls advance me I have a girl friend I love her much but any time I been with she will be answering many call and I'm scared about it and when I ask her she wil that just friends but I'm nt happy with it.
Nelly i tik u shd share ur probs in d main menu xo 2 dt we cn advice u on wt 2 do n nt on som1's reply
almost al my male frnds like me bt it few dat i luv bcoz of d deir personality n d way d presnt theirself
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
almost al my male frnds like me bt it few dat i luv bcoz of d deir personality n d way d presnt theirself
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Big sis, How can a boy make a girl his bestie?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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...on my own opinion act natural if she wants to b ur bestie she will appreciate u 4 wu u are.
Type your comment here.. I cn b ya bestie
@given if you will! Thankz
Hey Thozyne! Being a bestie is being someone's closet friend. So the only way to become a bestie is to first of all become friends with the person. Make sure you are comfortable being friends with the person before you decide to become friends with them. Please note that you cannot become a bestie overnight, it actually takes a lot of work and patience. We hope this helps
Big sis please can a 13 years girl date a 17 years boy?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Datin dosnt depend on age,if u kw dt u cn handle any responsibility of a relationship u cn go 2 it,2ndly u dnt need 2 date som1 who z nt mature or som1 dtz d xame age wit u,rememba maturity dose nt depend on d age,n 3rd u cn date him if atal u luv him
Thanks sis
U r wlcm
Becouse of love 13 can date 17 that is becous love dost not mater de age of a perason love is pewer
forget about age . as long as there s love between the two of u and u ready to be responsible and be mature in the relationship than u can go ahead but be careful
Hey Teemah5050! They have all answered correctly. Thank you all for helping your fellow Springster!
teemah it's just the matter of dating, what I'm thinking is that they can even get engaged :if they love each other.
If a girl pretend to a boy what n what is d sign that d girl is pretending
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Ableking! Thanks for opening up through this comment. There is no manual to show if someone is pretending or not. You just have to be attentive to the persons behaviour. Pretenders (no matter how good they are at pretending), will always mess up at some point but the only way to know when someone messes up is by paying attention. We hope this helps
am a guy of 20yrs neva had sex b4 bt my problem is de kind of sex Urge i have everyday hw can i control dat plzz i ur advice
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, it is perfectly normal for you to have sexual urge (this is part of what makes you normal). Not having sex does not automatically take away the urge for sex. However, you can distract yourself so that you do not think about sex all the time. Read a book, go out with friends, work on your skill, start a business... anything you can do to distract yourself can work. We hope this helps
issokay
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
i really dont knw if ma bf z in luv wit me or nt. always gettin upset wit me n i dnt lyk it,plz wat shud i do?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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TRY AND TALK TO HIM FIND IF HE TRULY LOVE YOU OKAY!
Try me dear
Hey Korra! Thanks for opening up through this comment. The fact that he is upset with you does not mean that he doesn't love you. You are probably doing something he doesn't like and that is why he is angry with you. The only way ypu can know why he is always upset with you is to talk to him about it. Ask him what you do that makes him upset so that you can know what to do and what not to do around him. We hope this helps
No1 who luvs u wil make u xperience pain any1 who makes u feel bad and hurts u isnt worthy of u
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
If i luv u i wil readily overluk ur faults as no1 is perfect even me so 4 s1 2 rail @ u in d name of luv is fake
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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I have a boy friend but,his best friend and his brother are also inlove with me.Pls what should i do to stop that?
Hey LAYE! Thanks for the comment. How do you know for sure that they are in love with you. You need to be very sure and once you are sure and they have told you this, let them know that you are not interested in whatever they are proposing (be very polite about this). Also, please tell your boyfriend about this so that there will be no complications if he eventually finds out. We hope this helps
no boys do not like me nobody love me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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DON`T SAID THAT ELIZABETH , SOMEBODY LIKE YOU IS JUST YOU HAVE NOT FIND THE PERSON JUST TRY TO LOVELYAND FRIENDLY,OKAY.
I have a boy in my neighborhood that have been in love with me for years but he just summon the courage to tell me about it not too long.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
The Major Things For We Girls Is That We Should Always Tempt A Boy That Shows Love To So As To Know Wheather Its Real Or Not
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
i love girl which can take care of me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
how can I know that a guy truly love me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey perky! This is a personal thing you need to find out. There is no manual that shows how to know if a guy likes you or not because everyone has their own unique way of showing love. So look at the way he treats you, talk to him too. We hope this helps
Big sis plz help me out. If a guy said he loves u so much and have never a day call you to ask about ur welfa
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Ochyi! Thanks for the comment. It could be that he loves you but he is bad at communicating. What you should do is to tell him about this and how you will appreciate if he calls you more often. If you don't tell him how you feel, he won't know. We hope this helps
Big sis plz help me out. If a guy said he loves u so much and have never a day call you to ask about ur welfare, only chat online, at time u call to greet. Is that true love
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Sometimes it is. It may be that he is shy. I once dated someone that was really shy to the extent that he could'nt look at me in the face and talk to me it was worse on the phone he would stammer although he wasn't a stammarer just because he was a shy person it took a long time before he stopped. worst part is he wasn't shy too others only I.
Hey Ochyi! Like we said earlier, he may be bad at communicating through calls. Talk to him about it and let him know how this makes you feel. We hope this helps
There is dis boy in my school i always think about him anytime i dont see him in school i feel resless,dat can be love or what? And dey problem nw is dat we dont talk to each another in school we only chat online pls what will i do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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U shd break d silentnes between u pple,dy z no way he cn b ur frd if u dnt talk 2 him.dnt let pride get control ova u.mayb u cn ask him question on dt facebook since u say u only talk 2 him on facebook,ask him question on facebook,den tel him dt u wan a reply face 2 face mayb dis wil hlp in breakin d silent between d two of u,i hope diz wil hlp u
Hey Springster! Nella has said it all! You need to break the silence. But do not be in a hurry to tell him you like him yet. Get friendly with him. Talk to him more and know more about him. You may even realise that you don't really like his personality (who knows). When next you see him in school, go to him and ask him why he was away the last time. That is a good way to start a conversation. We hope this helps
i av a gel dat i luv so much but she thought i dont love her cos i dont spend time with her,wat can i do?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Sori abt dt,u shd try 2 b wit ha,mk ha hapi always b dy wit ha weneva she need som1 2 talk 2 or som1 2 acompany ha alxo ask ha y she tink dt u dnt luv ha,
Hey Erikson! What is stopping you from spending time with her? It may be difficult for you but you need to make her feel loved too (these are some of the responsibilities that come with being in a relationship). If you cannot physically spend time with her, make her understand that you will substitute with being actively online with her at all times. We hope this helps
pals,I hv a gal DAT really love so much bt any time I try to approach her,I use to feel Smitin telling that"she won't love someone lik
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
pals,I hv a gal DAT really love so much bt any time I try to approach her,I use to feel Smitin telling that"she won't love someone like you". pals pls I need or advice
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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You know .....Sometimes our mind do deceive and sometimes we end being lucky but in this Case it's about ur love life so u got to listen to your heart with all ur might
Sori abt dt,bt ma advice 4 u z 2 approch ha,mk ha ur frd b4 u even tink of telin ha ur feelin abt ha.cus she might hv luv u 2 bt who 2 talk 2 who 1st z always d problem.i was in diz shoe b4,i luv a guy bt i couldnt talk 2 him nt kwin dt he 2 luv me alxo.xo i tink u shd talk 2 ha
hahaha!!!.....
Shylar wtz 4ni?
Hey Starz102! Everyone has said the right thing. Do not let your mind play games with you. Tell yourself that you are equally special. Even if you are not her "spec", she can still fall in love with your unique personality. Approach her and get friendly with her. Do not rush into asking her out first. be friends with her first and get to know her. Thank you all for coming through for Starz. We hope this helps
Big Sist I Need Your Number Or Any Number I Can Reach You With My Story Is Kinda Complicated And There's No Way I Can Cut It Short I Really Need To Talk To You Please Help A Sister
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Kimberly! Springster is the only medium you can reach Big sister on. There are no numbers to call. Feel free to ask about what you need here. If you feel shy, you can comment as anonymous. No matter how long your story is, big sister will be here to answer. We hope this helps
hi all
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
i have this guy in my life, madly inlove with him, please big sis how can i know that he feels the same about.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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U cnt kw dt he feels d xame towards u if u pple dnt talk 2 each other.try n mak him ur frd 4rm dy if he fels d xame towards u he wil 1day say it 2 u,gudluck
Hey shylar! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You need to communicate with him. Talk to him about your fears, let him know that you want him to show you love and you do not feel loved. Communication is very key in relationships. You both need to talk often. We hope this helps
pls big sis,i`m in love with a guy but he`s my elder brother`s friend.pls how can i go through it?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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if God will
Hey rutte! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You need to find out if he loves or even like you too. There are high chances that your brother will not be happy with you so you may need to take your time on this. Also you need be sure that what you feel is also not a crush. Just take your time and do not rush things. We hope this helps
Hw do i c reply 2 my comments
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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on d dwn part wr u r already commented
Big sister i love dis on facebook nd he luvs me 2 we are datin bt d truth is we hvent seen each other b4 im i doin d rig tin
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Czee! First of all, you have to be careful because not everyone on social media (Facebook, Instagram etc) lives a real life. Some of them are hiding their real personalities on social media. If you must go out on a date with him, please go to an open place that has many people and be very watchful. If he asks you to go to somewhere private and/or secluded, please do not go. If possible, go with someone and tell a trusted adult where you are going to and also give his number. We hope this helps.
Big sister....There is this guy I met in church, he is way too older than me...He likes me but I don't feel anything for him I like him as a friend.....I gist, laugh with him all times. He is always interested in knowing wat going on in my life but I don't think I can share that with him bcos I dnt want to give him the impression that I like him...I thought we could just be friends but he is taking things to serious.... I told him I'm not interested but he said I've to be.. Wat do I do? He calls me almost evertime and i see him in church...pls help
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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I think u should talk to an older person in the church about it
Pls u can consider the person cox he has show love he will take care of you ,if some boys dis time were not caring
Hey No-no! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Please let him know that you are not interested in a relationship with him. You may have been saying it but he is obviously not taking you serious. You are probably not saying it a way that makes him think you are not serious. So you have to stand your ground (we are not saying that you should be rude). Also, please cut off all forms of communication with him so that he knows you are serious and also tell a trusted about this. Love is not forceful so he should not force you to be in a relationship with him. If he really loves you, he will respect your decision. We hope this helps
Hey Omotosho! That is a wrong advise to give her. The fact that he likes her does not mean that she should consider him. What of her feelings? Her opinion? They also matter you know. She wants to be just friends and that should be respected. Please, never compromise on your standards to please anyone. We hope this helps
I have one girl iam so love her,I use to call her and asking about her life activities, but she doesn't do that to me ,pls sis how could I know she love me intentionally?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Omotosho! From your comment, you said you have someone you love but you never said she loves you too. Now the question should be - Does she love you at all? You cannot assume that she loves you back all because you love her. So find out first before jumping into conclusions so that you don't get hurt. We hope this helps
hello! M new here, bt dere is a boy whom i knw he realy loves me bt i dnt feel d same, i told im dat we shuld jst b friend bt everytime we are talkin, he kip remindin me his lov 4 me. I thought of breakin d friendship bt he is such a 9ce guy nd i dnt want 2 hurt his feelin...... M totaly confuse nd i dnt knw wt 2 do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Ask him what makes him to fall in love with you..
Hey photropal! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, love is not forceful. No one should force you to love them all because they love you. Do not compromise because you do not want to hurt him. If you do so, you both will end up getting hurt which is worse. Don't be confused okay. If he really loves you like he claims, he will respect your decision. We hope this helps
tenks...........
I didint have any won i want to know haw to get them
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
There is this boy in my class,i once had a crush on him and i think he also had feelings for me. Since he didnt confess,i moved on and forgot about him. Now that i don't like him anymore,he will send me text messages like hi dear,hi my love,hi darling,etc. What should i do?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Text him.., (HI MY CRUSH) and see the next reply.
Hey Pheekayor! If you are over him, there is no need to do anything. Just don't force what does not exist to happen. However, if you are sure that you still like him, you can still go ahead but if you don't, like we said earlier, don't force it. We hope this helps
This is cool
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Well....i once dated a boy in my skul bt den he suddenly left(i actually lyk him). Den unknwingly i developed feelings 4 anoda boy. Though we r nt dating every1 knws abt us...nd he lyks me 2.....unfortunately d 1st guy z coming 2 visit my skul nxt term. Am xo confused. I dnt even knw which of dem i rili lyk. Or mayb d 2 of dem. Z dat possible?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for sharing this with us. First of all, you do not have to panic. He left and you had to move on. It is possible for you to like two people but you will definitely like one even more. As for the guy that is coming back, you may want to take your time to watch him. He may have changed since he left. Do not be in a hurry okay? We hope this helps
pls there is this boy in my school he told me he loves me but i told him i could never love him but nw i am madly inlove with him if i see him i will pretend pls am tired of pretending i always think about him what should i do pls
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Miracle! Thanks for opening up through this comment. You can walk up to him and apologise to him about what you said the other time and tell him to give you a chance to be friends again. If he agrees, you both can start with friendship. If he doesn't... you will have to move on. We hope this helps
Big sis I just joined I'm I welcome here or is this group for certain people
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Hello big sis I just joined I'm I welcome
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! You're welcome. We hope you like the stories. Feel free to invite your friends here.
thanks u guys are the best
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
i lyk a guy n he lykd me too.b4 he lykd anoda gal and tis hard for me to 4get him. hw can i get him without lukin cheap?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Splendor! Thanks for the comment. We know that it is hard for you to move on after a heart break but it is always best to let it go. You will heal in time okay. Going back to him will make him disrespect you because he has moved on. You will heal okay. We understand the pain. Bond more with your family and friends, do things that will keep you active and have fun! We hope this helps
Pls hlp,big sist. I can't love any girl I don't even know exactly hw I feel. Even when I talk to a girl and we started relationship we easyly break up bcouse am not serious. And my friend usually make fun of me nt having a girl,it makes me mad. Hlp pls.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
i think we get confused when we are into the relationship
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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are you guys already dating?
i had a crush on one of my class mate but he didn't know, he left d school and now he is telling me he wants to date me. pls ma wat should i do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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try to give him a try may be he really loves you
Hey Gina223@! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision for you to make. We cannot tell you whether or not to date a guy. You are in the best position to make this decision. What you need to do is to think about it properly and ask for guidance from a trusted adult around you. We hope this helps
there is this guy who loves me but cant give him d chance
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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can we please know your reason why you don't want to give him a chance
Hey issabella! Thanks for the comment. Can we know why you can't give him a chance? We look forward to your response.
