Is it okay to have sponsors?

Why it can be dangerous to accept money or gifts from an older man

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Some of us may know girls who have sponsors or older men that give them money and gifts.

From where you stand, it can seem like these girls are enjoying life, but you can never be sure of the real story.

You should be very careful about accepting money and gifts. The man might want something in return:

  • He could pressure you for sex
  • He could force you to do something risky such as running away from home with him, prostitution, etc.
  • He could try to control you by saying he will stop giving you gifts if you don’t do what he says

Not every older man who offers you a gift plans to harm you. For example, Aisha’s uncle pays for her school fees. He gives the money to Aisha’s mother. He doesn’t ask Aisha for anything or make her feel uncomfortable.

Below are some tips to help you identify harmful sponsors

If an older man offers you gifts or money, tell a trusted adult. If the man has no bad intentions, he will not mind. If the man asks you not to tell anyone, you should be very careful.

If he always wants to meet with you secretly. Never meet with him alone. Insist he meets your mother or a trusted adult and give her the money instead like Aisha’s uncle does.

If he is always asking for something in exchange: a sponsor who wants to help you will not demand favours from you in exchange.

If the way he looks at you or touches you makes you feel uncomfortable, it is important you tell a trusted adult immediately.

Make sure you share this with your friends so that they can stay safe too.

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That' s a smart one, and a common sense too.

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

We have to be careful for we girls collect from older man but why accepting their gift it's not good at all

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

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Hey 1988! Just like you said, girls have to be careful when it comes to accepting gifts from older men. Also remember that it is not all sponsors that have bad intentions e.g. Aisha's uncle (in the story). The best way to stay safe is to involve a trusted adult just like Aisha's mum was involved (in the story). If the sponsor has no bad intentions, he will have no problem with having an older person involved.

we girls we can collect gifty from some ones of them,coz some have a good intetion nd if there promiss they are feel it.thanks

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Hello Girls

Thanks.

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

ok...tnx

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

I Like Dat

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

i love dat

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

If a guy i dnt no bt z my frend on facebk ask me on a date&claims he lves me.Wat should i do 2 no if he truly lves me?

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

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It depends on your age. He's age And where you will go to when you go out. And ask him questions like why he loves you A guy who truly loves you won't have any reason to give he'll just lobe you for you. Get to know his type of person and talk to some one you trust about it

Hey Dobest! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you have to be careful because not everyone on social media (Facebook, Instagram etc) lives a real life. Some of them are hiding their real personalities on social media. If you must go out on a date with him, please go to an open place that has many people and be very watchful. If he asks you to go to somewhere private and/or secluded, please do not go. If possible, go with someone and tell a trusted adult where you are going to and also give his number. We hope this helps.

Tnks Big sister nd Nittabecca

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

If a guy on Facebook ask me to give him my number and also ask me for a date what should I do

March 20, 2022, 8:04 p.m.

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I dnt tink it is rite 2 give it 2 him bcos u dnt knw him

Hey Titilope! Thanks for the comment. First of all, you have to be careful because not everyone on social media (Facebook, Instagram etc) lives a real life. Some of them are hiding their real personalities on social media. If you must go out on a date with him, please go to an open place that has many people and be very watchful. If he asks you to go to somewhere private and/or secluded, please do not go. If possible, go with someone and tell a trusted adult where you are going to and also give his number. We hope this helps.

For what?

Say NO

Hello guz

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hi☺

Y will u do dat

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

hello guys

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

avoid collecting things

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Hi ladies😘👸👰

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

avoid collecting thing.better say thank u cous he/she may be thinking that u hate them

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Nice Thanks

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

don't take something from guy

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Daht iz a veri gud 1

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

WHAT IFSOMEONE FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY ASK ME TO COME ALONG AND LIVE WITH HIM OR HER IS IT SAFE?AND IF THE PERSON IS WILLING TO PAY FOR MY FLIGHT.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Mary! Do not accept such invites from strangers. It is very dangerous to go out with someone you know nothing about talk less of travelling to another country with him or her. Please tell a trusted adult about this and keep him/her in the know all through. We hope this helps.

What if you ar far away form your parents and he does a thing like that who would u report to

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Menten! You can always call or write to tell them what's happening. Also, we are sure your parents did not leave you alone without an adult around. So please talk to a trusted adult around you about this. We hope this helps.

PLEASE HELP MY MALE TEACHER WANTS A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME AND HE SAID I SHOULD COME OVER TO HIS HOUSE.WHAT AM I GONNA DO?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Mary! Thanks for opening up with this comment. First of all, you need to tell a trusted adult about this. Secondly, do not go to his house or any other disclosed location (even in an empty classroom) with him or any other guy. If he needs to talk to you, he should do that in the open. Tell him politely that you can't visit him and you cannot be in a relationship with him. We hope this helps.

pls am i now a member

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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yes of course u a member

Plz I need advice I fell in love with a guy who is very hardworking...we've talked about our feelings before but we aren't dating....I wish to start something good with him but he hasn't mentioned it but people thinks we are dating...what should I do because I tired of been called his girlfriend wen I'm not.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Kizi! You both need to sit down and define your relationship. Make him understand how you feel sitting on the fence. We hope this helps.

is it right to accept a sponsor frm a boyfriend?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Britisco! If he doesn't want something in turn and does not have a problem with involving an elderly person you trust, then you can accept him as a sponsor. If he doesn't accept the earlier stated terms, then it is not advisable to accept things from him. We hope this helps.

But I'm scared of talking to him about it...I don't even know where to start

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Kizi! You need to overcome your fear and talk to him. When you keep quiet, you are encouraging people to continue with their assumptions which you don't like. So encourage yourself and talk it out. A relationship cannot survive without communication so you need to learn to overcome your fears and talk to him. The worst thing that will happen is that he will refuse to make it official and you will move on. Please summon courage to have this conversation with him. We hope this helps.

Wat scares me most is dat if I talk to him about it...he may not be interested in dating me and the way our friendship is,it may change....if it happens like this I will feel so heartbroken

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Kizi! Will you prefer to keep hoping that you are in a relationship with him? I don't think so. If he chooses to opt out, yes, it will break your heart but don't you think it will save you so much stress? What if he chooses to date another person? That will even be more embarrassing. The best thing for you to do is to talk to him about it. We wish you all the best girl!

Bt I have been a great help to him over his job as an artist and designer....but do u think he will look into that...???

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Kizi! Please do not choose to be a victim. You are too special to bring yourself to this level. Do not allow yourself to be an object of pity. Let him appreciate you for what you have done and who you are by himself. We hope this helps.

Thanks I'm really grateful....i wil try talking to him.....I hope I don't get disappointed....thanks alot

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Kizi! You are welcome. All the best and do not forget to be strong okay?

Thank You Very MucH

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nice one

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nice one

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Thank you big sis

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nic 1 big sist

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Thank you so much for this inspiring article (GEM)God bless you all!

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Ya

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Wow that's true thanks

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for me ooo it not kk

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Plz am new here plz teach me hw 2 chat

Hygiene is very important in humans living

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

it is very risky 2 do colect gift items 4rom strangers ESP. men

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Tnk u very much .big 6ster can i ask u something ? What if d man keeps giving u gft nd ask u to come cook for him .bcos his wife nd children traveled?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Pretty! He is giving you gifts so that you can keep cooking for him and cleaning for him when his wife and kids are not around. Are your parents or a trusted adult aware of this? Please inform them because you should not be cooking for someone because he gives you money. If his wife or other people finds out about this, it may put you in trouble. We hope this helps.

yes

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Just like i met an older man. He asked for my name after following me without wanting to him i lied being favour and he said we should be more close and that i'd benefit from him and that he needs our friendship,i ignored him and let him speak. He asked for phone number i refused and he later left. Did i do wrong by acting dumb?

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Lynn! Lool… No, you didn't do wrong. We must commend you for that. If he didn't have a bad intentions, he wouldn't have let go so easily. We are glad you handled him well. Go girl! We hope other girls will learn how to handle such men.

you did right and that makes you responsible enough if only you did it not because he do not attack you physically.

I love dat comment

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Hi Am New Here.Wow I Really Love Dis

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

most of my campus friends hv n r nt complaining, they'd b lyk 'dry his pockets n b smart'

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Aice! They are probably not telling you the whole truth. Ask them what really happens when they are with their sponsors and also ask them if these sponsors are willing to meet with either their parents or guardians. We are not out rightly saying that having a sponsor is bad but it gets suspicious is when this sponsor avoids the involvement of a trusted adult. We hope this helps.

I need love stories

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

That is gud.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Great answers

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

It a good instruction

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

All these men are destiny destrouyers,so girls avoid them

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Philip! That is a rather harsh thing to say. Such words are not allowed on the GEM platform. Next time, please consider the kind of words you use. We hope this helps.

Is Good For Girls And Boys Be Care About Wolf Of Life.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

The truth should be said! Destiny distroyer is just what they are as philip have said! big sister .