Pls am in love with a girl. We've kissed once I look into her eyes she looks into my eyes and we both feel love... Tho we are not dating... D problem is day she can ignore my calls and messages for days and when she will actually reply if I ask why she is ignoring my call and messages all she will say is nothing. Pls wah do I do.
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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hi joey new here,ask d gal if she loves u or if she is playing with ur feelings
YES
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Pls john hw can i talk to d big sis john.
I LOVE D G
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
yes it happens to me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
yes but he is shy to face me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
hey hw do i knw am a virgin
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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To knw u are a virgin u dont need to go to anybody to enquiry,having a hymen doesnt make u a virgin,bcus there are some people who ve it but engage in other sexual tins like oral,anal sex,etc...so to knw u are a virgin u must make sure u ve not meet any man or done any sexual tin with any man or woman...bcus definition of virginity did nt state dat a virgin is a person with hymen rather its a person who have no sexual contact with any gender.
Hey fabulux! William_cassidy_17 has said it all. Thanks William for this educating response. We really appreciate. Thanks
My bf says he luv me nd I luv I'm bck but wen I need I'm he is Neva there always buzzy nd wen we re to met he say he is nt a home either he is helping his mom or with his fends nd am not saying he shld stop seeing his fend or helping his mom but he does nt give any attention if I text him onces he wnt reply by until after my fourth text nd spending like 5 mins before he will reply nd if I tell him I don't lky hw he is behaving he will only say sori nd continue nd yesterday I texted him though out d day nd he did nt reply nd today he still did nt reply nd so I did nt text him further but way shld I do shld we call d relationship off ? ND we being having some little fights cos of my fend dat says he does nt luv me jst confused help guys
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Your boyfriend is not making any effort to make the relationship work. You cannot keep forcing it by putting in all the efforts. From your comment, you have spoken to him and he did not change in anyway so it is probably time to let him go. If he does not care about the relationship then he shouldn't be in the relationship. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
dis is wat make me breakup with my ex bt nw he is very annoyed cus I gat a new bf I told him am so sorry for breaking his hrt bt he is still annoyed wat can I do big sis
I told I'm let end it since the relationship is working out as we plan nd he said no wat do I do I don't wanna end it
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Follow ur heart nd be careful
Hey Springster! We do not understand your question. Please explain better so that we can understand better. We hope this helps
I don't know if he does am confused he's the opposite of ikenna but when am sad he is too and does anythingto make me smile
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
I'm a guy. Please how do I know a girl likes me even when I've not spoken to her and vise versa?
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Jeff! There is no manual to know whether someone likes you or not. Everyone shows love in their own unique way. You need to get closer to the person to be sure that you are not picking the wrong signals. We hope this helps
My boyfriend complains of our romantic life being too low...... And he always asks for sex which am not ready for
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Hearty! Thanks for the comment. If you are not ready to have sex yet, then don't do it. If your boyfriend loves you, he will respect your decision. Sex is not a proof of love. No one should force you to have sex when you are not ready. Make him understand this but girl, do not compromise if you are not ready. We hope this helps
Hey hearty if ur bf always ask u for sex that means he doesn't really like you and is just with you for the sex and pls break up with him if you are not ready
I am a guy and there is this friend of my a girl she always call me check on me and sometimes even ask about my personal life does it mean she like me
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey yungjoe! We cannot say for sure if she likes you. However, the things she does are the regular basic things that friends are meant to do. If you really want to know how she feels, you will have to find out. We hope this helps
there is this friend of my that I love so much but I don't know how to tell her please what should I do
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey yungjoe! There are so many ways to tell her. You can either walk up tp her and tell her to her face, call her on the phone, chat with her or even write a letter. The choice is yours. We hope this helps
Am A Boy I Luv Agirl How To Tell Her
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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Hey Ayo! There are so many ways to tell her. You can either walk up tp her and tell her to her face, call her on the phone, chat with her or even write a letter. The choice is yours. We hope this helps
Hey Ayo be a man, walk up to her and tell her how u feel about her may be she might like u too I hope this helps
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
Am afraid to tell girl how I feel about them
March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.
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It means u ar nt serious or u ar nt yet ripe 4 dat. U ve 2 go 4 wht u wnt. Even me 2 feel dsame way.
It means u ar nt serious or u ar nt yet ripe 4 dat. U ve 2 go 4 wht u wnt. Even me 2 feel dsame way sha.
Hey Paul! What exactly is making you afraid? You need to find out about this. Please remember that the worst thing that can happen is for her to say NO and that is not the end of the world. Do not let this get to you okay? You will be fine. We hope this helps
IS RIGHT FOR A GIRL TO HAVE CRUSH FOR A BOY OR TELL HIM HOW U FEEL
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It z ny proper 2 do so bt u can bfrend him nd wait 4 him share his feelings 1st. Itz dificult but u got ve 2 try 2 control ur emotion. I hope dis will help.
Hey RINA! There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a crush. It is normal and we all have crushes. Now, it is a personal decision if you choose to express your feelings to the person you have a crush on. We hope this helps
Hey Springster! This is totally personal. If you do not feel it is right, then do not impose this on other people. This is very personal. We hope this helps
well,it is normal but i am facing a similar situation but me nd d guy have never even said hi before nd have known him for like months.
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I think she should wait 4him to speak out first
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Am doubting if my bf loves me cos i dont believe in love
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ask mr soul to do dat 4 u,he will surely help u.always listening to his program every thursday nd sunday.
Hey bukky4life! Thanks for the comment. If you do not believe in love, it will be very hard to stay in a relationship. Also, you need to figure out why you have a boyfriend because to be in a relationship means that you are in love with the person. Love is also not one way. You cannot expect someone to love you when you do not believe in love. We hope this helps
I don't Think my boo likes me All he asks me is BABY AM AROUND, WHEN WILL I SEE YOU....... All 4 sexual activity
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He is nt d best for u, so end up wit him
Hey Springster! Sex is not a proof of love. If the only way he shows love is by sex then he does not truly love you. We hope this helps
there is this guy I met two month ago he told me his in love with me but I said am not ready yet Cuz am still young then he said his willing to wait for me as a gud friend and I enjoy being around him bt now we had a misunderstanding and we are no longer friends and I really do miss his.help me plzzzz
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Hey Praise! Thanks for the comment. You can apologise to him to just let peace rain if you really miss him. There is no big deal if you talk to him and let him know that you miss him. We hope this helps
I called him and I apologized already few days after dat he sent me a text saying that he misses me bt I should not quote him wrong really don't understand that.
hey big sis my friend and I are back again like before and am so so very happy. ....
Big sis, i am in love with a guy that is four years older than me but i have never talk to him because i am shy what do i do please help me
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Hey Breastic! You need to be sure that you are in love with him and not just having a crush on him. Finallly, it is totally up to you to make up your mind on what to do. We hope this helps
i am in love with a girl but i do not no her to tell the girl hw i feel
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i am in love with a girl but i do not no her to tell the girl hw i feel
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if someone had a sexual incouse wit a lady nd lyk 16y nd is nt bleeding as she disverging or nt
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Hey Springster! Thanks for opening up through this comment. Bleeding is not a sign of virginity. It is just a sign that the hymen is torn and not every girl has a hymen. So it is not expected for every girl to bleed after having sex for the first time. We hope this helps
Please I want to know the signs that shows that a girl or lady really love a guy
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Hey Carter! We have given you tips in the article above. Please read and relate it to your question. Thanks
i once liked a boy he liked me too bt i was trying to pretend not to like him but he wasn't shy of telling me he liked me he had a girlfriend at that time tho bt he still showed hes love ,i had always tried to avoid him cause of hes girlfriend nd i finally did ,hes my senior tho bt i was so much into him,after sometimes he broke up with hes girlfriend to be with me i said no at first bt i noticed dat i was hurting my self although he kept on begging at the end i said yes and now were in a strong relationship,so all the ladies in love with a taken guy ,dnt lose hope
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I once liked a boy but now i dont bt i church he stares at me do he like me
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Eye contact is a sign dat u like urselves
Hey Joyce! Eye contact is not always a sign that someone loves you. People stare for different reasons. The best thing is to find out why the person is staring at you. We hope this helps
Hey Springster,I need your Advice,Everytime i think of a guy i cry,and anytime we had a misundetstanding too i shed tears,plz is it ok and i want to know the signs if a guy loves a girl pls help me out.
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Hey Bharsha! Crying can mean that you are emotional and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you crying. For the signs, we have given some tips in the article. Please read. We hope this helps
Wat if i love a gurl and i dont knw hw 2 tel ha, wat can i do?
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sometimes its hard to say you love someone, and trust I understand what it means, you just have to show her you love her till you have the courage or till she feels you do.
i love some 1 and i have told her that i love her and she told me that he don't want to be in relationship ple i need ur advice so that i will know the next step to take toward her
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Hey rahim27! Thanks for the comment. She has already told you that she is not interested in a relationship so the next step to take is to let her be. You have to respect her decision. You cannot force someone to be in a relationship with you and she has already told you that she does not want to be in one. Let it end at this. Thanks. We hope this helps
how will I tell I girl that I like het
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MAKE HER UNDERSTAND DAT U LIKE HER
I WILL ASK THE NAME OF THE GIRL FIRST AND I LOVE YOU
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I WILL ASK THE NAME OF THE GIRL FIRST AND I WILL TELL HER THAT I LOVE YOU
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hey big sis i'm afraid of tellin a guy my feelings cos i'm not so sure and its all confusing plz help me
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if u realy luv him, u will go 2 him now and express ur feelings 2 him
Hey MONTEZ! You do not have to be in a hurry to tell a guy about your feelings. You should figure out your feelings first before telling anyone about it. Do not be confused okay? Just take your time to figure everything out. We hope this helps
yes I have a boyfriend and he does everything and loves me just the way I am.❤
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I'm in love with a guy and he loves me too but my mum is aware of our bond and she's warned me to keep off but the dude is begging me. What do I do?
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if u love him dat much, go to him and express ur feelings
Hey Mila! Thanks for this comment. What you need to do is to talk to your mum. Politely ask her why she told you to stay away from him. Disobeying her will only make her angry and may put you in trouble. Talking to her will save you a lot of stress. We hope this helps
Wow
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2 my own understanding i think he likes u
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deres a guy wic i do talk 2. he understands me very wel, wen m dwn he knws, wen sometin is bothering me he knws, nd i hv a crush on him. does dat mean dat he lyk mhe?
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Hey Lori! Since you both are close, you can talk to him about this. Talking will make you avoid assuming if he likes you or not. We hope this helps
Hello big sis,i broke up wit my gf recently due to her sexual behavior,she cheated on me,and I don't know where to start from,and am I kind of person that is somehow shy,to meet a girl is a problem,jst always scared of revealing my feelings,pls is there any dating site that sure in relation ship except facebook
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Hey Adewale! So sorry about what you went through with your ex. What you need right now may not be a girlfriend but rather for you to take some time to heal properly and forget her so that you do not carry over any baggage into the new relationship. Also, we do not advise you to date online because there are so many fraudulent people online that pretend to be what they are not and end up breaking hearts. Take your time, make friends in the real world and enjoy life. You had a girlfriend before so that means you can meet another and that is in the real world. We hope this helps
Pls big sis i have this guy i love i have kiss he alot of time but now he want sex
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Hey MIMI! Thanks for the comment. If you are not ready to have sex, do not let anyone force you or pressure you into having sex with them. If he loves you like he claims, he will respect your decision. We hope this helps
I support you dear... that is very good
Hey big sis,... Dere z dz guy, I love Him so much, on our first meeting, we kissed.. Later he told me not to build up high hopes I don't know if he really loves me d way I do
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Hey Triccy! Thanks for the comment. For him to say that to you, he probably doesn't like you as much as you do. Kissing does not mean love. We hope this helps
life is nothing without friendship??yes or no if yes or no why
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Hey guys my bf nd I ave being dating nw nd it going to be a yr nxt month but since we being dating he hardly calls lky Neva d first time he even called me was wen his sis was sick nd we planed to met up so we go see his together nd dat it I ave being d one doing all d calling md wen I call we talk for very lng time nd laff nd all dat nd if I ask y he does nt call me he say he does nt ave card nd I be lky re u seriously ?" den he will get all sad dat I don't believe im den we drop d mata but den every time after d call I be feeling lky a fool dat am showing I'm more luv Dan he shw me nd dat he might hurt me wat shld I do ?" shld I kip on calling or stp ?? ND if I were to stp it will be really hard cos I use dat to stp myself frm sexual desires nid help asap
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Hey pink! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We totally understand how you feel. You need to talk to your boyfriend about this and you both need to iron it out once and for all. If he really does not have card, there are other ways to communicate. He can make attempts to visit you, borrow someone's phone to call/send sms, send sms, chat etc. Is he making any of these efforts? One year is a long time not to call your partner and this is why we always say that relationships come with lots of responsibilities that we all need to be ready to make and take on. After the talk, the final decision is up to you to make so get all the answers you need. We hope this helps
Wat re some of d tins dat one shld do to prove dat u meant it wen u said u love her nd will always do even if u dnt ave time money nd space ???"