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Royalqueen! Not all guys have bad intentions. And like we told Philip, calling a fellow human being a destiny destroyer is rather not nice. Yes, some people can be bad but using such word is not right (not only on this platform but in general). We hope you understand.

Welldone bigsister

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

well for your advice.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Thanks for the advice bigsis

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Thanks so much, have realy leant alot.

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Am in love with one girl, I don't know how to propose to her,before I doing so(before I propose to her) she have got one guy that I don't know if she loves him or not. I expressed my feelings for her and she said why don't I express it before. Later she told me she is in a condition relationship relationship with one guy(may be she haven't accept) and she ask me if I will not angry if me and that guy meet at her house. I said I won't.my proposal have been accepted now! I think it makes no sense to be meeting guys in my girl(s) house and have nothing to do.I haven't meet him till now

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

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Hey Honesty! We also agree that it is not wise to meet with another guy in your girl's house. What you need to do is to ask her to make up her mind on who she wants to be with between you and the other guy because if she has accepted your proposal, why is she then telling you to meet with the other guy. Talk to her and be sure she is totally over the other guy. We hope this helps.

Thanks. You make sense pass

good advice #Big sister, my God bless u and every member of this page, like I said, I am a new member in here, pls I need more information about this page especially concerns its rules so that I make sure that it maintained and well by me, thanks once again

Yes is good for life

March 20, 2022, 8:03 p.m.

Yes, I will make do with this

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I WLL MAK SHURE 2 APPLY DIS TERMNALOGY IN2 MY LIF

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OKAY

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IT IS GOOD AND OKAY

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

this aticle is enough to every sensible ladies,

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Its to bad accept money first b4 liking any one;bescaus it is a source of cause befor God nd man

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

All my friends are boys,I hardly keep female friends ,is it ok,a lot of people are getting confused over it

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Splendourlove! You need to make it known to your friends that you have no feelings for him. They may find it hard to accept in the beginning but when they see reasons with you eventually, they will understand. You may talk to one or two of them that are understanding and let them know that nothing is going on. We hope this helps.

Most of my friends have uncles, guys, older men who give them money, take them out etc And it really makes me jealous and intimidated. Anytime I try to borrow money from them they say no or when they get back with the things they bought for them they don't give me. I feel intimidated. Its not like my parents don't give me money I am contented but the pressure is much.

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Jeddyjay7! If your parents give you money, then you should use it to your advantage because there are people out there that do not have anyone to give them money. What you are experiencing is called peer pressure. Since you have some money coming from your parents, be content with it. You do not need uncles, older men or guys to give you money. In fact, if what your parents are giving you is not enough for you then money from other people will not still be enough for you. Try to stop asking your friends for things. Make them know that you are satisfied with what you are getting from your parents and stay satisfied with it. We hope this helps.

Wow,dis is rocking educative..,i love dis chat page springsters

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Springster! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

Type your comment here.Receiving Support from strangers is bad especially male supports

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

Nice write up

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Springster! This article was written because of you and we are glad you love it. Feel free to share it with your friends

well most men do want something in return so the best is not to accept their offer because they can later use it as a threat

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

my uncle always likes givingg me gifts and at the same time likes touching me in a wayt i dont like pls fellow spring sters advice me

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Ashie! Thanks a lot for opening up through this comment. First of all, please try to stop collecting the gifts from him. Secondly and most importantly, TELL A TRUSTED ADULT ABOUT THIS. Your safety is more important than the gifts he gives you. So please, try to stay safe. We hope this helps.

Ur on point

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

thanks for ur advice

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

i hv a classmate who is a boy if i ask him for anything he give to me what does it mean

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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Hey Eghosa! We cannot tell what it means because it could mean so many things. It could mean that he is just a nice person that does not know how to say no or it could mean that he is just trying to be friends with you. If you really want to know what it means, ask him. Ask him why he tends to give you everything you ask for. Remember to ask politely. We hope this helps.

when ever i see an handsome boy i hv a crush on them what can i do to stop that

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

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You have look for a way to stop looking or talking to them too much

Hey Eghosa! You are probably just attracted to handsome boys and that is perfectly normal. It is now what you do with the attraction/feelings that matters. Human beings are built in a way that they tend to appreciate and like fine and beautiful things and people. When you begin to flirt with every guy that is handsome that you should become worried. We hope this helps.

thanks big sist

March 20, 2022, 8:02 p.m.

yes it is.