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Hey Springster! This is a good question. The truth is that money is not always a prerequisite for love BUT you cannot truly love someone you do not have time for. No matter how busy you are, you always make time for the one you love. You can make attempts to visit the person, send notes/letters to remind the person how much you love them etc. There are so many ways to do this but spending time is very important too. We hope this helps
elo.big sis.if a guy ask me out.i will av feelings for d guy bt after one week.it will fade off does tat mean i av nt me sm1 i like
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Hi,you were only crush on him that's why everything fade away.
Hey Springster! Just like Marie said, you only have a crush on that person because crushes tend to die after a short time. We hope this helps
elo am new here.....
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U are welcome
eln big sister... there is a guy who i really have crush on. Although we do talk and he ask me if i have a boyfriend,but i always tell him no. But yesterday this guy told me he has a gf i was sad and couldnt sleep.. but he told me he loves me and he call me names like "my love,baby and so on but big sis does this guy really like me????
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Hey rayçhàèl! So sorry for this. We can understand how you feel. This boy probably wants to take advantage of the fact that you like him. If he is in a relationship, he shouldn't be calling you those names and making you feel like he is your boyfriend. He needs to be true. He needs to focus on his relationship. It may be hard for you but its best you let him go. We hope this helps
Hi am New here just want to share my problems with your guys, am in a relationship with this guy I love so much and he loves me too but the problem is we have been dating for a year now and he have been bugging me with sex but I told him am not yet ready for it that he should go look for a new girlfriend who will help him out with that but he says no he can't and for that he has been snubbing me, I really don't know what else to do.
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Hey Prish! Thanks for the comment. Do not have sex if you are not ready for it. No one should force you or make you have sex when you are not ready. If he truly loves you, he should respect your decision. Do not compromise girl, you own your body and you have a right to say NO whenever you want to. We hope this helps
Well I told him to go get another girlfriend but he says no he can't cause he loves me and can't stand cheating on me with another girl,am so confused right now I don't no what to do.
Hey Prish! You do not need to be confused. You are not ready for sex and that is the most important thing here. If he cannot handle it then he needs to let you go. Girl, you own your body and when you say NO, no one should counter you. If he truly loves you like he claims, he should respect your decision. Do not let him play with your mind okay? You have the final say. We hope this helps
HOW CAN U KNOW THAT UR BOY FRIEND LOVES U
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Hey RINA! We have given you tips in the article. Please read them and see the tips. We hope this helps
Big Sis Am New Here Bh I Ave A Relationship Prob My Bf Says He Luvs Me Bh My Best Friend Always Want To Gain His Attention 4 Days He Doesnt Really Talk To Me And He Only Talk To My Friend To Make Me Jealous,pls Wat Shud I Do?Breakup Or Wat?
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Hey Kofo! Okay girl, this is a problem and you need to talk to both your best friend and boyfriend about it. Be polite, do not sound bitter (it may be hard but do not be rude). Tell him about what it is that he is doing and also make them both know that you are not happy with what they are doing. Keeping quiet will not help but rather, it will make you feel worse. We hope this helps
Big SIS I am new here,I have a guy,we hv been dating for 2 years now his parent knws we at dating but he dnt show he cares ,he dnt treat me as his girl,he dnt even talk to me like his girl,i dnt feel his lv for me,I hv talk talk to him about all this things,he will change fr like a week,and go back to his normal behavior again,he dnt cm to visit me, i think is only when he feels like to have sex with me,that he visit, he dnt even call me,but anytime we meet,he always say he can't do without me.I lv did guy ,what will I do.
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Hey Prety! It seems like he is really with you for sex. We understand that it can really be painful. You have the final say in this. We cannot tell you what to do but do not let love blind you. Open your eyes and make a decision fast. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps
That guy doesnt love you..trust me,u worth more than all that and u deserve a guy that truly cares about you.
Leave any guy dat wants sex b4 marriage doesn't care 4 u
Big Sis, Am Really Confused ,i Dnt Really Kwn If Any Boy Genuiely Love Me Cos Any Guy I Met Wil Jst B After My Body
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Hey Nancy! Thanks for the comment. Take your time before you get into a relationship. Also, do not give into any sexual pressure or give them your body yet. You own your body and so treat it like you own it girl. We hope this helps
Big sis help me am in trouble
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Hey Oribel! In what way? Please share with us
Big sis.any boy I jst met jst want to be my boyfrnd .they are pressuring me so much.I don't knw wot to do.should accept them or should I wait cos one of them have been pressuring me tirelessly bt when he is besides me I fell lyk he shouldn't go.
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Accept him follow ur heart Nd it will guide u
Hey Oribel! If you are not interested in having a relationship with any of them, please do not give in. You are under pressure and it should not be so. You need to know what you want for yourself first before you rush into a relationship. Take your time and be sure you are going in for the right reasons and with the right person. Do not be in a hurry. There is enough time for this. We hope this helps
I love dis girl Nd I told her Hw I feel she said has no feeling 4me I should stop asking her dat question but now we are still friends wat should I do stop asking her or just friends
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Hey Lamb! Thanks for the comment. She has made up her mind and she seems sure of what she wants. You cannot force her into a relationship. You should respect her decision. She probably wants to be just friends with you. We hope this helps
Hi lamb,i tink d geal has said her mind,stop stresing urself
Big sis am dating a girl ma mum said she's not gud 4 me bcos she thought d girl moves abt wit guys bt I told ma mum dat she's a diff person now and DAT every tin she did was out of ignorance bcos she has no 1 to care 4 her and her teacher even wanted to abuse her and she left sch and I told ma mum if she could sit her down and tell her somtinz relatin to life so she could feel she has som1 DAT act as a mother to her even if she doesn't av (orphan) and I stop assist in ma mum in coin certain tinz coz I felt she has no compassion 4 her and its not right bcoz we all need 1 anoda and nobody knows WO will help WO tomorrow and since den ma mum keeps on begging me to 4give her and continue assisting her bt I refuse
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Hey Rj! Thanks for the comment. We love the fact that you not only love your girlfriend but you are very passionate about helping her. Thank you for that. Now to your mother, she was just being a typical mum that wants only the best for her son. Mothers are naturally protective and that was why she was very protective at first. Now that she is willing to help you, we think you should just give her a chance and forgive her. Forgive her because she is truly sorry, because forgiving her will benefit your girlfriend and make her have a mother figure and also because she is your mum. We hope this helps
hello everyone
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Hi
Guys i luv a girl and i asked her wether she liked me she said yes she like me, and she used 2 look me everytime , but she dont used 2 talk 2 me, what should i do
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Hey Springster! If she doesn't talk to you, you should probably talk to her and start a conversation with her to make her talk more too. We hope this helps
Is it wrong 2 have a Facebook lover? I need ur advice plz.
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Hey teeteelaryor! We have written an article on this topic called "Should I meet someone I met online?". Read this story and it will answer all your questions. We hope this helps
is it wrong 2 fall in love with a facebook frnd..whom u ave nt seen b4?
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It's not wrong. It's just not safe.like my bff was caught up in the same situation. She discovered that was not what she expected. Like he was rude
Hey amaka! Jaul is right. There are so many fraudulent people on Facebook these days. They pretend to be good people but are after just their selfish interests. We hope this helps
There Is Dis Girl I Love Nd I Knw She Loves Me Too, We C Our Sef Almost Every Day, Wen I C Her My Heart Skips A Beat, We Chatted On Facebook Nd I Told Her Hw Much I Love Her, Bt She Said She Want Me To Say It Wit My Mouth Before She Ansa Me Nd Am A Kind Of Shy Wen I Stand In Front Of Her, I Just Dont Knw Wat To Do!
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Wow😶 good luck with that
Hey King_Paij! You have to overcome your shyness and just talk to her. If you eventually date her, won't you talk in front of her? Of course, you will. So you can do it. You can practice in front of the mirror to boost your confidence. We hope this helps
Hello big sister, i have a female crush and i have fellings for her and attimes she acts like she has the same fellings for me for instance,she likes talking to me,she likes boby contacts when talking to me like hand shakes,she always feels happy when talking to me.....(which i saw as a clear evidence that she has the same feelings for me)but when it comes on social media like facebook chatting she changes automaticly mostimes she replies my text but sometimes she dose'nt like the last time i texted her i have'nt see her reply till date,the last time i called her immediatly she recognized my voice she was the one who cut the call,but when we physically meet each other again she changes to a friendly manner to me,so this made me not to tell her my feelings for her cos am afriad that it may effect our normal friendship if she negetively replyed to me,so this renderd me confused till now, pliz advise from you big sister,thanks.
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Hey michael! Thanks for the comment. The only way to get over this confusion is by asking her how she feels. There is no need to beat around the bush and confuse yourself. You can start by telling her how you feel about her double personality (talking on the phone and in person). Also ask her why she acts that way when you both are not together. This way, you get a clear understanding of how she feels about you. We hope this helps
Hello big sis, i have three guys whom i love, but d one i love so dearly seems not to care about me and d rest do love me so much but the problem is....i dont love them dat much. And it hurt's me so much to see dat d very first person i fell in love with doesn't have d slightest love for me. What can i do big sis?
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Hey Lyla! First of all, you probably do not love all 3 of them. You most likely have a crush on the rest. There is really nothing you can do because you cannot force someone to love you especially when you are sure that he does not have feelings for you. Also, you cannot be with the others that you do not like because that will be unfair to them and more stress for you. We hope this helps
Big sister, i met this guy a month ago at a camp He's a cousin to one of my friends and he's on holiday here And d first time we talked, it was based on music, We discovered some new stuffs about each other And it was like find another opportunity to stay alone together That was where I started getting attracted to him Everyone left d camp, and none of us got d others contact But we met four days later at my church's crossover night So, we added each other on FBI and started chatting I'm this type of person who doesn't act on any attraction I don't send the signals, cuz I hate to look like a fool So, this guy told me he loves me And couldn't help but think about me He asked for my number and he got it but he has never called me, meanwhile, he's back in school, cuz he came on Christmas break And I was like, if he likes me as much as he says, shouldn't he want to hear me and b close to me And one of myalr friends which is also a friend of his came back from school, came to my house and said something about him being like aggressive when I am talked about, I won't call it jealous but it's more like it This got me think I got and doubting him of its not a plan BTW d guys, cuz I'm single insecure about guys Cuz she was 1nc a guy dat I agreed to date and some days later told me he just wanted to play me Day made me to b wary around guys And I probably don't know how to read signals from guys And I also don't want to loose d right Guy cut of my insecurity Big sister, should I accept him Should I let go and await d consequences? What if it happens again? Cuz I won't b able to shoulder d heartbreak a third time It may scar me more I'm clueless about what to do
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We Ve D Same Experience,but Dis Boi Never Ask Me Out Till 2day,
Hey Abisola! Thanks for opening up through this comment. First of all, do not let your past experience affect the way you see boys because not all boys are the same. Now to this guy, you really do not have to wait for him to call him before you do. You can actually call him to know how he's doing and find out why he has refused to call you. There's no crime in that. Also, do not be in a hurry to make a decision because all he said was that he loves you. He hasn't said any other thing neither has he shown any other interest yet so still stay calm but do not lock up your heart yet. We hope this helps
Big sister, I'm new here Pls give us more examples on what to expect from a guy who likes you, the example above isn't enough What about long distance relationships How do you know he cares
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Hey Abisola! We have given you the basic tips. Remember that people are different and what works for one person cannot work for the other. These are general examples so you need to get to work and pay attention to the signs the guy is showing you. The rest of the work is up to you. We hope this helps
Well there is this boy i used to like before but i was not sure if he liked me that time.Now this is a new semester he has started hanging out with cool and bad friends, now i think he is into my best friend but my best friend doesn't like him but she knows i like him so she talks me into it and told me what happened.Then i told her i dont like him any more because he is not as he used to be before and since he doesn't like me no problem. I NEED ADVICE
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Hey Vivian! Thanks for the comment but what exactly do you need an advice for? It seems like your mind has been made up already. Let us know if there is anything we are missing out. We hope this helps
Am new here i have a problem i kind of like a girl in my school right from jss2 bcus i met her in j2 an we do talk back them an now am in ss3 about to write my waec but we no longer talk again she only reply my massage an i do call her most time and am scarce to ask her y we dont talk as usual and i dont want to lose her please what should i do?
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Hey Diamond! Thanks for the comment. You both were never dating and from your comment, she did not say she liked you too so there is really nothing to lose her because she was never yours. Also, why did it take you so long to realise that there was little or no communication between you both again? We hope this helps
Hi Big sister, I have a problem.
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hey big sister, there's this guy living in my area and it happened that we attend the same church. So one evening I went
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hey big sister, there's this guy living in my area and it happened that we attend the same church. So one evening I went to buy something on another street we clashed he asked for my number which I gave to him since then we started chatting....that week he said we had feelings for me....though he was sincere that he had a gf already.... I told him I couldn't share he was like he was ready to breakup with her and I wouldn't want him to break her heart....he kept on persisting i had 2 lie to him that i was already dating someone else....he said he didn't care, each time we chat he says dirty things to me that arouses me...buh to be sincere with you I don't know if I do have anything for him, cause the thing is I just broke up with ma bf...I'm thinking if its just lust and I'm badly lonely and I need a guy... though I suggested him flirting with me before he said no...that he wants me he wants me to be his gal...bla bla bla...when he saw that I was responding to him...he now said he was ready to flirt with me buh I said I had changed my mind.... big sister with these my story, do you think he really loves me? cause to me its just as if he's being a playboy..