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

but,is'it,good'to'have'a,sponsor?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Some how

Hey Springster! Like we said in the article, not all sponsors are bad. As long as the sponsor has good intentions for you and is willing to tell your parents about the sponsorship, then it is fine. We hope this helps.

I have the passirof becoming a presenter but I need someone to sponsor. what can I do

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Zart! Thanks for opening up through this comment. To get a sponsor, you can write a letter to different people in your community/environment asking them for support or to sponsor your presenting career. You will never know who will be willing to help if you don't ask. We wish you all the best and we hope this helps.

I am the last born of my family and my mom is Late..Dad is the one that caters for the family..My Elder Sister and brother are in university now and my dad is complaining about their fees cos of his low finances and low source of income which he's not sure if it will sustain us.. Here's my own fee for my WAEC which I will be writing by next year.. I really wanna help dad out cos I can't stand the sight of seeing my mates outta sch while I sit and wait.. NO.. Seriously, I don't wanna put my hands in dirty stuffs like collecting from men and all that.. please i seriously need ur advice on this sister

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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Hey Rity25! We are so sorry to hear about this. You can support your dad through so many ways. You can use your skills to make money. You do not have to do anything you will not be proud of. Since your exam is next year, this means that you have a lot of time to save. You can choose to do a small business that requires little or no capital (this can be through what you love doing and what you are good at). Please let us know what you are good at and what you have interest in so that we can suggest business ideas for you. We believe that you can do it and we are so confident that you will go to school. We love your zeal and we believe in you. We hope this helps.

Hi! Try to be independent so you dont fall a prey to such men.

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

I have a friend (male) who has been asking me out for d past three years I accepted him this year after I turn 16, he has been nice to am a shy person in nature but we only talk on phone,my aunty knows him my phone got spoit my aunty was forcing s

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Something like dat is happening with my close friend,d man asked her to be taking care of her nd he told her dat he will always be there for her but am doubting dat man maybe he can fulfil his promise

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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hi Margaret the man might mean well but just in case make sure that an adult knowns like her parents or you can tell her to tell her parents and make sure you're friend is never alone with him because you're safety is very important # lol

Hello,am i welcomed here??

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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yes!!

yes

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Indeed,that a good advice

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Thanks alot big sis

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am nw hia

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Tankx Big sis

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

were I work a man gave me his number that I should call , but wen I called, he told me he would do anything for me if I do wat he wants but am afraid to tell my parents cause am afraid ,wat should I do?

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

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hi fiti you should tell your parents at list your mom she can help you and cut of all communication with him and if he keeps bothering you tell the police make sure you are never alone with him because you're safety is very important

Always do gud to ur parents

March 20, 2022, 8:01 p.m.

Hi, Were I'm Working A Lady Alwayz Buy Gift,any Tm She Wnt To Vst Me She Wear Sexductive Dress, I'm A Virgin I Dnt Knw Wot To Do Rite Nw And She Said I Should Spend The Weekend At Her Huz Wot Do Tnk!

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Castle05! Don't go to her house! It's that simple. If you are not ready to have sex or get into a relationship then you should not tolerate such things. Make her understand that all these things she's doing does not make you interested in sleeping with her (please be polite while you say this to her). Do not be under pressure to have sex especially when you are not ready for it. We hope this helps

i have a church member we are members of thesame organisation in church he z older than we he z 26 while i am 16 he asked me nt to av a boyfriend dat he would be my boyfriend and he asked me nt tel any1 wat shld i do

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

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Hey Pinkyvia! Please and please, you need to avoid that guy immediately. You need to also tell a trusted adult about this. His moves sound suspicious and it is not safe for you. Anyone that tells you to hide things from your family, friends and others is not safe. Avoid him by all means and stay safe too. You should also tell an older, trusted person in your organisation about this. We hope this helps

tanx

March 20, 2022, 8 p.m.

Big sis I need advice. A guy in my street has been asking me out for up to 4months now. Each time he brings up the issue I try to change it. I try avoiding him also but I Dont know how he watches my move. Recently my boyfriend called him nd warned him to stop disturbing me. Instead of being sorry he started threatening my boyfriend that he will find him and beat him up .I'm tired of being abused by guys. What do I do to get rid of him?😧

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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Hey Qween_ella! Thanks for the comment. You need to tell a trusted adult about this guy. He seems very dangerous and should be avoided by all means. You may not be able to get rid of him by yourself. Also, try to avoid him as much as you can for your own safety. We hope this helps

Each tym me nd my bf meet he always ask me 4 a kiss,once i agree he starts kissing me nd touching all part of my body nd trying 2 put in hand inside my cloth nd am scared it wil lead 2 sex. wat should i do?