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Hey cbaby! You need to take your time and totally get over your boyfriend before you get into another relationship. It is good you said that you are not sure of what you want from someone. We cannot say if he is trying to use you but flirting with someone you just started chatting with is just being forward. Tell him to give you a break so that you do not make a mistake. We hope this helps
How Can I Make My Girl To Know That I Love Her? I Am Asking This Question Because I Have Some Many Ways By Buying Her What She Neet But It Look Like She Is Pretending Like She Love Me.
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Hey Sanclux! Thanks for the comment. Spending money on someone does not equal love. There are a lot of people that spend money on girls that they don't love. You need to figure out her love language and show it to her. We cannot tell you how to show love because we are all different and what works for one will not work for another. The bulk work is up to you to do. We hope this helps
Hey Big Sis he doesnt call me ,it takes him years before replying my messages..yet he claims he loves me and cant do without me. but the thing is i dont have a boyfriend and i only told him yes cause i pitied him.i dnt love him..what should i do?
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Hi Elin. The decision is up to you to take. You don't pity by being in a relationship with someone you don't love. Never force yourself into a relationship you don't like,you will have yourself to blame at last. Hope this will help.
Hey Elin! Isme has said it all. We back everything said here. Thanks Isme for this wonderful advise. We hope this helps
Big Sister,i need ur help and advice,i have three Boys namely Bayo,dami And Ayomi,i Like Bayo,i Dislike Dami And I Love Ayomi,but Dami And Bayo Asked Me Out,but Ayomi Dat I Love Never Ask Me Out,but Anytime I See Bayo Am Happy,but I Told Him Bayo I Will Give Him His Answer On Thursday,big Sister I Want 2 Follow My Heart Which Is Ayomi,but I Don't No Wat 2 Tell Bayo,big Sister Help Me Out,wat Should I Do?
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Hi Gift. Thanks you opened up, I will suggest you follow your heart and for bayo politely with a smile if necessary tell him you're in relationship so that he might beaware of your relationship as a reason why you didn't accept his.
Hey Gift! Thanks for the comment. What makes you so sure that you love Ayomi? Your heart cannot belong to someone that you do not know on a personal note. It could be a crush you know. You need to first figure out what you feel for Ayomi. As for Bayo, there is no need to deceive him because you do not love him. Please do not date someone out of pity or because the one you say you love is not paying you attention. Take your time to figure out what you want for yourself. We hope this helps
hy big sister..there's this girl I have strong feelings for...infact the very first day I saw her I felt something for her...In order for me me to be sure It was not Lust,I decided to put my feelings to test by not telling her anything about it I remained silent waiting for the feelings to fade away(I've had feelings for other Girls in the past I did the same thing and after a while they all fade away and in the end I only see them as friends and nothing more)...My silence lasted roughly 3months though we still talked but not about it....to cut the story short the more I tried to forget her the more my feelings for her grew stronger....it Got to a point ah couldn't take it anymore so I talked to her about it...now the problem is that after telling her It came as a surprise and from our discussion It looks like she is not sure if she wants to date(cos she ask for time to think about it)....okay I decided I wont talk to her about it again until she gives me a reply...but she's Quiet for sometime now.... I'm running out of patience what should I do?I'm really confused now...
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Hey OTG! Thanks for the comment. Some girls usually ask for time to think about things like this not because they do not like you but because they actually need to think of if they are ready to date or if they really have feelings for you and this is perfectly normal. If you need a reply, ask her about it instead of punishing yourself in silence. There is a lot of things that communication can sort out. So, we advise you to ask her about it once again so that you can get the response you need. We hope this helps
hi big sister,have been dating this girl for two yrs now,she's a Muslim and also 27yr old while am a christain.we love each other so much but she's complaining now that we should quit the relationship and only be friends that her mom dose not support our love because am from Edo state.but am not an Edo boy.that she don't like someone from there.she said she can't disobey her parents,I have tried to talk her into it but she anytime I say anything she always say that's what they want for me.I love her so much and I am ready to fight for my love but she said she think we end the relationship..please advice me on what to do.I love her so much.I have planned my future with her.but she keeps supporting her parents.
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Hey kingcypher! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry about what you are going through but it looks like her mind is made up and there is nothing much that can be done. You cannot force or make someone stay in a relationship that they are not interested in. You can not also make her disobey her parents just to be with you. She has chosen her parents and her religion. So sorry about this because there is very little you can do about it. It is best for you to move on because you cannot force her to do it. We hope this helps
Big Sister,can U Tell Me More Signs 2 No Maybe Dis Boi Love Me
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Big sister can you tell me I have been dating this guy for 2year now but right now he is dating my best friend I still have feeling for him what should I do
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the fact is DAT der is no more love.. everything is now about lost.boyfriend and girlfriend are just excuses.. because I my self know DAT love is lost and it does not want to be found..
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Big sister ::i have a problem and it is about to get sick on me now. I have a girlfriend. I have been dating her morethan 7 month now. I love her somuch. I just try everything to know if she love me also. She told me she love me from her heart. Last 3 weeks. I ask her for sex she told me she need to think about it. I give her 5days to think about it. Last 2 weeks told me cant do that. I said why? She say noting. I try to convise her but she refused. Last week i still bring this matter again begging her she refused. Yestaday i call her to my room. And tell her my mind. She told me she have something to tell me. And i said what is that? And she told me she cant date 2 guys at dsame time. That she have another boyfriend so she cant. I kept quet. And i ask her is that person there before me? She said Yes. Say i should forgive her. I told her i cant. I get anoyed immidiately. Before we dating she told me she dont have any boyfriend. I love her somuch. I dont want to loose her. All my family know about our realationship That what is happen to me now. Please advice me. (should i keep hope on her again?) And did she have another boyfriend truth? Please advice me i love her.
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Hey sally! Thanks for the comment. We are so sorry for what you are going through because it can really be heart breaking. There are some issues that need to be addressed first. Sex is not love and you cannot give someone weeks to decide whether or not they should have sex. When someone says that they are not ready for sex, do not argue it but just respect her decision. The final decision is up to you to make because you will be in the relationship. You need to be sure of what you want and be sure that even if you forgive her, will you be strong enough to forget everything that has happened? Your family knowing about the relationship is not a good reason for you to stay if you are no longer interested in it. We hope this helps
Big sister, if you are thinking about a male teacher in your school and you are thinking he should be your husband because he jokes with you what should I du
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Hey A-girl! Thanks for the comment. You should stop thinking about this immediately. What you have is a crush and it can be dangerous especially when it has to do with an older person in authority like your teacher because it distracts you from that particular subject and sometimes every other subject because you keep getting distracted by him anytime you are in school. The best way to get over crushes like this is to get worthy distraction. This could be a study group, a hobby, or even writing/drawing (depending on your skill strength). When you have a strong distraction, your mind will no longer be so focused on your teacher. Please, do not forget that your teacher is trying to impact knowledge to you and you should try as much as possible to learn. Also, we suggest you talk to a trusted adult that won't judge you but will help you out. We hope this helps.
hey big sis.i like dis boy and he has a girlfriend.and d boy told me he likes me,but he is still dating someone else.does d boy loves me?
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Hey MALLEY! Thanks for the comment. Right now, it doesn't really matter whether or not he likes you. The fact is that he has a girlfriend and it doesn't seem like he is ready to leave her. What you should do is to move on and away from him. Allow him to focus on his relationship and do not compromise. We hope this helps
hey big sis tnx 4 dt here is mine i love dis guy nd he said he luvs me 2 bt hw do i knw he is sayin de truth cux we re far 4rm each oda
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Hey Essthar! Thanks for the comment. There is really no manual to show whether a guy loves you or not especially when it comes to a long distance relationship. You have to be very ready for it (mentally and emotionally). If you do not trust your partner then you shouldn't be in a long distance relationship for your own saity. You need to determine (by yourself) if you are ready for this relationship. We hope this helps
u hv jst cleared my doubt bt wat if u guyz re nt close 2 eachother
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Hey jenny! Close to each other in distance or in terms of communicating? Please explain better.
Wao cool
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nice idea
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Mine is similar to this story but I'm still confused about it
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Hey Grace! If yours is similar then you don't have to be confused. Read the story and learn from it. We hope this helps
mine is similar but I don't know if he loves Me too
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Hey joelglory21! If yours is similar then you don't have to be confused. Read the story and learn from it. We hope this helps
Thank you big sis for your reply it has relieved me,I have a story to share it pretty long but before this week ends I will share it
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You're welcome Grace! We look forward to your story
big sis sorry for trespassing am a boy an i tink this group stuff i for girls bt i have to comment on this
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Hey COLLINS! It is totally fine for you to comment here. Boys are also welcome
i have cursh for this girl in church since when i was 13 but since then hv not told her anytin cos i dnt no if she like me . today she shine green at me tomorow red light .if i even call her she dont seem happy answering . my friend now are even angry wit me .they say am kill myself for a girl dat always ditch me .big sis i cant stop tinking about her
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Hey COLLINS! Thanks for the comment. We understand what you are going through. Why don't you walk up to her and ask her how she feels about you? It is better than assuming if he likes you. It will save you a lot of stress. Try this method and see that it will work. This will even let you know if you can move on or not. We hope this helps
Big sis am scard to met her i always hv this motive that if i tell her they five tinz involve 1 SHE WILL SLAP ME 2 SHE WILL EMBERAZ ME 3 SHE WILL HATE ME 4 TELL THE BRO, ME AND THE BRO ARE GOOD FRIENDS 5 AND I WILL GET SICK IF ANY OF THIS HAPPEN BIGGER SIS , BIG BRO NEED HELP
I lyks this boy in my school named Darling but I am not sure he lyks me too and his brother asked me out and I don't lyks him so I said no
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Hi bigsis,pls i need ur advice,am a shy girl,i dnt knw hw 2 talk 2 my boyfrend,he is nw doubtin my luv 2 him,wat cn i do
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babe girl i would lyk 2 advice u 2 be patience and keep on doing ur best 4 him.
Hey Phabbie! Thanks for the comment. You need to talk to your boyfriend about this. Let him know that you are naturally shy and he needs to take time with you. Then you need to make conscious effort to be open to him. We hope this helps
big sis pls wat can i do 2 win my date trust n lov?
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Hey marigold123! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you have to know that love is a choice. If someone loves you, then they love you. However, if they don't love you, there is not much you can do to win their love. What you can do is to be transparent and honest. Do not try to be what you aren't and do not lie to win her love. Let her choose to fall in love with your real personality. We hope this helps
There's this guy in my street,he approached me,and said he love me,and the first thing I told him was that,I want to process my admission first.He said,he loved my spirit,that he'll wait. I started having feelings for him for the past one week. I think I like him,but the problem is that,he said he'll surely have sex with me if we start dating,and I don't want that,I want to keep my virginity till our wedding night. Please,help me out,big sis.
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Hey Christine! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you cannot love someone you do not know. He did not know you personally before he walked up to say that he loves you so that alone should be questioned. Secondly, you are acting based on what you heard. What do you like about him? What are the qualities you want in a guy and does he posses any of those qualities? You should not jump and conclude that you love someone you do not really know much about. Take your time and study him. Also, in just one week, he is already talking about having sex with you? If you ask us, that is a bit too forward. Go back and think about this well because the final decision is up to you to make. However, we know one thing and that is this is not love. We hope this helps
big sis am 15 years old I need ur advice am really crushing on one of my classmate wat should I do
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Hey omowumimakin! Thanks for the comment. Like you said, you are having a crush. One thing you should know about having a crush is that crushes tend to die after a short time. They do not last for long. What happens when the crush dies? You move on! Do not let this feeling overwhelm you because when it dies, you will be left with the consequence of what happened before it died. Think about it well. We hope this helps
big sis,there is a girl in my lesson i have feelings for her and i told but she said she datin someone but i think d way she react dis days it seems she likes me also. wat shud i do
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Hey tiwasavage1! Thanks for the comment. She already said she is in a relationship and so you should respect that. Her reaction doesn't mean anything until she confirms it with words. So, please respect her and do not try to cause havoc in her relationship. We hope this helps
Isn't good to date a girl under my age?
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Hey Sheks! This is a personal decision. You need to know what you want from a relationship and from a partner before you go into a relationship. We hope this helps
Hi big sister. I need your advice. I have been crushing on this guy for like 5yrs, he asked me out early last year but I said no due to some reasons best known to me. Later both of us us stopped talking , I thought we stopped talking because he doesn't like me again.. So whenever I am talking to a guy he gets jealous and confronts those guys and he tells them I am his girlfriend. Big sister I don't know if he loves me genuinely. Please advice me.
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Hey Ifemidetoun! Thanks for the comment. You need to beb careful around that guy. For him to be so possessive even though you both are not officially dating, you need to beb very careful. Talk to him about this and politely tell him to stop. Also, you need to talk to a trusted adult about this. We hope this helps
hello there is this boy who keeps making happi he is the onli one i talk to in terms of personal things he sometimes say he likes me sometimes in a joking manner and loves me in a joking manner manner and i feel bad now causee we don't talk like before we fight for no reason i thk he likes me nw we are not even talking i just wish i can walk up to him to settle thgs bt. jst cnt xame to hm wat shld i do
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Hey Precious! Thanks for the comment. Saying you like someone is not enough. You have to show it. What caused your quarrel? What made you both fight? You should stop assuming that you someone likes you when they haven't confirmed that they do so. The best thing to do is to have a conversation with him and know what exactly is happening. Communication is very important you know. We hope this helps
gud evening ma am 14 when can I have my first kiss
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Hey cary! There is no particular age to start kissing. You need to be sure that you are ready to kiss before you start. We hope this helps
Big sis im just dating 4 3mths now,is it fine to have my 1st kiss,im d 1 even disturbing him abt it{dis is my first date}ad wat can i do to make him luv me more.
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Hey babyluv! This is a personal decision that only you can make. However, please note that you should kiss only when you are ready to do so. You cannot force or make someone to love you more. It can even make you look desperate. Just be patient and be yourself and let his feelings grow naturally. We hope this helps
hi big sister it is good to hv sex everyday
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Hey warizo! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision. However, please note that having sex comes with a lot of responsibility and risks such as unwanted pregnancy, STDs/STIs, HIV etc. If you must have sex, please always use a condom. We hope this helps
I have known a guy since the beginning of secondary school he was a trouble maker in class and I never liked him but when I was in ss1 I found out that I liked him, it was funny. The main problem was he was stuck in my head, I could not stop thinking about him,but I think he likes me, it has been on 4 3 years now, pls wats wrong with me.
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Hey Sprinsgter! There is nothing wrong with you. It happens that you can sometimes like the person you used to dislike (yeah, it sucks right? That's life for you). You should be sure of the feelings he has for you. We do not encourage assumptions because it can be dangerous. Get to know him better... be friends with him and get talking. Find out if you really like his personality too and all that comes with the package. We hope this helps
i met dis girl wen i went for my jamb thumbprint. so we went together' we talked . then we also wrote d jamb examination at d same center. on d day of d exam she saw me and greeted and i also greeted, we talked for a while then we went for d exam. so i think i have a crush on her. i keep on thinkin about her, but idont know if i can tell her i like her,cos i hear rumours dat she like guys wit money, and guys dat look gud. so idont know wat to do,and i also heard she has a boyfriend. and one thing is d girl is just so beautiful i dont know wat to do
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Plss dnt be carried away by her beauty
Hey sabvic! The good thing is that you have identified the fact that you have a crush on her. Now, the thing about crushes is that they are exciting and interesting in the beginning but after a short time, the feelings fade away. A crush is about the physical. The final decision is up to you to make but do not be in a hurry. We hope this helps
Hi big sis,there's this guy in my class I like but not sure if he likes me back. But he likes my friend and she likes him back but they are not dating. So 1 am not sure if I should continue to like him because I know it will hurt my friend, so should I just drop it ot continue to like him
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Hello big sis I need ur help
how would a guy know if a lady love him
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Hey warizo! We have given you tips in the article. What you can do is to change the situation to a lady so that you can know. It works both ways. We hope this helps
big sis... Sometime ago a girl told me that she wanted to date me but i refused bcos of my studies. Now i cant stop thinking about her, what can i do big sis????
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Why
Hey benjamin! Thanks for the comment. You made a decision that concerned you at that time and there is nothing wrong with it. The fact that you are thinking about her now does not automatically mean that you love her. Remember that you cannot love someone you do not really know. Think about it well. What thought comes to your head when you think about her? What will you like to say to her if you had the opportunity etc. We hope this helps
u knw, i really admire ur knoledge
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u knw, i really admire ur knowledge...following all ur advice has brought out positive impacts in my path,ure one in a million..i love u big sis
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Hey Chicana! Thanks for the amazing feedback. Big sister is really grateful for the kind words. Love you too.
why that a lady cant dat a guy that is low to her age
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Hey warizo! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and it is up to you to make that decision. There is no rule that says you should not date someone lower or higher than you. You are the one to make that decision by yourself. We hope this helps
I want 2 have sex and am 15 should i? pls rely me
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Hey mimi! This is a personal decision and it is totally up to you to make that decision. Sex is personal and it is not dependent on your age. You have to be very sure that you are ready for the responsibilities that come with having sex. Some of these include getting pregnant, Sexually transmitted infections/diseases or even HIV etc. You need to be sure that if any of these come up, you and your partner are ready to handle the responsibilities. Another important thing to note is that if you must have sex, please and please, use a condom. We hope this helps
I have a boyfriend who care so much about me. He does many things for me that I never expect of him.... but I don't love him and I don't want to hurt him by breaking up. I do give him a kind of negative attitude sometimes but I'll later regret cus he might start weeping! Am just confuse here. please what do I do?????
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Hey Abbymoren! Thanks for the comment. Staying in a relationship with someone you do not love is worse than breaking up with that person. You are not only punishing the guy with the attitude but you are also deceiving him and yourself which is a lot of work. You need to politely end the relationship with him. Yes, he will be sad and heartbroken because he loves you but it is better to let him go than to keep hurting him. This is why you need to be sure of your feelings before you actually go into a relationship with that person so that there won't be issues like this. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps
i do av a boy i like but he kips avoiding mhe wen ever i try talking to him....... Sum of mha fwend say he z shy, is it true
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Hey kathryn! Thanks for the comment. It could be that he is shy. Have you tried talking to him about this? Ask him why he keeps avoiding you and don't forget to be polite whole asking him. We hope this helps
A girl has a boyfriend but there's another guy she's attracted to and despite their interest, the guy asked her out but she told him she'll be his friend and she's gonna give him feedback later about d relationship. She tried to conceal her true boyfriend by all means in order to accompany the innocent guy who truly loved her so much. All the girl's attitude towards the guy seemed positive as d innocent guy timidly proceeded to maintain and satisfy the girl with his true Love thinking he's going to get the girl, he never ask her once for kiss, hug or sex because he loved her as she desired. He even tried as a student to be responsible nd please her with his attention. She frequently accept gift from the guy and her boyfriend as well. A year later, the innocent guy oftentimes saw both of them together flirting around but he found it so much hard to accept their relationship, he overhead his friends about her boyfriend but still he didn't comply with their relationship. After a year and some month she do no longer hide her boyfriend anymore which had completely revealed to the innocent guy, he couldn't shy away any longer as he suffered a lot experiencing and seeing them together most times, then he decided to call the girl to know his stand one night, he explained everything abt how they meet nd probably asked her about the long time feedback. Knowingly, the girl replied she never knew she hadn't talked about her relationship ever with the guy and even the long time feedback. After all, she sincerely apologise for keeping him too long after all nd gave him simple hug as they departed. Please big sister, the guy(brokenhearted) his my friend I don't know the advice to give him and besides does he or the girl has any discourteous attitude?
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Hey Rachel! Thanks for the comment. We understand how painful and sad it can be but you need to let your friend know that everything happened for good. It is best to be heartbroken than to be with someone who will keep deceiving you or with someone that does not love you. It is sad, yes! However, the best thing to do is to try to occupy his mind with things that won't make him think of this girl. You can help him by keeping him busy with gists, he can focus on his hobby or even learn a new skill. Getting over someone is a thing of the mind so once your mind is busy thinking of other things, it is easy to get over the person. We hope this helps
hi big sis,there is this girl in my class (zinat) i love her and i can't tel her bcos i am a shy typ&its my first time
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Hey malik! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you need to be sure that what you feel for her is love and not a crush. The best way to know this is by getting close to her (being friends with her). Once you know her very well, it will be easy to know if it is love or just a crush. We hope this helps
big sis i now her cos we talk 2gether&i now its love g have 4 her
Hey malik! That's great to hear! Since you both are close, it will be easier for you to talk to her. You can stylishly start conversations with her about feelings or you can start complimenting her (if you don't do this already). Another thing you can do is to call, text or chat with her if you are so shy. We hope this helps
How can a girl prove her love to her own boyfriend??
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Hey 41! Love is personal and there is no manual on how to show someone love. You need to, first of all, be sure that you really love the person (be sure that it is not a crush). It is easier to show love to someone you have real feelings for. Also, you the fact that you love yourself does not mean that you should be another person. You need to be yourself and be original while still showing love. This should be an assignment for you... understand what love is, know your love language and your boyfriends love language, figure out the reasons why you are in that relationship and also what you want out of it. We hope this helps
Big sis pls i fell inlove wit1 guy in my class but d guy frnd wan 2 date me and guy iz datin my frnd and he told me he love me
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Hey ANNA! Thanks for the comment. First of all, this guy doesn't love you. He is only trying to take advantage of you. He is already in a relationship with someone else and no matter what he says, do not take him seriously. You deserve more than this. Please, do not settle for less and let him break your heart. He should focus on his relationship and leave you alone. Another thing, do not let this affect your relationship with your friend, she does not have anything to do with this, just let him know that you are not interested in him. We hope this helps
HI big sis, i being datin dis guy 4 2years na ,it ws when i ws 16y , he said lovies me i luv him 2 but it ws nt up 2mont we he ws askin 4 sex ,nd i hard no opption, i agree to x demand becox i ws afair of lose him i did'nt tel him i ws a vagine he discover letter , after our continous nober of sex i got pregant i told him , he told he ws not read , nd i 2 ws't read i removed it, we den continue , bet na am tired of d relationship wic i told him he x treatilling me, dat he will nt allow any order boy to take me ,dat he ws d one dis vagined me nd most b wit me till d end. ,,,,,nd he can do it nd am afraid i dont want nd na inluv wit someone he no's ......... big sis pls!!!!
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Hey STYLE! Thanks for opening up through this comment. We are so sorry about what you are going through right now. Please note that SEX IS NOT LOVE in any way. No one should ever force you to have sex with them or even love them. You are no longer interested in that relationship and that guy has no right to force you to stay. You need to tell him (and say it like you mean it) that you are no longer in love with him. You should also cut off communication with him and let a trusted adult know about this. We advise you to see a doctor and be sure that your body is okay. Finally, we think that you need to take your time before you get into another relationship. You need to know what you want in a boyfriend and also what you want out of every relationship. Do this before you even start dating the person so that you do not get into this again. Take your time. We hope this helps
I told a guy I was crushing on him..I didn't expect that he was crushing on me too.we aren't dating though but we are great friends because I don't think we are ready for a relationship at all.
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Hey omotoke! It is so great to know that you both are aware that you are not ready for a relationship and you are sticking to that. It is indeed amazing. Keep it up!
Big Sister there's this guy dat i met & dated 4 4yrs but the fourth yr he began behaving strange, when ever he cals me he dont end the cal with "i love u" like he used to b4; he hardly cal me in a day & when ever i become angry he would say "u are my everythng pls dont be angry" but he love repeating it. It has even gotten to the stage dat he dont care about me anymore & i stil love him. what should i do BIG SISTER
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Hey daina! Thanks for the comment. What you should do is to talk to him about it. Communication is very important in every relationship and he needs to know how you feel. Do not be rude or talk to him with anger, just sit down and let him know how you feel. We hope this helps
I havnt had sex for d first time in my life but i have a girlfrnd n she want me to spell it out before we have sex.........i dont know hw to open it up....nd sometimes she nag me by sayn. 'u r a gal nt a boy.....pls help me, i dont know hw to say it to her...
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Boo! We do not know what you mean by spelling it out but what you are going through right now is bullying. No one should force you or nag you to have sex when you are not ready for it. Sex is not love and it is definitely meant to be an agreement between 2 parties. Let her know that you are not going to compromise on this and no matter how much she nags, it will not make you change your mind. Please know that you a man for sticking to what you want and we are so proud of you. We hope this helps
Hello am new here , so here's the question please it's very urgent, there's this guy that as been my friend since ss2 cause i started attending the school around ss2 so later he told me he likes me but , he found out that i don't like him that i like someone else said he started insulting me and making my life miserable in ss3 , so later he asked for my forgiveness and i forgave him but because i continued with my relationship with d other guy so he began to spoil my image in front of everyone and manipulating me , which made me feel bad . So his friends told me that he loves me [let me put it in that way] but i don't like his in that way again. Please is this obsession or what those he feel cause i don't understand. Please answer me it's important cause now he as started to act friendly.
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay in replying your comment. First of all, that guy is not mature. A mature guy will not for any reason insult you or tarnish your image because you do not love him back. Love is not by force and it is best to let go (even though it can be painful). We do not advise you to take him back in since he has misused every chance you gave him in the past. You deserve better than this guy and he really does not deserve your friendship because he may misuse it again. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
Big sis.when i hav a cut in school helped me,4rm den he visit 2 no how i was i told my mum abt him she didt say anytin
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so he is always around 2 make me happy nd u notice any change even when my period comes up but we 2 are not yet ready
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Hi big sis m new here Der is dis guy i love so much,,he asked me out his self ,,he told me dat he is a playboy dat it only me he love,,he always tells me he love me ,which i do too,,but i dnt trust him,,wat should i do
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey victoria! Thanks for the comment. The signs are very obvious and there is no need for you to be in a relationship that you are happy about. Girl, he already told you that he is a playboy and that is first sign for you run for your life! You also do not trust him so there is no need for you to go ahead with a relationship that you do not trust. There will be a lot of headaches if you go ahead with this relationship. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
Big sister am in love wit sum1 nd i dnt no maybe he love me i giv him al wot he want but instead 2 appriciate he always angry wit me an am fed up nd he stil tel me he luv me
March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.