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

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yes it can lead to sex,u should tell him to stop asking form kiss,if he must kiss u he should do it on ur chik.

Yes it can lead to sex, u must tell him hw u feel wen he touches u or u stay away from him nd u av 2 speak out nd overwelmed d scared he wil understand u,bt remember ur future z at hand thanks

That is nice.

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

Dis z awesome

March 20, 2022, 7:58 p.m.

This is interesting

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Ok ma

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okay

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OK BIG SIS!

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i hv a similar tin to u see dis man forces me to collect d gift but he has never ask anytin in return do u tink his pretending

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

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Hey oyi! Thanks for the comment. No one can force you to take a gift from them. If you do not want to take it, there is nothing they can do to make you take it from them. So this means that you took those gifts because you wanted to. Please, be careful and be sure to tell a trusted adult about this. If the man really has no strings attached, he should meet your parents or guardian and still keep giving you gifts since that he what he loves to do. We hope this helps

I find it really hard to take things like money or airtime from my friends and they find it really annoying. I know they won't ask for anything even my boyfriend complains about it and I don't really know what to do and it's really affecting me cause even if I really want or need it I still say no

March 20, 2022, 7:57 p.m.

big sis, i have been having issues with my boyfriend over gifts,i buy him gifts anytym i get the chance but i rejected the very first gift he bought for me and he has gone mad with me,no more kisses when we meet,no sweet names and hugs arent so interesting again,he thinks that am cheating on him and that i feel that he is not up to the level of buying me gifts,i feel bad i really dont know what to do pls help me

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey DollarDame! Thanks for the comment. Have you tried talking to him about this? We suggest you let him know that he is assuming these things and this is not so true. You also need to apologize and probably ask him what you can do to make things right again. He may just ask for more time to get over all of these things but it is fine. We hope this helps

Big sis; wat if a man give u gift nd u show d most inportant to ur parent nd leave d little one up to u alone lyk money.becos u dnt people to start tinking otherwise;is dat gud?

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Hey Springster! Thanks for the comment. That is not good. If he has good intentions, he will not hide anything from your parents. As a matter of fact, he is even encouraging you to hide things from your parents through that behavior and also, he is acting very suspicious because he is not meant to do so. This means that he has other dangerous plans. We advise that you stay away from him and also tell a trusted adult about this for your own safety. We hope this helps

There's dis guy I became friends with on Facebook, he keep saying he wants to meet me alone so me and him can chat privately. Whenever I say no, he will talk to me like I'm not your friend again so I'll apologize. He keeps on saying he wants to meet me, sometimes he will say when we meet we're kiss sometimes press sometimes cuddle. I don't know how to politely tell him that I'm not interested.

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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be straight with him & tell him you are not comfortable with it & if he does not want to be your friend then leave him alone.

Thank you

This is interesting

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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yeah

Hi am new here

March 20, 2022, 7:56 p.m.

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Welcome.

hi I'm new here

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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U are sallet

Hi sallet u are welcome

My boyfriend told me that i should have sex with him but i refused, so he gave me two option that i'll either return all his gift from when we've started dating or have sex with him . Plz Which Option Should I Go For ?Comment Plz

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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Hi girl, for me since u don't what to have sex with him don't,since he said u should return all the gifts he got u,then try by giving him all he has bought for u,because he was giving u gifts in exchange of sex,I know u will follow ur heart girl,but please do make a valuable decision OK?

Hi inexhan1234 since you are not ready to have sex with him simply tell him No and your mind don't accept his offer,don't use because of material things,gifts and money. Before u have sex with him are sure u are ready to face all the consequences that comes after it,also it's a personal decision to make and be wise while making such decisions. Hope it helps.

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Thanks for this. Really appreciate. Buh big sis, am always alone

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

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NYC to meet you

Because money can make you to accept your unwished

March 20, 2022, 7:55 p.m.

Hey Aduke, You are not alone, we springster are here for you girl, but always remember that once a springster is always a springster.

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

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I totally agree😀

Thanks. Springsters, really appreciate. Can you give me ypur whatsapp number @pinky.b

Hi Aduke.Sorry,I'm not in any social network. But we can be friends in this platform.

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

good evning my all firends

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

because of one condition, if you get money from man you must love him or marry him

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

Yeah

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

Okay

March 20, 2022, 7:54 p.m.

but can we collect gift from boyfrien

March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.

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Yes

Hi am new here am I welcome I really like the article but is it dangerous to collect gift from family friends?

March 20, 2022, 7:53 p.m.