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Hey Ajoke! Thanks for the comment. You need to talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and how he treats you too. Do not keep quiet about this. It is his reaction that will determine what step you should take next. We hope this helps
so much likes, i know some are fake but some look so real, and it's me confused
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Fernanda! Thanks for the comment. You need to know what you want for yourself first before you start to choose who likes you or not. When you know what you want in a guy, it will be very easy for you to choose and know which guy is genuine. Work on yourself first before you can work with another person. We hope this helps
Yh u r rite abt dat 1 Fernanda
I have a boyfriend right now buh he doesn't even show any sign he likes me buh he asked me out himself although hes shy...I dont know wat to do cause our vibe is dying
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. It is obvious that you both have different expectations for relationships. You need to talk to him about how you feel and what is going on in your head. Keeping quiet is never the way out. One quick question we have for you is Do you even like this guy or did you say yes to him because he asked you out? Please answer this question and be honest with yourself. We hope this helps
hi big sister...I met a guy on WhatsApp and he asked me out which I didn't accept because I met him on social media but with pleading I accepted on condition on meeting him and we met physically after 7 months of online dating... before I met him physically he changed attitude towards me and when I met physically he treated me wella but after we depart he changed again,he doesn't pick my calls and whenever I told him I would like to see him he would tell me he is busy and also he denied knowing me to my friends and stil yet he do tell me he loves me whenever i tried telling him about what he is doing to me....did he really love me or what because I don't understand..and I love him so much please I need urgent reply
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey jaybee! Thanks for the comment. We cannot say if he likes you or not. This is one of the challenges that come with dating someone you met online. You can never be sure of how they really feel towards you. They always keep you guessing. This is why we do not endorse online dating on Springster. A lot of people hide and lie behind this just to deceive girls. You need to be careful and also know what you want for yourself. The final decision is up to you to make. We hope this helps
Big sis,i'm head over heels for a guy,i met last year,his attitude shows he love me.but he haven't ask me out yet,i'm really confused
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Patricia! Thanks for the comment. If you are bold enough, you can go ahead and ask him how he feels about you. Assuming that he loves you based on his attitude is not the right thing to do because assumptions can be wrong too. Talking solves a lot of things. We hope this helps
Elo big sis am new here pls how can i knw if a gal loves me
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Max! Thanks for the comment. We have given you tips on how to know a guy loves you in the article. Please read the article and learn from it. We hope this helps
hello big sis im new here i love a guy but i dont no if he loves me pls can i no if he loves me
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Mimmy! You need to be sure that what you feel for him is really love and not lust. We have given you tips in the article that answers your question. Please read the article and learn from it. The answer to your question is there. We hope this helps
I WANT TO KNOW HOW TO LOVE SOMEONE
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey AJA! Thanks for the comment. We cannot teach you how to love. Love is personal and it cannot be taught. You have to, first of all, learn to love yourself before you can start loving yourself. We hope this helps
helo big sis there is this girl iam engaged to anytime i stay around her she seems to be calling someone else nd if i dont stay close she complains........... i want to know is this love or lost
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey 31419! Thanks for the comment. We do not understand your question at all. Please explain what you mean by she calling someone. We hope this helps
Hello big sis I have a friend (a boy) he likes calling me everyday, we also chat , and he likes seeing me everyday and I like him too, now u see am always found of him there are times we hugged each other deeply and one day he kissed me and I responded and with all this things happening he has never told me I love you pls what should I do?? He is 23 and I am 18
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Amie! Thanks for the comment. You both need to talk about it. Since you both are friends, it will be easy to have this conversation. You need to ask him about his plans and what he feels towards you. Keeping quiet will not help or solve anything but talking about it will at least help you know what the next step will be. We hope this helps
big sis i proposed to a girl and she accept my proposer but i dont no yy she seems to be a jelous type..... if i play with any girl she pick offence big sis i need ur advice
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey brown! Thanks for the comment. It's good that you now know what she likes and what she doesn't like. So it is now up to you to know how to handle it. Everyone is different and she is not the type to tolerate such. If she finds it disrespectful that you are playing with other girls, then you should learn how to handle the other girls so that your girlfriend doesn't get offended. Let her feel special and also know that she is your number one. You should also watch the type of "play" you do with the other girls. Being in a relationship comes with responsibilities and this is one of them. You need to be mature enough to handle these responsibilities. We hope this helps
tnks big sis u are the best
she shld'nt be ur number1 bt ur only1. i hope this helps
Hey! Big sister i am 17 years old.......Am i free to be in a relationship
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Hey Lizzy170! There is no particular age that is appropriate for you to go into a relationship. Relationships come with lots of responsibilities and you have to be mature enough to handle them before going into one. Also, you must know what you want for yourself and for your relationship before you even think of dating. So you see that it has nothing to do with age. We hope this helps
Am dating a guy an am 20 yrs, d guy want 2 hv sex wit me an am nt ready
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey adedoyin! Thanks for the comment. If you are not ready for sex, then no one should force you or make you have sex with them. Sex is not love and you should only have sex when you are ready for it. Since you are not ready for it, you should tell him and if he really loves you like he claims, he will respect your decision. If he cannot wait, then he doesn't deserve you. We hope this helps
wat us different between crush and love
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Figo! Thanks for the comment. We have written an article that answers this question. It is called "Crush vs Love: Know the difference". Please search for it and read it. We hope this helps
am 16 n my bf is 17 n hes a sex maniac n wants to force me to hav sex wit him wich i dont want to do n dont even want to hear him mentionin it but i really lov him n cant lose him pls help
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey favour! Thanks for the comment. First of all, sex is not love. If your boyfriend wants to force you to have sex with him then you really should run from that relationship because you are not safe there. Sex is not by force and should not be forced on someone else. Please, he is worth losing and this is for your own safety and sanity. You are not ready for sex, tell him and let him know this and then he should respect that decision. We hope this helps
big sis i love a boy but i have feelings for the other boy who i always see in my day dreaming
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey love! Thanks for the comment. You need to be sure that you really love the boy. What is love and why do you feel like you love this guy in question? You need to first figure out why you love the guy in the first place and then also find out why you keep thinking of the other guy. We hope this helps
Hello big sis! I met a guy at my school recently and became friends. I've gradually started to like him and he also tells me that he likes me too. Although I really like him but I don't think I would accept to date him if he asked for... well, big sis, I know that he loves me and even attempted to tell me but I stopped him, telling him to change the topic cuz I feel a little bit nervous. i like him! I like his company, I like everything about him but I don't know if I do love him or not. I'm just 15. Please tell me what to do Big Sis...
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Hey ilham! Thanks for the comment. We cannot tell you what to do because you know what you want for yourself. You are in the best position to choose what you want. Just be sure that you do not allow your emotions to influence your decision. We hope this helps
I have experiences about some girls making advances to me. But different girls. I don't know why, I don't doubt the fact am handsome. I don't know why, there pressure is becoming too much. What can I do?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Haywhydavid9! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you need to calm down and do not work yourself up. You are handsome but you need to first believe it. Do not let all these things or people pressure you. You need to believe in yourself and know what you want for yourself first. If you fall for this pressure, you may end up making a mistake and this will not be healthy for you. Tell them you are not interested and then take out time to know what you want in a partner and in a relationship. This will help to guide you. We hope this helps
I dont really know if he likes me anymore. We have been dating for a year and 4 months now.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Favourite! Thanks for the comment. Have you tried talking to him about this? Before you do, please read the story "Does he like you" and use the points there to judge this issue but you have to promise yourself that you won't be biased in this. Also, you should have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel. We hope this helps
Hi big sister, I need your advice.. I was actually crush on a guy before but in my mind I thought I stopped crushing on him.. I actually heard him talking to his girlfriend and I was jealous.. Please big sister am I still crushing on him?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Anonymous_d! Thanks for the comment. You are in the best position to know if you are still crushing on a particular person. But please note that crushes tend to die after a short time so it is normal for you to stop having feelings for him. The jealousy part is something you need to work on so that you do not get bitter for no reason. It is a good thing you know that he has a girlfriend so it is easy for you to let him go. We hope this helps
Hi sis, i am crushing on a guy but i doesn't know if he likes me in return.Although he always stare at me when he thinks i am not looking but he has a girlfriend already. I NEED YOUR ADVICE
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. We advise you to read the article above because it answers all your questions. We hope this helps
There are two guys who are in love with me and they told me already The problem is i like one of them but i don't want to hurt the other one. I don't know what to do? Pls help.
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Emmybae! The best way to not hurt the other one is to tell him that you are not interested in the relationship at all. Keeping him in the dark is hurting him even more. The longer you keep hiding this from him, the more you are hurting him. We hope this helps
Hy big sis, There is a guy am crushing on and am not sure he loves me. What can I do?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Po7_si! Thanks for the comment. Do nothing about it. It is just a crush and it will fade after a while. Having a crush on a guy does not mean that they are automatically meant to like you back. Just let the feeling fade, there's no need to trigger something that won't last. We hope this helps
What will i do to win my gal's heart back
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Chuddy! This is a personal thing. First of all, you have to find out what happened that made her take her heart from you. Once you figure this out, it will be easy to address this issue. Also, you know your girlfriend well so you should know what to do to make her happy. We hope this helps
i av been dating a guy 4d past 2years nw,though i love him bt he dint care abt me alway ignoring me nd each time we met he hardly speak a word wit me nd if i try 2 break d silence he wil shout on me 2leave him.pls wat should i do?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey FOCUZX! Thanks for the comment. You both need to talk about this. Communication is very important in relationships. We hope this helps
How can you know a guy loves you without asking you out?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Mayan! Thanks for the comment. You can know through the tips we have given in the article. We hope this helps
I asked a girl out but she said she's not interested what will I do am madly in love with her
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Phidel! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing you can do about that as she has already said she is not interested. We understand that it can hurt but the truth is that you cannot force her or make her interested. We hope this helps
Pls guyz i need ur advice, i lve my bf so much bt he hardly call me on phone pls i wnt 2 knw whether he loves me bak
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Have you talked to him about this? If you haven't, you should. Communication is very important in a relationship. Tell him about this and you both should talk it out. We hope this helps
i ask a girl out but she refuse what will i do and am diply in love with her
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey kellydino! Thanks for the comment. Do nothing about it. You cannot force a girl to love you. The fact that you love her does not mean that she must automatically love you back. That is not the way love works. We advise that you let her go and also move on. It can be hard but that is the best thing to do. We hope this helps
Big sista d guy has done all d things in dis article, dere r some things I do tell him, thinking dat he will forget about them, later on he will b d one to ask abt it
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Pretty_val_32! Maybe he likes you. We advise that you get to know him better. Also, you need to be sure of what you feel about him too. He is not the only one that should like you. It should be a 2-way thing. We hope this helps
I lyk him too
Nice one I have a boy that I feel he likes me anytime I go to fetch water he always help me he watch movies with me play video games with me discuss private with me anytime he sees me he just look at me in the eyes and smile winsomely and he changed my name to Pretty
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Hey chrissie! Thanks for the comment. He may or he may not like you, we are not sure but the question we have to ask you is Do you like him? or are you just comfortable with the way he treats you? You need to figure this out and know this for a fact so that you know how to manage the situation. Take time to think about it and do not be biased when doing this. We hope this helps
Big sis am crushing on him and I like him but I don't want him to know about it. Is that okay?
A boy claims he loves u,introduce u 2 all hz frnds and some of hz family member bt wen u ask him 4 help of any kind he wil neva do it nt dat he dont hv it bt out of stingness.Is dat love ?bip sis i need an ansa
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Hey Joybest! Thanks for the comment. First of all, do you love this boy or are you with him because of what you stand to gain from him? Honestly, it is not his responsibility to give you anything if he doesn't want to. Being in a relationship should not make you entitled. Nobody owes you anything and you should not call anyone stingy because they have refused to give you what you want. Have you ever bothered to ask him how he copes? Or have you asked him if he needs help himself? Love is not materialistic and you really need to go back to redefine love. We hope this helps
I lyk him too, my frnds md his frnds do say he is going crazy forme
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
hello am a lonely girl and i need guy wat should do
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey wumi! Thanks for the comment. You need to overcome that loneliness before you get a guy because you will eventually depend on that guy to keep you sane and happy. Wumi, you need to learn to enjoy your own company a lot before you get into a relationship. A boyfriend is not the solution to not being lonely. We hope this helps
my boyfriend likes sex but I don't like. should I be force to like it
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey progress! Thanks for the comment. You should not be forced to like sex because your boyfriend likes it. If you do not like it, it is perfectly fine! You have a right to not like certain things because you are human and it is normal. Do not force a change that is not meant to be because of a guy especially when it has to do with your body. This is you and you should not change it for anyone. Not everyone is meant to like sex. We hope this helps
I love a guy but d guy briefer playing with other girl not me. I feel jealous anytime I see dem is it right
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
hello big sis any time i see any guy i will feel lyk hving sex wit him
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey wumi! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing wrong with having the urge for sex especially with someone you are attracted to. You are naturally attracted to the opposite sex and this is not wrong. However, it is what you do with that urge that matters. This does not mean that you should want to have sex with every guy you see. We hope this helps
wat cn i do
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I need some advise any time I see the person I like I don't have the confidence approach her big sister what should I do
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Hey Aface! Thanks for the comment. This happens to a lot of people so do not be afraid. You need to learn to boost your confidence. Also, before you go talking to the person about feelings, you should be friends with the person first. Get to know her better and smile more. You also need to use this opportunity to know if what you feel for her is love or just a crush. We hope this helps
hello sis y is that when gv a girl love my life and my everytin and later on the girl wil later break up wit me y y y am tired of everytin
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey victor! Thanks for the comment. We understand how you feel and we know that it hurts a lot. The truth is that not all girls are the same. Also, you need to take time to know what it is that you want from a partner and also in a relationship too. It can hurt a lot but you need to take it easy on yourself. We hope this helps
The thing is that I love a pastor son but he is not in nigeria I only see him online and I can't bring my self to tell him I like him
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey vicky! Thanks for the comment. You do not love your pastor's son, you have a crush on him. You cannot love someone you do not know on a personal level and crush is not love. Please, do not mix this up. With crushes, the feelings will fade after a short time so do not bother starting an online relationship you just have a crush on. We hope this helps
Thankeeeeeee Big sister any time I see him am just so happy.But thanks for your sweet advice love ya.
Hey big sister there is dis boy who is actually my friends cousin ever since the first time we met each other it has been an epitome of love story m not dating him but then he values n cherishes me if we fight he come down to our house willing to go down on knees n apologize even tho m at fault, all dis trait makes me like him more he is always on my mind I don't how m gonna think less about him help me out big sis I shouldn't be thinking about boys at this age so many things ahead of me
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Hey Gbemmy! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision for you to make. You need to think about it properly and make a decision. We hope this helps
Hi big sis There is dis guy who as been on neck since my year one in secondary school, i rejected him so many times bt he is not backing out What shud i do
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey favorite168! Thanks for the comment. The fact that someone is pressuring you into a relationship does not mean that you should say yes to them. Please girl, never date a guy out of pity. We hope this helps
hey big sis i love a girl is my friend sister anytime i try to tell her, she alway avoid me pls what should i do
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey UNSTOPPABLE! Thanks for the comment. What makes you so sure that you love her. Are you sure that you are not mistaking crush for love? You should not just jump to tell a girl that you love her. Love is very deep and much more than what we usually say. You need to get to know her better. Know whether you like her on her bad days as much as you like her when you see her. And if she says NO or keeps avoiding you, there is really nothing much you can do about that. You cannot force someone to love you. We hope this helps
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Hey,I love a girl,I care a lot about her, talk to her,crack jokes,make her laugh,do good things but I couldn't tell her my feelings but she told me she isn't ready yet but when she is in her 20's then she will date but for now she toke me as her best friend, do you think she love me? Or she noticed I loved her ?
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Hey Shady! We cannot say if she loves you or not. What we know from what you just told us is that she is not ready for a relationship yet so we advise you to respect that. That is the most important thing right now. Do not put her under pressure because if she decides to open up and let you know how she feels right now, it won't change the fact that she is not ready for a relationship yet. We hope this helps
Hello big sis; am new here. hope i'm welcomed?
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hi bigsis am new here am i wellcome in?
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Big sis, am having a big problem, to many guyz are after me and i tought d best way 2 make dem just friend x 2 tel dem 2 take me as der sista pls big sis am i doin d wrong tin
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Jumix! Thanks for the comment. The best thing to do is to tell them you are not interested in a relationship with them. There is no need trying to friendzone them without them knowing that you are not interested in them. Some of them will misinterpret it and still come after you. Doing this does not make you a bad person but a more confident person. We hope this helps
big sis,my bf likes me too much he buys me anytin i want ..bt he said he wants to kiss me.what should i do
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey ifuu! Thanks for the comment. If you do not want to kiss him, DO NOT KISS HIM. Do not allow him to try to buy your love. You own your body and you have a right to say NO even when you do not want a certain thing. We hope this helps
hey bigsis i am in year 4.theres this guy who told my friends he likes me,he has been my crush through out year 1-3.he even wanted to change his course to be similar to mine but i told him not to.everyone knew he liked me cause he ispopular.and i am not even pretty.he talks to me on facebook mainly telling me he loves me and indirectly asking me to date him.i refused.he was not mad.later on we had a fight and i blocked him on facebook.he apologised through my friends cause i ignored him.all these happened in year 3.presently in year 4,he rarely talks to but flirts with my bestfriend and other girls in my presence.he ignores me completely.and i think he is dating a girl.i am 40% jealous.did he really love me or was it just a crush?.did i hurt him?i have read your article on crush vs love so please dont refer me there.pls help
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. No, we are not referring you to another article. First of all, you do not have a right to be jealous because you disconnected the friendship by yourself. Secondly, it is very possible that he loved you but you did not appreciate him and when you both quarrelled, you chose not to forgive him and so he moved on. Moving on is not a crime. In all, this guy should not be blamed at all. We hope this helps
I nid an advice my bf changed suddenly in a negative way and its been hurting me and trying to forget and over look it bt it not working it becomes worse. ..pls wat can I do?becose I don't want a break up
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
Is it gud 2 have a bf
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yes it is good only when you are mature to handle the relationship
Hey Debby! Thanks for the comment. Having a boyfriend is a personal decision. You should not be asking about this. You have to be mature and ready for it. Relationships come with lots of responsibility and you have to be ready for it. We hope this helps
I love a guy and I dont know if he loves me and I cant talk to him because hes not my classmate wat should I do am going crazy
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start by making eye contact wiff him, if he looks back or smile at you. Then u may approach him
Hey diamond! First of all, you do not love this guy, you only have a crush on him. If you do not talk to him then what exactly do you love about him? You cannot love someone you do not know personally. This is just a crush and crush is not love. Please read the story "Crush vs Love: Know The Difference". It will help you understand the difference. We hope this helps
big sis am confused. i sent my girlfriend a text message but it was her mom who received it. now her mom is querying her, what can i do ?
March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.
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Hey olabisi! Thanks for the comment. There is nothing much you can do because you do not want to make things worse for her. Try to chill and then later find out from her if she got into trouble or not. Do not do too much to avoid putting her in more trouble. We hope this helps
Big sis, i only love a girl and she knows that, but I can't recognized whether she loves me or not......?
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Hey yaimam! You need to be sure that you really love her and it is not a crush. When you confirm this, we advise you to read the article and then look at it from a guy-girl situation) instead of looking at it the way it was written for girls. It applies to both parties. We hope this helps
big sis nd any body present please diffrentiate between Crush and Love it really confusing
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. We have written an article on this topic. Please search for the story "Crush vs Love: Know The Difference". We hope this helps
Am Im A Complicated Relationship,help Me Big Sis
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What happened may be I can help
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Over five years now that am in love with someone without telling her my feeling, just because i am shy to express my feeling. Big Sis how can I go about it
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Hey Sambo! Thanks for the comment. You should first of all be friends with her and then get to know her before you can claim that you love her. You cannot love someone you do not know on a personal note. Say hi to her first, get talking and then from there, you will know if you truly love her or not. We hope this helps
Hi sambo your own no be crush na love be that for me oh for 5 years e no fade off are you serious please I advice you to tell the girl make she know say you like her than to dey hide your feelings abeg bros just gather your mind to her no dey shy you here go God go help you my friend.
Hi big sis I love a guy but I noticed he always stares at me sometimes and I,don't know if he love me too please help
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Hey Gabriela! Thanks for the comment. The first thing you need to know is that you should do is to know if you truly love this guy because you cannot love someone you do not know on a personal note. You should get to know him better by being just friends with him first. We hope this helps
big sis i have been in a relationship over some years now , i love the guy so much same with him also ,but sunddenly his behavior changed and i dnt lyk it ..............so sis wat shud i do
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. If you have a problem with the way your boyfriend behaves, you should talk to him about it. Communication is very important in a relationship and you should be able to express how you feel to your partner. We hope this helps
Big Sis This My First Comment So Pls Reply,i Have This Boy In My School,though He Looks At Me,hold Me ,help Me But Sometimes He Is Annoying, but If I Really Need Help he Is There For Me But Sometimes Annoying And If I Tell Him Dat He Would Try To Look For A Way To Make Me Happy But Nt Angry,once He Suggested We Go To A Valantine Party Together But I Said No,i Really Like Him,do He Like Me Or Shuld I Forget About Him?
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Hey Hangal! Thanks for the comment and welcome to Springster. This is a personal decision and it is up to you to make but before you do, you need to know that you are also annoying in certain ways but he does not rub it in your face. No one is perfect and it seems like you are looking for someone that is perfect. You also need to know that relationships are for mature people and you need to be mentally, emotionally and even physically ready to be in a relationship. We hope this helps
I See Ur Point Big Sis
Big Sis Sori For D Disturb,my Best Frend Lyks My Brother Who Is One Yr Older Than Her,so She Told Him But He Did Nt Reply Her,but He Told Me He Is Using Her Nd I Dnt Wanna Hurt Her Feelings Or Lose Her ,wht Shuld I Do?
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Hey Hangal! If you are scared of losing her or hurting her, the best thing for you to do is to tell her about it. You should also talk to your brother and let him know that what he wants to do is wrong and he should not do that to anyone talkless of your own best friend. We hope this helps
Sistr, am interested to love one girl in my village, 24hrs we are together so one day when i tell him am very interested to love him so till day u can be my proposa. so when i tell him every thing she is silent on m up to now she did not taik anything to me. please how do i do, pls gve advice???
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Hey Busu! Thanks for the comment. We advise you to give her time. There is really nothing much you can do about this neither can you force her to say yes to you too. We hope this helps
Thanks Big sister am very apprieciate your so much may god blas u 100%
big sis am new here
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big sis I am in love with my Best friend but I cannot tell him why but if I see him with another girl I feel jealous why
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Hey ana! Thanks for the comment. It is normal to feel jealous when you see someone you love with another but it is what you do that matters more. He obviously does not know that you love him. Also, you need to know that the fact that you love someone does not mean that they will automatically love you too. We hope this helps
I thought I had a crush on a particular boy until recently. I knew I just admired his looks. I have a crush on another boy but I am confused most of the time if he really likes me. Sometimes I feel he likes me but other times ,I don't know what I think he feels for me. How can I know if he truly likes me or not
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Hey Honeydrops! Thanks for the comment. You need to know that crushed do not last long and just like the first one, this one will fade after a short time. To know if he likes you, please read the article above. All the signs you need are there. We hope this helps
big sis,there's dis girl,i crushed so much,we always talk each tim we c eic oda,she ask me if i had a girlfrnd,i said no,but i can mak her mine if she is interest,she blusted & ran away,i ask herout & since den she stp pckin my cllz,de lst tym,i called her,dat i should send cridit card 4her den she wll reply me,eversince she did't giv me a call,i lockedup too! 4ova 1 week she flashed me i did't respond till date pls wat should i do ova diz case
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Hey Gizzmo! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and it is up to you to make. You need to know what it is that you want because first of all, crush is not love. What do you want for yourself? What do you want in a relationship? What do you want in a partner? These are very important questions you need to ask yourself and answer them honestly. We hope this helps
big sister how you Tell a boy you don't like him because he is over aggressive and don't have any manner of approach and rude.
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Hey jbaby005! Thanks for the comment. You should politely tell them that you are not interested in them. If they still insist, you should cut off every form of communication with them and also talk to a trusted adult about it. We hope this helps
hi am new here i. am wondering let say a boy u like and u nd him are in the same class nd he always pay attion on u tize u deos he also like u/love u
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. The fact that a guy pays attention to you does not mean that he has a crush on you neither does it mean that he loves you. Please read the story above to understand the difference. We hope this helps
i meant him and u are in the same class
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i dnt know how to date a guy if eventualy i date one i hardly give him attention i need ur help
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Hey Beauty! Like we said in the other articles you commented on, you are not ready for a relationship and you really need to take your time. Do not be in a hurry. We hope this helps
hloo everyone i am new here.... pls how do i view replies to my comment?
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There was this girl, I always feels and like everything about her. I compliment her and she does the same thing to me. She share my pictures to her friends, I do the same thing for her. But when I ask her for her contact,she refused to give me that she don't have sim card and she uses phone I always see her making calls. What can I do?
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maybe she sees u just as a friend, that was I cal friend zone... or she has no romantic feelings for....am also facing d same issue with u....we can gist our self if you want
Hey oformat, I am really looking for a companion to hold unto it. if u can understand me ur location is very important to me.
we can share our fb names.... if you want...
yeah here is my fb name Vakude Ngunji EL-LADINO
EL-LADINO NGUNJI still also my fb name. waiting for your own.
Hey EL-LADEEEEE and oformat! Requesting and sharing personal information is not allowed on this platform. Please be warned. If we notice that you share your personal information on this platform again, we may have to remove you from this page. Please be warned. Thanks
Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. It is obvious that she does not want to give you her number. This is her personal decision and you cannot do anything about it. Don't just force it. That's how she wants it and you should leave it that way. We hope this helps
I have a girlfriend but she dosent reciprocate my love. Does it mean she dosent love me
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Hey nobleman! People love differently and so you should not expect her to love you the way she loves you. Tell her what you like and how you want to be loved. We hope this helps
hello yea i have a girl in social media so i want her to he my grl but where ever i ask her about her contact she will not reply again so what other way shounld i try to get her.
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Hey sam! Thanks for the comment. She is obviously not interested. If she ignores you when you ask for her contact then it means she does not want to share her contact with you. There is no other way to get her as it is obvious that she is not interested. Do not try to force it. We hope this helps
is anything wrong with sharing french kisses with a bf of 16 am 15
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and it is up to you to make. We hope this helps
pls my bf says he loves me buh i dnt love him at all.How do I tell him or should I breakup???
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. We advise that you let him know how you feel instead of making him feel that you still like him. Just let him know how you feel. We hope this helps
their i like before we dnt date i just ask him to wait not now,he dnt call or even send hi on facebook when i tell him start saying sorry
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. Have you tried calling him yourself? Sometimes, you need to also make the sacrifice to call and keep in touch. It is not the responsibility of the guy to keep in touch. We hope this helps
Pls ma I love one boy call Kenneth bt all what I think is that he love me back until one day he asked that did I want him to propose to me, pls if truly he loves me did he supposed to ask that question
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Hey Hannah! Thanks for the comment. This is different for everyone. Like we said in the other article where you made this same comment. This is different for everyone and you need to decide if you like this or not. You need to be sure of what you feel about him and be sure that this is really love and not just a crush. We hope this helps
Big sister, there is a guy, my classmate. when we were in school we weren't friendly though we were in the same section. After our waec we became friends on facebook. Since then we remain friends, n i'm not close to an any other guy as i did to him. but my challenge now is that; I'm d only one that always call, help out financially, etc he always appreciate it, Some time i share my secret, he will only tell me small that's when we are online. so one day he ask me I'M I ALL THAT REAL TO YOU? I was scared, I requested for the reason he ask, he said i'm acted more than a friend! Should i continue in a friendship like this?
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Hey Amiable! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and you need to make up your mind on what you want to do with the friendship. The truth is that if you are not happy about a certain thing or the way your friend treats you (e.g. not calling or opening up), you need to let him know. Keeping quiet doesn't help, it has never helped anyone. The earlier you start telling him, the better . This will help him understand how you feel about issues like this. We hope this helps
I like your ideas Big sister. I have act the way u instructed me, He said he is sorry, due to financial problem make him not to be calling. More than 2yearz now we haven't meet. From the ideas u gave me, i believed i should continue, Thanks for your reply
Big sister,wat if you love someone but the person is far away from you..wat should I do
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Hey 111111! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision, love is a personal decision and long distance relationship requires a lot of work. You both need to make up your mind and be determined to make it work. We hope this helps
big sister i loved a guy wholehearthedly buh he broke my heart....nd left me for 8 months nw and he z begin me 2 date him bak that he wmt do such again i cant date gm anymore buh i find it difficult to love my new boyfriend d way i loved him
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Hey HAD! Thanks for the comment. It happens when you never loved the guy but rather, you chose to date him so that he can be a distraction for you to get over the heart break. Also, people and relationships are different. You should not try to love your boyfriend the same way you loved your ex. You need to find his love language and love him according to it. Also, evaluate the reasons why you are dating him so that we all know if you are in this for real or not. Going back to your ex is not an option and you need to let him know this. We hope this helps
am having love fillings towards a girl and i use to text her message but she don't use to reply she always complain of not having airtime no her phone,please i need an advice
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Hey AYO! Thanks for the comment. What if she really does not have airtime on her phone to reply you? It could be true you know. Also, you cannot love someone you do not know so the feelings you feel for her right now is not love but a crush. Get to know her better (and this cannot be done through text message) before you start talking about love or a relationship. This is what you should do. We hope this helps
just send her airtime first
Pls i need advice..am 28 years this month and am in my final year i.e hnd3..there is this girls am dating and we both love each other..she has vow never to leave me..though i really love her but the problem is that she is 20yrs of age and she is preparing for OAU postutme this year..pls is it advisable for me to keep dating her even if she is given admission..is it possible to wait till she finishes school according to my present age..thanks
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Hey kp! Thanks for the comment. We cannot answer these questions for you because they are personan. We cannot tell you if you can wait or not, you are the one in the position to know if you can. You need to sit down and think things through properly before making a decision. We hope this helps
Der is a boy dat am suspectin 2 lyk me buh am nt fuly sure he always tels me 2 express my feelins buh i can't bcos i have a crush on him nd am also shy Big sister pls should i maybe wen i do so he would also express his feelings
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Hey Viccky! Thanks for the comment. First of all, what you feel for this guy is a crush and as you know, crushes don't last for long. If you express your feelings to him, what will happen when you no longer feel the way you feel? Take your time and get to know him better so that you do not do something you may regret later. We hope this helps
Please I love a girl but her friends have crush on me. One even do care a lot for me that people even says we are dating. The girl I have crush for has even told her twin brother which is even my friend that she loves me. But I also want to date but thinking about her friends most especially the one that care a lot. Help me.
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Hey YhungL12! Thanks for the comment. You cannot love someone you do not know. You do not even seem like you are sure of it is love or a crush. She also is not even sure of what she feels for you. Love is deep and it is also a big deal. The only way people will assume that you are dating someone is if you both act and treat each other in a certain way. This means that you are also showing her friend some affection. You have so many ladies around you and it could be that you do not even love any of them. You need to give yourself space from all these girls to figure out what you want for yourself and also in a partner to avoid making huge mistakes. We hope this helps
i support wat big sis have said
I have crush on a girl but i didn't tell i like her and she also can'nt do without me,she alsways like to be seeing me and also like to go out with me.everybody in our area thinks we are dating.how do i expres my feellings to her?
Maybe u are too handsome.Now jokes apart,if u really love dat girl u would find a way to let her know,and about her frnds if u don't like her frnds den just forget about dem or try to avoid or ignore dem and focus on d one u love.
Hy big sis,there's dis guy that likes me for 2years now nd have been disturbing me tough i told him i need tyme to gt to know him bt hes still bothering mend i dnt like him the truth is dat am nt ready to go into any relationship now cause am scared pls i dnt an advise
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Hey Fearlessnicky01! Thanks for the comment. You need to let him know that you are not ready to get into a relationship. You need to say it like you mean it because if you don't, he will keep disturbing you. If he doesn't stop, then you need to cut off communication with him. You do not have to say Yes because someone is disturbing you or has been disturbing you for 2 years. The decision to go into a relationship is yours to make so do not let someone pressure you into one. We hope this helps
There is this guy I have feelings for but I'm not sure if I have a crush on him or I like him. How do I know? I'm also afraid that if it's a crush, when it expires I'll end up hurting him because according to him, he loves me. What do I do?
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Hey Sweetie! Thanks for the comment. There's an article we wrote titled "Love vs Crush: Know The Difference". This article helps you know the difference and also makes you understand what it is that you feel. We advise that you read it to be sure of how you feel. As regards what to do, it is obvious that you are not sure of how you feel and also what you want so it is best for you not to do anything until you are sure. We hope this helps
Yes, it helps. Thank you.
I have crush on a girl but i did'nt tell her i like her,she always like to b seeing me and also like going out with me,so everybody in my area think we are dating.how will i do?
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Mkdewo you said it's a crush in no time it will fade away don't worry you guys should just keep on becoming best of friends.
Hey Mkdewo! Thanks for the comment. Jbaby has said it all. Crushes do not last for long and after a while, so there is no need to start anything serious based on a crush. We hope this helps
But i do think and even had dream with her.didnt i like?
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Hi am new here
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How old re u
Big sis what if the boy is a player and i like what will i do
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Hey Treasure! Thanks for the comment. If the boy is a player then it is not even an option because he will play you and move on to the next person. You are too precious to be played with girl, do not settle for less. Keep your standards high and let it stay that way. We hope this helps
big sis. plz help me out. I love a guy like DAT. N I know he loves me. but am too shy to talk to him.
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Hey surprise! Thanks for the comment. You do not love this guy because it sounds like a crush based on the fact that you are too shy to talk to him. This means that you do not know him well enough to even love him. We hope this helps
Big sis there is this boy I love but he always tell me he loves me but I never tell him how I feel because am not ready for a relationship but I think he is getting tired of waiting and my mind already tell me i lost him so please what should I do.
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Hey Pressy! Thanks for the comment. If you are not ready for a relationship, no one should pressure you into going into one. You can tell him that you like him (because love is really too deep and more than what you call it) but you are not ready to go into a relationship. He should respect this because it is your decision to make. We hope this helps
big sis in my clasds two boys are asking me out and dey are really geting to my nerve plz advice me
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Hey soni! Thanks for the comment. We understand how you feel. You need to tell both of them that you are not interested in them. Be reminded that you should be polite about this too. We hope this helps
big sis i had a boyfriend and i loved him very much he usually calls me bcos he dosent stay close to where i stay so one day he called and say i dnt call etc nd i dnt hv credit to call him nd i love him since den he hasnt called me plz advice me
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Hey soni! Thanks for the comment. He only wants to see some effort from you too. The fact that you are in a relationship does not mean that the guy has to do all the calling. This is one of the responsibilities that come with being in a relationship. You need to put the effort in. If you cannot call, chat or send an sms but you cannot and should not leave that responsibility to him alone. We hope this helps
people say love is blind that's true cause when you are really in love you Will because emotional blind for you pattern.
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even if he does something bad u would always support him.
I aggre. Even if he is wrong u will always support him. Smtyms I wonder coz its happened 2 me b4. Is it our hormones @ wrk:-(
Plzzz is it our hormones @ work in dis mata?
The is this boy in my area he very kind, honest etc. We,ve been friends for 2yers but i do not know wat is with me when am with he i fell shy to talk, i find myself breathing heavy, my heart bits fast.i think of him at night pls help me am confuesed.
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Bby 2 tell u d gospel truth u hv a crush on d guy already.
Hey Mek! Thanks for the comment. You obviously like him but we cannot confirm is this is love because there is more involved in love than breathing heavily and feeling shy. You need to get to know this guy very well (I mean, well enough) and if you are shy to talk around him then it is going to be hard to achieve that. You need to talk to him more to know him better. We hope this helps
The is this boy in my area he very kind, honest etc. We,ve been friends for 2yers but i do not know wat is with me when am with he i fell shy to talk, i find myself breathing heavy, my heart bits fast.i think of him at night pls help me am confuesed.
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is he so big to you?? check,if no share the issue with him
How? I realy do not know how to confront him about what i fell he is not too big but i just can,t i have tryed so many tims.pls help me thank you.
How? I realy do not know how to confront him about what i fell he is not too big but i just can,t i have tryed so many tims.pls help me thank you.
Big sis itz not eazi 2 tell a guy u dont lyk him afta u mistakenly told him u also lyk him ooooooo. In dat caze wat shld u do?
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Hey UT_MT05! Thanks for the comment. You can politely tell the guy that you no longer feel the same way and then apologize to him if he feels bad but there is really nothing more you can do about it. We hope this helps
There is this guy in my area, We are in the same choir group, I like him, buh I don't know if he likes me, and I want to be with him what can I do?
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. The fact that you like someone does not mean that they will automatically like you back. You need to get to know him better before you start to say that you want to be with him. You cannot be with someone you do not know on a personal not. Be friends with him first, keep your feelings aside and get to know him better first. We hope this helps
Yes big sis, buh I don't know how to approach him, I am a shy type
Okay big sisther i will do as you have adviced thank u.
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Theres a boy,he told me dat he lyks me and we'll soon resume and i know dat its going to b akward.any advice
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There is this boy i like we use to chat nd sometimes if we are together discussing and his friends come around and ask for my contact he use to tellll them that my phone spoilt,he actuallly visited me when i did not chat or called him for and ask why am doing this to him,big sis i want to know wether he love me or not.
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Hey Christalbel! Thanks for the comment. There is no way to know if he likes you or not with the information you just shared. There are no tips to show that he likes you from all of these. If it is about not allowing his friends get your number, any good friend can do this. He probably knows his friends well. If you want to know and be sure, you should ask him. We hope this helps
There is this boy i like we use to chat nd sometimes if we are together discussing and his friends come around and ask for my contact he use to tellll them that my phone spoilt,he actuallly visited me when i did not chat or called him for a long time and ask why am doing this to him,big sis i want to know wether he love me or not.
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There is this guy in my school, which i enjoy staying and chating with, so when we were discuss, a young girl showed up and he stood up and hug de girl, forgot about our discuss, went with the girl and started gisting with her, an laughing wit her, which got me angry, (this inccident took place two days ago) so since then i hardly speaks to him, Pls wat am doing to him is it good, if no, pls wat should i do thanks
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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. This is a personal decision and the truth is that you have a right to be upset if you want to. There is no harm in this. You are human and this should not be a crime. Do not feel bad if you want to get upset with him, you have a right to. We hope this helps
hi everyone am back from school
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u re welcome,can we be friends?
Pls help me out by replying to my comment by fellow springsters and big sis pls
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hi Blessing.
Ok blessing
quote of the day"never allow what people say about u to stop u from been who u what to be cause u destiny lies in ur hands".
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Hi am Norine actually a guy named Michael he always check on me in school and also he said he love me but he always love going out for girls
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Hey B! Thanks for the comment. Michael is not an option because like you said, he loves going out for girls. We hope this helps
Very interesting but.... It's not always this obvious that the boy will say what he notices about a girl or admit he told his friend about her
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hey springters theres a guy in my school he kept coming to my house but i dnt want him to be coming again i dnt know how to tell him
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Is a eassy way by just tell him not to come again
Hey alinzo! Thanks for the comment. You need to politely tell him that you do not feel comfortable with him coming to your house and that you will appreciate it if he stops coming. Be polite but still pass your point across to him. We are sure he will understand. We hope this helps
I will like to add to Big sisters comment . If he did not answer you after telling him pls I am begging you wear your shorts and do it the hard way
The problem i am aving nw is daht we dnt really talk bt we do greet ich oda n ich of us saw some signs dah we luv ich oda infact seriously!!! But the issue is daht we dnt knw who is gonna mke d first move n we r dieing of love secretly! Now. As a responsible lady, cnt jxt walk up to him n tell him mah feelings coz i understand mah culture n i dnt want him to b thinking daht iam......... Dear big sis!! Wht shud i do?? Am dieing of love!!! Plzzzz help!
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Hey Ojaspee! Thanks for the comment. Now, being in love is deep and you really cannot be in love with someone you do not know. If you both do not talk to each other, what makes you think that you are in love? Love is more than that! We always advise Springsters to start with friendship first. You both do not have to start off with a relationship. You both should be friends first and then if you both still want to take it to another level, it is up to you. Someone needs to start the conversation and start off with friendship first but you both need to bury the talk about love for now until you both get to know each other better. We hope this helps
I used to be really close to a boy,I didn't have any feelings for him then,after sometime we had a quarrel,then i stopped talking to him,after wards I found my self crushing on him,my feelings increased DAT I even feel very protective of him inside me but I still don't talk him,I usually ask my self if he feels the same way cos my friends keep telling me that he likes me,he can I be sure he likes me?? and am I in love with him or am I crushing on him because my feelings has last very long
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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Hey Damoris! Thanks for the comment. Crushes are normal but you need to know that the fact that you have a crush on him does not mean that he will automatically mean that they are to crush on you too. Another thing you need to know is that it could be that you do not have the attention you are not getting the attention you used to get from him before. However, we advise that you take things easy and focus on settling issues with him as regards the quarrel you both had first. We hope this helps
Tanks,big sis, I tried settling things with him,but its not working ,wat could be the next option
Hello big sis.There is a guy who has a girlfriend but he has never approched me to tell me he likes me but many of my mate has come to tell me that he said he likes me.His girlfriend is close to me and i dont want her to fight with me.I dont even like the guy but she has stared suspect me.pls what should i do before it get out of hand.
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
Hi big sis, there's this guy that i like a lot, well i dont know if he likes me...I should say im confused because, today he will tell me he does bt the next day he acts wierd then he will apologize, we shared fun times together nd we r nt really free with eachother, what can i do??
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
My not so close friend just broke up with her boyfriend because a friend told her to for no reson. And i was try to bring them together and in the process I think he fell for me and vice versa , he now gives me more attention .pls what should ? Am I a betrayer? Or should I follow my heart? Pls help me out .
March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.
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U re not,just clear the thing bt 2of u Christ loves u
U re not,just clear the thing bt 2of u Christ loves u
I am new here
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
Pls i need a quick ans i can't any more i just have to know there is this boy in my school he is 3yrs older he seems to be every were i am but in diferent spot he tisez me and talks about me with his friends some time am not sure if he likes me pls reply back really soon pls
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.
nice
March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.